₦airaland Forum

Their wahala!

delishpot:
Oh well men go around blaming their criminal activities on women saying women they want reject them cos they are poor, men abuse the power in their office and blame it on the women claiming she seduced them (lecturers, pastors, bosses etc). Some even rape and still blame the victims. Why then do you think that a woman as a human being may not be pushed or fall for the temptation to secretly go get a baby from another man if her inability to have kids may cost her the marriage? Is it that men can be weak in flesh but women must remain perfect?

I don't support anybody who blames others for their wrongdoings. I believe people should take responsibility for their actions and stop trading blames.

It's just like armed robbers blaming societal pressure for their crimes. You and I know that such excuse can never prevent the law from taking its course in a court.

I'll not say anything again on this issue!




I think the government is deliberately trying to eliminate the poor members of the society by creating hardship and then allowing drug abuse as a means to send people to early graves.

That is the only explanation to the insensitivity of government to the growing cases of drug abuse in the country.

All is fair in love and in war!

Karma has no business here!

The lady was a foool for aborting for the guy thrice and I'm very sure she rejected those suitors because she didn't "love" them as much as the guy ( so it's all for her selfish reason).

delishpot:
As we lay our bed na so we sleep on am. If there is no pressure there will be no corner cutting.

Women should stop blaming everything on "societal pressure"! A cheat will always be one!
If we all go about making excuses and blaming others for our actions, nobody will ever take responsibility.

NAFDAC needs to do more in the southeast to be precise!

I'm very much aware of what's going on in that head bridge market. Those who don't understand won't know what's up.

Close all open drug markets and adopt the mega drug distribution system whereby each state has a coordinated wholesale center to be under strict regulation of the agencies involved in drug regulatory affairs.

This system will not only ensure that quality drugs are in circulation but will increase state revenues.

The man has a smoking fetish

Why is it that the northerners are always quick to say that Igbos hate them, yet they forget to mention the hatred Igbos suffer in the north

The Hausas live peacefully among the Igbos in the southeast and do their businesses without any attacks or intimidation but Igbos in the north are constantly attacked and live in fears every day, yet they are the ones being accused of hate
Let's learn how to honestly confront our problems as a nation and stop peddling lies just to gain undue advantage over others.

The Igbos I know do not hate Hausa people!

cococandy:
Are you sure you’re not mistaking me for someone else

Lorie, I know you right from time nau! I used to crush on you then before I got to know you are married.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Freezer don tire , na una next.
Please which University graduated Evans the kidnapper?
Sugar?
Tonto?
Cossy?
El rufai?
Lai Mohammed?
Are the schools responsible for their personal behaviors?
Etinosa claimed she is depressed and took alcohol to calm herself down which was responsible for her action.
How does CU come in now?
Are Cossy's and Tonto's parents irresponsible that is why their children misbehave?
Did Evans father train him to be a kidnapper?
Misbehavior is something personal

Please, how does Tonto Dike misbehave Evans, I know is a kidnapper. Cossy? OK, you can say she flaunts her unclothedness sometimes. But Tonto? I don't really get!

cococandy:
Lol.

So much sweetness in just one lady, ah!

cococandy:
My clone won’t be a virgin.

I know you want a virgin

Lolz...no I wouldn't mind if she's not a virgin. Just clone yourself for me pleeeaaase

ivolt:
Tell us how a ladies relationship preference is related to the bold?

The lady is of the view that men who date independent women do that because of the possibility of the lady paying some bills in the relationship. This is because she believes that paying bills is the sole responsibility of the man. That same mindset is held by many Nigerian ladies and that calls to question the importance of such ladies getting education and employment since they'll end up depending on a man for financial support.

I'll rather marry an uneducated, poor but sexually attractive and clean lady and make her a full-time housewife than marry an educated rich lady who'll still leave all financial burdens for me to shoulder.

We need to identify women with this kind of mindset on time and send them out of schools and also prevent them from getting employments.


Those are the kind of women that belong to the kitchen, the living room and "the other room".

Unfortunately, many Nigerian ladies share her mindset, yet they'll still clamor for equal opportunities with men in education and employment. Very confused lots

mvem:
Before blaming the government why not judge morality of the people...someone will make fake drug that will kill his brother just for the money benefit , probably some will say its the herdsman or a Fulani man that Is orchestrating it...

In other words we should blame the morality of armed robbers and other criminals instead of blaming the government for failing to provide security

Those making fake drugs are criminals and the government needs to deal with them as such!

Tell me which other country do we have quacks who know next to nothing about drugs making and selling fake drugs and the government watches without doing anything to stop them
The other day I said that Ghana is better than Nigeria and some people were busy opposing me! But go to Ghana and see how organized their drug industry is.
NMA and the federal ministry of health should join hands with PCN and PSN to sanitize our drug market because the patients are the ones who suffer the consequences of our present chaotic drug market. The minister of health should eschew professional rivalry and put pressure on government to sign the new PCN act into law. He should stop playing politics with everything!!! Having fake drugs in circulation affects everybody, not pharmacists alone!!

Why can't government take drastic action to restore sanity in our drug market once and for all! Are we cursed in this country

cococandy:
Diamond is a dumbass cheater. He deserved to have a wife who sleeps with other men too.
Unfortunately if it was Peter, then another woman has been hurt by that.

Na una dey do unaself . Polygamous in nature. lol

Babe, clone another of yourself for me make I marry nau. Ehn Lorie?

Why won't it escalate when the government is not doing anything to punish those involved in producing fake drugs!

Some fools in Onitsha head bridge are busy killing unsuspecting Nigerians while the government looks the other way.
The Senate passed the PCN act amendment bill since 2017 but federal government has refused to assent to that bill till date! Tell me why fake drugs won't litter the market when the existing laws are too weak to punish those caught in the act of producing fake drugs.

Even the new drug distribution guidelines they said would take effect from January this year, this is April and nobody is even talking about it again.

Nigeria is a lost cause and it's quite unfortunate!

I'm just watching if the legislators would allow themselves to be pocketed by the executives the way APC is planning.

It'll be very dangerous not only to the legislators but the country as a whole. Buhari's kind of government needs a very vibrant National Assembly to keep it in checks!

Martin Luther Kings Jnr

The viral nude might even be a kind of fetish to the guy, who knows


Many men are psychologically fucccccked up in this generation!

Tufiakwa!

LiveByNight:
Come to the Ghanaian embassy in Abuja and realize how far they have gone ahead of Nigeria

My only joy is my contract will soon be over and I will be leaving Nigeria again but permanently this time..

This country is cursed indeed

I tell you! The thing is shameful

HallaDaTruth:
Stop waiting for buhari, help yourself

Of course, I help myself and that is the more reason why I'll continue to cast Buhari's bad government.

Patriotism should be expected only from those the country helps, not from those that help themselves!

Melaye, the cat with nine lives!

HallaDaTruth:
FOOLISH NIGERIANS WILL COME AND START PRAISING GHANA. NIGERIA LAUNCHED HER DRONES WHICH HAS BEEN IN ACTIVE SERVICE AGAINST THE INSURGENTS, MOST OF YOU CONDEMNED IT. BUT WHEN IT COMES TO GHANA, YOUR PUSSYZ GET WET. ARE YOU AWARE WE PRODUCE SURVEILLANCE DRONES IN NIGERIA?. I AM SICK AND TIRED OF PEOPLE LIKE YOU ON NAIRALAND. THAT'S WHY NIGERIANS ARE MISTREATED ABROAD BECAUSE PEOPLE LIKE YOU WORSHIP FOREIGNERS

Who Nigeria under Buhari help

Samyj247:
madam stick to ur man. what stops u from making him laugh. try and be more playful with him.

u might regret it when he gets married to another lady.

Seems you don't know Nigerian ladies!

They always want everything done by the man. Nothing from them at all!
The man must be the money provider, the leader of the relationship, the fun creator, the peace maker, every damn thing must be done by the man!

Very selfish set of people!

eyinjuege:
Millions of people dont find it degrading or even awkward at all. Majority of Nigerians don't find it offensive. In fact, majority of foreigners dont find it degrading either. Rather they are intrigued and are impressed by such an act.
Just a select group of people have consistently said they find it degrading.
Shame really when people cannot accord simple respect for the culture of others, but are quick to cry foul if others do same to them.
Talking of marriage in Yoruba land, the groom and friends are expected to prostrate to the family of the bride. Their bride price might be just a token. Its oftentimes even returned to the groom on the premise that they are not selling their daughters, but that issue of showing honor to the elders of their family is a must.
Hausa people also bend down low when greeting their elders, it's just to honor them. I find it equally heart warming when I see grown educated rich men do that to their elders

OK, you win! Oya, I dobale for you

mrvitalis:
Can u back that up with facts ? ....people just talk anyhow

All indices point to that fact! From education to healthcare, infrastructure and economy generally.
Wake up to the reality and stop being a blind supporter of a failed government

Ghana is doing better than Nigeria in everything

Olawalesmarter:
Yes you have to prostrate to your in law, because you are not only marrying a Yoruba girl you are also getting Mary to her people way of life

Haba! That's not fair nau. Coming from a different culture, I think I should be excused from that aspect of the Yoruba culture.
Anyway, anything for my baby girl!

Olawalesmarter:
It is not your culture so it is very understandable if you don't like it, people all over the world have their different ways of life, stick with your begging culture in the North

If I want to marry a Yoruba girl, will I be required to prostrate to my in-laws?