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ThaThinka:
Hello. I was just wondering if someone with deep knowledge and conviction about Christian living could share their opinion on a matter that I am not so sure about.

I wish to know if it's by any chance it's wrong to work under false pretence. Yes, you might say I already have the answer, but I am just not 100% sure.

I am currently in need of a stable source of income, but jobs aren't forthcoming. Now, I can write content relatively well. I am considering venturing into writing and affiliate marketing in a way that will require claiming to be a resident of a Western country.

Making something significant, enough to confidently take on certain expected responsibilities or roles, could be easier that it is currently. People from non-native English-speaking countries, such as Nigeria, are often discriminated against and given low rates on marketplaces, such as Upwork and Fiverr. This is why I'm thinking of claiming another country.

I have believed all along that this is wrong. But sometimes, including right now, I wonder if this will really be sinful. This is because I'm offering a service after all.

Any 'spirit-filled' Christian here should please share their view on this. Thanks.

Good evening bro, just saw your post. Thanks for sharing your thought here. Bro, this is exactly what is making me not to venture into this online stuff yet. To get orders, one must used strong vpn to change ones location, this is a lie. As a Christian, we must not follow the multitude to do evil you know. The good news is that though your niche may be saturated on some freelancing sites, there is still some niches that you can offer as a Nigerian that you will be getting offers. Niches like video animation, graphic design, white board animation, etc. If you get training on these type of niches, you don't need to change your location.
I hope this help. God bless you.

infinitygod87:
Please I need your advice in getting the custody of my daughter...



My Story in summary
I was dating a girl for a causal relationship(no marriage commitment), we parted ways amicably when the relationship was not getting way forward..after exactly 7month,the lady and her mum shows up at my house with 7month pregnancy, I denied been responsible but after consulting with my pastor ,I claimed owning the pregnancy and told her family I will take the baby for DNA test after birth...ever since then till child birth I have been providing financial support for her,even naming ceremony.
I confirmed afterward that the baby is mine.. Now the kid will be 3years next year February but her family has been denying me access to the kid lately (I love the kid so much cos av got connected to her)..I will love if the kid could grew up within my custody or preferable having access to the kid and contributing financially for her education.
please advice me about the legal steps to take and also can a man seek for custody of his child?

Legally you can have her in your custody when she is 6 years of age. Stand to be corrected. Lawyers in the house, over to you.

Kbidi:
Are you any better now after 3.5 years? That the economy is growing at 1.5% as against the 6.5% it was before the APC govt? That dollar was 190/$, basket of tomatoes were about 5000# then compared to what it is today? That a bag of rice was 8000# then compared to what it is now...that fuel price was 87-90# then compared to 145# today...That the inflation rate has risen to 11.5% today compared to a single digit before now? That the suicide related deaths has increased to an all time high within 3.5 years of APC rule compared to almost zero level in the last 16 yrs? That unemployment figures rose to 8m within 3.5 years of APC rule compared to the 16 years ? The figures are there ..its not manufactured figure..very verifiable... So if that's the backwardness you are talking about, I love that backwardness than this stagnation...You guys are not talking about real issues and that is why you want to mortgage your next 4 years to more suffering...The corruption and criminal allegations you slam on PDP, are they not also in APC? So what you saying? Look at the manifestos , what does each of them bring to the table to make Nigeria work again is what you should be looking at...and for me, Atiku has the best.

Well said

Minjim:
What's wrong with trying

Donald Duke
Sowore
Mogbalu
Oluwole Hasim
Ezekwezili
Durotoye

Why must we try Pdp and Atiku AGAIN?

You are right, but for they have not enough political structures to win this forth coming election. Besides, Nigerians are not yet ready for the right candidate for the job. Tope Fasua is another presidential hopeful ,he is even more vast in knowledge than those you mentioned above.

Sherlock5577:
This would be a somewhat long story. I hope it inspires someone out there to achieve their dreams of achieving a better academic result, be it a first class or second class upper, ...
Just to understand the mindset I had when going into the university, I graduated from a reputable secondary school in the Middle Belt region of Nigeria, as the 10th best student in WAEC with 4A’s 4B’s and a C (Cheating was a grave sin). I was greatly involved in extracurricular activities during my 6 years there and this took a toll on my academic performance. I knew I had a greater potential with regards to achieving stellar academic feats. So this informed my choice to be more focused on my academic pursuit in the university than extra-curricular activities like sports and volunteering.
My first year (B.Sc.) at my alma mater started without any plans as to my academic prospects (i.e., finishing with a first class), despite being sure I wanted to have a great academic performance. I had just resumed at a school which was my second choice in JAMB, which I did just to fulfill all righteousness. Now reminiscing, I thank God I didn’t go through the rigours of securing admission to a Federal University. I definitely intended to do well with my academics, but I didn’t have a definite plan as to how to achieve this desire.
My first and second-semester results were out and I felt good. I assumed I was the best student. I knew I didn’t put in much work but still “topped” the class on most results. Surprisingly, while discussing with a course mate towards the end of my first year I was informed of a coursemate who was on a 4.8. This kind of “gingered” me towards covering up such a wide gap between our GPAs. To me, it sounded quite absurd, that a course mate being taught the same courses as I and who had attended the same lectures as I did could give us a great head start like this.
My department was one where achieving a first class was a wonder. From a staff source, I was made to understand that in over 40 years of the department’s history, the total number of first-class students were less than 8, one of which was 2 years ahead of me.
I took up the challenge to achieve this feat and close the wide gap between my GPA and that of our best student. I graduated about 4 years later with a CGPA of 4.59 (Thanks to ASUU strike and a suspension of academic activities due to a somewhat violent student protest). This may not sound like a great increase, but it is noteworthy to mention my GPA s in my 2nd, 3rd and 4th years were 4.54, 4.70, and 4.90 respectively (with just 1 B in a “borrowed” course during my final year).
I have gained a lot from these grades (one of the best Nigerian undergraduate scholarships, a full sponsorship to an international conference, a good job, a new perspective on life,...). I still expect more rewards in the years ahead as I plan further (Graduate studies, More Scholarships,...).
I share these practical steps as a tentative guide to those in their early university years aspiring to achieve an improvement in their class of degrees before graduation. Not necessarily just for aspiring first class students.
1. Plan and be determined
Determine the possibility of achieving such a class of degree.
What this means is first learning how to calculate your GPA by yourself. Then determine how feasible your new target is by knowing the nature of grades you need to get for the rest of your years in the university to achieve your goal. One of my motivations was that achieving this would encourage younger generations in my department to see the possibility of getting excellent grades.

2. Aim Higher
It isn’t a new thing to see a grade far different from what you expect on the notice board, I experienced this so many times.
One instance was on a course I read so well for and wrote. I could predict most of my scores before the scores were pasted, so I expected an A, or worse a B. But on this particular case, I got a C. Worse was that this C was a 50/100, meaning I could have even gotten a D if I missed another mark. Therefore, it is necessary to set higher targets to avoid too many disappointments. The fault may not be yours. I never went for a remark.
Another instance was my final year when I had just a B in all my courses for that session with the rest A’s. I was shocked when I saw my result because I didn’t anticipate it would turn out great. I had planned to ace my courses because getting an A in our research project was quite slim. Also, my CGPA for my 3rd year was 4.49 (0.01 shy of a first class and anything could happen). At least an A in other courses would make up for a B in a 6 credit load research project. So I aimed really high, gave my best and God rewarded it more than my greatest expectation. I eventually was one of the five in my set to get an A in our research projects.

3. Set your priorities right
A university is a fun-filled place filled with a lot of time-consuming activities. This fun comes at a price. You’ll have to weigh how much fun you can have that wouldn’t be detrimental to your academic success. Also, religious activities can be time-consuming. I’m not kicking against some of these activities, because I was still involved in religious, volunteering, and even farming activities while schooling. But I had to plan really well to accommodate all of this.

4. Prayer
Although this is not coming first, I think it played a significant role in my success.
I don’t pray for hours, but I always believe a short sincere prayer to God and according to His will would be answered. Someone once told me, whenever you remember an exam you’ve just written, it's best you pray for fair marking at that point. Our subconscious has a powerful way of communicating with us. I prayed often for my papers, I received favour. I never had a missing script and that's something to be really grateful for. Although, I paid due diligence too, by following the exam rules strictly and writing my matriculation number on all of my answer sheets in case a page was erroneously detached. Missing scripts could be either the fault of the student or staff or some other unfortunate event.
5. Don’t listen to Nay-Sayers
As you try to achieve your goal, you will meet a lot of people who would either encourage or discourage you. Listen to the good advice and ignore the bad. You know the possibility of an increase in your result by calculating what you have and what is feasible as shown in my first point. Some people would tell you, “Who first Class hep?”. But I tell you the truth don’t be deceived because someday you may wish you got that result which you didn’t.
There’s much more I would have written here, but I believe this is enough to inspire and tentatively guide someone to success. I am not so intelligent, I am just a hard worker. As Socrates said, “Man Know Thyself”, understand yourself and don’t follow just anyone's pattern of reading. It may not work for you. We are all different. I mostly read for an hour almost every day, revising my notes and making more notes. Understand your lecturers, learn to predict them, don’t procrastinate your reading. Procrastination would just make your reading harder.
A good character is key to success. It has saved me a lot of times. Sometimes when you see a pompous person excelling, know a fall could be on the way!!! Pride goes before a fall!!
I believe we're not always just assessed based on our academic prowess, but by our character.

A price must be paid! Nothing good comes easy!!
My colleague and I finished with a first class. Unfortunately, my colleague had a few setbacks, but still graduated top of the class (I think with a 4.73 or so). He’s currently on a fully funded international scholarship for graduate studies. I am also hopeful!
I must say this first class hasn’t been an express ticket in life but has shown me with hard work and consistency I can achieve a great thing in this life. Sometimes to whom much is given, much is expected; people expect more from me.
I give freely because I have received freely.
Pardon my typos and the quality of my writing. I am not much of a writer.
If you have further questions, kindly quote me here or mention my moniker.
I would respond as soon as I can.

Wish you all the best!!!

You nailed it bro. Congratulations

Privettoall:
You keep saying let peace reign, or I make peace with her. How can I make peace with a stony hearted person who has blocked every means to reach her except here. And you want me suffer in silence. What if the pains do not fade fast? She is the one holding the peace. She knows there are issues we can't allow go public, but she is adamant not to even talk.

Well, your case has been sorted out bro. If truly you meant what you said, pardon me. She has linked every Adam and Eve to me. If I do not rattle you, believe me, I will need to sort out your case one day before she removes those things. I do not want yours added. So, I have cleared yours. A beg, leave the show.

Please, leave the show for the two of us so I do not feel you are being used. You still do not know all the main issues which are coming out soon. And you are not aware of my pains.

This matured man has used every means to get her for 4 months, but she did not have the conscience to at least do the right thing. She has got a tactic that she will use the SSN and cards if I dear make any noise. Go read her posts, she knows exactly what the things are, but no matter how she tries to correct them herself she cannot do it well. She has 100% confidence that I cannot not come out like this. She has silenced many, but she cannot silence me. She will correct those things. As less important as those things look, they have caused me harm.

Do I need to even prove to her how they caused me so much harm? After 4 months? Can't she just say..."ok, tell me how to get it done. And after, leave me". But nope, she must advance her cause to the end.

At least for the sake of peace, she should have at least just given it a chance to address it privately when she had the opportunity, but she knew that she is at advantage if she shouts at me that I bombarded her after blocking me, and everyone will scold me. Yes, I bombarded her cos that is what she would have done, as she did that like two occassions too. When she wanted me do something, correct something, she bombarded me with every means. And the kind of person I am, I can only stay away for 24 hours because I can imagine the stress, emotion, and pressure on the person, not to talk of 4 months. Even I feel I am right, the first I will do is to comply. Then after, I will address the issue. But this lady is a master "stony hearted" person who does not give a damn.

I care about one thing, she gets those stuff removed to my satisfaction so that I can be free. Whether with her present moniker or additional monikers secretly she did, i do not care. I just need them erased permanently. I do not care if she believes who I claim to be or not. Non of my business. What I care are the things removed.

They have done me so much harm. She said that she did not believe they harm my business, so she is at peace, but she knows they were deliberate codes that she is using to stop me.

And she continously asks me to list them out publicly. If I do not, I am going to be shut down and will suffer more. She backed down yesterday cos she still has them there. And I was almost going to let it be, suffer the pain and hope it fades away. But i realised that she will not stop.

Bro, do not worry yourself. Please just leave us alone. She will not believe how I will rattle her publicly here.

Seriously, what is her problem? She had yelled at me to modify many things even those that she said she was protecting me with, and i complied. And the times I ignored her, I do not allow it pass 24 hours before I reestablish communication. Which kind of devil will know what she did, blocked all access to even try to talk it through, and be bold to defend her devilish agenda.

If she was me, I would just give max of 3 to 5 mins private. But she will not. And i even said it will take like 50 secs cos i just wanna get those stuff out fast.

I do not want any private talk anymore. I have almost finished what I am publishing soon. If all dirtiness will be displayed for me to get relieve, who cares? I know how painful and disastrous what she did. And if she says it is not disastrous what she did, what stops her from just listening to how to correct them, and do them. But she will not because she wants to really make sure her cause is done to the very last end. The way they will make sure they send people to jail when they think they are right. Mercy is not in their dictionary.

Let me deal with this one to my satisfaction. No one will teach her to reach me. But by then, all communication will be blocked.

The doses she gave me, I will repay her back. She will not escape it. It is a promise. How she hurts me, she will know very soon. And it means, I might reveal some of my banking details here, conversations, etc relating to my business and show the harm. Immediately, I do that, I will show her pepper here on nairaland. She knows it is hard to release business info publicly, but I might. Afterwards, she will understand what she really did. Very stony hearted person. That time, I will never accept "sorry, I do not know i was harming you". That is a promise.

Who has time for a lady who will send one to early grave? I want to flee. But can she not just find a way to settle before now?

Bro, if she is dear to you, I am sorry that there is no more remedy. I will dock her. Gradually, systematically, and nicely. But it will have nothing to do with death or body harm.

Like I said, the letter to be served will also land at her door step. It will by God's grace. And everything here will be packed along. And we will meet in court. As long as I can prove she is hurting me, case closed. She will pay back.

I will be back very soon. I am almost through. She does not even know that I have more about her that she did not reveal. I will be back.

I would have loved to leave this thread totally, but as the scripture says it's good when brethren dwell together in unity.

To help Mobilia out, for her to know the exact codes she has to deal with, I will want you to give her your old moniker. Maybe she can't trace the codes through this new moniker. My thought though.

Privettoall:
Mobilia,

At this junction, it is better to split all opened. You have crossed the point of no return. You have dragged me along and I will address it well.

You even linked this idiotic man with me again? When you knew the relationship between you. You have gone to harrass him privately with threats, the idiot yielded and tried to do your dirty work here like a fool. I know you well. Everyone you have issues with is in my cartel because you cannot control me. Right?

That imaginary cartel of yours and all its members will soon be mentioned. And I will make sure everyone of them talks. I will make sure they talk. You know me well. When I put a gas cylinder under and strike a match above it, they will all talk. They will. And believe me, my story will end, and you are going to have like 20 people to face and questions will roll in. When people do not know when to stop, they get served neatly. You sure do not know when to stop. You do not know when to settle inside and not outside. We will settle all outside.

When people do not know when to stop, or how not to reveal details, it is a problem. But you will go to any length to say things, or use people to advance your mission. You will reveal details. But this time, I will assist you to reveal all. One by one everything will split open. One by one.

Wait! I will be back soon. Please, no need to contact me again privately. I will duck you here on NL once and for all. No mercy for you again. I will pay your private rascality, brutality camouflaged in public show of decency and daughter of God with the measure such chameleon lifestyle deserves.

You will understand the power of words and the ability to express oneself in written words. You keep saying I praised you somewhere, well.....you will still get praises where you deserve till you get ducked. Nice tactic to box public stunts lovers to a corner. But when I am through with you, hahaha! If you like call this a dead threat or what you like. Again, I say, when I am through with you opening all, I am sure you will avoid me and my posts anywhere you see us again. I am sure when someone says settle privately, you will run for the offer without being stupid again. When I am through with you....!

I will use just 5 monikers out of the 20 for now that I have drawn the flowchat to teach you 5 lessons which I will hammer into your deaf ears. They will be your first 5 anger management classes free of charge. And then, you can continue at your end later. I promise you by the special grace of God.

And again listen. I promise you that you will remove those stupid codes. You will by force. And one promise again, you will abandon NL so as to stop your likes from bullying young men because you think you are at an advantage with your so called US citizenship status. If the US is paradise, we will soon know. I will personally make that my first mission. Again, I will make sure you think twice before issuing threats and carrying them out. Next time, you will learn to not be bossy. You will make sure that gentle tone you use in public is what you use privately.

Madam English major, kindly pull out all the dos I promised you from this post. Expect nothing less. You know me, and you know what I can do.

I think it is exactly the same same tone on your miserable voice mail. I guess you have them. Go replay them and compare them with what you have here. And I will serve you with all the threats you have issued me. To me, your threas are empty barrels talking. Let us see whose voice is more demonic. I bet yours. But seriously, I will make sure I put you where you belong. You have harrassed and bullied too many people here. Enough! And it must stop.

I will be back soon. Let me put all tactics in placed and start landing the issues on your laps one by one. When you hear of pri....you will not wait to get ....vet....not to talk of ....toall before you pick race next time.

Please, do not try to reach me privately. Do not ever try it. Just wait patiently here. I will be back. Judgement day is HERE.

You are a serial liar for saying I asked for your SSN, credit card info repeatedly. And I will split you open on that. You are definitely a crazy being. You that wanted pictures of all my credentials by all means. And you said after seeing them "how can I know they are genuine?". And then, you know you are in the US and since it is from there, sure there are ways to confirm. And you think I will be stupid to give you the password? You are definitely mad for saying I asked you repeatedly your financial info. Just wait, I have my way to expose you. What am I doing with cards of your kind? What? With that miserable salary you get and you think I will waste my time when I know perhaps you can hardly pay your house rent. I do not want to go into details. The way you think stupidly, someone can too. But I chose to stay silent and see how things unravel, but you are too quick to judge one. I have millions of reasons to doubt you, shout at you, but I chose to allow time reveal the truth. And time did.

You are the "wrongest" person to have anything to do with online and life. You are a bittered fellow.

Go look for men in your nation. Stop ridiculing men here.
Any man that falls into this one's trap is in life bondage. Men! Flee from this person. I have warned you enough. When you see anyone chatting with her, point that fellow to this thread to see the wickedness in this one. She sure accused everyone of using her to get green card. Yet, she has not accused herself of wanting to hook up with a Nigerian prince. The way you quickly started saying you look for character and not impressed with money in one of your posts to cover up. I smiled then, and ignored that lie. But who asked you that in the first instance? I was not going down that path but you have forced my hands. American men have shown her brutality numerous times. Same way used and dump ones do. When they have been thrown out, used and dumped, they start harrassing innocent African men. People like this make it very hard to want to meet people on social media. It is called social first before business. Social Media. But crazy ones like this makes it hard. Men, if you love your life, run away from this kind of person.

And to you Juli whatever you call yourself. You got what you deserve. Next time, you will not take side stupidly. The person's corner you want to stay has shamed you publicly. She does that to divert from the main issue. So, you are used and dumped. Next time, watch well before you leap. By the way, how many private chats or talks you had had before she yelled at you? Or before she accused you of using her for green card.

Mobilia, may the Lord create the path for you to meet people like the Okoye twins - Psquare as you desire. And if you go this line to discredit this statemenet here, I will make it my responsibility to expose you well. I want to limit it to just 5 monikers. And if you pull my hands, Peter and Paul will know you. And the whole Nigerian entertainment industry will know you very well. Very soon, someone will make song out of you. Go and ask about "Legbegbe" to know your fate. I bet you. I promise with the energy God has given me. Just take one more move further along this financial stuff and you will see what will happen. I have told you, learn how to stop. I decided to apologize for the sake of peace, but you have developed confidence to start talking. For now, I will limit it to those things I will surely do. But if you raise any issue on this financial topic again, I will add it to my mission and duck you neatly. And it will be far more disastrous. Just shut up and stop saying I asked you repeatedly. I pushed you off with it, and it worked well. But it was painful for you. I have given you the final warning: Make just one further comment about this financial issue, and you will meet what you do not expect. It is hard tones you understand. I know that for sure. Listen and listen attentively, make one further comment on this SSN, credit card, and I will expose all what you are. Case closed.

I curse the day I sent you PM because you sounded like an angel publicly. If I had gone through some of your posts perhaps I would not have done that. I curse that day. It was a stupid mistake. But I have gone to refill my strength to put you to a permanent static position. My battery is 100% at this point. Judgement day is HERE.

@privettoall, though have done with with this thread, but I need to put the record straight and clear your doubt.

I want you to remember that when Mobilia accused you of trying to kill her, I told her point blank that you didn't mean it. You didn't force me to say that, or did you?

When I now said that it is not a security threat to show someone ones certificate compare to SSN, you now said Mobilia was the one behind the comment.

Do you know that Mobilia linked me with you, she said I know you and that, that was the reason I'm supporting you?

Well what I can deduce from both of you is that both of you are putting me in the middle, which is not proper.
I'm just trying to make peace between both of you and nothing else. I don't know you, I just checked your moniker, it's a new one, so I don't know you.

Bottom line
If I defended you concerning your statement earlier ,  why is it a problem now to tell you where you got it wrong?

Please as a matured man, stop all this and leave this lady alone to her conscience as you rightly said and let the sleeping dog lies.

Watching your dirty linens outside here is not the best option. Try to make peace with her rather.

Note that I don't call you names as you did to me, I want to believe you are angry when you were typing then. I have forgiven you. Take care.

Mobilia:
Sir, please don't question the bolded. I do not need to lie. I have nothing to gain by lying on a Nigerian website that does not make 1 penny for me to live on.
I care about what God thinks..
The matter was settled.

P.S. The same way that you are doubting my words, should have been the same way that you acted towards what Privettoall, originally meant when he said he would show up at my doorstep...
You said that he didn't mean that he would murder me (as if you knew that for a fact)...
But that is not what I originally got from his message, hence the reason why I thought that you knew him.

Won't reply on this your thread o. Bye

Privettoall:
I will need to come hard on you because your comments have been partial but I have shown maturity in handling you. I will have to shut you up now. You are a fool if you send your credentials to anyone abroad. Did you not read where I wrote she asked extreme sensitive stuff I do not want to mention here because of my private nature? Mr whatever you call your name, do not come here to rekindle a settled matter. I have gone my way yet you came to put fire there again. Just shut up and get off. I can see some of your comments with her in other threads - trying to be her friend. And also, do not ever speak for her.

I will release this info again. And please do not ever ask me more. I had a US degree too. And she desperately wanted to get the password of the link of my page of my alma mater's website so she can verify my transcript. Please go get a life and stop saying nonsense. She asked me my financial info first too and if she pushes it forward, i will blast her open since I see that you might be working with her. Get lost and keep quiet and stop pretending you want us to settle amicably. You are biased and if you allow me to continue she will not like it.

You would have read it that she refused to give the go-ahead to open the details. Can't you think? Just shut up. I shut her down asking those stuff and definitely she quit asking me sensitive stuff.

Even she did not ask my password, you are a fool if you are Nigerian and you release your credentials like that over the internet. It is someone like you that is easily blackmailed. Infact, come post your credentials here. That is a sensitive info. More sensitive to my banking info. Do you think she will take it easy if I asked for her credentials first? What for? Are you a real fool? How old are you? Christ! I should send my credentials to a girl over the internet. Lol. If you want to know how important those documents are, go ask president Buhari and Senator Adeleke. Which schools did you attend?

I even forgot i asked her anything. It was her comments that made me remember. I said "if you want more and more, give me your SSN, card, and you will get more". It was a push off statement. Did you not read it where I wrote that? That was the case. So you believed those statements I asked again and again. Can't you see her display of dead threat? Someone who accused me of using her for rituals from nowhere. She exagerates too much to get her points out. If she will be honest, ask her who started first with stupid verifications and asking too many sensitive things. Seriously, you need to back off. Are you trying to desperately be her friend? Or are you the one she said she wanted to blast first she mentioned about?

Please keep off my posts and keep your biased statements to yourself. And stop pretending you want us to settle amicably. And do not push me to move forward what I have buried. Get lost!

Mobilia, I am going to ask you again, do you want me to move it out and open all? If you make one further move, I will duck you. I have stayed cleared off you. I am going to flee far away, run away. But if you play smart, I will not hesistate to split all opened. I know you will never back down. You always want to win. You always want to make sure your reputation is intact. If you dear use this man again and front him, I will rubbish the two of you. Just go your way and move on like you said. I am fleeing from your kind. The harm will fade away by God's grace. I will survive it.

Again, get in touch so we can get you into anger management classes. Infact, I am willing to pay for spiritual classes which will teach you - forgiveness, moving on, not deliberately hurting people, and having less stubnorn heart.

Do not push me. Let the sleeping dog lies. But if you did not send this idiot, then, you have my apology. Maybe you need to quickly disassociate yourself from this one. Maybe one of those who are giving you problems. Or I may think you send him, and before you realise it, we will go to the next level on this matter. Since I see this man is not trying to get it settled. His comments are consuming fire.

I won't reply you in your own coin.
Just let peace reign.
Bye

Privettoall:
In Nigeria, you do not ask people for their credentials. You asked repeatedly before I gave in. The way you see it disgusting and fraudulent is how it is here. In Nigeria, as soon as you lose your original copy, you cannot get another. In fact, I can release my banking info because I can easily make it zero naira or dollar if domiciliary. For you, your SSN is so valuable, and linked to your credit card. We do not really have credit system in Nigeria. Though, we have national id, but our international passport is more useful.

You kept asking my majors cos you said I am knowlegeable in many areas. So, I kept talking about my degrees. Lol. But I have not talked about it here ooooo. While you shaded me with your major in one of the posts. Lol. See, you do all these things you always accused me of. And it is not like I do not understand. When people talk, topics come out. But it seems you want to hear only what is good to your ears. Can anyone tell my major or my crdentials details here? But you have already talked about your major to shade me. Lol.

Summary: asking repeatedly for my credentials made me think you are fraudulent. So, I simply gave it back to you by asking you those things. And I did not do it repeatedly. You said it yourself....that as soon as I asked, you were pissed off. Someone like you will never wait the second time if such is asked. I even forgot I asked for them cos it was not for fraud but to prove a point and to stop you from asking me more and more. What did you not ask for? Do you expect me to start saying everything I showed you here, yet you were not satisfied? You wanted more. Lol. Imagine, check the bolded part of your last response - "alleged certificates. Lol. You did not believe even after seeing them. Chai! Doubting Thomas. I am surprised you believe in the resurection of Christ. So, you think I will allow you read them well? Did you even allow me see just the back of any of your documents? As soon as you heard SSN, credit card, you picked race. Yet, you saw mine, but not satisfied. Lol! Infact, ask the fool to DHL it to you.

See, bring your ass to Nigeria. No one will ever satisfy you online. Then, you can meet face to face and then see all. Yeah, Nigerians are more comfortable to open all when they see you. Scam is real. Let you have my credentials online when madness and stupidity are not in my lineage. My people will slap me with words. Even nairalanders will tell me I am the greatest "mor*on" on nairaland. You are damn funny? And you are saying it openly that you asked me.

If I am a fraud, you are a super fraud. Ha! You dey ask Naija man his credentials online. You be 1st class fraud ooooo.

In fact, I suppose to give you e- slap. And you have the gut to say that I cannot ask for your SSN. See, I do not need your damn SSN and useless credit card info with nothing there. I know your salary range not because I asked you, but you mentioned your profession online when someone asked you. So, leave story. For example, I do not need to ask your age. I know what to ask to get your age or close to it. Leave story madam.

When you asked them, I did not shout scam. But when you were asked, what did you do? So, you think because you can say I asked for your SSN, you can shut me up. I have even forgotten sef cos it was a push off method. Patience is good. Patience makes one live above stupidity. Patience is the key to greatness.

You keep saying i have gathered army. Lol. Is it not only the two of us here? Or did I point to you when the as*licking idiot above shaded me? Or the other idiot that was saying nonsense? Lol. See, you are your own worst enemy. If you think I.am the head of a non existing cartel, goodluck. But you know this cartel and the monikers are the main issue. Yet you.avoided it. Mobilia, should we start mentioning the monikers? Should we? Do you want to cross that line? If not, STOP! ENOUGH!

Now, we must stop. We are both wrong. No one is right. My purpose of writing initially was not to discredit you publicly, but find a way to still talk to you and correct you, but you left heroic, feeling high that you already shamed and blocked me. You do not know that James Bond always find his way around.

You will make the mistake with someone else again. Anyway, you blew it. You took me to that foreign section. It was so humiliating as you keep doing it to people. No, someone like me will not take that bullying. You think cos you are American that you can bully people with "they want to steal from me, they want my SSN, they want green card". You can use it on other, but make no mistake to try that with me again. I walk with full respect. Or do you think America is paradise? How many Americans are even well travelled? You move from state to state inside your country and you people say you have travelled. See, we hustle here. We go apply for visas. We are well travelled set of people. Respect is all over us. You cross us, we "bull crap" you. Who has time for stupidity?

How many times have you said i want to use you for rituals cos of all the nonsense you read on nairaland? Go ahead with anything you want to do. Death threat indeed! If I give you e-slap, your brain will reset.

Enough from the two of us. No one can win this public display. I am done with it. And I do not want you to feel bad about everything.

Therefore, I tender my apology for the sake of peace. I am wrong in some areas too.

I hope you want to really end this peacefully too.


Do you really want to end this peacefully?

@privettoall, showing ones credentials like school certificate or results is not a big thing here in Nigeria o. What kind of secret details does a certificate have that you are asking in return SSN, credit card number etc (if it is true that you asked for it) of Mobilia? That is too far nah.

In all, both of you should settle the matter amicably and peacefully.

Mobilia:
Part 2 (Continued)

4). Your claim: Continual conversations with folks although scammers exist on the site
Truth: It's amazing how contradictory you folks here on N.L. are
You tell me to be cautious...then when I am cautious, but are able to discern falsehood and therefore move away, then I am deemed "proud" and "unintelligent".

I kept conversing with folks here cause I thought you people had some decency...that there were some glimpses of "light" in a huge storm.
If I know that a person is a scammer, I would not be conversing with them.
But I don't have a full-proof method. It is when folks start asking for questionable things like money, buying items, coming to the U.S. etc, then that is when my antennae go up and I slowly move away.
I'm not speaking about all the guys I have encountered on here...just some.

It was your own N.L. guys who told me to be very cautious....and as I stayed longer on this site, I did just that.
I don't ask you to search other monikers and investigate anything...
Never have and never will
The "white" girl, "black" girl (which you mentioned one time) and the other "girl" that I allegedly spoke to codedly in order to exonerate myself were all on a joint thread.
You obviously hung out there as a guest to see what was going on.
Yep I had a disagreement with one....which was later settled privately.
So your point is what exactly?
You went on a thread and spoke "codedly" and used the term "cartel"....
I knew you were speaking about me..so I privately handled the matter.
You were free to do the same.
Also, I didn't ask you to investigate even 1 moniker...and you know that.
Yes I thought you were that particular intelligent moniker (which now I know you are not), but it was a compliment to you.
You and I both know that folks around here have several monikers....for who knows whatever reason.
I am extremely cautious while trying to still be social.

I honestly still am not convinced on that issue...but I'm wondering how that connects to me destroying your "business"?

I was honest enough to admit that on my Christian journey, I still have struggles. I've written in numerous times in my posts.
I dare say that I have more than 1 struggle.
Yes...anger (which Nigerians seem to have a monopoly on just based on what I have read daily for practically 2 years... and which is 50 percent of my blood) is a problem when I feel mistreated.
It wasn't an attempt to gain sympathy. It was a desire to be honest about the "work" that God has to do in me...so I can ultimately be an overcomer.
It's not about how much scriptural knowledge one knows, it's ultimately about allowing God to change His children into perfect vessels...fit for eternity with Him and to spread that truth to others.
Any true and sincere Christian would say the same.
It is only here (on a faceless forum) especially in the Religion section, where people pretend to be anything other than who they really are....that folks can claim "perfection".
I strive for perfection and to overcome character flaws in my life...and I'm not there yet.
..but will get there through Christ one day.
What people see with me is real life Ngozi.
I don't pretend to be what others may want me to be.
I make mistakes...and try as much as possible to correct them.
If you are willing to help me work on my issue through paying via wire transfer for some monthly "anger management" classes, I would be more than willing to participate.

You sir have some character flaws too (and I privately pointed out some and also ways to help change those habits)...it's just that you choose to present a different person to folks on here..as 99 percent of the folks here do.
Notice that I never attacked your character. I didn't malign you nor try to gather folks against you.

In fact, every single person here on N.L. has one or more character flaws/struggles.
I will not be ashamed to say that I am a "work in progress".
Yes...we both made phone calls to each other and didn't act as appropriately as we should have sometimes...but that is wrong to use someone's faults to malign them.
You really should apologize to God for pretending to be praying from 12:00 am-6 am...in order to avoid talking to me.
You could've done something so much simpler.
What you did is portray yourself as a Christian, when you in reality are not. That is a false identity...which is the bigger issue.


Privettoall,
It was you sir who brought all of this situation to the forefront unfortunately.
I had cut-off contact with you...but had come to peace with you.
I had not in the three months of no-contact with you...disparaged you or tried to damage your business.
I wish I could say that I thought about you like that, but I didn't.
This thread here (as I stated earlier) was a result of (2) situations....one of which dealt with you.
Yes I originally personalized the post...with no names.
Then I changed to a general nature.
I was extremely hurt and decided to write about it. At first I wasn't going to do it and although I had stopped conversing with you, it was your continual calling of my cell (until I finally allowed my voicemail to fill up so I couldn't hear your terrifying voice) that I decided to create this thread.
What's interesting is the one guy (on thus thread) wrote something and I thought he was trying to start mess....but he never interpreted that as being about particular folks. He looked at it from a spiritual perspective...which was the ultimate message.

I'm wondering if you just sit down all day long scouring through my posts (like a research paper) looking for something to try and "drag" me about.


What's interesting to me is that a few weeks back as you were praising me...why didn't you bring up the issue then?
Why not accuse me of destroying your business instead of "praising" me?

Honestly, it's hard not to hold permanent unforgiveness towards you for this...but (and let me refer back to my Christianity),
I have an obligation to my Lord and Savior to make amends as best as possible....and to forgive regardless of whether it is asked of me.
I will one day (and quickly enough) forgive you.
I must because it is a command.
I hope that you will forgive me (for how all of this went down as well) after all is said and done.

I am doing this publicly because you chose to OVERTLY malign, slander, accuse, insult and degrade my character in front of an audience.
I am not running nor am I hiding. I am here. So please deal with it.
This is the main issue: your accusations against me.
You said that I hurt you badly...so please tell me what exactly I did so it can be rectified.
But maliciously attacking my character (in order to build up a support network) instead of handling the matter in a mature way...was what you have done.

So it's only fair to post publicly the damaging info that destroyed your business..
You keep saying I "modified" something.
What I am saying to you is that you need to post the info.
You said I still have stuff written, so please I beg you put it forth and let's handle this in a humane and civil manner.
On my mother's grave, I don't even know exactly "what" your business is?
I asked you about that industry because it seemed as if you had knowledge based on what was written.
As far as your exact hustle, that was very vague on your thread.
I really didn't care what your exact hustle was.
But let us not speak "codedly" now that you have decided that you want to protect your "image and reputation".

What you have displayed from a non-religious perspective is a narcissistic/sociopathic behavior.
From a spiritual standpoint..it is demon possession..not saying you are a demon but you displayed demonic behavior.

You owe a whole lot of an apology to me...but never have I asked or forced you for one

Julivas, just so you know, I don't take death/bodily harm threats lightly.
It appears as though you may know him....and exactly what he meant, but that is 100 percent NOT something to joke with.
A threat is a threat..and I understood what he meant very clearly.
Due to all of the info that you, Privettoall, asked me and having my phone number, now my family is being harassed.
Just by having my phone number...and getting more info about me through it...they are now in danger.
You told me you have folks in the U.S.(so when a man threatens my life) and has the means to do it, then there becomes a serious problem and I have to act accordingly under the law.
I would like for you to also deal with your threat against me. I do not want me or my family to be put in harm's way.
Thank you

P.S. I know you are gonna have all guns drawn...but I guess I'll have to just accept that.

@Mobilia, how dare you link me with privettoall? Is it because I'm trying to explain his choice of words to you? I only come in contact with him through you via your thread. So please don't rope me up in this issue. I'm an easy going person o.

Ezi1993:
just tired of the world.

Why nah? When there is life , there is hope o. Don't be tired of the world biko

[quote author=Ezi1993 post=73528501]Am depressed..pls somebody help!!![/quality
Hope you are getting over it?

dominique:
Back in the top 4 baby! We can only go higher

Yes o.....

Hmmm, long conversations between the two main actors here.

Firstly, I applauded Mobilia for coming forth to respond to the series of allegations against her.

@privettoall, I will like you to say here where Mobilia has caused damage to your reputation on nairaland, so that she can do the needful, because I can testify to the fact that she is quick to apologise whenever she acknowledged she has wronged someone publicly here on nairaland. So point it out to her in order for her to do the damage control.

@Mobilia, don't be scared of his choice of words, he can't murder you, I don't believe that that is what he meant, so relax your mind and be calm.

In all, both of should settle here peacefully as Christians because of eternity and move on.

God bless you and do enjoy your day.

Mobilia:
Isaiah 53:7 (KJV)
"He was oppressed, and he was afflicted,
yet he opened NOT his mouth: he is brought as a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so he opened NOT his mouth."

Proverbs 6:16-18 (KJV)
16 "These six things doth the Lord hate: yea, seven are an abomination unto him:"
17 "A proud look, a lying tongue, and hands that shed innocent blood..."
18 "A heart that deviseth wicked imaginations, feet that be swift in running to mischief."

Isaiah 54:17 (KJV)
"No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper; and every tongue that shall rise against thee in judgment, thou shalt condemn.
This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord and their righteousness is of me, says the Lord."

Nice quotes
I hope both of you can let this issue be over now.
Thanks

Privettoall:
My first impulse wants to pour my heart out, but I have been restraining myself. She sounded like a wonderful person, and I do not still have anything against her. I have used every method I know to make her see reasons why she has to calm down and listen. Even till now, I know she has been messed up really. But her approach is so faulty. Yet, she does some things in ways that I cannot explain. The next thing is that she is holy, and God is looking at us.

Well, I am still opened to resolve everything privately. And as soon as we both find a way to correct certain things (which are very simple things to do), I am the one who will flee.

There are scammers, but she needs to know the right approach to handle them. If you can read her past posts, there are signals of what I am saying. Like a long break in communicating some people (meaning she gave such false emails or numbers and deleted them, but she expects others to give her real contacts. And will even ask for addition numbers since she is aware most carry more than one phone. And any slight error, she has concluded the person is trying to scam her. Mainwhile she has learned terrible methods from scammers or maybe one herself. When one gives her evidence of some of her pranks, she wants to know the method one used. Why? To know how to cover her tracks? But I have told her, the best way is to be neutral and keep her identity to herself instead of writing everywhere she is american bla bla bla. Why will boys not try to test and use her. She knows what she is doing). She met me who has one number and she is skeptical till date how possible to have just one number in Nigeria), and many other things. So, I am beginning to think she may be involved in scamming people herself. But I am yet to confirm. What I cannot confirm, I cannot say.

But really, if you talk to this lady, she is a wonderful person to have conversation with cos she is vast in many areas, and very intelligent.

Her stubborness has no part 2 as her part 1 is unending. Lol. It is after she sees the negative consequence she stops her method. She will say this is slander. Well, I have deliberately hit her with posts but in non confronting ways which I know went down well, and pained her. She understands who she is dealing with.

She knows I am a private person. I run away from public confrontation. She is aware. In fact, she has threatened many times to use public approach in some issues. And I have vowed never to bring anyone down on forums like this (she knows this). She understands my skill of usings words. I am not new to her. She has asked me to teach her some things, but I deliberately tested her. Since I know she is not matured enough to handle such, I ignored teaching her. She is not aware why I refused to, and till date she is angry with me for not teaching her.

A friendship which is based on thorough researching the genuity of others will crash fast. Especially, when direct confrontation and threats is the method used. No one is saying one should not carry out any research, but when it is done in awkward way, it is terrible. When done with assumptions, it destroys relationships. It is why this kind of person should quit using such means permanently since she is unskillful in using them

Mind you, if any comes out to make comment she does not like, she says it was arranged. Even she can say I arranged for you to keep the conversation going on here. Lol. Lwt me tell you another strange thing. She sees someone online at the same time I am, and she starts looking for similarities with us. And I delieberately teated her with some things along that issue, and her reaction was just terrible as expected. So, i am not interested in any friendship with such person anymore..

Yes, I have hit her with words cos it seems that is the language one needs to use to make her listen when she is angry.

I am not trying to be her friend again as she portrayed in one of her responses, but let her just correct the nasty things she did. It can be done privately, but she made herself unreachable. The ball is in her court. Who wants to be a friend of a high tempered person who has unconsciously made one become harsh during conversations? I have no interest in such poisonous friendship anymore.

I am still willing to solve everything privately and will wait for her to do the right thing. She knows how to reach me, even with one of her numerous numbers or multiple email addresses. My digits are still unchanged unlike hers. Lol

Thanks!

Well composed bro.
What I can deduce so far between both of you is that there is difference in culture and setting, reason why she can understand the reason why one can have more than one sim in Nigeria. Also, she might have encountered some scammers on this forum which may be the reason for being skeptical sometimes.
However, having said that, you are the man here, please let the matter be settled amicably between both of you.
Thanks.

Privettoall:
Please, kindly not give my contact to anyone again if you did (not accusing you, but just saying they are strange calls). Since I decided to treat this issue, I have received some calls. Please, no matter what happened, I do not share contacts. I am not invisible. I am 100% sure all your numbers are presently not working as you are ready to disappear or make yourself not reachable. How can you change your emails about 5 times in just 2 months. That baffles me till date. And how you register telephone numbers with different names, I do not get it. Well, these are the reasons I became so suspicious of you. Genuine people do not change numbers anyhow. You deliberately register fake numbers (even in the US). How you change numbers easily like a scammer is an issue I still do not understand well, yet you sound like a clean person. At the end of the day, if you not who you say you are; honestly, I am going to really raise my cap for you.

You know what you are doing. My opinion is that you have a motive which is not good.

My advice to everyone is to stay clear of this person. There is a sort of deep bitterness, a strong anger, volatile character operating. All refurblished into a well packaged decent religious person.

I will never be a friend again. Never and never. You have been blacklisted from my life. I do not work with a bittered person. All numbers calling are already blocked.

I am a patient person. It may take me few days to compile all I want to say. So, you have enough time to embarass me with the receipts you talked about. I may not open another thread, and just shoot on with this thread of yours at the right time.

Both of you are matured nah, please resolve this amicably between yourselves privately. Thanks.

InansBobo:
Bishop David Oyedepo as well as Pastor Adeboye whom the host hold in high esteem as his fathers at different points visited the site

Nice one. The Church is marching on.....

LovingLife28:
Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We started off well, in -love as you usually do and have shared some wonderful experiences. We're both Christians and I'd never thought of asking what he believed in exactly, I just assumed he was a 'normal' Christians. I even invited him to my church which he attended a few times.

Fast forward to 9 months down the line, I asked him about his church and he said 'you might find it strange, you might think I'm an extremist. So did digged a bit further and asked him what he meant He said 'well the women wear trousers and they don't wear make-up. Now at this point, I was thinking, well I do all these things and you why is he with me if I still do these things? And why allow me to fall deeply in love if I didn't really meet the 'criteria' A few months later, I pressed to attend his church.

So it turns out he is part of The Message church, and their prophet is 'William Branham', they have very strict rules over the women in the church but I don't see anything that the men have to give up per se. What disturbed me the most is that the teachings were mainly cantered around 'Brother Branham' and what he said and what he prophesied etc.

I found this experience very strange and alarming, why wouldn't they just preach straight from the Bible and that be it? They even have a Christian and non-Christian sboed asked where in the bible it said this and he said there isn't.

BUT, apparently Brother Branham' had a dream where God showed him hell and the devil was wearing very high heeled shoes and that's why it's not allowed. I had never heard of this church before meeting him, they all live in fear, even I started to live in fear and have paranoia about hell etc, it was mentally tormenting for me. We had some arguments around it, almost to the point of breaking up.

I think he thinks I'll 'convert' deep down, but the way I'm seeing it I can't. From my perspective, I'd be fine with him going to his church and me attending mine, but if we're thinking long term that would be tricky and probably not work and he would not be happy with it.

I am torn because I really love him, he is my first boyfriend and we've shared a lot of memories together. I don't know what to do. I don't know if he is part of a cult or whether that is indeed the truth! How would I not wear any make-up on my wedding day? What if my kids want to take part in sports at school, do I tell them they have to wear dresses to run or in the gym? I never thought this would be the thing that would break us apart, I am torn and trying so hard to mentally switch off, but I don't know what to do.

We both love each other and since the arguments we've just not discussed the topic anymore, but I know it's only a matter of time. l'm scared of starting again, looking for someone all over again, What do I do? What would you do?

Help him by preaching the true gospel to him. I will admonish you to give the relationship a break and let him know what you are feeling about the whole thing.

doczero:
Mobilia. You are very intelligent. Come to think that you are in the US and talking like this. You must be a rare breed. We have not finished this matter as I am rushing somewhere. I think submission encompasses love and more.

Mobilia, not just a rare breed , but a lovely and fun person to be with.

Mobilia:
Have you ever regretted anything?
Perhaps a food choice, a wrong clothing choice, a word spoken, a word NOT spoken, a wrong turn etc.
Even stuff such as giving certain people something as delicate as email address and/or phone number too soon.
Trusting too soon and revealing too much about yourself after being asked.

Maybe you emptied yourself (innocently) and too soon only to then be slandered in multiple situations.
Perhaps you have been "baited and baited" numerous times for personal financial information such as bank account info, social security number, debit card number etc.
and preyed upon with malicious and nefarious intent from folks.

But still acknowledged the very folks because of your nature.
Being oneself may have come with a heavy price.

Even God (our Creator) had a moment where He had a regret.
Genesis 6:6 (KJV)
"And it repented the Lord that He had made man on the Earth, and it grieved Him at His heart."
But even if you read the second part of this verse, it shows the compassion of God.
He was ultimately saddened and broken in heart
that His creation had gone so astray.
But you know what?
Although God had that moment, He still fulfilled
His purpose for mankind.
He still ultimately died for mankind (the same ones that He at one time repented for creating),
so that we could one day (if we choose) reunite with Him for eternity.

So although some unfortunate and terrible situations
happened in Jesus' life at times, all in the end turned
out for the ultimate good.
So, in light of Christ' life and examples, perhaps just perhaps, those "fumbles and stumbles" have purposes in your life too.

Let us never forget that "point" in this journey! Be
encouraged.
Romans 8:38 (KJV)
"All we know that all things work together
for the good to them that love God, to them
who are the called according to His purpose."

Sorry about what you might gone through sis. Trust in God and all will be well.

Mobilia:
This is nice. Making fresh orange juice the "old-fashioned" way. This is definitely "grass roots" style.
I was expecting some kind of juice machine...

Nice one sis. Longest time. How are you doing?

11Ebiscoo:
Ahead of the 2019 general elections, the Sultan of Sokoto, His Eminence, Alhaji Sa’ad Abubakar III, has called on politicians to stop using religion and ethnicity as a pretext to perpetrate evil.

According to the royal father, Nigerians should vote for people due to their good track records, and not their faith, adding that it is the only sure way the country can move forward.

Speaking at a programme organised by the International Centre for Interfaith Peace and Harmony (ICIPH) for Muslims/Christians Leaders, tagged: “Working towards a credible, free, fair and peaceful elections in Nigeria in 2019,” the Sultan, who is the co-chairman of the organisation alongside Rev Benebe Fubara Fubara- Manuel, said politicians must stop manipulating their followers with religion and ethnicity.

Sultan said if Nigeria must move forward, the people must not consider faith as the basis for deciding who to vote for in the 2019 general elections.

“Politicians must stop hiding under religion and ethnicity. Nigerians must vote for track records and not faith,” he said.

According to him, there is no fight between Christianity and Islam; therefore, adherents must not reflect such in their choices during the 2019 general elections.

Represented by the Etsu Nupe, His Royal Highness, Alhaji Yahaya Abubakar, Sultan Abubakar said religious leaders must join hands in preaching against violence before, during and after the elections in order to enhance peaceful coexistence.

Sultan who warned that the 2019 general elections should not be a basis for fighting between adherents of Islam and Christianity, calling on religious leaders in the country to preach peace.

The traditional ruler noted that there might be occasional misunderstanding between Muslims and Christians, but adherents of Christianity and Islam should not fight because of their faiths.

“We must speak the truth. Everything is not okay in Nigeria. Let’s stop hiding under religion and ethnicity. Christianity and Islam are not fighting.

“But maybe there is disagreement between Muslims and Christians, we must try and fish out extremist in our midst. Though, you cannot completely fish out the bad eggs from the society but we must continue to do our part in order to ensure a peaceful country,” Sultan said.

According to the religious leader, “No society is made up of 100 percent saints. We have our problems and challenges. But we should collectively try and overcome them. As leaders, we must try and work for peace. No problem in this world defies solution unless we are not honest. If not, we will overcome the problems.”

The monarch urged religious leaders to tell their followers that despite the challenges, both adherents belong to one God Almighty but choose to worship Him in different ways.

On the killing of innocent people in the name of religion, the Sultan said such people are misguided.

“Some people have wrong notion about Jihad. You cannot kill people pretending to be fighting for God. You are simply deceiving yourself. Jihad does not entail that. God did not create you to fight for Him,” he said.

The Sultan further advised politicians to abide by the rules of the game by carrying out issues-based campaigns.

On his part, the president, Christian Council of Nigeria (CCN), and co-chairman of the group, Most Rev Fubara Fabura-Manuel, called for prayers as the country approaches the 2019 general elections.

“Let us keep praying for peaceful coexistence, unity, free, fair and credible elections in our country,” Fubara said, noting that people have suffered in one form of crisis or the other and are now living in hardship that seems to have no end.

“Let us pray for the grace to see every human being as a child of God, regardless of race, language or culture. Let us pray to the Lord for the strength to teach our children how to resolve differences non-violently and respectfully, and the courage to model it in our own behaviour,” Fubara said.

http://www.mcebiscoo.com/2018/11/stop-hiding-under-religion-ethnicity.html

Sir, MURIC should be included, not only the politicians.

Seahawk:
You’re invited

Hmmm, thanks.

Seahawk:
Some oven grilled chicken to serve with rice.
There can’t be thanksgiving without rice and chicken/turkey

But I’m not making turkey this year.

And I never make mashed potatoes and all those white people stuff

This is so enticing, hope I'm invited

atdeejay:
You will see as many Christians will pass me by because of this statement which is the wholesome truth of what is actually happening to me now....

I need a job.


Be your brothers keeper.

Sorry bro.
Have you tried the online stuff?

Is it true that he had carnal knowledge of a teenager? If it's true, he doesn't worth to be emulated.

UzoamakaAmaka:
Thank you a lot
I'm launching the second quiz
You are invited to judge the contest.

#SpreadLove #MoreLove

Good. Mention me please when you start

marwanafrica:
One LOVE brotherly. Gracia.

Congratulations..... Continue to spread the genuine love