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hotmomma:
juzzybabe, am no doc but my 2cent advise is for you to CALM DOWN. u wont be induced but even if u are to be, its not a death sentence, its d best for u n ur beautiful/handsome baby. so dearie chill and pray. God will do it in a way dat will marvel you.

thanks it just my person very scary type. Amen to your prayers am believing in God.

lovinam:
Milo mama! How far? Thank God for a safe trip. Hugs to the twins

Keep taking your long walks in the evening. Labour will start, but if the doc is concerned about something pls kindly follow her advice. I was booked to be induced and labour started 4:30am same day. So things can change before tues. Keep calm! I pray you have a painless delivery

Amen. Ok dear,realy I have not been walking regularly but as of tomorrow I wanna start walking morning and evening. Hope that not too much?

Adesiji77:
Recently, jute leaf (ewedu) has been raved about for a lot of things – as a stellar component in healthy eating, as Cleopatra’s beauty secret, as a potent anti-wrinkle and as a super food which is being incorporated into health products.

In Japan, dried jute leaves are even made into pills which women take as beauty supplements.

In African and Middle Eastern countries where healthy eating is the norm, jute leaves are the main ingredients in mucilaginous and very slimy potherb called molokhiya.

Jute leaves, also known as Saluyot leaves in the western part of Nigeria, are used in the preparation of ewedu soup. Once grinded, it’s got a slimy consistency just like okra.

It’s a good source of fibre, low in calories but high in vitamins. In herbal medicine, it is used to control or prevent dysentery, worm infestation and constipation.

In Ayurveda (an ancient Hindu system of healing), jute leaves are used for pain, piles, and tumours.

Elsewhere, the leaves are used for cystitis, dysuria, fever, and gonorrhoea. The cold infusion is said to restore the appetite and strength.

Jute leaves pack the antioxidant trio of Vitamins A, C and E which fend off free radicals, thereby protecting from cancer and other degenerative diseases. The ACE vitamins also happen to be the most beautifying vitamins, increasing collagen production to keep the skin firm and young-looking

http://www.punchng.com/health/healthwise/health-benefits-of-ewedu/

I was told that drinking the water of fresh ewedu leave ease delivery in women ,has anyone heard of this?

thorpido:
Bless u too

Hi Doc,I need some advice o. Am due but am not feeling any serious contraction and my doctor told me today that if by Tuesday nothing serious happens I will be admitted and labour will be induced. Please advice me on some home inducement I can engage in to speed up the process and meanyl my baby has been restless and moving actively in the womb. I have been having some frequent urination as well. I have phobia for hospital beds and equipments,by God's grace I will deliver soonest but to be on the safe side,please advice

Hello doctors! Please help me. Am 39 weeks gone and I have not been feeling any serious pain or contraction but mild ones at the abdomen and also I have been urinating so frequently lately and I feel pains as the urine come (no sign of infection). I also feel pain in my anus like i wanna to poo and the poo not coming. I went for antenatal today and my doc said am due and ask if I have been contracting I explain the feelings I have been having and she said if by Tuesday I don't deliver I will be admitted and labour will be induced. It's my first time and that admission and labour induced thing is getting me scared. I will be 40 weeks on that very tuesday,please advice me on what to do to avoid being admitted. I have serious phobia for hospitals

Hello mother!!! Am so worried and I need advice and answers. It's my first pregnancy and am 39 weeks gone. I went for antenatal today and my doc ask if I have been contracting,I told her I can't tell the kind she talks about but I know I feel some discomforting pains in my abdomen and anus. She said am due for delivery and am supposed to be contracting,well she said I will have to come for admission on Tuesday if I don't go into labour before then and by tuesday I will not still be 40 weeks. I asked y admission if no show,she said so that labour can be induced. It got me worried!!! Please mothers,is she exaggerating or are there things I can do to induce labour all by myself?
Note:my baby has been kind of restless in the belle,always moving.

Hello mother!!! Am so worried and I need advice and answers. It's my first pregnancy and am 39 weeks gone. I went for antenatal today and my doc ask if I have been contracting,I told her I can't tell the kind she talks about but I know I feel some discomforting pains in my abdomen and anus. She said am due for delivery and am supposed to be contracting,well my she suggested I come for admission on Tuesday if I don't go into labour before then and by tuesday I will not still be 40 weeks. I asked y admission if no show,she said so that labour can be induced. It got me worried!!! Please mothers,is she exaggerating or are there things I can do to induce labour all by myself?
Note:my baby has been kind of restless in the belle,always moving.

The man only want to be sure she hasn't exceeded menopause you know when ladies say they are 25 add 10 to get the actual age. if she is wise,she will understand what the guy means cuz the cost of raising children is far higher than a day wedding.

If you are serious,I will advice you wait until you put to bed before deciding on this. You might wanna change your mind when you start having a feel of what you have in there

Some people be like 'in this jet age?' but go their houses and see dem stil dey battle with kerosine stove or even firewood in this same jet age.

His wife might not have problem with it as u have. Besides,he and his wife would have discussed what she can do to get busy before,so this won't be coming to her as a shock.

Wow! I stumble on this thread once and lost track of it,luckily I got it again! Beautiful stories! It's my first pregnancy, and my bundle of joy comes this April,seriously the thought of the day coming closer gives me some horrifying shock but having heard all these beautiful stories...like the Hebrew women,I and all the April mommies will deliver by God's grace.

God is indeed wonderful! Meaning she felt no pain...

In as much as I detest DIL fighting or exchanging words with MIL,I must say some of you are always biased when it comes to this issue probably because you feel all is well in your case,and you assume every MIL is as nice as yours or one's biological mother. Some MIL never accepts you even if you plug out your right eye to please them,causing unhappiness for their DIL and deriving pleasure in it. Will one's own mother do that Well for me,I don't exchange words with mine nor fight her,no matter how much she provokes me,I only ignore her and avoid her as much as I can even tho I wish we were besties. I don't support women who retaliates or raises fights with their Inlaws. But truth be told,some MIL just don't deserve the 'happy mother's day' treat!

Witches are not only the ones flying at night ooo...well,if this tale is real,I pray that God will use holy ghost caterpillar to clear you off that guys way before you ruin his life. Why do you want to ruin this man's life May you not succeed in this.Amen.

Fairgodwin:
I love cooking. I wouldn't even bother her in the first place, and I wouldn't even play the game with her.

Immediately I get back and see the sign, I will just step into the kitchen and do my thing.
Life is too precious to play such risky games.

I am Otis.
...

Ok, na toy gun. I go play the game. #winks

Its romance!!! Doesn't mean he/she is avoiding the kitchen,its just for fun,some of the things that keeps a home happier. Not gun and knife in the real sense as u think.

krall3:
the marriage was without the consent of his family. He just came back one day with one woman and said she is his "wife"

And u think u can rescue him from that spell just with this tale? if he didn't listen to his family I wonder if he won't chop of your head for speaking I'll of his wife.

krall3:
i saw her bathing outside without soap by 2am one day and it has happened like 4 times now.

And u conclude you better don't get yourself in trouble
By the way,did u get so close to know she didn't use soap? and what were u doing out by that time? My advice,stop peeping on her if that's what u do,and mind your business else if finds out be ready to face her.

she's so beautiful!!! can't believe she feels comfortable sleeping that way tho I love it! xo funny...wow I just can't wait to be a mother in few weeks. God help me am so so eager to hold this charming I feel in my belly!

God please put a smile on the faces of those looking for the fruit of the womb, its a joy to behold. Amen.

How you take know

Forget it jooo! what if she had not told u? Even if your mind tells you you can't live with it,you are the controller of your mind! Do you know the devil u might meet next if u break up with your girl all because she confesses her sin to you? You aren't perfect either dear,it could be you so forgive her please

Sorry dear,this is indeed a tough situation. Truth be told,mothers are our jewels but your wife is your treasure. Am sorry to say but I sensed your mum came with the intention of raising a fight and its like your wife had already plan Neva to tolerate again. Some of us are really seeing hell in the hands of our MIL but nevertheless your wife shudnt have retaliated. No matter what,she shouldn't have revenge the slap. All the same,the deed is done,wait for tension to kool and take your wife to your mum first and beg her for mercy then to the rest of the family. I hope they accept but if they don't,your wife remains dear,u can't throw her out. No! Who knows this fight might just be a reason for lasting peace bond between MIL and DIL.

jdadi:
please, can someone tell us why the DG of NYSC is making it compulsory for corp member to participate in the electoral process as adhoc workers of INEC? its disgusting and dangerous at the same time.

Its not compulsory but I pity the brave hearts corp members getting involved in this,I don't think 32k is worth their lives. I wish them well sha

SLIDEwaxie:
Question: when did we become so tolerant of the other woman

Answer: since you started fuckin the his money.


You see, there is a general saying among my fiends and I....

If a poor man raises his hands at his wife, she won't allow him bring the hand down on her before she packed her bags and say it's over. Reason? "he wanted to start beating me"


But if a rich man slaps his wife, she will refuse to leave...reason?
"I'm staying because if my kids"

Well, we all knw d factor.

I dare tell my gf I'm a cheat, or I cheated even though I do, because she doesn't give a fucck at all. She feeds herself and almost won't even ask for my help. She is working and she is ok.

But most ladies eat from the guy's palm, and they still wanted a total respect? I dnt think it works both ways; u gotta stick to one

Hummm...and you think that is the reason y she won't blink an eye if u cheat U should be worried rather than boastful. When u marry her,u will understand better.

Platnum1:
I knw I self serviced but thats different from actual sex with a man.u knw d second entails alot

Different in no way my dear. mind you the size of your finger is the same as some di*ks, so either u loose it to a big or small di*k/finger the fact remains that u did took your own virginity.
come to think of it,y would one who does self servicing calls his or herself a virgin again

DonaldGenes:
You guys made her comot Nairaland Suicide with your asinine attack

She will have a testimony if she sees the bitter truth as an advice rather than an attack.

Real men marries the beauty that comes from within not the outer beauty. If u really mean this,stop believing you are too beautiful and work on yourself,thats the first step to achieve the inner beauty.

ahnie:
verilly verilly,i tell you,the abrute pains no b here o.

Hahahaha you have to bear it and take rest as often as it strikes. I think I complain on that as well previously,when I sit for a while or stand for long I feel the weight on my abdomen and my waist and cervix contracting,my doc and Thorpido both advice I rest. So each time it starts I gently take a seat in my pains wherever I may be. It's painful I know

crazysaint:
1. When a boy says sorry even though he didn't do anything wrong.

2. When he cries because he still love you or miss you.

3. When he still tries to get you back.

4. When he still love you, no matter how much you hurt him

5. When he stops his argument with you, just to save his relationship.

6. When he continously make you feel special and tries to make u happy.

7. When a boy is upset but doesn't tell you as he think he is annoying you.

8. When a boy wants to leave you, because of your rude behaviour, but he is not able to do.
Dont let him because you'l never find someone like that ever again.

Trust me!

This is just the summary fact of a guy who truly loves a lady,but I just don't know why we ladies calls such guys fools and will always prefer the once who acts in the opposite...

ahnie:
mr thorp...lately i now have funny pimples on my face.and sometimes wen am takin a nap,after school hour...i feel the weight of my child around my abdomen.is it normal?

@ahnie I have been feeling that weight too,in my three semester tho,so I guess it's normal