₦airaland Forum

iLegendd:
Sorry — wipe your tears.

I get upset when I see posts like this. Too many weak men getting married when they aren't ready or when they don't know much about the opposite gender.

Before a man should get married, he MUST know and master 3 things, else suffer.

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

Unfortunately, 90% of Nigerian men focus on

1. How to go to school and get at least 2.1
2. How to get a job
3. How to get married early to a bleached up slay queen
4. How to have lots of children

At the end of the day, when their wives start misbehaving, they run to Nairaland and start crying.

Let me tell you the truth: Your woman is sleeping with John and he is great in bed. Unfortunately, your woman hasn't even told him she is married.

My brother, a woman that has been f*cked can't be unf*cked.

Note: Women don't hide password from real men — they only do it to either weak men or men they don't really love, fallen out of love with (but still pretend to love).

No woman hides password from me. The moment I request for it, they submit instantly. A woman will respond to you and be submissive based on your level of leadership and control without being controlling.

My dear, there is no mature advice on Nairaland. Maturity is when you understand women before you get married and not when you get married and start looking for a way to understand your wife. I hate when men do this. It pisses me off.

I have the solution to your problem, but let me just watch you burn.

Didn't you see this comment of yours as a little bit insensitive?
To watch him burn? are you "GOD"?
you also stated confidently that one can't get mature advice on this platform, I utterly disagree with you on this. This platform meant and serve different purposes for different people. For some, it's a business platform, for others it's entertainment. While a good number see it as a counselling chamber, networking zone, employment avenue et.c. It's left for one to know how to decipher between the good real advice and the playful and seemingly taunts.
The guy came seeking advice. If you are knowledgeable enough, render your kind advice without words of prejudice or insult. If you ain't endowed enough upstairs, you may steer clear and give room for individuals that are magnanimous enough to help him out.
I sense pride and jealousy in you going by your comment here. I may be wrong though.
Perharps, you wished you had what the guy already has. Dear friend, life doesn't work that way. You need to understand these phenomenons about Life and imbibe hard work, perseverance, patience and pray that fortune smile at you. Until then, get rid of unwarranted enmity and jealousy.
Cheers dear friend.

helinues:
May be you haven't be out of Nigeria before... Which sector worked close to 40% during their Regime?

Electricity, Security,Health, Aviation, Education?

Ready to learn

We Nigerians are used to celebrating. medioocrity.
We are used to working exceedingly hard or struggle so hard for very minute reward.
that's why we still celebrate road building as important project from the govt. what a pity...

Airoflaw:
Love maker... I guess he meant making friends

exactly..
u r so on point

Airoflaw:
Love maker... I guess he meant making friends

exactly..
u r so on l
point

SultanOfAbia:
Man U just Wasted 100 million pounds
Pogba is Useless as the G in Pogba

the g is pronounced nauuu. you didn't do ur research well b4 commenting

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Admin9:
Training a girl to school so that you can marry her and Marrying a girl that has already gone to school, which is better?

Both are better depending on the circumstances

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Nigeria as a nation knows not what she is doing.

eagleonearth:
This country where Lagos is the highest revenue generating state can't afford to repair the road that leads to tincan port or even build a world class trailer park rather trailers will be double parking on the expressways making vehicular movement around mile2 and apapa a nightmare not talking of casualties of fallen containers.

If trump calls you a shithole country you go jus dey vex


my brother the federal govt in their selfish interest has made clearing of certain goods like cars a must only in Lagos. That's the origin of the brown sticker on cleared cars. If it's not cleared in Lagos you're on your own as it will be confiscated. How do you explain that? Also cost of clearing at Onne port in the south south is way higher than Lagos. Why should Lagos be the only state where you clear in the whole of Nigeria leaving other 35 states behind? Leave matter for Mattias joor



Buy my infinix hot 4 pro for 20K flat rate. It's still very clean and sharp.

Where's ur location for the infinix.
How do we meet?

Ghenisean:
Just wait make your girl quote your website give you,you go know say you no dey try

nah....bro, it's the reverse.

I won't only date but marry me over and over again.
I love "me".
Handsome, cool headed nd a lot of people say I'm intelligent.
I simply love "me".
I hope i didn't sound so boastful though?

400?

FlordFlorez:
I fear who no fear woman. Abeg people, if u wants to marry, try marrying ur friend/bestie. I'm currently dating a girl that was once my bestie for 3years. Its 99% sure im marrying her cos since we've been dating (for 2year), no quarrel whatsoever in our 'table of contents'.

isn't it better if you two quarrel now so as to know her reactions to it.
absence of it mightn't necessarily be good.
cheers

is this ur new research?

mayor4891:
infinix note 4
for sales
2 GB ram
16 GB internal storage
working perfectly
#prices 33k#

0905 862 8531

15k? deal?
if u r ready, I'll buy it today

OmoDavido:
Iphone 8plus is a great phone, and I am very sure you will enjoy it well. You can get a clean uk used IPhone 8plus around 140-160k now. The high price is due to the rise in dollar and current lockdown on airport which has made supply very low with high demand.

like how much was it before?
and do you advise I wait a bit b4 buying?
may be after airports are opened again and the dollar/naira balances up again.

OmoDavido:
Last four phones
IPhone 6S Tecno camon X Samsung S7 edge IPhone 7(current phone)

how much did you get ur iphone7. I'm looking forward to buying iphone8plus. what do. u think of iPhone 8plus? Pls reply. thanks

tonididdy:
Uniben has the best, neatest federal campus in Nigeria

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terrible lies

JustAboyy:
We all know you are going to roast it the next day. Period.

Pet or pest ni. What is sparing this bird is the night that's upon and probably because you are tired for the day.

I challenge you to spend the next 10 days posting it's picture alive here.

u r wicked sha....funny you

stagger:
OP, Package yourself and go to Germany to study.

if only I know how to go about it. seriously interested.

1m deal?

intercell:
4G LTE network tecno M631 at most affordable bonanza prices.. N13,500..
Browses really fast and excellent for youtube, google play store, whatsapp, facebook, instagram, snapchat etc.
16 back camera with flashlight and 12mp front camera. 2gb ram, 16gb memory.
3000mah battery and gorilla screen touch.
Double sim card and clear voice call.
Interested buyers can order for home delivery or visit our shop at
tourist shop, beside besam airport police station, ikeja mm2 airport road, Lagos,

I'm interested do long it's not a stolen phone

omoiyamayor:
has nothing to do with going to school, the writer just trying to play with our heads to confuse us.

his adopted use of English is not of earth but from another planet. Pls, look through again and you will understand the real meaning of my remark about it.
it was just sarcastic

omoiyamayor:
not unconneted means connected. It as nothing to do with the administration but COVID-19. Embrace your president for once.

hmm... scholar

perforetti:
Nice write up. A few things are wrong. I’ll mention a few I noticed.
1 - you can drive in all parts of Australia with a valid Nigerian driver’s licence as a student. If you become a permanent resident, you need to convert your licence to Australian drivers licence after 3 months. I live in Sydney and I know people on student visa still driving with Nigerian drivers licence for over 5years now.
2- there are heaps of masters degree programmes you can do with just 5k AUD and not from 20k AUD as you have stated. There are lots of cheap schools which offer those courses here.
3- as a student, undergrad or masters, as long as you are an international full time student the 40 hours per fortnight or 20 hours work per week is applicable to all students. On holidays or when school is not in session you can work unlimited hours though.
Feel free to request for more information.
Nice write up again.

Pls, what masters programme can one do with 5k AUD.
I think I may still be able to raise that.
Pls, oblige me.
thanks as I await ur reply.
BTW, let me state it here that I'm a Health professional. A pharmacist to be precise.

chosenmopol:
If you are young, say in your 20s and 30s and you are playing safe, you ain't doing your future any good.

This is the moment when you have little or nothing to lose.

Wake up and take all the risks in the world you can while you can.

Go all out.

Good quotes. ...i read all

ForeThinker:
Learn to give people up before they hurt you beyond repair. Even if they tell you they will change. Even if they tell you that they love you. Just remember, love isn’t meant to be permanently damaging. Love is meant to aid your healing.

Grt

Yoighaman:
Wow.

Your thought processes are valid though but I can see our mentalities are miles apart.

You obviously don't desire and aspire to become a billionaire or see a need to, you love a comfort zone.

It's ok, I hear you, you don't need savings, it's fine to live on debts. After owning a car and house, and can travel on credit, all your issues in life have been taken care of.

Good thinking.

You read kiyosaki book no doubt.
I have been following ur comment. Impressive no doubt.
Are you in Nigeria?

madridsta007:
Noted.
Well sir, I did this out of my own free volition, when I was still a PhD student and had some time to follow things up as this.
I am still in academia, now an assistant professor, hence it’s become so busy for me. I don’t have that much time. To be honest, I only come on NL to “cool off”. I’m afraid I can’t take such requests because of I can’t assure you that it will be completed. However, I have some friends at Cambridge and Toronto who have set up a mentoring scheme of some sort for Africans in Africa wanting to pursue postgraduate studies. I’ll speak to them and drop the details once I get it.
Cheers.

OK.
Thank you for your reply.
I sincerely do appreciate

madridsta007:
6. Entitlement Mentality: This goes without saying. Any Nigerian who is "abroad" and legal is often quite busy- working, networking, studying, etc. His or her time is very premium to him/her. He or she has grown to understand value systems and concept of respect, gratitude, hard work, adaptability, flexibility, etc. Believe me, beyond what people say, the Nigerian "abroad" is not generally stingy; there is nothing "abroad" does to you that makes you stingy. If you are stingy "abroad" you must have been stingy in Nigeria. It is your character.

While the person "abroad" wants to help, the Nigerian in Nigeria should understand that you are NOT entitled to anything from this person abroad, unless you have a signed contract with the person. Hence if the person does anything for you, say "thank you" and mean it. You will not die. If the person spends hours speaking to you, chasing up things for you, and at the last minute, you drop the idea, PLEASE make sure you explain your reasons to the persovn and dont just ghost the person abroad. Believe me, he/she will regret ever making contact with you- his/her time is SO precious. Regardless of whom you are to him/her you are NOT entitled to his/her time. NO. Again, this person abroad will prefer you come to him/her with money-making ideas and NOT just begging each time. If you do that each time, he/she will avoid your calls and emails. I cant stress that enough.
Unfortunately Nigerians today, especially young Nigerians, are so entitled that you will wonder if it is a curse from somewhere. It annoys the Nigerian abroad and believe me, he/she will eventually avoid you.

I once spent my time and resources to chase up a scholarship for someone to go to the US. After getting everything done in the US, this fellow in Nigeria told me he wasnt interested again as, "I dont like the course". Really In the end I had to apologise and create a reason to the University why the student couldnt come. This was three years ago. Today, the student is still going up and down and hasnt moved an inch from where he was 3 years ago. For me, I regret that my time was wasted and I had to re-build my reputation with this particular institution. Why Nigerians are so inflexible with opportunities and don’t understand the concept of time annoys me.

I can go on and on, but you get my point.

Bro, I read your comment. Perhaps, the person do not understand how much work you put in.
I have been looking for a scholarship opportunity to study abroad but it's not forth coming. I'm a Health professional here in Lagos and on the average I earn comfortably well but I crave for international education. If you can help me with a link for scholarship I will remain grateful and indebted to you.
I anticipated your reply.
Thanks

doggedfighter:
Which world?

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