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n-guage:
My point is this: Before you think about marrying a girl, you must have been in a good relationship with her for a while. At that point I assume all kinds of shyness is gone, so it's only right you get on your damn knees and ask for her hand in marraige. If you can't do that, you are a bitch.

And there's a difference between book smart and social smart.

is bitch in vogue now? there is nothing about shyness here. most people are already sleeping together these days so shyness is out of the window. i personally dont see anything wrong or big deal about it. they are words asking someone you already love to be in a relationship with you for a life time.

which is

book smart and social smart.?

wrong never becomes right. abstinense is still the safest option

whatever90:
continue with the christian guy,its obvious that's d one that has d fear of God in him

its not a most u marry a muslim

can someone tell me is this woman expecting to be the only babe in town when she knows fully well the guy is entitled to 4? and some 70 more if he makes parahell for murder

this miss world thing is still going on.  can't the mad mullahs in naija stop nigerians from contesting in it

j-girl:
I am not kneeling for a man.
He better get on his knees in a beautiful park and propose to me. I refuse to do no such thing.

better start looking for the park now. love they say is blind - reality will open your eyes.

j-girl:
Modern women do not kneel for guys.
Ebony, ose o! Why on video?

_{Seriously, i'm joking. I am not planning to pop the question to any guy anytime soon.}

when the time comes, don't forget your right and left knees.

n-guage:
Nope! I think if any sane guy wants to marry a girl, he would be the one to propose. If he's not doing it, he's probably 1) Not ready for marraige 2) Doesn't want to marry you. 3) Too slow, and I don't think you want a slow guy.

mmmmmm not true. some people are smarter than you know.  if you can ask somebody anything what is in

when are you marrying me?

that is too heavy to say in a healthy relationships

topup:
[color=#cc0066]It's a thing guys more than girls, do to get rid of the person they're currently dating. Apparently guys hate confrontation, and they rarely are the ones to break off relationships.

It is up to you to sweep up your dignity, and walk away, depending on what your relationship was like and the type of guy he was like, maybe you would like to talk to him, but have it set in your mind that you will walk away from the relationship. If you stay you'll merely be a backup, it will be SO clear to everyone that you tolerate someone treating you like a piece of rubbish.

If you are ever hurting a relationship LEAVE!! Especially when it's not self-inflicted.

Unfortunately the guy has had enough of the relationship, lost interest and can't be botherd to do the basics of things to keep it going. To make it worse, think of the fact that whatever he may claim has been troubling him, he hasn't even bothered to tell you about it, expecially when you're supposed to be his one and only. If you stay with him, you are playing a dangerous game, in which the ball is in his hands, he doesn't have to call, text or see you, but you'll give him love and affection - - what an ego boost!!

IS he some kind of king? - NO!

Leave him, please, if I can get over it so can you![/color]

you are always a breathe of fresh air. you have a very fine mind. have always love you from the begining. God bless you and the mother that gave birth to you

j-girl:
No thank you. No knees involved.

haba! i am shocked. what is wrong in that? are you not a modern woman? please do you can video it and put it on you tube or myspace.

seriously, i wish you luck knees or no knees

MrCrackles:
Another horror story in Naija!!!!

that is what nigerians do best. EVIL and wickedness. i bet these idiots will say some form of prayers or worship some deity. twisted minds

abujabooks:
@Zayhal

I second u jare!

@Poster

U r putting asunder in a marriage. If u marry him, what u hv done 2 his wife, another woman will do 2 u!

U r a disgrace 2 womanhood. Can't u date one of d thousands of single men out there?

a big disgrace why do women fall for these lies? who will marry all the women out there with 2/3 kids already? are they not human beings?

lucabrasi:
british killers having a laugh

stop excusing nigerian foolishness.

at least the british have the audacity and courage to prosecute these killers.  in naija not even the killers of bola ige (attorney general) is ever found let alone prosecuted.  sadly the number of people nigerians kill in a day by way of poisons, witchcraft, drink driving or just the normal senseless madness/anger will be more than the UK annual figures.

how many unsolved murders do you have in naija? do you have the records let alone prosecute? all the ritual murderers you have around naija you are not complaining about them  you come here talking about drug users sleeping rough.  are there no drug users in naija? do they all sleep in houses?  what of the people sleeping under various bridges?  nigeria is 2X the size of this country. more blessed with human resources don't you think they should better? 

why sit down here enduring child killers, rapists and drug users hospitality away from your lovely homeland?  people like you never cease to amaze me

truth be told if nigerians were not fraudulently claiming council flats they were not entitled to, the state would have more than enough to give its citizens. 

this evil must have escaped you in another thread  here on NL. we wont talk of jos madness at least we should not go there today 

http://www.sunnewsonline.com/webpages/news/national/2008/dec/02/national-02-12-2008-001.htm

5 girls of same father suffocated in car booth
From BOLU-OLU ESHO, Ado-Ekiti
Tuesday, December 2, 2008


•The car in which booth the girls were locked
Photo: Sun News Publishing 
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Two unidentified evil men unleashed cruelty on the family of one Mutiu Nurein, over the weekend in Ado Ekiti, Ekiti State, killing five children.

The unidentified men waited for Nurein and his wives to leave home for the day’s business and hoarded his six children into the booth of the man’s parked car and disappeared, leaving five of the kids to suffocate, while the sixth survived by the whiskers.

The horrific incident, which occurred at Ureje Quarters of Ado Ekiti town last Saturday led to the death of Simbiat, Delilat, Kafayat, Khadijat and Safiyat, all children of Nurein, who were at home alone on the fateful day, waiting for their parents to come back in the evening after the day’s business as usual.

However, while the kids were waiting expectantly for the return of their parents, two unidentified men paid them unholy visit and ordered them into the booth of their father’s Mercedes Benz 190 car parked by the building.
The six kids were forced to lie on one another in the choky booth, and the evil men closed the lid on them.

In the evening when the mothers of the kids returned, they did not find their girls at home. Believing that the children had gone to the neighbourhood to play. They waited for them to come back home, but when it was getting too dark, they went to where the kids usually played, but could not find them.

Searching everywhere possible, suddenly one of the mothers noticed the back door of the Benz car open with the inner light on and made for the car only to hear a slight knock coming from the booth of the car. With axe and other objects, the booth was forced to open and behold, all the six girls were piled upon one another with only Rashidat, 7, panting for fresh air.

A great tumult and wailing followed the evacuation of the remaining five who were stone dead.
The first wife, Mulikat, lost four, while the younger wife, Oja, lost two to the dastardly act.
Rashidat, who is being guarded by policemen at the State Teaching Hospital, Ado-Ekiti where she is being treated, revealed that two men came into the family home shortly after their father, a butcher, left home for Jebba, Kwara State, to buy cows.
She said the men asked her and her siblings to enter into the car booth with their faces covered and they were locked in.

In his account, the bereaved father, Mutiu Nurein, revealed that he left home around 11a.m on the fateful day to buy cows in Jebba only to be informed later in the evening that his kids had been murdered mysteriously by some assailants.
Thirty-five-year-old Mutiu, who sells cow meat in the Okebola Area of Ado-Ekiti, could not phantom the source of the attack on his family when he spoke to Daily Sun at the Ado-Ekiti police command, Oke-Isa.

He denied engaging in any shady deal with anyone, which could have prompted such attack. His father, Pa Okunola Nureni, described his son as an easy going person who could not delve into any questionable business with anyone.
The youngest among the dead kids was three years old and their remains have been deposited at the state mortuary.

A visit to the police station at Odo-Ado in which jurisdiction the scene of the incident falls, the Divisional Police Officer confirmed the tragedy, but said the case had been transferred to Ekiti State Police Headquarters for further investigation.

2 kness pls. you will be glad you did and be forever appreciated for doing so

ifyalways:
don't think i said its wrong,it seems out of place and weird
wOmen are known to be emotional,i am still trying to picture how a babe would look like when shes told off by a man after making and taking such a huge step
haaa,it aint easy sha

how can you tell off a person for saying they love you and want to spend the rest of their lives with you? it is not as bad as it looks. life is about taking risks. some people panic for owing £100  others don't sweat about £1m debt.  i think many guys hear the word sorry & no all the time. it is not the end of the world. you get on with your life. you can still be friends.

how does restless sinners interprete the bible? sodom had no bible as that book said

Mai Suya:
(sigh) not here again. . .
[size=14pt]DON'T YOU FIFLE EVA GET TIRED OF FIGHTING?? JEEZ!!!! [/size]

you got me laffing man. no they never get tired. trust auntie funmi to wind them up with whatever crosses her mind and mouth

they are showing nigerian morality and the senseless disregard for the santity of human lives. what a shame. innocent kids.

ifyalways:

O dikwa egwu and never knew our girls are becoming bold.Well,i don't blame anyone,no time for games or playing around,If you are finding it difficult to do the asking,make them kuku help you out.i wonder how a girl would feel when she proposes to a guy and shes turned down/rejected.Ogidiboy,Pray tell,how did you turn them down?mildly or tactically?did they press/probe/ask you for reasons?did they break down and cry?whats your relationship with them now?
its quite weird sha

nothing wrong with asking. i got asked by a not desperate lady and said yes. we are both better for it.  it is not as difficult as most people think. i have been asked before and said no the world didnt end.

Muza:
Having heard the minister say that they parked the satellite just like i would park my car ,
you can't imagine what he will say about the moon,
maybe he will say the govt needs to allocate funds to pay for landing rights and hanger on the moon or something more ridiculous .

May God help our nation!

MAY GOD NOT REMEMBER HIS MERCY ON THESE FOOLS JUDGEMENT DAY

RedHotChic:
I am waiting to get money for a good NY divorce lawyer, thats all.

as i have told you before this is a better funmi. good to know you are well and doing good my dear auntie

@ funmi. good to know you can be tammed.  was he threatening taking back his ring or what scared you into submission like this?

Kweenisha:
yes,hotfunmi

she is gradually becoming cold funmi.  

this has been top of the news in the uk. sad

Kweenisha:
karma please educate me what is magun and where does it come from?

why are you asking a complicated question sister nwando?

wonders

@olabs  i tot u guys were allowed to carry 4 women along same time.  the guy has only done one how is a mole sister angry?

welcome

Pataki:
Does this have any relevance to the topic?

All these tribalism bigots sef.

you just bag yourself a tribalist bigot badge. what is the matter with you and why cant you answer a simple question?