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do what you want. If a lady wants to do it, fine.

[quote author=Atheist:-D]Hmmmmm......

Has he got a skeleton in the closet? [/quote]maybe, but it's not like I don't either

I never have to wait. I always ask him what I want when I feel the time is right. But something I would like to ask him is why he feels so comfortable around me from such an early stage.

Hmm most common reason for me is they are not supportive or that I can't see myself marrying them

Marry? -- Not now, perhaps later on.
Love? I'd probably laugh, he should know the answer to that one by now

I could but then I wouldn't know abt some of my appointments for the day. He would also get some details abt some of my friendships, find out exactly how strange I am. Doubt he would go for it tho or swap with me

1) Intelligence
2) Confidence
3) Good looks
4)Power/Influence
5) Height
6) Fashion/Dress Sense
7) Wealth/affluence

queensmith: Of course she is desperate, who doesn't want a partner in life? Who is the loner that doesn't want company? You have a bf, you probably don't know how that is.

It's cruel of you not to introduce her (if you really think she needs it, soo far the only problem I see is stupidity, not necessarily desperation) She probably doesn't need you to introduce her to men because meeting men isn't ever a problem. She just needs to be smarter with the decisions on who she sees and know who not to take seriously

Anyway, long story short, get off your high horse, if you think she will benefit from meeting your friend, introduce them. . . .(unless you actually like them. . . ) or allow her. Assuming she isn't ready to meet your friends is just plain rude. . . . some women think having a bf makes you a professor on happiness. . . . it gets soo annoying.

Thanks!

nope, ended it for a reason

lrguru: who then are those different guys she hangs around with?

not boyfriends

lrguru: which relationship was the last? Tot she's been furrkin all this while? This story get as e be o

her last bf was over a year ago

no holiday gifts to buy
also some live by the quote "new year, new man".

Sijo01: In that case, she need to attend maturity classes.

I think a lot of it has to do with her last relationship (the guy broke her heart) but even that ended over a year ago.

lrguru: @OP, why u de smoke ciga for another man frustration?

She's not ready to meet the right guy, so let her be. Shuo!!!

Its different when its your best friend and she calls you crying

Sijo01: Is she still a teenager?

No, she is 25

I have an issue with my best friend. She just doesn't know how to completely cut off any male in her life. She will date numerous guys at the same time, get into an argument then continue talking to them for years because she believes someday they will change or they have 1 or 2 good qualities. The most recent guy is 33, with 3 kids who likes her but not enough to take her out on an actual date. I suggested months ago that she needs to get rid of him and she agrees and says that he is just there to keep her warm. I just don't know how to help her anymore nor do I want to hear about how he or the other dumb guys upset her anymore. I talked to my bf about it cuz every time we go out with her its always a different guy, he believes she is desperate. I know decent men that I could introduce her to but at the same time I don't think believe she is ready for someone good. What do u think? And what do you think I should advise her to do, or just avoid her anytime she brings these wasteful guys around?

u don't respond at all

nice voice, nice smile

you end it, the whole point of it is to be void of romantic feelings. figure out if that's what u want to continue with casual friends with benefits relationships or ones with more substance.

2. in a relationship

Don't mind it, I'll just wipe it off his lips afterwards

The man probably is amusing to me in some way (makes me laugh or think) or we share a common interest. But it all depends on my mood. Like my bf, I gave him my number because he did make me laugh and he was swayed by my mood (I was in no mood to talk that day).

Its interesting that you lied, I lied too but made my number more than the reality.

Let's hope you are making the right decision before sleeping with people, and if you are then you are able to be ok with yourself at the start and end of each day that's what matter's most.

Some women like men with a good job. Doctor, lawyer, engineer, might mean security for them.

I don't mind dating people in the medical field but not so sure about marriage because that is a lot of stress.

hmm at least 5'10 so I can wear heels around him. 6' -6'3 would be ideal

Phone/Laptop password fine

There are gonna have to wait till after the wedding to get the rest and there wouldnt be any reason to ask for the others anyway

2 then 3 then probably some laughs and silence about the way things ended

[quote author=mama-gee][color=deeppink]I won't marry a Nigerian man because they marry on cooking abilities and I can't cook. . .I'll rather marry a white man because they are more civilized.[/color][/quote]Don't you think thats a bit much? Yes, its wrong to rate people but shouldn't you know how to cook for your own personal benefit. Everyone has to eat, you should know how to take care of yourself, for you. I can't be with a guy who can't even take care of himself or else I wonder about his home training. And if you want to marry a white man, more power to you but if you believe they are more civilized you are in for a rude awakening.

[quote author=beauty?]Sister, i must ask some questions first, 1. Were u guys keeping in touch while he was away? 2. Aw long was d relatnship before he left?
Speaking from experience, i was away from my baby for 10 months and wen we got back, it was hotter than before. Infact we are married now. Its all about what u want but first, u av to answer those questions.[/quote]1.Yes we are keeping in touch
2. Hmmm we have been together for about a year before he left. (but there were times when we both were apart from each other during that year)

Congrats to you on your marriage.

anything done that is disrespectful to your significant other

could be lying about ones whereabouts or more serious like physical affection beyond platonic friendship.

His smile, his laugh