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Celebrities › Google Releases The Top 10 Celebrity Searches For 2018 by Joystark(op): 8:49pm On Dec 13, 2018
Google has released her list of most searched celebrities for the year 2018 with the likes of Demi Lovato- U.S singer and Songwriter, Meghan Markle- The Duchess of Sussex and Brett Kavanaugh topping the list. At the bottom of the top 10 list, Card B managed to grab a spot closely followed by American rapper, Rick Ross.
Below is the for the Top 10 most searched celebrities in the U.S

1. Demi Lovato
2. Meghan Markle
3. Brett Kavanaugh
4. Logan Paul
5. Khloe Kardashian
6. Eminem
7. Urban Meyer
8. Ariana Grande
9. Rick Ross
10. Cardi B

Romance › Wife Rape And The Nigerian Society by Joystark(op): 5:26pm On Dec 13, 2018
What is Wife Rape?
Wife Rape is a form of sexual abuse and domestic violence, wherein sex is forced on the female spouse (the wife) by her own Husband. It may sound new to some people, due to the fact that "marriage" is involved, but make no mistakes; any sexual activity that is not mutually consented to by both parties, and forcefully carried out is "Marital Rape" (just that the most common type is wife rape, as cases of husband rape is extremely rare).

Why Do Men Rape Their Wives?
As insane as it sounds "Wife Rape", is rarely ever spontaneous, be guided though, no reason or motive can ever justify a husband raping his wife. Below are few reasons why certain men rape their wives;
1. Need to show Dominance: It is no news that most men, if not all are egoistic in nature. They like to depict their dominance (in different ways). For some men, their way is to inflict pain on others, in this care, their wives. They rape their wives to show dominance over them.
2. Deprivation: Some men believe that their wife has no right to deny them sex, whenever they demand for it. So whenever their wives refuse to give in to their demands, they feel they have the right to "take it by force."
3. Lack of communication: Lack of communication between spouses is another reason; as the husband could easily think his wife is refusing him sex intentionally and therefore opts to rape her to satisfy his urge. But when there is adequate and effective communication between the them, they will understand each other well and horrific experiences such as rape can be avoided.
4. Anger and Frustration: For some men, raping their wives is their own way of letting out their anger and frustration. It usually starts from battery, then to rape.
5. Power, control and Humiliation: Most men who rape their wives, do so because they see their wives as a property they own. Therefore, they easily conceive the idea that they can abuse, humiliate and control their wives as they please.
6. Family and Childhood factors: Just like heredity, traits can be passed in families, but this time not genetically but by merely experiencing it. If you grow up in a home where wife rape occurs often, it could make you like that too, depending on the interpretation given to it by the kid.

The Nigerian Society and Why We Do Not Believe In Wife Rape.
The Nigerian society still views marriage largely on the old principles of their forefathers. Most tribes, if not all still retain the idea that, the wife becomes the property of the husband after all marriage requirements have been carried out. So the concept of "Marital Rape" does not exist to them, because it is viewed as basic sexual intercourse by the husband to his wife, regardless of the means adopted or consent of the wife. To them, in marriage, "SEX is SEX" not rape nor Wife Rape.

Effects of Wife Rape.
1.It could cause psychological or physical damage to the victim (the wife).
2. Some husbands do feel remorseful after the act and some really do self-destruct, owing to the weight of the guilt.
3. Tension between the spouses.
4. Lack of intimacy.
5. Separation and divorce.
6. All the above mentioned effects will also affect their kids, if they have any.

What To Do, When Raped As A Wife.
Importantly, you need to understand that what you are protecting is no longer a marriage, but slavery. Below are ways by which you can seek help;
1. Start by confiding in someone you can trust.
2. Find a legal counselor who can advice you, let you know what your options are.
3. Look for Women Advisory Groups and narrate your stories to them.
4. There are many NGOs focused on women who are abused. Seek them out.
5. Go to Domestic Violence Centres and look for help.
You need not remain enslaved and violated. Take a step that will change your life forever, today!


https://mobizone.ng/peace-accord-signing-united-states-america-wades/

Crime › Wife Rape And The Nigerian Society by Joystark(op): 2:42pm On Dec 13, 2018
What is Wife Rape?
Wife Rape is a form of sexual abuse and domestic violence, wherein sex is forced on the female spouse (the wife) by her own Husband. It may sound new to some people, due to the fact that "marriage" is involved, but make no mistakes; any sexual activity that is not mutually consented to by both parties, and forcefully carried out is "Marital Rape" (just that the most common type is wife rape, as cases of husband rape is extremely rare).

Why Do Men Rape Their Wives?
As insane as it sounds "Wife Rape", is rarely ever spontaneous, be guided though, no reason or motive can ever justify a husband raping his wife. Below are few reasons why certain men rape their wives;
1. Need to show Dominance: It is no news that most men, if not all are egoistic in nature. They like to depict their dominance (in different ways). For some men, their way is to inflict pain on others, in this care, their wives. They rape their wives to show dominance over them.
2. Deprivation: Some men believe that their wife has no right to deny them sex, whenever they demand for it. So whenever their wives refuse to give in to their demands, they feel they have the right to "take it by force."
3. Lack of communication: Lack of communication between spouses is another reason; as the husband could easily think his wife is refusing him sex intentionally and therefore opts to rape her to satisfy his urge. But when there is adequate and effective communication between the them, they will understand each other well and horrific experiences such as rape can be avoided.
4. Anger and Frustration: For some men, raping their wives is their own way of letting out their anger and frustration. It usually starts from battery, then to rape.
5. Power, control and Humiliation: Most men who rape their wives, do so because they see their wives as a property they own. Therefore, they easily conceive the idea that they can abuse, humiliate and control their wives as they please.
6. Family and Childhood factors: Just like heredity, traits can be passed in families, but this time not genetically but by merely experiencing it. If you grow up in a home where wife rape occurs often, it could make you like that too, depending on the interpretation given to it by the kid.

The Nigerian Society and Why We Do Not Believe In Wife Rape.
The Nigerian society still views marriage largely on the old principles of their forefathers. Most tribes, if not all still retain the idea that, the wife becomes the property of the husband after all marriage requirements have been carried out. So the concept of "Marital Rape" does not exist to them, because it is viewed as basic sexual intercourse by the husband to his wife, regardless of the means adopted or consent of the wife. To them, in marriage, "SEX is SEX" not rape nor Wife Rape.

Effects of Wife Rape.
1.It could cause psychological or physical damage to the victim (the wife).
2. Some husbands do feel remorseful after the act and some really do self-destruct, owing to the weight of the guilt.
3. Tension between the spouses.
4. Lack of intimacy.
5. Separation and divorce.
6. All the above mentioned effects will also affect their kids, if they have any.

What To Do, When Raped As A Wife.
Importantly, you need to understand that what you are protecting is no longer a marriage, but slavery. Below are ways by which you can seek help;
1. Start by confiding in someone you can trust.
2. Find a legal counselor who can advice you, let you know what your options are.
3. Look for Women Advisory Groups and narrate your stories to them.
4. There are many NGOs focused on women who are abused. Seek them out.
5. Go to Domestic Violence Centres and look for help.
You need not remain enslaved and violated. Take a step that will change your life forever, today!





https://mobizone.ng/peace-accord-signing-united-states-america-wades/

Politics › Peace Accord Signing: The United States Of America Wades In. by Joystark(op): 11:27am On Dec 13, 2018
President Muhammadu Buhari, former Vice President Atiku Abubakar and other Presidential candidates for 2019 elections recently signed the Peace Accord for the 2019 Presidential elections; signaling the willingness to uphold a peaceful electoral process come 2019.

On the heels of this, the United States of America has released a statement, through the Public Affairs section of her Diplomatic Mission to Nigeria, congratulating the presidential candidates and parties who have successfully signed the Peace Accord for 2019 elections.
The statement in part reads, “… Your Peace Accord is a great step towards the goal shared by all Nigerians of National elections that are free, fair, transparent, credible and peaceful. Achieving your call is critical to the credibility and effectiveness of the next government, and it is essential to advance Nigeria’s unity, prosperity, justice, and security.”
The United States also went on to appreciate those who advocate for peace and are at the fore front of the democratic movement in Nigeria; as they look forward to positive results from the Peace Accord, come 2019.




https://mobizone.ng/peace-accord-signing-united-states-america-wades/

Politics › Peace Accord Signing: The United States Of America Wades In. by Joystark(op): 10:54am On Dec 13, 2018
President Muhammadu Buhari, former Vice President Atiku Abubakar and other Presidential candidates for 2019 elections recently signed the Peace Accord for the 2019 Presidential elections; signaling the willingness to uphold a peaceful electoral process come 2019.

On the heels of this, the United States of America has released a statement, through the Public Affairs section of her Diplomatic Mission to Nigeria, congratulating the presidential candidates and parties who have successfully signed the Peace Accord for 2019 elections.
The statement in part reads, “… Your Peace Accord is a great step towards the goal shared by all Nigerians of National elections that are free, fair, transparent, credible and peaceful. Achieving your call is critical to the credibility and effectiveness of the next government, and it is essential to advance Nigeria’s unity, prosperity, justice, and security.”
The United States also went on to appreciate those who advocate for peace and are at the fore front of the democratic movement in Nigeria; as they look forward to positive results from the Peace Accord, come 2019.

https://mobizone.ng/peace-accord-signing-united-states-america-wades/

Music Business › Kizz Daniel Announces His First Headline Concert In London. by Joystark(op): 5:50pm On Dec 12, 2018
The “No Do” crooner, signed under his own record label, FlyboyInc. took to Instagram to announce his first headline concert in London, “Kizz Daniel Live in Concert” scheduled for April, 28th,2019.


A post the singer shared on Instagram, in part read, “My First Headline Concert in London… come 28th of April, 2019, we shut down Indigo at the 02!!!”

The talented singer over the last few years has been known to release back-to-back hit tracks, with electrifying stage presence and his fans are already excited about “Kizz Daniel Live in Concert”.
The concert promises to be a blast and we definitely look forward to it.


https://mobizone.ng/kizz-daniel-announces-first-headline-concert-london/

Celebrities › Kizz Daniel Announces His First Headline Concert In London. by Joystark(op): 4:48pm On Dec 12, 2018
The “No Do” crooner, signed under his own record label, FlyboyInc. took to Instagram to announce his first headline concert in London, “Kizz Daniel Live in Concert” scheduled for April, 28th,2019.


A post the singer shared on Instagram, in part read, “My First Headline Concert in London… come 28th of April, 2019, we shut down Indigo at the 02!!!”

The talented singer over the last few years has been known to release back-to-back hit tracks, with electrifying stage presence and his fans are already excited about “Kizz Daniel Live in Concert”.
The concert promises to be a blast and we definitely look forward to it.



https://mobizone.ng/kizz-daniel-announces-first-headline-concert-london/

Romance › Re: My Pre - Wedding Pictures by Joystark(f): 9:07pm On Dec 09, 2018
bleskid:
.... after weed ,,, that's the result .. I read this almost 35 minute ... I did not get any single meaning iswaooo undecided.... after weed ,,, that's the result .. I read this almost 35 minute ... I did not get any single meaning iswaooo
Lol... Dang
NYSC › Re: Your NYSC Questions Answered by Joystark(f): 1:30pm On Dec 09, 2018
Roommate Needed in Sangotedo, Ajah; in an apartment with Standby Generator; 2mins walk from the road. Price 280k agency and agreement inclusive. Dm for details.
Or email drealjoycie@gmail.com

Pls rebroadcast,my future roommate may be on your contact list.
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Joystark(f): 12:50pm On Dec 09, 2018
Roommate Needed in Sangotedo, Ajah; Lagos State in a shared apartment with Standby Generator; 2mins walk from the road. Price 280k agency and agreement inclusive. Dm for details or email drealjoycie@gmail.com.

Abeg rebroadcast, my future roomy may be someone on your contact list.
Jobs/Vacancies › Any Weekend Job Openings Around Lekki-Ajah Axis? by Joystark(op): 4:11pm On Dec 05, 2018
I am a female Corp Member in search of a part time job (Preferably weekend) around Lekki-Ajah.

Any info on this would be highly appreciated.
NYSC › Re: Who Want A Roommate In Lekki? by Joystark(f): 5:51pm On Nov 20, 2018
Topstarr:
Do you want to be my roommate?
lol... depends
NYSC › Re: Who Want A Roommate In Lekki? by Joystark(f): 11:20am On Nov 16, 2018
Topstarr:
I would like to, but I don't have a PPA at the moment. Local government initially posted was eti osa 3 though.
Where in Eti-Osa 3?
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Joystark(f): 7:52pm On Oct 20, 2018
OreoPaschal:
Tuesday, from Enugu!
I plan to leave on Tuesday too from Umuahia. I just hope it won't be late.... The time frame is just too short.
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Joystark(f): 7:52pm On Oct 20, 2018
OreoPaschal:
Tuesday, from Enugu!
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Joystark(f): 7:43pm On Oct 20, 2018
OreoPaschal:
We go jam for camp. cheesy cheesy grin
When are you leaving?
NYSC › Re: NYSC 2018 Batch C Corps Members Thread by Joystark(f): 7:31pm On Oct 20, 2018
ubiplanet:
Anyone posted in Lagos from PH??
Yes o. Lagos from PH
Celebrities › Re: Dakore Egbuson Akande Celebrates 40th Birthday (Photos) by Joystark(f): 2:57pm On Oct 14, 2018
Fine Woman
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: ”We Don’t Care About Trump Calling Africa A Shithole" by Joystark(f): 12:32am On Oct 12, 2018
BabbanBura:
Joyous, se u know say i bn dey wait for the akant?
Ha, I thought you were kidding oh!
Romance › Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Joystark(f): 9:18am On Oct 11, 2018
monte231:
Gawd! You're a vision of loveliness! kiss
Awwn... Thanks
Crime › Re: #FreeBhadoosky: Hakeem Badmus Arrested On Orders Of Cornerstone College, Ondo by Joystark(f): 9:17am On Oct 11, 2018
gypsey:
Sounds like chasing wind to me, There is nothing better than a Regular paid Job. like the one i am doing Driving delivery truck Around Europe for 10 Hours per day £30 per hour. 5 days a week. and one don't need God for that.

Have you thought of becoming an Influencer? i think you will do well as one, you are very pretty.

I wouldn't wanna keep ending up in jail like this guy either. grin
Never thought about it o. I don't think that's my calling
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: ”We Don’t Care About Trump Calling Africa A Shithole" by Joystark(f): 9:16am On Oct 11, 2018
BabbanBura:
I buy all of this - how do i make the payment?
Lol... Account digits incoming.
Romance › Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Joystark(f): 1:17am On Oct 11, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Please don't ever think of quitting masturbation.
It is cheaper, safer and wiser.

You can't contract STIs through it.
You don't need to bother over heartbreaks or be scared of impregnating anyone.

I have been an ardent masturbator.
And as long as my hands are long enough to touch my preek; I don't see myself stopping anytime soon.
Father lawd!
Crime › Re: Ho Lar Sugar: Rape Victim Now A Fashion Designer - Bright Sylvanus (Photos) by Joystark(f): 8:10pm On Oct 10, 2018
Uglymugg:
You know what, you've been asking too many question, so let me ask you one.

Would you follow a bunch of questionable guys to a hotel room just hangout?
The thing is, you are lashing out. At the girl. How about the boys who did this?
If it is alright for every girl with "questionable" male friends to be well, how do I put it now... "slept with while drunk" by the guys, do you know how many sexual abuse victims we would have on our hands?


Being friends with someone, visiting someone/some guys, doesn't mean you want sex.

It's almost as if, the only reason two pple of the opposite sex should be in some place, alone, is if they intend to have sex. That's not always the case.
Crime › Re: #FreeBhadoosky: Hakeem Badmus Arrested On Orders Of Cornerstone College, Ondo by Joystark(f): 8:01pm On Oct 10, 2018
gypsey:
Really? this is the definition you saw on the net, so how do they make money as you Asserted earlier?

What kinda qualifictions do one need to become an Influencer?? grin how much money can they make?, Na you talk say dem dey make lot of money oo! tongue.


i have never heard of these people you have mentioned.
Find something you like doing, keep doing it, share on social media. God on your side, you might gain massive followership and relevance.
Then ppl will start paying you to post stuff about their brand and business.
Maraji has come out to say she makes #500k-1m per post.
Crime › Re: Ho Lar Sugar: Rape Victim Now A Fashion Designer - Bright Sylvanus (Photos) by Joystark(f): 7:57pm On Oct 10, 2018
Uglymugg:
Adequate permission like what? We should all walk around with our lawyers and have them draft up a non disclosure agreement that we both agree on and sign before having sex? I'm curious about what adequate permission means.
First of all, if the lady is drunk, which is the case in point here, ask yourself, "Would she have allowed this to happen, if she wasn't high like this"; "will I be happy if someone sleeps with someone I care about, when they are not very aware of their environment"

Then consider your relationship with the girl in question.. is she ur wife? gf? buddy? someone who just trusts you enough to hang with you?

From here on out, your conscience should lead you.
Crime › Re: Ho Lar Sugar: Rape Victim Now A Fashion Designer - Bright Sylvanus (Photos) by Joystark(f): 7:39pm On Oct 10, 2018
Uglymugg:
That girl is obviously very promiscous, you can tell from how confident she was in that room. I would even wager that's not her first time. But go ahead and act like every girl is a delicate flower whose innocence is still intact. As for circulating the video, that I agree should be a crime in on it's own, just like in Uganda or wherever the _fuck that is.
Promiscous or not, it is still her body. Its not right for anyone to do anything to someone else's body without adequate permission, more so, when they are barely aware of what's happening. Even call girls won't let you do business without an agreement.... are they delicate flowers? No.

To be safe, always get consent first, before doing anything.
Romance › Re: Man And His Fiancée Cultivate In The Gardens In Pre-wedding Photos by Joystark(f): 7:31pm On Oct 10, 2018
Dude looks so much like Ebuka.
Stunning couple mehn...
Crime › Re: Ho Lar Sugar: Rape Victim Now A Fashion Designer - Bright Sylvanus (Photos) by Joystark(f): 7:26pm On Oct 10, 2018
Uglymugg:
But she wasn't raped. I watched the video over and over.
Abeg which girl in her right frame of mind would let you film her after bleep.. while you scream about her privates the way those guys were screaming? The girl was under the influence of something and that is rape bruv. Consent is a choice made without pressure, manipulation, or without being under the influence of drugs.

In a saner clime, those guys will be sued for all they are worth. At the end, na only simcard their family sef go fit afford. Both the taping without consent o, the rape o, circulating the video ni, matter plenty.
Crime › Re: Ho Lar Sugar: Rape Victim Now A Fashion Designer - Bright Sylvanus (Photos) by Joystark(f): 7:18pm On Oct 10, 2018
Uglymugg:
But she wasn't raped. I watched the video over and over.
Her speech was slurred. Meaning she was obviously high on something. And the video... Do you think she would have given them consent to tape that, with all the useless noise they were making, had she been in her right frame of mind?
Crime › Re: Ho Lar Sugar: Rape Victim Now A Fashion Designer - Bright Sylvanus (Photos) by Joystark(f): 7:14pm On Oct 10, 2018
Uglymugg:
Just goes to show you that the life of a women is on easy mode.
You are not the one whose Instruments video is all over the net.
Crime › Re: Ho Lar Sugar: Rape Victim Now A Fashion Designer - Bright Sylvanus (Photos) by Joystark(f): 7:13pm On Oct 10, 2018
Uglymugg:
wasn't she asking for iphone X in that video? It didn't look like rape too, I don't know what passes as rape this days, what about the real rape victims? the ones that made all the right choices but was still cornered and raped?
Rape is rape. No real or fake victims. It's either you were raped or you were not.

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