let him travel first he can move you too.  my cousin did this stupidity to me too. what is wrong with uniben people?  

if he loves you as he say he can ask his family to move you later i refused to move the girl immediately i think the uncle will be of the same mind too.  they will need time to see you are serious before they make the investment,

wish you luck

any evidence oga?

sistawoman:

Look at her previous posts.  In 2007 she posted about sleeping with her brother in law while the family was at church and she was home sick.

she is just a LovePeddler.

Now that we have identified it as such she needs to learn to play her role.

you have joined the FBI sect on NL.  it is so unbelievable people like this can come here talk about " whhat do i do?

Aquila Joy:

Pls help me out, i fell in love with my boss. We screwed each other for a while and i am begining to feel the shame as a married woman. I have told him that we got to stop but he wont even let me be. During my birthday he bought me a brand new jeep. I gave it to my husband as a symbol of my love for him. Now my bus bleeps me everyday in his guest house. I am his PA so nobody knows this. I love my husband. What do i do?

well continue you may just get what you deserve from his wife plus you have sons and daughters who will be cheated cos life has a way of blessing people like you.   

you are a disgrace to responsible women.  because of grossly irresponsible people like you nigerian men dont know how to leave married women alone becos some of you must wear clothes and use cars you cant afford. 

is the car really worth it? shame on you.  there are some men on NL who wont mind sleeping with you if you dont mind.  they can pay in foreing currency too if that is all you are after.

i just checked your last post and what someone Lauradee01 said about you. how spot on her prophesy on you was.  you know how to talk christianeese  without seeing the bible say they that nameth the name of the Lord should depart from iniquity. studity is you. 

i bet you deceived your people by testifying and that your husband too!! he  took a vehicle he knew was above your income God help both of you.  if you are like this in your 20's i wonder what you will do in your 40's if you live that long.  there is AIDS in town.  yeye fowl.  you make my belly turn.

LAGOS, NIGERIA

If men were God, i would have been roasting in hell by now.
But the grace of God is passionate to a sinner, the justice of God saw
what i have done but His mercies reached out to save.
I cant believe the strength of condemnations i have recieved so far.
Its very sad that people could condemn a someone as if they are a 100%
saint of God. Its amazing to me.
The blood of Jesus did not flow for a saint but for a wretched sinner like Joy.
His compassion is beyond man's immaginations.
I am glad He forgives and i wont let any crucifiction keep me in that
guilt. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Thats what i got from God. I have moved on.
Never to look back.
May His grace abound for those who find themselves in my shoe.
HIS MERCIES IS UNTO MY GENERATION!
Amen.

I Love to love and be loved
[size=14pt]Lauradee01[/size] said December 05, 2007, 06:35 PM »

My pple,
Have you ever heard of a leopard ever changing its spots.The poster could be one of those chicks who men date just for sex and she mistakenly gets pregnant. If not i think the husband deserves to be respected no matter what.

She is just a slut for all i care. She purposely faked her illness so that she and her stupid brother in-law coud have their way.Its the husband i actually pity,to think that he actually has a wife at home.A dog will always be a dog.

She was a slut before she got married and she will always be one.[size=14pt]Am very sure that her brother in-law isnt the first person,maybe her boss,all her male collegues,her neighbours have all banged her.[/size]

Ashewo osi.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=96069.msg1750341#msg1750341

phillybabe:

@poster
            is ure spouse a  good husband to u? after all this time why not let the dead rest in peace?
focus on making a happy home for those around u that are still alive and get over this foolishness.!Even if u were married to the block before he died,10yrs is enough time to mourn anybody.! MOVE ON.

chei this is harsh. she didnt say she killed the boy.  

this may be hard for you to understand people grieve differently.

darqly:

If she's being traditional,i respect that.But wat if in future she actually requires mummy's consent to have more kids or buy a house?

when u have your chioma and aduke you want some good for nothing boys marrying them without talking to you first cos you are ancient and modern God sent?

why should children suffer like this?

Tudór:

How reliable is this ''history" you talking about? How reliable are the sources?
What if i told you i am without sin so i dont need jesus.

u need Jesus Christ quick before you lose it big time

[size=28pt]Flood drives away pupils
[/size]
By Gbenro Adeoye

July 2, 2009 12:36PMT



Flood has driven staff and pupils of Orile Primary School, Orile, along the Lagos-Badagry Expressway away from school.

The school was flooded on Wednesday.

The staff and pupils were shared between the Ire-Akari Primary School, already sharing a compound with three other schools and the Metropolitan Primary School. Both schools are nearby.

Habitual visitor

Even though the flood is a habitual rainy season visitor, its company became disturbing for the staff and pupils when it flooded the i staff rooms and classrooms last Thursday.

A primary two pupil, Kudus Ayobo said though it did not affect classes, they had to either stand on their chairs or sit on their desks in class.

"And we, even our teachers, have to walk in the water if we have to go anywhere. So some of us did not want to go anywhere," he said.

According to a teacher, the move was initiated by the Apapa-Iganmu Local Council Development Authority.

"Usually it just covers the compound," says the teacher. "This is the first time it would get into the classrooms. That was why we vacated the compound for this school."

School swimming pool?

After school, some pupils, obviously excited by the sight of the dirty and muddy pool of water played in it.

Three weeks ago, Kamoli Yakubu, a primary six pupil had a nasty experience in the ‘pool'; something had stung his upper lip in the water.

"I didn't see it, but I felt it," said Master Yakubu who still has the scar. "Later my lip became big and ugly and it started itching badly. I could not eat well for two weeks."

What Master Yakubu picked up was also strange to his colleagues, majority of who also had toe -infections from the water.

Ibrahim Olanipekun, also a primary six pupil is one of those who picked up a toe-infection from the water.

"One of my toes became big," he says. "I reported it to my class auntie who gave me ‘Rob' (A brand of balm) to apply to it."

Though Master Olanipekun is relieved that his class has been moved to Metropolitan Primary school, he is not yet on dry land.

The premises of Metropolitan primary school are also flooded as pupils naturally go bare foot in order not to get their sandals wet.

What the LCDA has to say

Muyiwa Jimoh, the special assistant to the chairman of the Apapa-Iganmu Local Council Development Area on Media and Public Affairs blamed the public for the recent flooding.

"We all know that Lagos is surrounded by water, but I can tell you that the problem was compounded by residents of the area throwing refuse into the canals," says Mr. Jimoh.

Mr. Jimoh confirmed that the Local Council moved the school to another school as a palliative measure, saying this would not be the first time.

He was, however, not specific about when work will start at the flooded schools.

He said: "There are other schools that have been flooded and we are doing reconstruction work there. Because our fund is limited, we have to do it gradually, and not simultaneously. The case of Orile Primary School is fresh, so it is the third in line. But I can tell you that there will be proper reconstruction of these schools." http://www.234next.com/csp/cms/sites/Next/News/Metro/5432440-146/story.csp

why dem cover him brocos abi he don use that one drink garri? 
nigeria will always be dark and yet people  shout there are too much churches.

with this level of darkness parading the land we need the light of the gospel of Jesus Christ upon every inch of the land. 

these guys are shameless fools

$osisi:

How Daniel Forced Me To Take Oath’—Lawmaker
June 29, 2009 15:19, 4,342 views

By  Jide  Osokoya

[b]“The members took the oath to ensure a united front against governor Gbenga Daniel. The oath was sponsored by some politicians including the father of a prominent politician in Abuja, a Senator, a former South-West governor, a former minister and another prominent politician in Ogun state.” The report added that: “the oath, which was taken naked by the members and in daylight, was witnessed by the sponsors and the native doctors, the administrators of the oath.

“Items used for the oath included blood, cow heads, calabash and other fetish materials. Each participant swore to upholding opposition to Daniel at all times and submitted to the death of their first born, should they renege on the oath. “Each of them was required to mention the name of their first child in the course of the oath, setting in motion serious consequences for the children should their fathers go back on the prescribed course of opposition.

“The Nigerian Compass learnt that the finality of this oath is why prominent traditional rulers, such as the Awujale of Ijebuland, Oba Sikiru Adetona; the Alake of Egbaland, Oba Adedotun Aremu Gbadebo; the Akarigbo of Remoland, Oba Michael Sonariwo, and other prominent leaders such as Prince Bola Ajibola, General Tunji Olurin and Yeye Oodua H.I.D. Awolowo were unable to persuade them to change their stance.”[/b]

na oath go kill una. yeye fowl. see his belly like beer keg. he resemble someone i have seen his foto on NL.  wey funmi make she follow me out someone here.

chaircover:

I agree with JJYOU.

I don’t think you need bereavement counselling; I think you need marriage counselling.

You’ve been married to your husband for 10 years and I want to believe that you did see something in him & loved him at one point in time its just that is lost.

The “If only I have married my dead fiancé my life would have been so much happier” is just your way of feeling sorry for yourself in the situation you find yourself.

You have a choice; you can fight for your marriage to get it back on track or just leave it to rot.

You mention your husband and you on opposite sides. My husband and I are completely different people too; different backgrounds, different views, different careers, different interests etc but one thing remains constant and that is Love, which conquers all.

Can I also say if I’m allowed to say this on this forum (this being the family forum and not the sexuality forum) – Sex does improve marital relationships. If you continue to recoil from your husband when he touches you then you continue to place a wedge between you.

Married ladies in the house will agree with me that a well stomach fed & well "other areas" fed husband is a much easier husband to deal & reason with.

you are so right. the compatibility school of tot has a lot to answer for. Christ, His love and agreement on being the best friends works for us very nicely. i must admit she is a very easy person to get on with unless you are a very foolish person in which case you lose an extremely nice person which is not worth it.

i like to beleive your marriage is worth saving at least for yourself and 2 kids. give it a try and see how it goes you may begin to enjoy it. you are not the first couple with your situation they would have come across.

Abuzola:

Dear brethren,
i want to compile a data in a thread concerning t[b]he torment Prophet Muhammad (P.B.U.H) saw regarding women which Allah showed to him when he went for isra'i i.e ascension to heaven.
[/b]
Ibn Abbas is the author otherwise known as isnad in arabic.
The problem am having now is i have not been able to locate the hadith in Ahmad and tirmidhi and muslim hadith, each collection of the hadith is much for me to trace except if i have no work to do, here we are talking of 3 collection.

The hadith is sound and authentic is just that i couldn't trace the hadith and its number.

Am asking you for permission DO I WRITE THE HADITH WITHOUT THE HADITH NUMBER AND BOOK OR I SHOULD FORGET IT SINCE I LACK THE SOURCE ?'

so the woli himself saw torment and hell and all of una still dey carry 4 women waka?

naija, odiegwu

patwhizkid:

Aproko

what does this word mean cos i have a friends wife who say it all the time she is from old bendel area.

nicemum:

Thanks all for your advice. I have tried to live the past behind, i even went to Nigeria and made attempt to se his people so i can get some form of closure. Maybe the photo i have should be destroyed, and that may help. I would try that and if all fails a bereavement counsellor sounds like a good idea. However the love for my husband hopefully should come then later abi. but we dont really gell together so i guess that is one thing that may be making me rekindle the past. always on opposite sides of any thing. i have tried to remain quite most times just to let it lie but as we have different views in life, it gets difficult sometimes. this thing is serious oh, i even detest the man touching me - i recoil, he just irritates me. someone help. do i need my head examined or do you think is the same issue.

relationships gradually fall apart. there may have been lots incidents so if you love your marriage and self i would suggest go for couselling it may just be the best money you ever spent.

what type of people do reality shows again? was u looking for a wifey material there?

ifyalways:

Never say never.

it is amazing what over opiniated people would do when faced with real life situations and choices. it is so easy to call people names on NL. if there is anything life teaches it is never say never becos u never know.

nicemum:

My fiance died over 10 yrs ago. i got married 2 years later, but i cant get him out of my mind. i still  keep a photo of him in my album. I dont really think i love my husband -  it was ok at first but as we went on, i dont see why i married him in the first place, Looks like i was on a rebound or something, i recall i never even suggested marrying him,  most of the marrying thing came from him . i now have two kids etc - love them loads but cant say i love my husband. we are just co-existing together.

What can i do. I dont want a divorce and yet i cannot get myself to love him. However,  we have had our own share marital problems.  But all i think of is if my life would have been diff if for my 1st passing away. i still cry sometimes thinking about him an even as i type this out. Anyone any constructive advice please would be nice. i know they say if cant be with the one you love , love the one you are with. but these advice are hard to implement practically. Sad to say, i sometimes wish my present one was dead instaed of my late fiance. Am i going crazy. this cant be normal.

so sorry to hear this. i know NLders will do justice to this.  being a nicemum you may want to be a nice wife too by tearing that foto and creating room for your hubby in your heart.  you cant carry two men at once. your ex would want u to lead a happy and fulfilled life
chaircover is one of NL resident agony aunt so listen to her great advice you will come out better. 
if u need to go see a bereavement coounsellor pls do.  it really help.
wish you well

Abuzola:

Tudor, atheist are the most stupid of mankind, no proof or evidence, they just utter mere words. What a disgrace

tudor is one of the most immoral people on NL.

busybody20:

The first time i was at the BHC. London, my friend was there also to get a passport for her child who has dual citizenship (irish and nigerian). She gave the guy at the counter all the documents, original and copies, before leavin the counter she checked her documents when her documents were returned to her to make payment at the cash counter Lo and behold the original irish birth certificate was gone!  and the guy inisted that she didnt give him the oriiginal birth certifcate.

A huge scene was created and the staffs were less bothered about it (imagine) until her husband took his phone and dialled the police in their presence. Trust niaja, another guy came out from the office (maybe they called him with intercom )(it was well planned)

staff: madam do u have a photocopoy of the birth certificate in question?

my friend: Yes, here it is,

staff: it seems i saw it somewhere

staff goes behind counter and brings the original irish birth certificate out

I thought she didnt submit the original?     

that is the people for you. just wait until you want to naturalize and hear the idots suggest you renounce your british or american citizenship.  the first time i heard it i tot it was a joke.

most of the dalys are done inorder for you to pay bribe.

~Sauron~:

Personally, i think the Nigerian Ambassador to the UK should be sacked for allowing such mess.

I think i will take a camera there one day and capture all the rubbish happening in that place on tape.
By the time we name and shame these plonkers, maybe they will sit tight and behave responsibly.
The workers there are either too old for the jobs they are doing OR they ain't fit for purpose.
There's no difference between that place and a chaotic Oshodi bus-stop at rush hour. . . . .

the bobo na yaradua friend so no chance.
what i think is more shamefull is the girl at the front desk of the main office eating peanut publicly without shame. sadly that is where visitors go unlike the visa section where you will find mostly our people. cant they ban them from eating publicly?

oyb:

osisi, please tell me, since your TRUE agenda is not based on your worries over human rights( you have never started a thread on human rights in china for instance) but your obssession with Islam. oya, what exactly is the stand of the er religion of love' on slavery?

lame o lame. you dont get it do you?

@ richy

[size=15pt]The moderation around here sucks. RichyBlack is biased. Period[/size].

this is so true

this film is sad but one has learnt not to expet anything better from bin musrtafa nephews and cousins.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/africa/7694381.stm

one of the first thing i learnt in europe many moons ago was how horrible the islamic slave masters treated black people.  never knew even a kanuri or a fulani cattle patrol guard tot he was higher than a black man in life's ladder.

jumoke 90:

@JJYOU
thank you. . .  that video is wonderful and the site too is good thanks. . .  [size=14pt]i pray God will give us the Grace to make Him our everything and to give Him all our time not only when it is convinient for us but always [/size]

Amen. God bless you richly. thank you i love your signature and your name too.  one of the nicest people i know is called olajumoke. she is a fab Godly lady.

Tudór:

According to history jesus is DEAD.
Can a dead guy love you too?

tudor or whatever you call yourself is madness becoming you?

what is the matter with you? what is your wahala?

May kelly:

[b]busybody prophet of doom! [/b]We know our pastor and we hear from him.

was this necesary?

And why is a white woman the most beautiful in africa?! Huh Huh Huh
Abeg put my mama picture with immediate alacrity! Grin

even if they had bisola from ayetoro there some of you would still complain about her tribe. so you are a racist and tribalist. i dont know who told you only blacks are africans.

are idi amin, mobutu, mugabe, OBJ, abacha and ibb not black will you call them africans?

aboveonly:

HI, it is said that what you don’t know can’t hurt you. So, most women love to turn a blind eye to the activities of their men, even when the obvious signs that they are playing around are glaring.

Many are even of the opinion that as long as these other women know the territorial boundaries, there can be no problem. Sadly, many men are also being forced by prevailing global economic and social situations to follow these paths.
But is love or relationship worth preserving when partners are forced to look the other way just to maintain the status quo and not rock the boat, while the other goes about enjoying the license offered by his/her sex and libido, while endangering the lives of their partners and family members?

Is it not enough emotional and psychological traumas to discover that a spouse is dating someone else? Naturally, one feels hurt, spited, betrayed and cheated. Oftentimes, insecurity and helplessness creeps in, and one begins to wonder for how long one has been deceived to believe in a deceitful partner.
To make matters worse is the manner with which these discoveries are made. Some are so callous such that the chain of trust is broken and may never be repaired, the relationship ending abruptly.
For those who decide to remain in the murky waters, the seeds of doubt, already sowed, can only lead to a life of suspicion and webs of lies.

The experience of Nkechi (not real name) at the hand of her boyfriend,Bosun (not real name)Who have been dating for over two years now,

Read the full story @ http://choiceofmarriagepartner..com

can u add naija man to yr heading plssssssss