Let me talk from my own perspective, love is never enough to curtail infidelity but the fear of God. See, it's only a blind man that will not cheat whether directly or indirectly. Women need to know we have needs that has to be met, once you're not playing your part the other is sorting himself so please be committed to your marriage.

There's no day man will not see naked woman apart from his wife; when you turn to the left to to avoid the nude view on your right, it's another, to the front and even back, by the time you bow your head, omo na replay. So what we men need to surmount this is Godliness, Joseph had to run. It's not easy. Women, please make our environment conducive please, not to intimidate you but it's very necessary. Thanks.

Maybe you didn't read it well,

1. He's plucking leafs at the backyard at 4am, inside someone else property.

2. Incest

3. He didn't enter.

4. The door is broken

5. The girl is misbehaving

6. He's on the run

Nawa oooooo. Pastor Fatoyinbo claim no reach that one before internet scatter.

helinues:
Still an allegation though

Emir Sanusi is the best.

Luckydubby7:
Dogara is not as popular in the north as people thought he was .

The way this year will end, I think I'm afraid. I'm imagining how many people are going down on this, because Mr President Buhari was labelled a tyrant when he was coming in but now he has left our judgement to ourselves, we are the one shooting ourselves, and he helps us in the completion process example Mrs Kemi Adeosun and co.....

If you're a politician in Nigeria now, there are two likely things that will kill you before this year ends either Covid-19 or corruption charges.

#stay clean, stay safe.

God have mercy.

achierosion:
everything in this nation is upside down.

Imagine, we are advocating for the end of rape and domestic violence and this is coming on air. Primary to tertiary Institutions are closed, what are they encouraging?

achierosion:
hahahaha
You don't hate that shiiit the way I hate it, I never opened any thread discussing about BBnaija

It's okay. You and I don't know what's going behind the scene but I'm sure they are working with their stakeholders and FG.

I no dey join. I go dey heaven with Jesus nau

OVA200:
Their is a reason JAMB request for WAEC, NECO or NAPTEB as the core criteria for obtaining admission; Unis are not going to give admission without any O level, they can't do their job without them so they suppose to put everything situation into consideration and communicate it to the affected candidate before just declaring a date.


Don't worry I will confront the angel with my Nigerian troops too.
Abi you no go join?
Lolz.

Lol! Your mouth will not kill you, haha!

Byke60:
Beautiful couple , congrats!!!
But na that white shoe I no understand

Haaa! He strong ooooo

Salvador1:
Ajayi Agboola vote is 657
Jegede still counting...

We are waiting.

OEPHIUS:
#Ondo PDP Governorship Primary Election

Gov. Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi-led Electoral Committee commences counting of votes...

#Ondo2020

Jamb is not WAEC, they are doing there job. This pandemic is an advantage for the youths, they said youths are lazy but I pray God bless the elders that are not self centred. Let God do the justice. God bless Nigeria.

If you go use annoyance talk to angel for heaven, he go arrange him guys make them move you go hell oooo. No vex bro. Lol!

OVA200:
Sadly JAMB is just after yearly revenue and not educational standards of Nigeria or Operational ethics of schools, how can they commence admission when majority of the candidate are still unable to write their WAEC and we are still faced with the pandemic knowing fully well that larger percentage of our lecturers are over 60 years of age.

It's just sad every sector in Nigeria will just be dishing out different policy without considering or consulting another possibly affected sector.

When I get to heaven me and the angel that assign me to Nigeria have a score to settle because I know ordinary I cannot pick Nigeria out of all the countries on earth *when life is not doing me.

Then save and move, even if na one room.

Championxxx:

No he doesn’t pay me any salary but he provide for my needs he buys me clothes , foods , airtime sometimes he give me 5k ,3k but no more than that

Seconded, I advice you find your way out immediately before you become a monster and na you go suffer ham.

mariahAngel:
What entanglement has your brother gotten himself into?
Your brother is who I pity the most in this situation.
As for you, I would say leave that place before you lose your self-respect. Although it won't be easy if you depend on your brother...
What a messy entanglement!

Lmao! Mad oooooo. Baba small small nau
Two wrongs can never make a right. Please thread with wisdom.

TheArchangel:
How old is your brother?
Oga, stand your ground in that house.
Force your brother to rent a house for you by raising serious hell and at the same time appearing meek. Sleep in that room when you come back and if the wife and her sisters talk trash, raise hell. Do not budge one beat. Keep your bags in the shop but sleep in that room to avoid them messing up your things. Take the food from that pot and raise hell while doing it. When your brother comes or is around, pretend like they are accusing you falsely.
Remember self defense, beat the sh!t out of any of the sisters that touch you first. You can plead self-defense later. Do not touch the wife but remember to use your mouth to finish her. .
Do not relent. If they can be there, you can be also. It's either your brother chase you all away or peace or resemblance of it will rain in that house.

Effective from 24th July, I presume. Lol!

nairavsdollars:
Yanma- Yanma Special Assistant. See his 5 kobo letter sef

Did anyone see 24th July and today is 17th?

Commendable, at least Igbo will not choke PMB.

I really do not know what they want the masses to enjoy, when they are dragging 20k job. God will help us all.

Nice resume.

And also to be friendly, we are not in the zoo. You will probably commend it if it was from Europe.

JidennaJason:
See what our so called security operatives have been reduced to...

"Proposing Materials"

The duty of a well-trainned security personnel is to protect lives and properties not to be used as a prop or costume for proposals.

If that movie returns to cinema 20 different times, it will sell. I've watched it like 6 times. You will laugh and fall off from the chair, besides that it's also full of lessons.

God will help me as a father, none of my children will squat.

Egbon, no scatter house naaa

Oldoinyolengai:
Rather than the frightening sight of the snake, you should be more concerned of your wife's conversation with the snake.

A combination of woman and snake has caused man's downfall, something which is recorded since the beginning of history.

Anyway, I'm not God sha.

Thanks for the extensive enlightenment. But what I'm saying is that, dating that we know is for sex things but keeping relationship with the student is different, at least in 6 months they will be planning and really it would be clean other than guest house stuffs, your fellow student will be harassing you based on that fact that her boyfriend is a lecturer. How do you justify that? Don't be surprised that your class prostitute gets the best grade and you wey dey jack till day break still dey spill, abeg let it be. It can be modified to cover workplace, that's fine. However, it's against most company policy that staff should marry each in other to avoid conflict of interest, so it doesn't align with supervisor - subordinate things. Still I appreciate your inputs.

Mayflowa:


Everywhere in the world, there is no bill addressing sexual harassment separately for university and other workplaces. There is only one bill for it. It is a supervisor-subordinate work relationship bill. The bill is known as Tile IX in many countries of the world. Our legislators needs to look into what it is about and tailor it to suite us. It is easy to X-ray university than workplaces but the dangerous effect of sexual harassment in both situation is in same dimension. My frown is on taking a part from a whole systemic corruption. They should fix sexual harassment at once, not just in university. But one know why they won't - because they too and their proxies engage in sexual harassment in workplaces. That is why the ASUU president said it is a biased bill.

To answer the point you raise - If consent is waived, a lecturer marrying a student would be a crime. How can you marry anyone without dating. lol. However, the bill is a starting point. It addresses fundamental rot in the university. I work in academe as a faculty and I know firsthand the pains it brings to student. On the flip side, many female students become less-studious knowing that can sexually influence a lecturer to gain grade. So this is a first good step putting sanity into the system.

I used the word dating because, what we know it means doesn't result to marriage but otherwise, but keeping relationship with the student is different, in less than 6 months, arrangements are going on. Dating makes gives both preferential treatment. Lecturer gives mark, student give sex only if you want to be biased about it boss.

So they can be relationship but all those guest house levels isn't it abeg.

Sheggy13:

What's unethical about a lecturer dating a student who is of age most especially if that's a student in a different department/faculty that has nothing in common with the faculty which the lecturer is in, and the feeling is mutual between them? You're in support of marriage between them and not dating. So as a man, you just see a lady you like today, you will just arrange marriage immediately the next day, no form of dating/courtship to know each other better? Does that make sense to you? Why the law is meant to have good intent, the reason why it's biased is because it doesn't provide commensurate punishment for female students that frame up/falsely accuse lecturers of sexual harassment, or you think that cannot/doesn't happen? A law should be all-inclusive.

Nawa ooo, this year 2020 mean Nigeria politicians ooooo, others we know are malaria sha.

We're advocating for an environment where our women; sisters, wives, fiancee are free. A lecturer is also like a religious teacher, are you then saying a Sunday school teacher and pastor can sleep with the church member based on consent?

As per office, let there be a strong case to pass a bill against it too, if you sponsor it, internet will help you.

Mayflowa:


Of course the bill is biased. Sexual harassment occurs in the university as well as workplaces all over the nation. To be fair, sexual harassment bill should cover all workplaces, including the university. Just as some lecturers bully student to submit to their sexual demands, bosses also bully or subtly harass their subordinate to summit to their sexual demand by creating unpalatable environment, threat of sack or promise of promotion. All these remove merit from workplaces. So bosses and supervisor should face still penalty for sexual exploitation just as professors and lecturers.

Secondly, there are loopholes in a bill. How can any law remove consent from dating and sex. There should be age of consent in any sane country. At this age, once you agree to date or have sex with anyone, it should be anyone trouble or argument for crime. The only time consent is waived is when is a subordinate- supervisor relationship in some work places. while this action is not crime, it has ethical implication because a supervisor may seems to favor or deny privilege to a subordinate under certain circumstances in their relationship. It is also create an hostile environment to other subordinate watching the relationships. That is why some company policy recommend resignation or transfer for any of the people concerned. If a student has gotten to the age of consent and want to date a lecturer who is not in his/her department or have direction supervision over, then the law should allow it because what the law seeks to protect is abuse of position or power to favor or deny previlege. It should not stop a lecturer from marrying a student that have come of age.

The question should be: What is the age of consent in Nigeria? Do we want different state to have their age of consent? Right now, the northern part of Nigeria is afraid to go into this conversion because of early child marriage which should all be termed abuse. You see why the legislation is biased?

You've points but not well presented, this is a bill on tertiary institution sexual harassment, not office which is not biased, however it was based on BBC eye report so that's it's basis. It's unethical for a lecturer to date a student, in onr way or the other, the student will be intimidate by the lecturer, marriage is different. Marrying a student wasn't debarred, if any lecturer wishes to marry a student, it's fine let them go ahead, what's the concept of dating between a lecturer and a student? That's a subtle way of sleeping with the student, which yeye consent?

Mayflowa:


Of course the bill is biased. Sexual harassment occurs in the university as well as workplaces all over the nation. To be fair, sexual harassment bill should cover all workplaces, including the university. Just as some lecturers bully student to submit to their sexual demands, bosses also bully or subtly harass their subordinate to summit to their sexual demand by creating unpalatable environment, threat of sack or promise of promotion. All these remove merit from workplaces. So bosses and supervisor should face still penalty for sexual exploitation just as professors and lecturers.

Secondly, there are loopholes in a bill. How can any law remove consent from dating and sex. There should be age of consent in any sane country. At this age, once you agree to date or have sex with anyone, it should be anyone trouble or argument for crime. The only time consent is waived is when is a subordinate- supervisor relationship in some work places. while this action is not crime, it has ethical implication because a supervisor may seems to favor or deny privilege to a subordinate under certain circumstances in their relationship. It is also create an hostile environment to other subordinate watching the relationships. That is why some company policy recommend resignation or transfer for any of the people concerned. If a student has gotten to the age of consent and want to date a lecturer who is not in his/her department or have direction supervision over, then the law should allow it because what the law seeks to protect is abuse of position or power to favor or deny previlege. It should not stop a lecturer from marrying a student that have come of age.

The question should be: What is the age of consent in Nigeria? Do we want different state to have their age of consent? Right now, the northern part of Nigeria is afraid to go into this conversion because of early child marriage which should all be termed abuse. You see why the legislation is biased?

Credible bill, I support it.

No, don't let's take this personal and sabotage the government, any appointment made on integrity should be maintained, there's no place for joke. We will even get commendations from the international bodies for this, if we can prosecute EFCC boss, then nobody is exempted.

Maize247:
Like Oshiomole like Magu. This government knows how to use and dump the noise makers

Go jooor! I'm not angry but just pained, too gruesome. Hope I didn't wrong you too? Should I, I'm also sorry sir.

Untouchable01:


Sorry sir..