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Crime › Re: #FreeBhadoosky: Hakeem Badmus Arrested On Orders Of Cornerstone College, Ondo by Joystark(f): 7:08pm On Oct 10, 2018
gypsey:
Maybe only in Nigeria, but you still haven't explained what exactly and influencer means? grin



What does an Influencer do? what does stuff like that mean?




what happened to the Good old Doctor, Engineer, Nurse, Air hostess or pilot?
Oya see the definition I saw on net

An influencer is an individual who has the power to affect purchase decisions of others because of his/her authority, knowledge, position or relationship with his/her audience. An individual who has a following in a particular niche, which they actively engage with.

eg, Toke, Williams Ochemba, Maraji... these ones are social media influencers.
Celebrities › Re: Toolz: 'Don't Allow People Rush You Into Marriage' by Joystark(f): 6:55pm On Oct 10, 2018
obytex:
Please help me ask Ooo. I tire for people
They're concerned nau
Celebrities › Re: Christian & Christopher Bello 4th Birthday: TY Bello Celebrates Her Twin Sons by Joystark(f): 6:33pm On Oct 10, 2018
Dear Lord, I want them like this when my own time comes. Just that you have to add a girl to the mix. Triplets- 2boys, 1girl... Amen
Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: ”We Don’t Care About Trump Calling Africa A Shithole" by Joystark(f): 6:25pm On Oct 10, 2018
Amakavula:
" Men must be tough to show their strength. It should be done so that men can be vulnerable, show their emotions."

Why are feminists so obsessed with making men weak, when normal women don't like weak men?
Although, I don't understand the lady and her feminism movement sometimes... I love her as a writer, because I also love to write.

So, lemme try and reply you. I don't think she wants men to be weak. I think she wants men to be raised in a way that would let them show and embrace their emotions.
You do not have to be weak to do that, in fact, you actually have to be very strong to pull that off.

I have male friends who have lost loved ones at some point in their lives and they couldn't shed a tear. You would hear stuff like, "it's very unmanly to cry". These pent up feelings pile up and graduate to something else. Some of them resort to violence as a way to blow off steam. Some men in situations like this, could also become depressed... some could take their own lives.

Again, young boys get harrased and molested on a daily. They keep it bottled up. Some grow up to become wife beaters, rapists, or just plain "women haters'. They have to be trained to understand that speaking up, sharing your feelings doesn't make you a weak man.

Finally, Men are quick to resort to violence. Especially in this country. Most men are angry ( Right now with oga bubu in power, I don't blame them); but the average Nigerian man believes violence equates to manliness. However, you can actually talk things over... have an emotionally balanced discussion with people to sort issues out.

So, It's not about bringing up weak men... it is about getting them to embrace their emotions instead of shutting them off.

With these few points of mine, I hope I have been able to convince you and not confuse you....

Ok, my hand don dey pain me, bye.
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Literature › Re: Chimamanda Adichie: ”We Don’t Care About Trump Calling Africa A Shithole" by Joystark(f): 6:24pm On Oct 10, 2018
Amakavula:
" Men must be tough to show their strength. It should be done so that men can be vulnerable, show their emotions."

Why are feminists so obsessed with making men weak, when normal women don't like weak men?
mmmmm
Crime › Re: #FreeBhadoosky: Hakeem Badmus Arrested On Orders Of Cornerstone College, Ondo by Joystark(f): 5:58pm On Oct 10, 2018
gypsey:
what da hell is an Influencer? shocked Is that supposed to be a job description or an Occupation? , huh
Both. Seems you don't know the world has gone digital. People are making legit money from stuff like that.
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels Boyfriend, Somadina Adinma, Marks Her Birthday With Hot Video by Joystark(f): 3:36pm On Oct 10, 2018
Bawizzo:
Oh lawd!!
Where are the parents of dix kids?
Lol.. Parents bawoo!

At this age, I can't even post something like this on line... my mum is on all my social media handles. You go just see comment from her like, "My friend will you take down this rubbish".... lwkmh

African parents are becoming more liberal. I kinda like it sha. At least children would grow up with a better understanding of sex and the opposite gender. Not like us who grew up believing you would get pregnant once you kiss a guy.
Christianity Etc › Re: Sharon Oyakhilome: Phillip Frimpong & I Never Had Sex Before Marriage by Joystark(f): 8:52am On Oct 10, 2018
I don't know why Nigerians doubt stuff like this.
Christianity Etc › Re: Sharon Oyakhilome: Phillip Frimpong & I Never Had Sex Before Marriage by Joystark(f): 8:50am On Oct 10, 2018
9jaAmerican:
Are you retarded? You must be if you think pastors too don't get Hot.

P. S:mod na hooorny I type o, wetin be hot?
Lol.. they censored it for u na, since you didn't have the decency to do so yourself.
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Joystark(f): 6:11pm On Oct 09, 2018
Jahwinaboy:
MissRaine69 :
1.I have heard this many times - “yes he beats you but does he not provide for his children?”
2.Pressure from family/church
3.Lack of financial independence on the part of the women.
4.Truly believing that no other men will want them ..if the man is violent and she is marked, scared and has teeth missing he will tell her that no one will want a “broken down woman like her!”
5.Shame
6.Hopelessness and Helpnesss - Depression
7.That narcissistic behaviour of the man who is abusing her. He will convcie her that she is the one that makes him angry and he does love her despite regulart beating her unconsciously.

I concur
You covered everything.
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Still Go Back To Guys Who Beat Them? by Joystark(f): 6:09pm On Oct 09, 2018
BetWinners:
If u beat a lady for the right reasons she will never leave. They love to be corrected, they love a man who's in control. That's how they are wired.

U better believe that cool
I hope you change the way you think.
Sports › Re: Ronaldo's Family Launches Campaign To Get Justice After Rape Allegation by Joystark(f): 4:01pm On Oct 09, 2018
mmmmm... If this allegation is false, then it's not fair at all. I wonder why someone would cook up something so serious against another person.
However, if he actually did it, he has to pay
Sports › Re: Ronaldo's Family Launches Campaign To Get Justice After Rape Allegation by Joystark(f): 4:00pm On Oct 09, 2018
mmmmm... If this allegation is false, then it's not fair at all. I wonder why someone would cook up something so serious against another person.
However, if he actually did it, he has to pay.
Romance › Re: Slay Queen Dances Until Her Skirt Tears, Exposing Her Bare Butt (Photos) by Joystark(f): 3:46pm On Oct 09, 2018
MufasaRebirth:
Abeg send the video clip to me on WhatsApp thanks
Ha! na wa oh!
Romance › Re: Is It Still Possible For Girls To Keep Their Virginity Till Their Wedding Night? by Joystark(f): 8:58am On Oct 09, 2018
It is very possible
Romance › Re: Lady Who Met Man On Facebook Visits Him, Refuses To Go Back Home. See Reactions by Joystark(f): 1:16am On Oct 08, 2018
Offpoint:
Because someone went to someone's house and refused to return that's why you're importing the whole of facebook to Nairaland right? do these people know how long it takes Glo line to load a single picture? why are you guys frustrating glo users life? if I were to be a mod on nairaland I'll ban you till year 6890.
Lol... why so vexed?
Celebrities › Re: D'banj And Cassper Nyovest Show Off Their Ripped Abs by Joystark(f): 5:35pm On Oct 01, 2018
Now thats what I'm talking about. Good looks and Good money.
Celebrities › Re: Tboss Takes Kemen Out On A Birthday Date by Joystark(f): 7:34pm On Sep 29, 2018
donstan18:
Low self-esteem. Why won't he be surprise?

When his lips looks like a camel toe of a hippopotamus.
Just wow
Celebrities › Re: Asa Asika Shows Off His Son, Robi by Joystark(f): 6:23pm On Sep 28, 2018
Marriage will soon become obsolete
Celebrities › Re: #AMVCA2018: Bisola Receives Her GAC SUV Car (photos) by Joystark(f): 6:17pm On Sep 28, 2018
Congrats. My own will soon happen... Amen �
Celebrities › Re: Timi Dakolo, His Wife And Their Kids All Dressed Up For Cultural Day by Joystark(f): 6:15pm On Sep 28, 2018
Cute much
Celebrities › Re: Rukky Sanda Wows In Bikini Photos by Joystark(f): 5:52pm On Sep 28, 2018
She's stunning
Education › Re: Is This The Best Handwriting Ever? (Photo) by Joystark(f): 2:23pm On Sep 28, 2018
Ridhwan1:
Nice, eligible and quite succinct; but to me this is not the best...I'm not being jelouse, pls get it right. My brother's is much more pleasant compare to this.
Show us :-
Education › Re: Is This The Best Handwriting Ever? (Photo) by Joystark(f): 2:20pm On Sep 28, 2018
DBlackCeazer:
Very beautiful! But the person forgot a basic rule.
Which is?
Education › Re: Is This The Best Handwriting Ever? (Photo) by Joystark(f): 2:18pm On Sep 28, 2018
jaxxy:
I thought most people write like thishuh
Nice bt looks abit childish
Bad Belle!
Education › Re: Is This The Best Handwriting Ever? (Photo) by Joystark(f): 2:15pm On Sep 28, 2018
This is so beautiful.
Politics › Re: The Military Has Sealed Off A Polling Unit In Orolu - Davido Tweet by Joystark(f): 10:59am On Sep 27, 2018
mmmmm
Celebrities › Re: Inside The Prison Where Bill Cosby Is Expected To Serve His Sentence by Joystark(f): 10:24am On Sep 27, 2018
Quite sad
Romance › Re: Car Dealer Exposes Slay Queen Who Is Ready To Offer Him Sex For ₦12M Naira Car by Joystark(f): 10:19am On Sep 27, 2018
Silly girl grin
Politics › Re: Osun Rerun: Police Stop Man From Voting (Video) by Joystark(f): 10:16am On Sep 27, 2018
I'm not Pro-apc, but you can't jump into conclusion based on an 11sec video
Celebrities › Re: Adesua Etomi Looks Radiant In Lovely Photos by Joystark(f): 10:12am On Sep 27, 2018
wolesmile:
My moniker is enough for you to search me out on facebook. There you will get enough "pishures" of me to satisfy your curiosity. I just hope you know what curiosity does to the cat.




And by the way, you are beautiful, I must confess.
Lol... even I had wanted to be hard on you, your last line just disarmed me. Thank you.
Celebrities › Re: "I Almost Got Married At Age 13 - Rahama Sadau (Photo) by Joystark(f): 1:34am On Sep 27, 2018
GrammarNazi1:
Why you come dey show me breast na?
shocked

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