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MISEDUCATIONS:
kazyhm bro can i have a word with you?

Caspian22:
I don't get?

Caspian22:
Jesus Christ set the best example of what any man should be. He loved other people, respected both men and women, offered help to people in and had a good personality.

He was honest, bold and strongly believed in his convictions. Almost everyone disliked him, but good people with genuine hearts loved him.

That's the kind of man I want to be.

xpressng:
Contrary to popular public opinion, bad boys are not the kind of men who are physically or emotionally abusive to women. Such men are perverts who should be castrated and exiled to Jupiter. Bad boys are men who are fully cognizant of their nature-given advantages and use them to achieve meaningful success in both their careers and women. The following are top 10 rules all bad boys should live by.




1) A bad boy shall love himself more than anything else in the world
A bad boy is driven by self-interest.

Whenever someone pitches an idea to a bad boy, the first thing he asks himself is, what do I gain from all this? Unlike the average guy who is mostly interested in helping everyone around, a bad boy greatly values his time hence every move he makes is geared towards personal gain.
Never love another person more than you love yourself. True happiness comes from achievement, not from people or material things. Therefore, it’s unwise to make any woman the main source of your happiness unless you are a masochist. For every coin, you spend on a woman ensure you spend twice the amount on yourself!






2) No woman is out of your league
The average guy constantly frets about approaching ladies who seem extremely beautiful, intelligent or moneyed.

In their minds, they think the ladies ‘don’t need a man’ and probably have a long queue of potential suitors. A bad boy clearly knows that every woman wants a man who is unpredictable, a mystery and brings excitement to every sphere of her life.
He brazenly goes after every lady who tickles his fancy with the knowledge that no woman is out of his league. Never approach women from a point of weakness as they have an uncanny ability to smell desperation and neediness miles away, instead use a winning strategy.
The winning strategy involves changing the rules of the game so that she feels obligated to impress you not the other way round. Play immune to her charm. If every other guy around is trying so hard to woo her, deliberately ignore her. When you get a chance to talk, act frivolously. Refrain from boasting about what you own or the people you know instead let her know you as a person. If there is a high chance of you bumping into her again, don’t be too fast to ask for her digits, end the conversation with something like, ‘ see you around!’
Make her spend sleepless nights wondering why she just can’t enchant you with her beauty like all the other guys or if you are way out of her league.





3) Nobody owes you anything
When negotiating a deal a nice guy would reveal his life’s misfortunes to a potential investor seeking to win based on sympathy.

A bad boy will try to clinch the deal by revealing to the investor what (s)he stands to gain by awarding him the contract. A bad boy clearly knows nobody in the world owes him anything hence works his ass off to get whatever he wants in life. He doesn’t expect favors. Assertiveness, working smart and eloquence is bad boy’s favorite weapons.
If someone slaps you don’t turn the other cheek, hit them back with closed fists. Rarely will people hand over things to you on a silver platter so grab every opportunity coming your way.





4) A bad boy shall never be a victim.


Nice guys constantly complain about how unfair the world is and wish it would be perfect so everyone would get what they truly deserve. Bad boys know that the world is a tough place to live in so they make a conscious decision to always be a perpetrator and never a victim! When you fail at something don’t sit down and start blaming other people for your misfortunes. Take responsibility, re-strategize then dive right back into the game. If your competitors use uncouth methods to win, consider using skullduggery to beat them too.
Success and women will always follow those who win while the self-proclaimed nice guys are plagued with whining, disappointment, and loneliness. Stop wishing for a perfect world and instead work with what you have to win. That said, I don’t think the infamous Pastor Kanyari is a monster, I believe he is a crafty businessman who discovered a way of bottling hope and realizing a great profit from it.





5) A bad boy shall always stand out in a crowd.


Where else nice guys are careful not to over-dress, bad boys know the importance of looking good hence ensure they are always at their best. There is a clear distinction between ostentatious dressing and looking sharp. Being smartly dressed means you are in good quality fabric that perfectly fits your body while giving you a mature look. On the other hand, flashy dressing involves putting on screaming at colors, accessories, and trends that may be current but are out of sync with your body or personality.
80% of confidence is expressed by how you dress, walk, talk and interact with other people. Work on your signature look that can easily help you stand out in a crowd. Let your style of dressing, walking, talking and even working be different from everyone else. In summary, bad boys don’t walk with common spirits!





6) A bad boy shall break all rules except his own.


Good guys are nurtured to live within society’s expectations while bad boys shatter these perceptions and set their own. Most bad boys are entrepreneurs because being in formal employment cages one into a glass box where the boss dictates almost everything one does.
Pretty women are used to having guys bid to their willing. If she claims to be attracted to men with cleanly shaved heads, a nice guy would trim down his hair without second thoughts, unlike a bad guy who knows better than to change his life or style to please a woman. To make a lasting impression to any woman, break all rules she dictates to you, make her do things she has never done before (and against her principles) and act totally opposite of how she expects you to.





7) Shall never fight over a woman.


Ask any guy who is yet to get over their Ex-girlfriend 6 months after breaking up and they will feed you with crap about how the lady is his true love— soul-mate— hence he must inexorably fight for her. That’s pure crap. If indeed she is ‘the one’, then she should have the courtesy of treating you with dignity and meeting you half-way towards solving your differences otherwise she is not worth another minute of your life. Never get into a fist fight with another man over some lady. The only reward for such a foolish act is a deformed dental formula, broken ribs and a couple of stitches.
When you realize there is another guy who interests your girl more than you do the best thing to do is walk away. If she likes you more than the other guy then never talk or even ask her about him. The horrible truth about women is that when she likes another guy she will sleep with him if she wants to regardless of having a boyfriend or husband and there is nothing you can do about it.




8 ) Thou shall never be judgmental, or kiss & tell.


As a bad boy, you are bound to meet all kinds of ladies. The last decade has witnessed an increase in numbers of sexually liberal women. It’s no longer shocking to have a lass walk up to you and say, “ hey dude! I have a boyfriend whom I love so much and plan to have a future with though he is kinda boring. Nevertheless, I’m strongly attracted to you, would you mind if we have a casual fling?” Stop looking surprised! Ask any bad boy and they will tell you how frequent that happens.
Should a lady gather enough courage and propose to have sex without attachments don’t screw it up by being judgmental, taking a high moral ground or wondering how many guys she has asked before. Just give her what she wants. Such ladies like having their clandestine affairs kept under the wraps so should you encounter one don’t kiss and tell. In the event you meet her with her main guy, don’t make a scene, Just wink or smile and walk away!




9) Shall always speak his mind out!


A bad boy knows the effects words have on women. He knows what to say and how to say it. This doesn’t mean you act all polished around a lady you fancy, in fact, the opposite works better. Say exactly what’s on your mind even when it sounds a quite offensive. If you find her cleavage enticing, tease her about it,“ Girl, did you put on that blouse purposely to divert my attention from your face to your awesome boobs?” Let her know how you feel about her. In the event, she pisses you off don’t keep quiet about it.
The easiest way of warming your way into her heart is by being playful and teasing her about things she is evidently endowed at. For example, if she naturally has a voluptuous derrière you can cheekily accuse her of putting on sponged-lined panties! Moderation is necessary so that she doesn’t end up thinking of you as a harmless comic who is more interested in making her laugh than getting into her pants.
Women love drama so make sure you give her something to gossip with her friends about. Sometimes deliberately annoy her to the point she walks away then exaggerate the makeup. Quench her thirst for unnecessary drama involved in falling in and out love.




10) A bad boy shall never be tamed.


The greatest fear for any bad boy is falling in love. This is because love is a nasty drug that can make you do things that leave a bitter taste in the mouth and gives someone else the power to hurt you. Try your best not to fall in love, worst of all with a lady who isn’t mutually attracted to you. For whatever reason never lose your bad boy edge otherwise she will wake up one morning and realize you are no longer the same guy she was first attracted to.
Graduating from college and settling into an 8 to 5 job has a way of taming even the wildest of men, therefore, keep a few friends who will point it out when you turn into a nice guy.
One more thing, a bad boy never takes advantage of an intoxicated woman. Never encourage a woman to imbibe more alcohol than she can handle in order to sexually violate her. It is totally immoral, illegal and hardly any different from necrophilia. Since bad boys have big egos, they derive pleasure in having consensual sex and not through shady means!


Originally Written By Mark Maish

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atinicrown:
I don't believe that heaven wait for only those who congregate.
God is love, He is down below,He is up above,He knows who does and doesn't care.

Kingsley10000:
China is currently the world's leading economic power, in
China there is Zero Church!
Finland has the most stable economy in the world today.
There are less than twenty churches in Finland!
Switzerland has the second most stable economy in the
world. Switzerland has fewer than thirty churches!
Denmark is the third most stable economy in the world,
there are about 23 churches in Denmark.
These countries are considered to have the highest number
of atheists, but they are blessed!
Come to Nigeria, there are more than 70,000 churches.
+25 000 churches in Lagos.
+2 500 churches in Oyo
+30000 churches in the south east
In Africa, we have more churches than schools and
hospitals combined!
More pastors than doctors.
Everyone is born again!o
Everyone is covered with the blood of Jesus!
Jesus even became the husband of all single women
(according to them) in revival churches!
Everyone is filled with the Holy Spirit!
However, none of these claims reflect the moral elevation
that is hoped for in a society.
We are among the laziest, the most deceiving, the most
corrupt, the most hypocritical, the most hateful on the planet
today, with all our Jesus and the Holy Spirit!
Our people need to distinguish between religion and
stupidity or between spirituality and tradition!.
Wake up!!!
religion is the modern day slavery holding Africans down...

Shugavee:
Talking to you is like giving a goat scholarship ---nina's voice

Girl bye!!!

TheUpsetGirl1:
a guy must give his lady 3-5k every two weeks for hair

a guy must purchase clothes for his lady every month

a lady isn't obliged to pay for dates but a guy must pay for the dates

- A supposed feminist.

nobody said you should date someone that isn't financially stable, those your friends that you preach to are they financially stable themselves?


self delusion is worse than laziness -Albert Einstein

I'm out, seeing your posts makes me to vomit.

TheUpsetGirl:
I've come to understand what nairaland feminists mean when they talk about feminism, to catch them in the hook I decided to create a thread meant for bashing broke people and luckily they fell for it except Amarabae which I commend for her real advocating of the feminist ideology.


there's a lady called shugavee on this platform who usually run from thread to thread shouting ladies should be independent, ladies should embrace feminism and others.

it came as a bombshell when I saw a post where she said;
a guy must give his gf 3 to 5k every 2weeks for her hair

for a supposed feminist advocate to say this, I now understand what she has been preaching about.

a guy must be the one to spend on a date


a guy must purchase some clothes for his gf every month.

A feminist who said she's hardworking, independent and can cope 50/50 said this, it only shows that her hypocrisy is greater than the sins of Satan.


feminism doesn't exist on nairaland, there are few feminists I think are sincere, but only God knows what their true intentions are about.


it is better to say you're not a feminist and bash broke people, say your guy must provide what you need, truly I won't be offended

but when you create useless threads about feminism, always shouting equality and independence and you don't practice what you preach it only shows the kind of person you are and what your true intentions are.




gratitude to amarabae, ladyhippolyta, makydebbie, xhosanostra, rukkydelta, ladyF, and safarigirl.

the only people I think are real.


I don't believe men and women are equal, because even the Bible denotes that .
because of that I don't rant about feminism just because of likes because I know that I can't practice that independence stuff, that's me I like being real.

but you can't be ranting and making poor ladies feel bad when you create useless threads about feminism, advocating for gender equality and independence when you're a lazy fake bitch who can't practice what you preach in reality.


be real,

Smartii:
So are you suggesting the woman stays in the rented apartment with the man for a year, they should renew the house rent before packing into the lady's own house..... ?

Cadec007:
ur point?

Smartii:
It's culture, norm for a lady to go join her hubby after marriage in his house but here, what if the bride has her own house and the groom lives in a rented apartment, so would It be okay for the man to move into his bride's apartment instead Or the bride should just move into the groom's rented apartment while the bride's apartment waste off?

TheMenCode:
Despite how easy it has become to get information literally about anything, feminist are unable to understand the ideology of feminism is a result of a brainwashing process from the mass media, schools, workplaces, Twitter, Facebook, instagram, movies and literally everywhere including the male space.

Feminist believe in equality (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/03/30/how-equalism-like-feminism-is-keeping-women-in-epiphany-phase-of-her-life/) can't be argued, no matter how much you want them to see the truth that when everyone is equal they will not be happy with the outcome but revolt and express frustration. Feminism is not about equality, but a tool to minimized the sexual freedom of the man while maximizing her sexual freedom without judgment. It's equality when social changes favors women.

Feminism is a demoralization process caused by lack of moral standard and failure to access true traditional information but rather be fed with popular narratives from the mass and social medias, even when you show them a prove that their ideology is a journey of self destruction, they will never believe but call you a misogynist.

The truth only happen to them when they get to the Epiphany phase (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/03/30/how-equalism-like-feminism-is-keeping-women-in-epiphany-phase-of-her-life/) of their life, a time when attraction and fertility is rapidly declining, then they realized they have been lied to all along. This is the irony of being brainwashed, you never believe anything contrary until you cross the Rubicon where you are about to lose it all.

Feminism came about has a result of how a woman 'feel' and this is why it's hard to logically convince a feminist against her ideology. For her to unplugged and embrace her femininity may require re-framing her feelings about feminism and lead the process of logical discussions.

Men gets older and become more appreciative gradually but for a woman grows and depreciate rapidly, so why would a woman want to waste her small window on an ideology, logically this doesn't make sense. Feminism is about feelings and projection of blame on the man.

"Sometimes I wonder if is not all my father's fault ever since I could talk, he encourage me to hold my head my own  in an argument. Nut little did he know, as he exhorted me to 'get degree' or add yet another language to repertoire, was reducing my chances of getting hitched altogether." Kate Mulvey

Basically, it makes women to fabricate a 'strength' then blame their failure on it and this makes her over value herself. This is what Kate Mulvey is letting everyone knows that she's single at 50 because men think she's too smart. Now intelligence is her 'strength', so she blame her failure to secure a partner on it, this way she will be able to secure the feelings of other women to believe it's not her fault but the man is to be blame. This is how feminism thrive.

Men want supportive, feminine women to inspire him to conquer the world while she watch. It's really simple, men want beauty and submissiveness and doesn't matter your qualification. In fact men don't care how many book you wrote, how many people work under you, how many language you speak or how much money you make.

Intelligence plus femininity is attractive to men but feminism encourages women to become not just intelligence but lead, act and think like a man and kill their 'femininity' (because it makes them look weaker) the one thing men are attracted to, so when no man notice her she turns around to blame men for her self inflicted problem. Men are attracted by looks and femininity, but that looks decline rapidly.

Another irony is feminist think the traditional role of a woman is the one of weakness, subservience but this is false. Wives and mothers are the most powerful people in the society, they bring children to the world, create a family. Family is the cornerstone of civilization.

You will think this is easy for a woman to comprehend but it's not, same way they cannot explain the misguided idea that they are free when they serve their employers but slaves or want equality when they serves their husbands.

Feminism makes women believe serving their employers is freedom but to serve their man or husband is slavery.

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Acidosis:
Your mom has some explanations to make. Until that is done, do nothing.

Two statements that destroy people:

(1) Leave everything to God (yeah, leave everything to god including your commonsense)

(2) Forgive and forget (oh, what about correct, forgive and forget?)

trustyshoess:
You're probably confused because most people don't understand love. Love at first sight does not exist, it is a fairy tale/hollywood romance fantasy. The only thing that exists at first sight is lust and infatuation.
Love is like a seed, it takes time to grow, mature and blossom. The more you get to know someone, their personality and things about them that appeal to You, you start to realise your compatibility and that's when then seed of love is sown. Thereafter, their actions and words will water that seed, allowing it to grow.
Love can also diminish and die if it is not nurtured. This is why you hear people say that they no longer love someone they once did.
You just haven't found the right person to love and it's okay.

prechbills1:
sexist and misandrist post.. when coming to life next time, come as a dependent leech

Liliyann:
Bullshit!!
Just because you helped a lady all her life must now be centered around you
So fuvking what that you helped her get a job?
Nothing wrong in her moving on to a better guy,you are just a stepping stone.
You guys should learn to move on when a lady dumps you!!!