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Joy1706:
Stoop so low to doing chores? In his house? What's wrong with u Nigerian men? The wife that does chores is beneath him? A maid or what? What kind of people raised these kind of men up?

no, the husband is beneath the wife?

senseless animal...

gassdon:
Let go

If you slap her back, it shows weakness as a man. it might lead to fight and it is good for you

If you let go, it shows strength and her concise will judge her. She will sure come back to beg you for forgiveness.

Learn not to beat a woman no matter what, it will help you in your home later.

absolute rubbish!!!

iamrealdeji:
Mr,with due respect,admit it that you're an animal for cheating on the mother of your kids. Just try to show much love to her,try to explain to her that we men are naturally polygamous,let her know that she's much better than the concubine you cheated on her with. Let her know that konji in men is just uncontrollable at times and let her know that a lot of men are he-goats,you inclusive. Ask for her forgiveness and promise never to do it again. Make sure she forgives you wholeheartedly

he asked for ur advise not insult....
why are u calling him animal?

haven't u seen men who cheat on their wives and show no remorse?
can't u see the op is remorseful?

vooyour:
the day a man lays his hands on me is the day I will cut his little willy off! under no circumstances should you let a man even slap you. If he does it once he will do it again. Please get out of that relationship before you die! !!

are u the one that will kill her?

silly girl...

Vision4God:
For peace to reign, d husband can apologise. Afterwards call his wife to order.
If still stubborn, d man should resort to pray.
Prayer works!

Understanding, wisdom and prayers is paramount in marriage.

how will he call his wife to order?

yvelchstores:
A woman who is wise shld learn how to say the three words,"I am sorry" even when she has been wronged. Then again it takes a wiser man to overlook a foolish action by his wife and apologize inorder for peace to reign.d bible tells us to ensure we hv peace, even if it means chasing after it!

stop using the bible to justify your bias and senseless opinions...

what is wise about a man who overlook foolish actions by his wife all time?

this is monumentally childish....

lesbiangirl:
That's a huge assertion one you shouldn't just conclude unless you talk to your elder bro face to face to avoid wahala. You'll be fine sweetie...life's too short to worry about money

u are not serious...

ola2nde:
@ johnson232
what can i do to that
cos i need the laundry and i dont want it close to the kitchen

u dont need to remove the laundry.
u can increase the size of that one room to make the lobby more narrow.

what is the width?

the lobby seems too wide to me.
why not create a porch at the entrance, i believe its gonna more beauty.

so na una cusam architect no dey get money again..

misspicy:
The problem is,I don't really know how to have such a conversation with a kid

shut up u liar...

of all the rooms, why was he masturbating in your room?

i believe that is what u do in your room all time, the little boy is only emulating your steps..

silly thing forming spicy...

Cutehector:
u could just imagine.. so because I caught my niece touching herself, Dat will make me come in here and tell the whole world abt it... thereby spoiling her image.

I duno hw some people try to reason things and handle matters..

don't mind her...

misspicy:
Evening nairalanders, I'm so confused as I type this,entered into my room this evening after a stressful day at work,lo and behold I found my 8 year old nephew wanking at his not so matured penis,and it was erect,immediately I shouted at him and ordered him out of my room,because I didn't know how else to react to this development.


I don't know whether to report him to his mum or talk with him about it(I don't even know what to say to him,I have no experience in this)

I need your advice please

why not give him your body, so he can experiment with it...

i believe that will put an end to the masturbation...
silly girl...

thugusher:
Hello any contributions pls

it is feasible to build it in less than 3months. it all depends on ur pocket.

phensbassey:
yea right, but that doesn't mean you as a husband should greedily collect everything from her, as a woman, she has to take care of her self physicaly and other wise, which she does with her salary...

U got a point...
Let's say she gives 90% to her husband and keep 10% for her upkeep.

That should be a fair deal...

Teespice:
you did well.

all these broke girls that see guys as their meal ticket .

you no get credit for phone. why not borrow from MTN or glo as the case may be.

or is she so broke that a hundred or two hundred recharge card is the issue.

tufiakwa for all these girls that will ge giving all these awon boys reasons to insult us.

@bold, Are u not one of them?

U Don suddenly turn Peter! Cook be never crow sef...

SexyCeline:
Such finz only happens to broke and naive gurls/ladies..

Shut up...

Better people dey talk, u sef still dey talk?
Silly girl...

YES!!!
she should give everything to her husband...

Remember the bible instructed a woman to submit herself and her salary(EVERYTHING) ...

A Woman who do not submit herself and her salary to her husband is a sinner...

It is in the Bible...

Missyetty:
Omg! This is so saddening, i pray more helps comes her way...my prayers are with you ma

How much are u contributing?

Stop praying, Your prayers are worthless.
Who your prayers Don help?

what she needs now is money....

mummyf:
May God heal her and send helpers!

Which helpers are u talking about?

What is wrong with u being an helper?

Don't tell me u can't afford 8million...

FlawlessRebirth2:
OMG...

What is OMG?

How much are u contributing?

premiere:
Take a look again

Good job madam.
Seems u are the chief site engr.
U women are not smiling...

But the foundation looks a little bit shallow...
Does not really matter, since it is a bungalow.

Hope the land is a dry one?

plappville:
It was about your last message.




Its going on fine. I got another quotation.

Ok.
God will give u the financial muscle to complete it...

Oyind17:
Yes Sir!
If men turn woman wrapper women will be submissive

Specious....

obynocute:
pls my ogas in the rum, wot is the cause of settlement and void on a floor slab, nd how can it be corrected.

Poor compaction.
U need to break the void part and refill

Ballotelle:
... pls inadequate based on a design u av ever done or based on assumption .. cause using oyenuga,, it was nominal reinforcements that is required

Are u talking about the slab or column?
If it is the column don't use less than 16mm.

Roidatom:
Hahaha

The holyghost fire you are calling on is exhausted. Why didn't you call it before the excitement?

Look at the design below, I did it.
It might calm you down ok.
Stay away from clubs if you're not strong enough

are u an architect?

Ballotelle:
for a two storey building with average soil CBR I checked d column was to be given nominal reinforcement of 4 12mm bars. but suprisingly even some engineers are saying its inadequate .. what's ur view

12mm bars is inadequate for a two storey building.
it has nothing to do with soil.

Mbkite:
I was taught back then in High school that anything that has advantage also has disadvantage.
My question is - what are the advantages of being poor?

no advantage

prettythicksme:
Guy:Explain wat u r doing with dat man old enough to b ya father in ur room u slut!
Girl:He is my uncle,i swear my dad sent him to me!

na this lie u always dey tell your boyfriend, abi?

silly girl...

divad9two5:
Thanks for your response. Its length is about 19800mm and a 11700mm wide (hope I got the unit right).

He wants to do an insitu concrete parapet instead of premould because he feels it is more durable.

Since, I am going to stagger the finishing work by several months, he is proposing the use of hard wood due to its salvage value and ability to keep workers safe even after been beaten by heavy rain.

Do you still think his bill is fair?

both parapet are good, it just depend on how it is done.

if it is a bungalow, with this your dimension, i think the woods for scaffold are too much.

divad9two5:
Greetings,
Apologies for derailing. Since I am so far away from my project site, I would really use some expert opinion on my case.

Please I would like to seek expert opinion on the bill that I just received from my builder this morning with respect to the Completion of Roofing for a building containing 3units of 3Bed room (standard) flat in PHC. The details are shown below;
Scaffolding Job:
1. Hard Wood
a. 2x3x12 (200x300) = 60,000
b. 2x4x18 (200x900) =180,000
c. 2x4x12 (50x400) = 20,000
2. Nails =20,000
3.Labour =80000

Sub-Total = 360,000

Concrete Parapet = 500,000
Roof Frames & Noggins = 600,000
Labour (Parapet/Roof Frames) = 250,000
Construction of Tank Stand Deck =200,000
Stone Coated Roofing Sheet/Labour (Metrotile) = 1,000,000

Sub-Total = 2,550,000

Grand Total = 2,910,000

Grateful, for your contribution in advance.

divaD.

what is the length and breadth of the building?

what kind of parapet does he intend to use?
i think the quote is fair...

but why is he using hardwood for scaffold, what abt bamboo?