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Unfortunately I dont take any of them seriously...esp that guy that wishes he could rap...

ATIKULATED!!!

I feel most comments here are from guys and we are not seeing it from her ( a young lady's) perspective. We would all agree that these days, many guys are only out to waste a girl's time which they don't have, psychologically.
She may not be convinced that you would end up marrying her after so much wait, and for her to be willing to settle down at her age is commendable, her contemporaries would rather be jumping from a relationship to another.
About finances, it's very important to be financially sustainable before marriage, however money or wealth is not determined by being single or married - you can be married and still hustle. Plan your family- you can marry and have kids later, after all that's your fear - that you are not ready to bring up kids, but you want to have the sex without commitment- " after all girls full town".
On her approach, I think she didn't address the matter well, especially with the threats of other guys asking her for marriage but her goal of marrying at a certain age is intact for her reasons.
Finally, if you really love her, talk with her, and give her assurance, a timeline. You cannot make all your money before you get married and you may still lose all your money after marriage, otherwise let her go.
The only requirement for marriage is, the right partner, a mutual plan for the future and commitment. My opinion.

Just imagine ( though not possible) Tinubu decamps to PDP... there won't be need for any presidential election.

# mission 2019, target Aso rock, Alpha team led by Atiku now deploying... Bravo team led by wike providing air support...mission is go...

dozofavour:
How does it relate?

cos osjsvdhsusvsvsjajabsvshvsvsjajaavsxuaha xnjasvATIKULATE!!!

Atiku should pick iweala or Peter obi as vp, and try to get obj to support him ( that would increase his chances in the SW) and he would be president. I naturally don't like Atiku cos I think he is desperate but right now, he is the only option that has a chance.

What if tinubu decides to join PDP? Just saying

I think we are missing something here, it's not all about the money, it's about the amount vis a viz her total savings. If she had like 2 or 3m it's cool, but that's almost all she has. What if he intends to pay but his business still fails, it would further affect and likely kill her business too, and from what she said, it must have been very difficult to save such amount. It's a dicey situation, only her can decide, if she must borrow him it should be all cos anything less may not be useful for what he want to do and it may easily waste. Just follow your heart cos love is one thing and there is poverty too.

This is what happens when you find a way to get pregnant for a celeb, even when it's clear he doesn't love you... But I expect wizkid to do better as a father...But wait he is just a kid as well...

All these na stunts, I thought I saw a post by Davido saying he cancelled the US show cos of the hurricane. So technically baba wan use 1 stone kill 2 birds. Ifa hear say he serve, who nysc eep

They said "first thing" not a list of things you check.
For me first thing I check is her smile. Is her smile cute? That would lead us to other things.

dominique:
Not everybody soak the vegetable in hot water before cooking. My dad believes the hot water kills mos of the nutrients. So when cooking vegetables for him, we just rinse the veggies with salt and add to the sauce.

yes, vegetables contain water - soluble minerals that are lost when washed it hot water, you would be left with chaf, and it's best to wash your vegetables before cutting, to ensure cleaner, sand free vegetables. Team #bachelorchef

Holuwahyomzzy:
Love is sweet oo

but when money enter, love is sweeter

That animal is known to accommodate many deadly diseases, be careful how you handle it.

Ioannes:
If I were Osinbajo I'd quickly relieve all the members of Buhari's kitchen cabinet aka cabal of their duties and have them arrested too. Have them seriously framed for treasonable felony like coup plotting and make sure the press and the entire world gets to know.

This suggestion it self, though may sound sensible, is a treasonable offense, so be ready to face the law.

messi was my favourite... i think CR7 is the main man after all...

Kalashnikov102:
Every corper wan make sure say their service year dey memorable

And they did, didn't they? Only that it's thier loved ones that would remember. Sad

FortifiedCity:
God help me, I need to own this vehicle before 40

which community blood you wan use cos this one pass one person blood money...lol

It depends on a lot of factors.
2 years ago I was your age, I stayed with my aunty in Abuja. I remember coming here also for advice. I had just finished my service and got a job of 55k.
It wasn't easy but I had to move on. It was difficult to save cos I get free stuff and my aunt would talk to me like a child.
I had to man up. I rented a self con and bought a mattress and that was all I had with 10k in my account, fast forward till date, I Don buy TV, AC, gen, and other things I need as a young man, and have some savings too and still hustling, thinking better, doing my post graduate program.
If your motive of staying alone is to leave your comfort zone and become a man of your own, it's a good one, if for any reason you have to go back to your parents for help, its not bad, your parents are always your parents.
But if your desire is to be free to stay out late and have multiple sexual partners, my brother you go run down.
If I were you, I would use the 30k to improve my self, learn skills, save and start a small business.

Is this still ambulance or "kekebulance" ? They can as well certify the patient dead... But it's better to have more of these than have few that are not responsive or have no good road to pass...

6. Knockout!!! (Big strong fufu) that can withstand hunger for days. Ask yabatech students.

What of people that know of the relationship and still deliberately " pursue, overtake and recover"? See wetin go be , " go be".

Ayam not understanding... which raining days? Is it not raining already? No be country way him citizen dey alright dey save? If they save which one Dem go share...

No one is even talking about credibility of such land. You can buy land at good location today then tommorow government would come or legal issues. One should be careful buying land though.

My 2022 goal; watch world cup live in Qatar... so help me God.

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Still not cool enough.....
No amount of money is worth a life....

but how will they replenish supplies they have used for a dying patient who didn't pay, in other to save life of a future patient? Just thinking. Bad people have made others incredible.

What is Parri ? If this is the real handle of EFCC, Then this country should be scrapped. Very unprofessional, it shows conspiracy in the election of Ekiti. It's all about pay back. And to think this is coming barely hours after the result was announced. Does EFCC even work on Sundays. Pathetic !!!

I see fayose mapping out an exit strategy and fleeing from the country while his immunity last. Mark my word this day.