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hopefulLandlord:
TBF she might mean she no longer watches it

Almost everyone that has access to internet have watched porn at some point even if its out of curiosity

So, it's hypocrisy for her to even utter a word on such topic as she has no moral jurisdiction for commenting as though she's a saint.

Girls can lie and pretend for no just course!

Preshy561:
generalization it's self is totally appalling, I'm asking you where you got your stats from because I don't watch porn.

You lying liar! So, you've never watched porn and yet you understood what the word even meant? I guess you looked it up on Urban dictionary

chiommy123:
She is right.guys are not helping in this matter either. Ladies if you know how them guys talk about you among themselves you will move about with padlock

And who said they don't know. And I thought you're a lady. Many monikers on this nairaland are plainly deceptive!

Shawncavendish:
But the fact remains that the struggles of life frustrate many people up to the point of serious depression and some commit suicide. It is worthy of note that the situation of life makes the weak to suffer much because the weak cannot compete with the strong; some people have greater advantage over others. It is like the survival of the fittest. In life, if you don't have the health and strength to struggle, you are On Your Own.
Experience has taught me that the less attached to earthly things you are, the happier. A mystic knows that perfect bliss is achieved by subduing one's carnal desires. Our carnal desires put us in bondage.
Anyone who takes life seriously hasn't experienced enough frustration.
Finally, death remains a tragedy because no one knows certainly what happens next. So, the best way to extinguish the fear of death is detachment. REMEMBER THAT DEATH IS THE MAIN ISSUE HERE. THERE IS NO ASSURANCE THAT DEATH HOLDS ANYTHING POSITIVE. IT MIGHT POSSIBLY BE THE ULTIMATE END OF LIFE; POSSIBLY NOT. BUT WHO KNOWS?

If you are sincere with fact, you will agree with me that the universe and all the laws that govern it's very existence could not have come into fusion by accident /coincidence as many atheists are quick to conclude. There definitely must be a super intelligence behind creation. He, she or it - whatever you choose to call it, could not have designed life as u know it and all the illusions we are used to for no purpose whatsoever. If life ends after death, then I don't see any purpose behind creation. I'm not scientifically inclined, but I know for certain, that energy once formed cannot be distroyed completely. And you sure know human consciousness is a very powerful energy. So, why would anyone assume such energy will cease to exist cos the host (flesh) which harbour such energy is distroyed (decay). Its simple fact for those who are open minded to understand.
The after-life might not be as described by most institutionalized religion. But I believe exist afterall!

Chubhie:
Perhaps, she just realised how fleeting this reality is. All the dramas,pretence,fame and money while the grave and maggots salivate to feast on that body you spent good money?

Is it worth it? I mean the default birth,school, career, marriage,kids and then death? Is this truly why we all came here?

I'm interested in what Mercy turns out after this her processes of grieving, contemplation and reflection.

The challenges life presents actually makes it worthwhile. Ranging from the joy, the sadness, anxiety, fear, disapointment, the twist, the laughter, the tears. All these and more makes life less boring. Take these out of life and we will live like dummies.
Everything has a purpose and so do death. What u call vanity is not actually vanity. Life is a school for the souls to acquire knowledge and experiment their greatest desires. So everyone is fulfilling destiny even when it seems as if they are useless.

Dannys85:
Wow! Too much sense in a single post.Accolades, sir.Respect

Is not just admiring the sense in his post. Pls, heed to it. Thanks!

Gidilagoon:
No be my fault bro.. the thing Dey do me strong thing ni and I so much love her.. the best thing for me is to avoid her, she’s not the type I can stay mad at for long if am seen her around. E Dey happen baba. Man Dey fall mugu for one girl in his lifetime.

Guy, be sincere to yourself and put aside your ego, I'm a nigga like you so I know whatsup. You know in life we all make mistakes and all seek for a second chance, don't we? She f>cked up that's right, but you love this girl so much. Guy, listen to me and listen good, forgive that girl and give her a second chance and a final one at that. Give her that benefit of doubt and watch her behave better, she will never ever try such again. Do this now so u don't regret later, cos you can't be sure the next babe u will end up marrying won't even Bleep her ex on your matrimonial bed whenever you go on a trip.
Listen to the voice of reasoning!

pocohantas:
You need common sense more. If only it were sexually transmitted, I might oblige you. So, the world can have one less dunderhead to worry about.

Chai! This is too much na. You wan kill the nigga?

Noel1:
No no no no no

U ARE NOT FOR CHRIST

So cos I'm for Christ, that's license for me to be irrational and lie even when faced with fact? You're simply a hypocrite if you don't see truth in my statement.
You can as well claim a virgin and live in self denial. Thats actually your problem!

spongeisback:
Why is religion obsessed with sex?!

Cos it's in constant denial of natural order of the human life. Human are naturally sexual beings, we all are slaves to that urge, no amount of sermon and eternal threat (HELL FIRE) can really stop one from satisfying that natural urge of getting laid or the alternative which is self pleasuring. Thats why you hear of Anointed Men Of God or dedicated holy ghost filled brother and sisters in active church service being caught in the act. The religious can only pretend, but they all get laid or masturbate to relief themselves of the natural pressure.
What do you say about most Nigerian youth who are affected by the economic situation of this country which tend to dwindle their finances and delay their desire to settle down and marry. You see most people of marriageable age who cannot settle down due to financial hardship caused by the economy. Do you really expect such an individual to be celibate till he finally get financially buoyant enough? So, you see. Its hypocritical to say one can stay celibate as a sexually active adult. Thats a pure lie of the highest order

Hakeem12:
It's possible bruh.

Only possible for those with lower sexual drive which is natural to those individuals. But how would u compare same with those who are naturally of higher sexual drive. Do you expect their sexual behavior and approach to be thesame. To the former, sex ain't a problem cos it doesn't freak them much, while to the latter, they ordinarily won't feel comfortable going without sex for longer period.
So, who do you blame for this, nature or the individuals?
Cos one is able to subdue his/her sexual urge doesn't mean they are holier than those who can not. Nature made it that way, so blame it on God if you must!

LivingFree:
sub-conscious kor hyper-conscious ni

These are university students, correct

Is the education system taught in English or native tongues, because I'm not understanding

Olodo!!!
Its educational system and not that bolded gibberish trash up there.

I don't even know the both of them. Are they into acting

You mean this nigga really owns a private jet Still don't believe mehn!

No update on this kids yet?

TroubleMaker47:
He is not a mumu!
It's called PASSION.
Every human should have what he would die for,
It could be football, music, wrestling, politics, power, even pùssy!!!
Just cuz ur passion is different doesn't mean u should judge him.


Viz.. Romeo died for Pùssy and Julie died for dìck yet they are celebrated globally. #Don't Judge

I can't die for anything mehn. Not even God!

benzics:
There's something quite peculiar about this Chosen members, they all seem to share a level of mental retardation.. Poor bird..

There's no slavery worse than mental slavery, I don't know why Africans love to associate superstitions with totally normal things... That's how they'll label every old lady a witch, call cats "evil", bats, owls are not left out, and we wonder why we are still backwards?

That is the reason your leaders will not work and they will still have the guts to tell you to pray for your country, and as you mumu reach, you will be praying for your country instead of actually doing something that works!

"Emancipate yourself from mental slavery, none but ourselves can free our own mind" - Bob Marley

The bolded. No thanks to Nollywood!

PearlStreet:
It can only be your village people who remotely controlled you to come and disgrace your ancestors. I'm suspecting that Devil hired another Devil to join him in punishing you.

This is 5pm. It's not too late for you to enrol in an Adult Education centre tonight. Pls do so ASAP, tomorrow may be too late.

Chai, this is brutal na bros. The nigga offend you before?

slimzypink:
Where can I drop my CV

Nah, you're too lepacious for the job. Improve on your diet

Crossbow:


I wanted to sometime ago.. I found life meaningless, with no money and living below standard, I couldn't take my life because it would hurt my mum a great deal.. I wanted to get shot or killed by another person. I found no one.. My take on life is the forever decision. Are u done on Earth, are there still dreams you want to pursue? Like me, I wanted a guitar so bad, and I couldn't just die without having one.. I still don't have now Sha but life is getting better,step by step.

Who will buy guitar for me.

Are u craz¥ You want me to buy you a guitar so you can proceed with your suicide abi?

ItzBIM:
She said it’s none of his business can u imagine.

Thats even the annoying part of the OP write up. I felt so angry reading that line. Damn, a lady who mistakenly use that line on me on such personal matter that I feel concerns us both, I won't hesitate to break that relationship without any regret. I will be thanking my stars for revealing her true identity to me less I make the worst mistake of my life. Fear women o!

Lalas247:
If u say so...
Some people can change... he can correct that mentality

You ever heard of Prenup? He should use it..
she leaves the same way she came ...

I quite understand your point. But considering the OP. Damn, that nigga is obviously weak and I doubt he has the will power to put her in her right place. She must have sensed him as a weakling to have such guts to even voice that out even if she has such intention. As an alpha male, this nigga is a sissy

mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

Mr, pls can you do me and I guess majority of nairalanders the favour of not boring us with your marital wahala should you proceed to marry such egocentric lady you call your woman. I've seen countless of niggas like you who don't heed to advice till they fall into that great pit due to the limitations in their foresight induced by love and infatuation. Your eyes go clear u when you don finally enter that one chance. I've saved your moniker for future purpose!

Lalas247:
It’s the only way she will learn...
If he dumps her another mumu will accept .. he has to show her In marriage they have to compromise (some ladies are clueless and programmed to only help when the man fails and that’s wrong! )

It doesn’t make her a bad person she just has a typical leech mentality which a lot suffer from...

If by chance your Bro is faced with same situation like this. You can advice him to proceed. But pls don't advice someone's child to proceed with such acidic relationship. Its really that bad of you!

Freshbank:
And she couldn't pray about it? Imagine meeting this pastor for counselling about challenges in ur home...

What will be her response? Ur guess is as good as mine..

I wouldn't be judgemental here, but let's review what the holy scripture says, it says and I quote "if a man's way pleases God, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him"... So I think before we do anything we should make our ways right with God... I have not said that I 'm holy, it is a general truth from the scripture I just said..

" Be not wise in thou own eyes, fear the Lord and He shall direct thou parts"

I hope if your sister or daughter becomes victim of an abusive relationship such as this, you will unequivocally give her this same advice

datola:
This woman can't be a pastor.

Only a wife who longs to become an olosho will walk out of her marriage just because of mere domestic abuse.

In as much as divorce is not an option in Christianity I think separation is desirable if the situation is life threatening.

It is better, before people start preaching it is the will of God to die avoidable death.

We need to hear other party's own story first before judging but however it is good she moves out before asking for husband's story.

Do you know she cannot remarry if she is merely seperated and not divorced from he abusive husband
So, are u saying being separated from her husband she shouldn't remarry as you're against the idea of a divorce. So, she should deprive herself of the joy and happiness she would derive from a loving and caring partner. Are u suggesting she remain single and lonely for life?

Chair, I miss front page sha

Safiaa:
If love is conditional it’s not true love. Period!!!!! No if buts or maybes.

The love of God is conditional too. So therefore, by your logic, there is no true love with the love of God inclusive. Its all conditional!

You're welcome!

Mujtahida:
Ever wonder why old people say next to nothing about romantic love? Ever wonder why it's only those within the sexually active category who write songs, sing ballads, make movies, cry up and down about romantic love? It's a fiction created by nature just so men and women (especially since many women need that falsehood to have sex) can procreate.

When people say they are in love, nature laughs

You're wise!

Safiaa:
YES!! The world love is completely being used out of proportion. Can he die for this woman? Does he love this woman unconditionally? If she had no vagina, no legs to walk and no arms to prepare him food, would he still be there? If her beauty were to be wiped would he still look at her in the same way? If no, then that Is not Love my friend. Get with it.

Then what is love oh "doctor luv"? Cos from your view, I don't think even God can love...

WhichKindWahala:
Are those wild mangoes?

No. That's ogbono!

Nice song. But the video is a miss for me!

I don't celebrate mediocrity!