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ACallForHelp:
Good morning Everyone, trust you're doing great. I don't know if this i the right section.

I have an issue weighing me down so much lately. There is this young of 16+ years who has been missing for almost 2 months now. I got to know about it when the mother called to explain the whole story to me. The girl actually left home willingly. She had always warned her parents about leaving, she said that God told her to leave her parents house and go to stay with a priest. Now that she is missing, we have contacted the so called priest which she always mentioned his name, but he said he doesn't know her whereabout. The mother as well everyone else believes this so called priest to be the prime suspect. The proof here is that it was exactly the same day she left that this so called priest travelled to his home town in the east (he used to live in Lagos, but parked out the same day the young girl got missing). NB: She left with her Boss money that day. She worked as a POS cashier.

They contacted the police, but their demand was too high for this family. They kept demanding (financially). They are just 3 children (all girls), of which this very girl is the first child. I have done my best (financially and in every other way) but there seems to be no hope on the side of the parents except for me. I went to visit them the other day and I almost cried when I saw the mother. She looks so thin that you will wonder if she has a terminal disease. They have given up on this young girl thinking ad hoping that she will return just the same way she left.

This young girl on her own is the religious type who does not understand how evil the world could be. What motive is behind all this?
> Why has she not contacted anyone, not even her friends ever since she left?
> Could it be that she was brainwashed?
> Could she be dead? Probably for rituals.
> Could she be in a hostage kind of situation and hoping that someone will come and save her soon?

> Most importantly is why has she not contacted the parents since 2 months now?


Lots and lots of questions begs for answers.

I have nothing to gain here please. But one thing that runs though my mind every single day is that, heroes don't fly and they also don't wear capes. Someday we will leave this world behind us, can we look back at it and say "Yes, we helped a family that was helpless"? Please let us do this as a NAIRALAND FAMILY. I only know the mother because she was a colleague in my former place of work and she was a good person.

I know there are influential people in this forum. I have contacted some radio stations but neither will they pick or even reply my messages. Please people of NAIRALAND, I beg you to come to our rescue. Lalasticlala, Seun, Human right activists and others, please come, let us help this family. I am a member of this forum from way back in 2010 even tho I have to create a new account I can testify of how beneficial the forum has been to be educationally. I beg you all. Let's help them.


I can't remember the last time I cried, but I can tell you that I am crying like baby while typing this. I have her pictures and anything needed to identify or find her. But I believe I need certain people who can help to contact me for any information regarding her or the parents or the prime suspect before I start posting them here . From there I can reveal everything. And if need be as we proceed, I'll release her pictures as well. Below is my number, please reach out to me if you want to help.

09073751704

Please NAIRALAND, this is too much for me alone. Come and help please.


I will make sure I update everyone on this issue once I get positive responses.



FULL STORY

This is the full story written by me from the mother's narration and from my own findings: please help us.
It's a long one but take your time

Good day Sir/Ma,

I hope this outcry meets you well. A young girl named, Blessing Emmanuel Chinaza, who is just 16+ years of age has been missing since May 11 (1 month and 2 weeks now).

She left home after series of warning to her parents on previous occasions about leaving the house for a so called spiritual father named David. She had always told the parents about going to stay with a priest who she believes will teach and guide her to serve God better than staying with the parents as she believes that staying with the parents will not help her spiritual life. However, her mother disapproves of it.


*Evidence:*

The evidence here is that, there is a message by blessing to someone on her Facebook messages on April 2022 that reads:

"The mssg keeps coming for me to leave my parents or my light will quench so pls if there is any way you assist me with a token of two to three thousand to transport myself I will be glad.....DONT SEND TO MY MOMS ACCT AGAIN
CALL DIS NUM IF U WANT TO SEND THE MONEY
(She dropped David's number)"



The irony of this whole thing is that this girl's father is a pastor in the Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) and the mother is more like an evangelist. So the idea about leaving the parent's house for another priest was just very much out of context. The Mom had one day asked Blessing who the priest she would like to stay with is and she mentioned David saying that he is her spiritual father and God told her to stay with him. It was totally strange to them why David, a young man ih his twenties would want to mentor her daughter as a spiritual father. Both parents and David has unresolved issues and where not in good relationship at that period in time.


According to the mother, David was someone who came to Lagos with nothing, he met Blessing's father one day after service, he introduced himself as a musician/minister and pleased that he(Blessing's Father) should please allow him join his church as a minister. Blessing's father welcomed him and gave him a chance in the church. After many months, Blessing's father gave him an accomodation in the same building for him to stay since he has no home. This is another story entirely.



According to Blessing's mother, they parked out of their home somewhere in Shibiri, Ojo, Lagos in the month of April . They moved to a place in Mowe, Ogun State. Just after 2 weeks, Blessing kept telling her parents she needs to get a job to keep her busy. The parents on a second thought made her understand that they are new in that area and feels that they all need more time to get used to the new environment they got into. She later got a POS job close to her house where she worked as a cashier; this was during the ending of April. After about 2-3 weeks later, on the 11th of May, she was sent to withdraw #200,000 from a bank. She did went to the bank, withdrew the money and returned back to her shop. Later that day, her Mom gave her younger sister to take food to Blessing at her shop which she(her younger sister) did. She forgot to bring alongside the food, water for Blessing to drink, so she went home in order to get Blessing water. When the younger sister got back to the shop to give the water to Blessing, she(Blessing) was already gone. She left her phone as well. She left with the sum of #200,000. This happened on the 11th of May 2022.

That same day, 11th of May 2022, the alleged spiritual father had left his place of residence for Anambra state and this was exactly the same day Blessing went missing. It is beleived that the young girl and this David must have planned the whole thing. Some days before that day, blessing had told her mom that she (her mom) should please permit her to attend a service alongside the spiritual father at a place in Anamara state named Nnobi. The mother declined saying that Anambra state was too far for her to go to, and that she doesn't even have the money for transportation to Anambra state. Also, she will not even allow her daughter go with a total stranger like David who claims to be her (Blessing) spiritual father. After that incidence, Blessing showed anger through out the whole of that day. Some days later, 11th of May, she eventually left home.

That same day, all the way from Mowe, Blessing's father had gone to find David since he believes that the daughter must have left to meet him that same day she ran away. On getting, there he was told that he travelled that same day.

*Evidence:*

The evidence to support this is a recorded call between me and David.

I recorded the call between David and I in hope that I will be able to draw out information from David knowing fully well that he is the prime suspect. David plainly told me that he does not know the where about of Blessing and that he has not heard from her ever since she left home. However, he knows that Blessing left home. This makes one to wonder why someone who claims to be a spiritual father, after about a month plus does not know where his spiritual daughter is and has not done anything to get to this young girl ? The mother told me that the day Blessing left home,

Earlier on, the mother had asked me not to call David being that it might implicate me. She said so, because she involved the police at that point. David was able to pick my call because I introduced myself clearly to him. I met David only once, and that was the day the mother invited me for a service in their church. We spoke at length just like two people meeting for the first time. After waiting for about a month plus and with being tempted to call this so called spiritual father of her's to ask about her whereabout, I ran out of patience since someone's life is at stake. The parents have given up already but not me. So I eventually called him.

Now blessing on her own end, left the phone she uses to communicate that was given to her by her boss (she does not have a phone of hers) before she ran away. It's already a month and 2 weeks since she was gone, and she is yet to communicate with anyone.

This begs the following questions:
1. Why has she not contacted anyone ever since she left? Even her friends.

This was ascertainedthrough the help of her mother. We were able to log in to her Facebook account to go through her messages to find a clue. But nothing except that she chatted the last time on the same day she left home. She was desperately asking for a friend's number, this Friend of hers is also named Blessing.

2. Is she still alive? If yes, then why is she yet to contact anyone?

3. Or could it be that she is not totally in control of herself anymore? More like being in a very bad situation where she is not allowed to communicate with anyone.

4. Could it be that this Davis knows where she is and does not want to let the parents know about it. This was because according to David, they had some misunderstanding.

5. Blessed asking her parents to get her a job in just the second week of getting into their new home could suggest that she already had the plan of leaving the house even long before it happened. All she needed was money. She had it all planned out. She had to get a job since none of her friends she requested for money attended to her.

Lots and lots of questions begs for answers.

But in all, only one person is a prime suspect *(David)* and is likely to know where Blessing is. The question here is, what motive does he have towards this young girl?

The present situation looks like both parents have resigned to fate about their daughter. To them, they only hope that she will return someday just the same way she left. And as it stands, I seem to be the only person who is willing to help them the possible way I can. It all seems that I am the one who care more about their daughter than they do. Or maybe the shock has gotten over them so much that they can barely think straight. They are very helpless at the moment. Blessing is their first child among the three of them (all girls).


Yes, I talked about the police coming in at some point. Yes they did, but their request was more than the family can afford. I have helped them financially too but I don't think I alone can do everything.

Please we really need your help at this critical time. We don't know if Blessing is dead or alive or if she is being held hostage ever since, that no one has heard from her (it's almost 2months now).

CHARLOE:
Saw a neatly used car (Honda civic) for sale recently, but d issue is there's no custom papers, seller said he misplaced it, but assures me there's no problem as he's driven it outside lag b4 n custom officers didn't stop him. I'm in a dilemma, advise pls; what are d implications of buying a car without custom papers? How much would it cost to process one?

babatee1985:
Happy Sunday to you dear nairalanders, hope you are having a good time? I have a Nissan Altima (2000) model and I'm thinking of upgrading to another car with more ground clearance because the road to my new site is very bad and this car doesn't fit the road and I don't want it to be hitting ground. The prices of cars that I'm seeing (both foreign and naija used) are very scary and I'm so confused on what to do. I just want to ask how much do you think I can sell this car considering the high cost of buying another one. I want to know how much you think it can go for so that I can know what do maybe I should sell it and upgrade or I should keep managing it like that in my new area. The car engine and gear is good, just the left hand shaft needs replacement. The AC is leaking out gas after 2 weeks usage. I will appreciate your contribution so that I can know what to do. Thanks to you all.

matt4good:
I recently got a tokunbo (never driven in Nigeria before) toyota truck in Lagos and want to send it to Anambra.

At the moment, the truck only has purchase receipts, customs paper and change of ownership documents.
Vehicle license, plate number, road worthiness, vehicle insurance and related documents will be processed in Anambra subsequently, as the truck will be used in Anambra.

I am looking at the best way to get this truck from Lagos to Anambra without facing extortion and harrassment from Police officers, customs, FRSC and road touts.

Someone told me that he has been delivering tokunbo cars from Lagos to Abuja - and that he can deliver this car to the East without any issues. However, I think delivering from Lagos to Abuja, and delivering from Lagos to the East are different issues altogether.
So, I still think the driver of the tokunbo truck will be a big victim of extortion and harrassment.

My people - what options are available for delivering this truck from Lagos to Anambra without facing any harrassment and extortion?

Utanisco:
God punish all the Hausa,
Punish all the Fulani's
Punish all the northerners

Punish anything that wears that their nonsense sutan and evil cap like asokoro

Punish their God and Allah or whatsoever that promotes killings

Punish their religion
Punish Islam
Punish all the Muslims
Punish the unborn Muslim
God punish all of you



Adiok inor mbufo

God bless Nigeria

Justice for DEBORAH samuel

pautex:
Thank you bro, may God bless you. Is there any other Naija used car you think i can get for that amount or is it advisable i still maintain my Tiny light for now?

JesusSheep:
A lot of people are in bondage to many things - greed, pride, lust, alcohol, negative family traits, etc. However, not everybody wants to remain under bondage. If you want to be free. My prayer is that Christ, by the power of the Holy pPirit, sets you free. You DO NOT have to labour under the influence of that burden anymore. You can be free.

Let me pray with you:

"King of Glory! I pray for my brother/sister reading this text, may Your power be strong on their behalf! May they find relief from whatever burden that is troubling them! By the power of the Holy Spirit, I pronounce them free from the hands of the enemy. May the yoke be broken forever! In Jesus might name we pray! Amen!"

Go and enjoy your life of freedom, and please, do not enter into any bondage again.
Shalom!

Utanisco:
God punish all the Hausa,
Punish all the Fulani's
Punish all the northerners

Punish anything that wears that their nonsense sutan and evil cap like asokoro

Punish their God and Allah or whatsoever that promotes killings

Punish their religion
Punish Islam
Punish all the Muslims
Punish the unborn Muslim
God punish all of you



Adiok inor mbufo

God bless Nigeria

Justice for DEBORAH samuel

Girlnextdoor1:
I will summarize ,not used to long stories ;
So I dated my ex for 3 years, all through his parents knew my tribe but did think it was necessary to put out their concerns until they felt their son was ready for marriage and then they said he should marry from their tribe and just like that ,I was dumped.hmmm wickedness in high places. But I'll like to chat with you


It's been two years now , I am ready to try again. I am over it and want to find love once again.

Es350:
Since it's,"ordinary" 5k, tell your guy to pay up and stop acting like a b!tch. That's someone's business your friend is playing with.

Ezemarcel:
Is this 2007 me man

Oyinmiebiagric:
I got back to Enugu, dust don full everywhere, I managed to clean the place, I was still thinking about what happened in Abakaliki, na so police for kill me or put me in prison, anyway I'm glad I am OK and well.

I slept that day,thinking about so many things. I went to see Festus in the evening, the guy was shocked to see me,there was already report that police killed Michael and I, sotey Esther don cry for me tire.

Festus: Men say cotty fall you na,how you take do,that means Michael self no fall be that na.

Me: Michael fall o,I confirm that one,but me I no fit explain how those men no take fall me, narrated the thing to him. My guy open mouth.

Festus: Oy you get luck o. You go lay low for now o,this one wey you just dey get close escape. You go lay low.

I really lay low,I was already a clap so there was no need for me to show myself. I just concentrated on school and babes.
At least make I do the one I sabi. Luckily for us,the only hit that happened that semester was with buccaneers, Festus use that medium help me fall Monday, he was useless to bargars so them no even reason am.

I was lucky to finish my exams, men begin call me lord,the day I lord was a low key,my departmental guys were even celebrating more than me. Aye no dey give me joy again, I just dey manage still dey b... men, I finished my project and defended it,I wasn't lucky to be among those that went for service, the next time my name came out,I was posted to katsina. I serve finish came back to Enugu, Festus and Justin were still struggling with carry over. pastor has been killed by bags,Saint won the departmental election, but he became very rugged and police arrested him,we all lord up together, but before he will go for service, police caught him with gun.

Esther graduated and went for service in jigawa,I visited her like twice,we still bleeped. Angela that one no fit finish school, one guy came from outside and married her,she was still bleeping all bleep able. After over a I came back from service, Justin name was out among those to go for service. karma struck,party was organized for him,as we were celebrating and flexing his Caro said they are going to her room to kill themselves till morning when he will be going to Edo state. As they were on the bike going, he was the one riding na so motor hit them,the girl nothing happened to her Justin brain come out. He died on the spot instantly.

Service him no go,the result he spent over seven years pursuing just went down the drain. I cried bitterly for Justin, he was my k son that later became my head. He died like a fowl. RIP bro.

Festus went to Markurdi to see his family, i have finished service and I've been working for almost two years,he has not yet gone for service. Over there in Benue, War set there,he was inside the room with his mum when guys ( kk) blow off his head with pump action.

We were 9 friends in school, 5 were killed, 2 of us were lucky to get result and graduate, the other 2,ended wasting there time in Enugu.

Ese and Ajiri graduated from delsu. Ese got married to a Benin boy that later took her outside (Italy) Our daughter stays with me. Ajiri turned to militant, he's still doing that till now. Although Ese they try send me enough euro.

My own life is not any better, I have been in and out of jobs for years now,my in-law got a government job for me after service. (High court) Vikings give me race comot for Ebonyi state. I almost lost my life in Abakaliki, on more than 3 occasions these small boys almost fall me,twice when I was going to work, once I was in the field watching football when these small boys show,I run leave work comot for Abakaliki. I no go because of work come kill myself.

I came back to Lagos, stayed with my parents, got a job with a private firm in Ikeja. Due to distance,I moved in with a colleague at work. Unknown to me guy na xyz,I came back from work one day and I didn't see my files again, all my original documents stolen, I asked him and he feigned ignorance. One night mumu no sabi say I dey hear ibo,begin reason how to draw my map with him men, I form like say I no hear wetin them reason.

Me: Guy make I buy recharge card for that shop there. Na so I take run from there and the job. Where I know wey I go dey wey people no go sabi me again?

Hamachi:
If u are earning 160k as salary, pls don't marry. Let's Break it down,
1. you transport to work to and fro.
2. You eat lunch at work.
3. You are to pay house rent, Nepa bills, security and water bills.
4. Food for you and your wife.
5. Laundry and other stuff.
6. airtime , MB and DSTV subscription.
7. Fuel for generator.
8. General house maintenance, buy clothes and undies.
9. You are expected to buy body cream, good relaxer, roll on and other deodorants for your wife.
10. At least 2 dresses per month for her.
11. If she is ILL, hospital bills.
12. Church women association dues and dress.
13. You are expected to render financial obligations to her family and your family.
Yet, You want to marry with 160k? I hope you won't impregnate your wife! May God help us all.

Thugnificent:
I woke up yesterday morning only to receive whatsapp messages and phone calls from family and friends on my contact list that they received a message of me being a criminal and "loan prostitute" on the run with company funds because of few days overdue loan. I thought the Government claimed to have clamped down on this people. My Girl friend that normally calls me every minute hasn't called since yesterday. I'm guessing she has also received the message. I'm Soo embarrassed

BluntNigerian:
FROM MY INBOX.



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Please He Needs Advice.

Williampisces:
I am thinking of ending everything right now...

After everything we shared, our plans and our unborn kids.. it's over for me

I have not eaten for the past 2days

Goodbye Nairalanders

OgogoroFreak:
Did she do abortion?

Oh, you said it's her liver. Why didn't you guys replace the liver?

Ask the doctors if the liver can be changed, then get back to me.

QuinModah:
MEN AND WOMEN READ CAREFULLY!!!

These days, a lot of women are very much eager to walk out of their marriage, most of them are still in their marriage now cos of the children, some have already given up on the marriage waiting for the right time to spark, some are just tolerating the man hoping for a change, some are still in the marriage cos of families, in laws, friends, colleagues and church members influence and encouragement, while some are already filling for divorce..

The Problems most times why marriage fails are always from the men. When a man is married to a beautiful lady, he tends to control and rule over her life, And then forget that, it does not take a whole lot to keep a woman, especially when you are blessed with a beautiful wife.

Every woman wants to be loved by her man,
Men don’t know that the secret to a woman’s heart is nothing but love and care, cos the true life and nature of a woman is hidden in her love life.

So many men most times thinks that loving your wife so much and taking good special care of her, is being foolish. There are difference between loving your wife and being a fool. A man becomes a fool when he is not doing what he should always do as a husband by loving his wife always, taking good care of her and the family and as well making her happy always. You seat down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she’s about to pass out and just before she sleeps, you still want sex. Seriously, are you kidding me? Don’t you see you are wicked?

As a man, once in awhile, who told you that it is wrong to wash dishes?
Who told you it is wrong to bath the kids and dress them for school when they are up to?
Who told you that it is wrong to dress a bed?
Who told you it is wrong to prepare breakfast or dinner?

Once in a while, and there’s this twisted view of marriage that has led to an increase in domestic violence where they’ll see a man cooking and they be like “Guy, you need to get married so you can stop cooking”. Let me tell you, don’t marry a woman to clean or cook for you but marry to assist, love, cherish and enjoy each other.

If you are getting married because you feel you need someone to cook and do all house work for you, then get a HOUSEMAID

siofra:
It will end only when men stop trying to have indiscriminate sex with women.

When they learn to control their dícks. You cannot expect to marry a virgin in today's Nigeria when you go about coercing young women to have sex with you.

Thank you

odinson1:
A Virgin Girl in Nigeria? I thought the Asteroid wiped them all out years ago?

dollynnn:
Fear women!
Imagine, "he is not my kind"
Some ladies are heartless,wicked,selfish and confused too. They deserve no sympathy or even help.
Your baby daddy is back and you suddenly realized that your present man is not your kind(type). Ha! Heaven is far from some of us.
Meanwhile, the SIMPle man's reward will be great in heaven.

uche77zero:
Drivers needed ASAP
Location Abuloma
Age 25 yrs. to 35 yrs.
Valid Driving license
Be fit and well
Available minimum 6/7 days.
Interested text " Name, Driver & Phone No." to 08181494494
Abeg Make help me retweet when you see this

siofra:
Are you blind sir?

She has no make-up on.

siofra:


This girl is popular on Tiktok.

Her smile is so beautiful it makes my heart ache.

I'm talking about facial beauty here, nobody should bring nyash and bress.

Flawless/ no makeup. I've never seen a girl from another country more beautiful than this.

Heartbroken05:
my sister, No one is perfect, I know I over react by slapping her but I regretted already and have for forgiveness. About the seer, you may not believe but I make sure I went to different religious leader and all said everything correctly. I was told to pray for her or tell someone who she listen to to open back her senses. They all said she is currently being charmed and decieved. They said she loves me but she has been put in a state of confusion currently. Her brother and sister has talked to her. They told me she is so adamant right now, and I should just calm down for her now.

Candidlady:
You slapped her

Dude even said slightly. Slightly slapped her twice!!! God please bring people like this my way! Who will slightly slap me twice! °°°°that day the man will hate/regret the day he came into existence°°°

The day a man lift his hands on a lady he loses all respect as a man. He becomes a beast


And for that so called seer that said she has been charmed.. That is falseprophet's brother!!!


Modified : men will always brag bout that thing they have done for a lady!!? Read the story you'd understand what imeant!! °°°°ihave learnt never to collect zilch from any dude.. God forbid no be me una go use shine °°°°

you connected her to a business and rented a shop for her gave you the right to SLIGHTY SLAP her

@NapoleonHill
Thanks!! Experiences could really turn people into something else.. Thanks again

Cheasystickylov:
Hello all, please all I need is your candid advice. I do not think this is the time to ask me rhetorical questions. I would have answered all those questions before the end of the epistle.
I do not sincerely if to quit my marriage or jut keep hoping that things will change in the nearest future.
I dated my wife for three years before got married in 2006. I can say without exaggeration that it has been war, except occasionally when peace will just reign for a short period of time.
Sadly I got a job in a multinational and we moved to Germany in 2014 and that just worsened everything. This made her to acquired more powers to do what ever she likes.
My wife is someone that literally fights with every single person.
During our dating, she exhibited so many of these characters. Despite all these red signs, I somehow just continued rather foolishly in the relationship hoping things will get better. This was not also helped by the pastor of our church who ensured that the relationship continued, he gave very many biblical examples including forgiving someone 7 times 77 times. I must also state that her mother was an elder in the church. So the action of the pastor is understandable.
We eventually got married, and it has been sorry tears and blood. We were able to have 3 children, and the eldest is 11 years, the youngest is 7 years.
My wife disrespects every single living thing I say, every one of them, she can insult me in public without giving a damn. I can not list all the scenario. Just to emphasize this point, her eldest brother and sisters have cautioned her many times , in my house and even when we visit them. To further emphasize, her eldest sister’s husband stop us from coming to his house because he said he can does not just bear the insults and the manner she disrespects me.
We can not have a heart to heart discussion, she is always not ready, or when we talk she just tell me to summarize, or she ignores me completely.
I have suggested counselling, however, she simply refused.
We can stay in the house for months without talking to each other, I have and still has always been the one that tries to initiate peace. Sadly most times she doesn’t even listen and walk away.
She keep male friends that I do not even have any real relationship with them, even if I try to caution her, she screams back. I have actually stopped trying to caution her, I just leave her alone with them. The latest now is a pastor who prays for her for the past 5 years, sadly the pastor and I have never had any conversation for all these years. I demanded for his number 2 years ago, she refused as usual, so I just allow her be. Of course their has been one or two case of suspected infidelity, initially when I asked she just ignored me and was even screaming. I gave her deadline of 5 days and she later cam to me to explain. Although there were still many grey areas.

The sad part is that, there is no single family member to even look into the matter
1.Her step brothers and sisters- they are not in talking terms.
2.Her mum- her mum dare not !
3.Her uncle- She is not in talking terms with any of them
4.Her Aunt-the same story, not in talking terms with them

She does not really have any close per say, and occasionally attend church online. I wish does attend a physical church, her pastor would have been the next person that might probably look into it.

Sadly she believes every one of these people including me have a problem. She feels she is right and we are all just evil people.

I am so confused and frustrated. I do not know exactly what to do.