₦airaland Forum

bukatyne:
She is a LovePeddler, yes, you are correct

A man who woos a woman when he is in a committed relationship is also a LovePeddler.


In this war of the whores, the men seems to be losing out more.

Since you do not see the part men have to play to mitigate/drastically reduce the issue, I say goodluck.

This argument of yours is not making any sense at all.

And for your information, men are not loosing out anything because it is still your gender that gets kicked out when the bubbles burst.

I have always known that Open drug markets like Idumota and co are conduits through which these drug traffickers operate.

I saw the kind of drugs one guy was handling at Ogbete open drug market in Enugu the other day and I was like wtf! Yet, the government have not taken any decisive action to close those arenas of death called open drug markets!

Meanwhile, kudos to Brigadier General Buba Marwa (Rtd) for his no-nonsense stance which has made NDLEA functional since he took over leadership of the agency. He is a good example that; once the head is correct, the rest of the body would be fine.

bukatyne:
Why should a married man pursue another woman?

Since men are cocks with no self control, they shouldn't complain about the consequences of their actions.

And this is not a threat, this is our current reality.

Any married lady who cannot say a simple NO to sexual advances from other men is just a wh0re and shouldn't blame her infidelity on the men who woo her.

samomoli:
Don't mind these people saying plant this plant that. Many of them don't have 2 meters of land they plant on . You see even you plant different crops on one plot you must eat before harvest, during harvest some crops are perishable, how do you keep such , some take long to harvest and after harvesting needs processing before consumption. I can only support vegetables garden and which is seasonal

But that poster has some tangible points. The rate at which the youths of this country, especially Igbos, are running away from farming these days is alarming!
A people that want to be independent, yet most of the food they consume are supplied by northerners! Funny.

We seriously need to start farming what we eat! It is very important!

In Nigeria, if a guy married a girl 12years younger aproko people go begin talk nonsense. I'll marry a girl 15years younger sha. Call me old school, na you sabi.

bukatyne:
Why should the woman say no IF she wants it?

If a man irrespective of his committments has the right to proposition any woman, why can't a woman irrespective of her commitments accept him if she wants to?

Besides, do you lots want to be frustrated? You want to keep asking women for sex without success?

Why should a woman who is married say yes to another man's sexual advances Remember it is not always written on the forehead that a woman is married. So, if random men comes to woo a married woman, the responsibility is hers to refuse such advances!

You don't stop a cock from making sexual advances to a hen. The laws on rape are made to protect mostly women because they're expected to refuse inappropriate sexual advances from men.

cococandy:
This is a low IQ red pill talking point that I find people of low intelligence regurgitating. Two things can be true. Men and women can both be sexually responsible and should be expected to; if we’re really going to preach sexual responsibility.

You have control as a man. Your sexual activity is not to blame on who chooses to accept your advances or not.

If you don’t ask the woman, she won’t say yes. So because you didn’t ask, it won’t happen. That’s responsibility on your part that you need to take seriously.

So, you're implying that men should stop asking women for relationships Hope you know that it is not always written on the forehead that a woman is married And even most cultures demand that men are to woo women.
The point is, men must always go after women they find attractive, it is natural. It is left for the woman to accept or refuse. That is why the onus is on the married women to refuse advances from other men. Do you tell a cockrel to stop making sexual advances to a hen?

GboyegaD:
Don't you think this sounds like some double standards? It isn't appropriate for any party to cheat. Some of the men accusing their wife for paternity fraud also have their seeds out there in another man's home.

There's nothing like double standard there. Since it is natural for men to ask for sex from women, married women should simply reject sexual advances of men who ain't their husbands. Simple!

This thing is just like willingly dashing out somebody's money in your possession to a beggar only to turn around and blame the beggar when the owner of the money demands his money. Can't you see how ridiculous it is

GboyegaD:
Oga, I am a man for starters. When men chase after other people's wives and these women commit paternity fraud in their husbands, same men still act like they are the victims. The summary of it is "If we all act responsibly, it will reduce the incidence of paternity fraud."

Unfortunately, we cannot all act responsibly because by nature, men are designed to seek sex from women. You and I may be able to act responsibly but whatever the other men?? It is now left for the married women to say NO to such demands.

Women have more control over sex and usually have sex with whom ever they fancy! So, they have more responsibility to ward off illegitimate sexual demands from men. Ladies in this forum, in a bid to absolve their gender of blame, usually blame men for marital infidelity with the ridiculous claim that men's promiscuity is responsible for marital infidelity. That, to me, is nonsensical because most cheating men do so with unmarried ladies while most cheating women do with unmarried exes or younger bachelors.

And if you had asked that matron about the pay packages of those doctors while they were around, you would have marveled at the peanut they were being paid.

The private sector in Nigeria is contributing significantly to the exodus of doctors and healthcare workers from the country with their poor pay packages and I'll treatment of health workers.

It's high time government looked into how the private business owners treat their workers. If the government really want to solve the brain drain problem in the health sector and unemployment generally, then there's need to ensure that the private sector pays same wage to workers as government workers. This is the norm in most countries of the world!

Government must also look at other issues responsible for the brain drain like insecurity, bad economy, lack of basic social amenities and the rest. Solving that problem requires a holistic approach.

Our leaders need to do away with the mindset of earning forex through training and exporting of our healthcare personnel! Instead, we should be thinking about how to make our own healthcare system attractive to other nationals. We'll earn more through health tourism by people from other countries than by sending out our professionals with the hope that they'll earn forex by returning hard currencies to Nigeria! That's a backward mindset!

Let's revamp our healthcare system holistically and market same to the rest of the world. We'll earn more by doing that.

Way to go!

I hope the police will respect the rule of law now

jubrilELsudan:
SPECIAL ABIDO SHEYKA THUNDER FIRE YOU

Let that thunder locate you and your entire generation!

Odey from a cursed lineage!

jubrilELsudan:
ODE

Tell that to your father

nnamdi640:
Hamas has killed all of them, that is the reason negotiations can't work again, the other day, Isreal soldiers discovered three bodies of the hostage in rafiah. Truly, Hamas is the cause of this war

Don't mind them!

I hope all the terrorists' sympathizers saw all that!

jubrilELsudan:
KANO YOUTHS FALL MY HAND SHA....PALACE WEY DEM SUPPOSE DON BURN DOWN BY NOW

The way some of you support injustice ehn! Don't worry, one day you'll experience the sort of injustice meted out to Sanusi, maybe then you'll understand! Imagine being punished simply for harmless and honest criticism!

I hope you'll not start expecting people to come to your defense anytime you're being unjustly persecuted

GboyegaD:
I guess the challenge sometimes is that these men don't remind themselves that some of the women they are cheating with are married.

I wonder how you sleep with another man's wife and you keep shouting paternity fraud. If the woman gets pregnant and pibs the child on her husband, is the man age cheated with not the cause?

How is the man she cheated with the cause How you ladies come up with this view is mind boggling!

Except in the event of rape, women have sex willfully and with whom ever they fancy! They're the gatekeepers of sex as sex will not happen if they don't want it. What stops her from saying NO to the man proposing sex to her

helinues:
Revisiting things

How many people can Isreal fight at the same time? Why do they chose to have so much enemies surrounding them?

Isreal had the upper hand in the past with some backings, those backings are no longer formidable like before, past is different from the current situation not to talk of future.

All in the name of having election, Neteyanhu decided to continue fighting senseless war because loosing in the election is inevitable.

Say no to war because in war, it's not about who is right but what is left

Why has Hamas refused to release those Israeli hostages It is obvious that Hamas is the one who started this war and have refused to do what is needed to end it.

Fiscus105:
Perhaps, you are leaving in Jupiter outside naija,.......even you, unknown entity, nobody knows how many holes u re digging.

The problem with some of you is that you think because you're promiscuous, every other person is.

Sorry, I'm not in your league. I've got a lot to do with my time than frolicking with women!

Fiscus105:
Man and woman must nurture their marriage,if they want to have peace and bliss in the marriage.

So, as you are blaming wife, you should also endeavor to blame man as well.

I'm very sure that, ....while Harry neglected beautiful wife at home, he would be sleeping around with different girls, women, even married women outside.

Before you know, another sharp guy would have twisted the brain of married but single wife of Harry.

And how did you know he was cheating on her with other ladies It's been proven that most married men their wives cheat on are usually the calm and faithful ones.

Women don't fear nor respect men who don't give them vawulence! They consider such men weak and cheat on them readily.

Kudos to Tinubu on this one.

Long overdue!

Thegamingorca:
How many women dey the land that time?


Did Adam not marry Eve? No be from him body dem mould am put. Incest everywhere

I taya o

And I wonder how Noah and his family managed to fill the earth after surviving the great flood

EreluRoz:
I did a lot of backup during campaign period as iyaebe. At the right time I'll do so, you all should continue letting that man deceive you. Ina ruwa na.

If you understand Nigeria's politics you'll know Obi can't be president, not even when it's the northerners turn after asiwaju's tenure.

I don't believe Obi is what Nigeria needs, he's sooooo fake, I mean can't you all see it? Hian

You're not in a position to pass judgement on Peter Obi because you're not anywhere close to Anambra state.
Those of us who are close to and regularly visit the state know Peter Obi to be a great leader whose administration as governor transformed Anambra to an infrastructural hub.

If you have followed my posts on this forum, you should know I'm one Nigerian who likes appreciate good leaders regardless of their political parties, tribes or religion. So, believe me when I tell you that Peter Obi did very well as governor in Anambra state. If not, many of us will not support him.

If Tinubu also performs, I'll not hesitate to give him the credits.

APOPTOSIS:
Meanwhile somewhere in Africa, the Police will be escorting celebrities who would publicly be smoking eegbo on transit....so celebrities go as far as asking MopoL officers to buy Igbo 4dem.

In all my sojourn abroad, the number one problem Nigeria has is "Character-Mindset-Attitude"
CHARACTER builds a nation.
We claim to have morals but it never translates into any single thing nationally.
NIGERIAN POLICE should see their mates.

Honestly! Those three are the reasons why white men are far better than us.

Character, mindset and attitude!

Nigerians would not stop being barbaric! Even in an academic environment??!

No wonder some people believe that education in Nigeria is a waste of time and resources because it doesn't reflect in the lives of Nigerians.

Giving me job at WHO

If you're a politician and you do the above for me, I'll vote for you and also mobilize people to vote for you during elections regardless of your party.

So you know that nobody is above the law yet you accepted the throne even when there was a court order restraining the Kano state government from dethroning Sanusi.

Therefore, yours should be a double punishment for KNOWINGLY disobeying the law.

See yeye brainless ladies deceiving themselves here!

Y'all make the pathetic choices of marrying aszholes for whatever selfish reasons only to come back to disturb everybody about how your acclaimed MR RIGHT is cheating on you!

It is on record that most marital infidelity by women are usually perpetrated against the good guys whom y'all despise for being 'weak'. The bad and unfaithful men usually get the best of you... fact!

I can point like 5 examples of good men who got cheated on by their wives! Some are fathering other men's seeds simply because they chose to be the good guys to their wives!

Truth is, the bad guys are usually too hot for you to handle. They put you on your toes with their attitudes while you struggle to create the peaceful atmosphere thereby pleasing them and making them secretly happy with themselves.

It is usually the good guys who give you too much peace that you treat badly with infidelity! We know how your minds work!

I hope UN and other terrorists apologists are seeing this

If anybody had advised him not to marry that his AUNTIE that year, he would have called such person evil and made him/her his enemy.
Now, see where he is today!

That should tell you that that ethnic group supports JUSTICE and are more honest!

Remember that you accused same ethnic group of not supporting Sanusi's enthronement in 2015.

Are you not speaking from both sides of your mouth now

You're a bitter lying soul!

Purge yourself of bitterness!


Soludo remains the best in the Southeast.

Build a good healthcare system so that you and your unborn generations would stop dying at just 61, they'll not hear! 61 is still a young age for a society that prioritizes healthcare! Biden is in his 80s but still healthier and more agile than Nigerians in their 50s!

Our leaders should realize that the best legacy they can bequeath to their children and unborn generations is the legacy of a better, healthier and prosperous Nigeria! No amount of looted funds can equal that!


RIP to the dead man.