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na now una dey blame Rohr.. I don dey blame Rohr tey tey

Toylove:
Seedorf made a tweak after we scored, hence the outcome..
But our mumu white onigbinde

na today?

Odunayaw:
bloody hell! misplaced passes! lackadaisical defense

What the hell!?

Ighalo dey find pena and dem don blow whistle for half time

hmmmm hmmmm hmmmmmmmmmm

smh..

match don start

Etebo's recovery is second to none

omeruo assist

darkelf:
Goal courtesy of Ighalo

Who would have thought

hahahaha
Ighalo!

see the look when that guy give etoo! haha

nice pressing game from SE

cameroon dey play 3-5-2
rohr too fear fear to experiment

It's not like Cameroon is gonna tear us up. The match will be pretty even. However I think the battle will be between both GKs. Let's HOPE this will be our lucky day.

I think you are asking for advise on what to do at this point. simply ignore anyone who castigates you talking about what you should have done or not have done. That's what I call cheap opinions. Weak people blame and castigate others. Let's have some maturity here.
My advise is not to marry her. Don't marry out of pity. Don't marry who you do not love or you would keep blaming yourself for life. The family, from your own story, is not one I would advise you to marry into. As regards the twins still conduct your due research. Make sure of the paternity. Just because there is twins in your family is not enough to make that conclusion. Continue to be the nice guy that you are, and help her whenever you can regardless of if the kids are yours or not.
Thanks for having the courage to share.

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Provide for them and make sure you are in the kids lives if you are the father

sirdouglas:
Now before you judge me, I beg you to hear my side of the story.
I said my side of the story cos if she is here, she may not agree with everything I have to say.
This is a lengthy one but I will try to make it as short as possible.
I it is important to note that I am not writing this to be judged or ridiculed. I want matured and reasonable people to help out.

I met this girl in 2017. Can't really remember the month but it should be getting to 2years now. We started dating. As at the time I met her I wasn't struggling, I have my own business and apartment so I wouldn't say she met me when I had nothing. I was a big boy then if I can use that word.
She was just 19 or so then. I am this kind of guy that really really take relationship serious and always looking out to see if things can work out. I don't spend on her, I don't do much for her then. I wanted to see the kind of person she is. She doesn't care or even ask of anything. She might ask for something once in a while but I will pretend I didn't hearw her and to my amazement, she will never talk about it again.
With time I started noticing something about her that I don't like. First is she is really not smart and educated. I noticed that she doesn't have her own say. She listens to gossip and always bore me with what this person said or that person. I really hate that shit.
She is a mama's girl too. Sometimes I wonder if she gives her mom details of our sex life.
She won't sweep the house or do anything for me even while the relationship progressed. I started taking care of her and helping out with her needs. I constantly keep wondering if I can settle down with her but I am always stuck with that question.

I ended the relationship when it was clear to me that I can't live with her. I am an ambitious young man and I am not there yet. I want a woman who will be more than a sex mate. I want someone who can confidently handle my business and manage my home when I am not there. She is to naive to my liking. I am tired trying to build her into the kind of woman I want.

There is only one main reason why I wasn't really hard on her. She was one girl who accepted me from her heart and I know it and I respected that too. I suck when it comes to women and I respect women a lot. You know what they say about guys that respect women. They are mostly single �
She came back few months later. She wasn't ready to let go. Being that I am a loner. My defence wasn't strong enough. We started dating. I got hold of myself and ask her to go again because I couldn't see a future with her and I can't bring myself to be wasting her time.

She wanted to stay, I told her in plain words that I don't want to marry her and that's why I am setting her free.

She left and came back the third time. We had sex and all that but this time I was determined to let her go. I went to a lab for a test with to make sure I didn't infect her with anything because I treated staph before I met her and I was afraid it may still be there or something. To my utmost surprise, she was the one who infected me with gonorrhea. I treated mine and hers and ask her to go.

I noticed that she haven't seen her period and asked her and she confirmed it. She left and came back few weeks later that she is pregnant. She insisted that she wanted to have an abortion but I wasn't interested. I told her to keep the child. Besides, she has been the one telling me that my sperm us not working. I laughed over it. I became afraid that she will try something stupid so I took her to a pharmacist friend of mine to discourage her.

Her mother got to know and ask her to call me. I went with a friend and told her mother everything. I started suspecting that the child might not be mine because I treated her of an infection she possibly contacted from another person. In fact, I was shocked when she confessed about the infection. She said it is the toilet they use at home but I never believed her.

I told her mother that I am not sure about the paternity but however, I will take care of her. I told her family that I don't want to marry her and I have told her that severely.

We had a long discussion that day and I left. I started taking care if her the more. I made sure that I made my stand clear on the matter. I don't want to be a murderer so I got to do what is necessary. She started complaining about abuse from her siblings and war started. They beat her almost all the time and I wanted to take it personal. Shit do happen at times but that is not enough reason to kill their sister.

When all this is happening, I was processing my papers. In fact, I started processing my papers before she got pregnant and she is full aware of that. I took another group of friends to their home to help beg the brothers to stop beating her so they don't kill her and the child.

My visa took time so she was almost due for delivery before I left. I sent money to her account and bought some things I felt she would need even the unnecessary ones and left.

My problem now is that she contacted me few days ago to tell me that the scan said she is having twins now not a boy. I can't explain in details because I don't know but the bottom line is that she is now having a twins. I feel for her like I always do.

I don't want to marry out of pity. I don't want to live a promiscuous life. I don't want to marry this girl honestly and having a twins for me just complicated the matter the more.

She said the doctor said she will be delivering this month. I am thinking of sending my uncle and younger brother to her family house to do the iku aka or whatever that is called so I can lay claims to my kids.

Her family is so messed up that I will never want to do anything with them on a normal day. They are from onitsha in anambra and I swore never to marry from that state. That's one of the reason I kept chasing her away. When I say messed up, I am really not that good with English to find the right word to define how disorganized it is.

I am feeling like a monster already. I need all the help that I can get. I never expected this to happen. I never wanted to complicate her life but here I am in the middle of all this.

Should I marry her out of pity and save her the embarrassment or give her money and make sure she comfortable and go ahead with my life. Honestly I don't know what to do.

Awaziem should be adventurous?
We for just play Simon as RB and put Chukwueze ahead of him

chidexxy007:
Our fullbacks should be more adventurous especially that RB.

hello babe.. long time!

safarigirl:
Team News:

No Chukwueze
No Osimhen
No Onyekuru
No Onuachu in the first XI

Rohr plans to start with a similar team to the team that won Cameroon the last time

i dey observe.. i dey wait

No be just to score at least they played with hunger even though they eventually lost by PK. It’s the attitude not necessarily the outcome on the pitch.

Odunayaw:
And if there was no blunder can you be sure of an equaliser from the Moroccans?

This is how you show character when you are behind.

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discard for who na? I prefer Ezenwa still though.. it's not like Akpeyi was up against any better name for group B

forgiveness:
As expected but not too bad to be discarded as some suppose.

Akpeyi had the most saves funnily. But with several shaky moments as well

forgiveness:
Actually, it's in regards to Akpeyi.

with all those botanical names spread all over..

forgiveness:
Some people will not like this.

na paper patriotism

realpoacher:
You guys should stop all this talks about Egypt when you haven't played Cameroon.

What is wrong with all of you?... You are sidelined Cameroon like they don't exist yet focusing on Egypt.

Did France '98 teach you guys anything? ...

Have we been particularly impressive at this tournament?

Have we been scoring goals?

Have we been breaking down defences?

Have we been playing scintillating football?

What's wrong with y'all?

You guys should be come down to earth and analyze each game as it comes.

haha superstitious coach and people alike

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Let's just call it Rohrmatics for science sake

mostob:
Lolz.. funny superstition. If football thrives on superstitions, Ghana should be winning this AFCON

Rohr believe in Omens.
He said we lost to SA 2-0, and we beat Cameroon thereafter. Now we lost to Madagascar 2-0 and we are meeting Cameroon again. Okay o Rohr don predict say we go trash Cameroon 4-0 In his words it could be a blessing in disguise.
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That’s how Senegal friendly was played behind closed doors and they came out with good football against Burundi.

soetanoreoluwa:
AFCON 2019: Rohr Bars FG Delegation from Super Eagles’ Camp

With less than 24 hours to the second round knockout encounter between Nigeria and Cameroon, the Super Eagles’ Head Coach Gernot Rohr, has barred his players from all forms of activities that could distract the team from underperforming during the match tomorrow.


The action which took effect from yesterday will most likely affect the large delegation of Federal Government entourage that will arrive Cairo today before heading to Alexandria for the epic clash tomorrow.

On Wednesday night, the coach allowed his wards free reign to interact with the media, friends and relatives around at their hotel base lobby.

However, begining from yesterday morning, the rhythm changed as the players were confined to regimented life style until after tomorrow’s match.


But when the high-powered delegation from The Presidency that will include Senate President Ahmed Lawan, Speaker of House of Representatives, Hon. Femi Gbajabiamila, the governors of Lagos, Delta and political aides storm the coastal city of Alexandria before the match, there will be practically nobody to welcome them into the team’s camp except the Nigeria Football Federation (NFF) President, Amaju Pinnick and his board members who THISDAY learnt will be more diplomatic in handling the matter.

Pinnick is likely to prevail on the government delegation to see reason with the Franco-German tactician’s de ision as his job could be on the line should the team fail to beat Cameroon and proceed to the quarter final.


“Gernot Rohr wanted outright concentration and will not want anything to disrupt the calmness of his players and the tranquility of the environment.

“He wants Eagles to be more focused than before for the match against Cameroon on Saturday,” a top official hinted THISDAY in Alexandria yesterday evening.

The coach had insisted that the players must be in their rooms for their afternoon siesta which was between 2-4pm and no loitering, no visitors nor telephone activities are expected from the players until after the match on Saturday.


The media had its own dose of the camp ethos last night as they were barred from the training arena as the team trained behind closed door for tactical reasons. Before now, the media were allowed to see the first 15 minutes before the cameras are shut down

ThisDay

CAF TEAM OF THE GROUP STAGE

Check and see

jihday:
what's the difference between Dunga and Rhor?

AFRICA CUP OF NATIONS
Picking an Afcon Team of the Tournament so far
Who makes Goal’s Dream Team of the Afcon group stage?

Mohamed El-Shenawy --EGYPT
Egypt haven’t conceded a goal in the tournament so far, but they haven’t been completely solid at the back, and all three of their opponents will feel they should have found the net against the Pharaohs.
All of Zimbabwe, the Democratic Republic of Congo and Uganda will rue both their poor finishing, but also the form of El-Shenaway, who’s made a series of key stops during the campaign so far.

Ahmed Elmohamady --EGYPT
Just squeezes into our team at right-back ahead of Algeria’s Youcef Atal, Elmohamady continues to be a tireless presence down Egypt’s flank, doing the work of two men to defend astutely and help to create space for the attack.

Kenneth Omeruo --NIGERIA
Has returned to form for the Super Eagles in some style, retaking his place in the heart of the backline, and netting the winner in Nigeria’s second match against Guinea.
A veteran of the 2013 title-winning side, Omeruo’s composure is a key asset for the national side’s backline.

Romain Saiss --MOROCCO
The centre-back has set the tone for Morocco with a series of rugged, aggressive displays alongside Medhi Benatia or Manuel Da Costa.
He’s commanding in the air, and also reads the game intelligently, making him one of Herve Renard’s more underrated talents.

Abdul Rahman Baba --GHANA
The left-back has been one of the feel-good stories of the tournament so far, returning to international action after 893 days following two years of injury misery and fitness woe.
He’s not quite the player he once was, but after a strong defensive display against Cameroon, Baba contributed both assists in the victory over Guinea-Bissau.

Diadie Samassekou --MALI
One of Africa's emerging stars, Samassekou impressed in his two appearances to date, scoring once and contributing an assist as well as weighing in with an impressive defensive display in the heart of Mali’s midfield.
No player has averaged more interceptions per game so far this tournament, while Samassekou is also one of the competition’s most effective tacklers, averaging 3.5 per match.

Serey Die --CIV
Has often been the glue that’s held this unconvincing Ivorian side together, belying his advancing years with a series of inspiring showings and outclassing celebrated teammates such as Franck Kessie and Jean Michael Seri.
He was phenomenal in the victory over Namibia, dominating the midfield battle, scoring a scorcher, and demonstrating an underrated creative side to his game.

Mahmoud 'Trezeguet' Hassan --EGYPT
While Mohamed Salah has stolen the plaudits—and the attention—Trezeguet has proven himself to be Egypt’s ace in the hole.
He scored the winner in the opener against Zimbabwe, and will be a key player for the hosts as they look to negotiate the challenges to come.

Adama Traore --MALI
One of several players in this team who finally appear to be demonstrating the kind of quality that we’ve long been expecting from them.
The AS Monaco man has created—on average—3.3 goalscoring chances for his teammates per match (the best in the competition), and also netted in the 4-1 victory over Mauritania in Mali’s opener.

Youcef Belaili --ALGERIA
Despite Algeria’s plethora of stars, it’s Belaili—playing for Esperance—who’s standing out.
The wideman has bounced back from a two-year ban due to cocaine usage to become a key element of the national side, and struck the winner to settle a tight contest with Senegal.

Jordan Ayew --GHANA
Much maligned, but Jordan has proven in the past that he can deliver in the big games.
So far he has scored half of Ghana’s goals—netting against Benin and Guinea-Bissau—on both occasions breaking the deadlock with a fine finish.
On this form, the younger Ayew can help the Black Stars dream of the title.

--GOAL

Can we get Dunga?

I think it's a fellow North African team that will beat Egypt. And my prediction is Algeria.

phamarsenal:
Hmm everyone is mentioning Egypt as if southafrica is a pushover, d Egyptians to me HV not been spectacular on this tournament, d only tin going for dem is DAT massive crowd beind dem...I won't b supriaed if we witness an upset on Saturday