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femi4:
you have to start small by addressing few people


From being a group leader, to a class captain, course rep etc. You learn how to talk by talking and watch how others talk when they address people

Exactly how I outgrew mine. By God's grace, the size of a crowd doesn't matter again to me.

EsotericMonk:
@thesicilian, @kennydoc @cromcruach91 and other medics here, are you really gonna hang your hippocratic brother out to dry? Pls let's verify first from your state ARD excos (as by now they should have been briefed) as per the true story before we make firm comments on the matter.
You know whatever you say would be swallowed hook & line by the non-medics.
By the way @kennydoc, on a lighter note, shey you also know that in the western world, such comments as you have put up can land you in trouble. There are strick social media guidelines for doctors, especially as it concerns sensitive topics like this

I understand your point bro.

My comment was simply based on the doctor's confession thus: The accused doctor, in the course of interrogation at the Emir’s palace, was said to have admitted that he only hugged Fatima and rubbed his body against hers
It was very wrong of him to invite an underage girl (who happened to be his patient's relative) to a solitary place and hug and smooch her. He said he rubbed his body against hers. I can almost beat my chest that it was his pr*ck he rubbed on her (probably her genitals). I am saying this with the assumption that he actually didn't have sex with her.

As per my social media comment, well I haven't breached any confidentiality here. I made a comment based on the info I got from the case I read about. Moreover, this is Nairaland not Facebook. I am more careful when writing on Facebook. Not saying I cannot be tracked on Nairaland, but that will be for very serious comments, and it can't be done by just anybody.

Cromcruach91:
1. How do you know you cannot be luring someone into an office and be raping her? This your assumption get k-leg. Sexual abuse does not work the way you think it does.

2.So, the doctor should be hugging a young lady in his office...just like that? Dude...am a doctor,have comforted many patients...but I have never hugged a girl alone in my office. I don't even do hugs.

3.Yes, we doctors are humans....but we need to be professional.

For hugging even an adult in the western world against their wish, a doctor can be charged for assault, how much more a child.
That guy is a shame to the medical profession.

omohayek:
You've long been notorious on these forums for your extreme ethnocentrism and runaway inferiority complex, and usually I wouldn't bother to even read - let alone respond - to the hate-inflected drivel you're prone to spitting out, but this time I'll make an exception: the Lagos you spend so much time obsessing over was already by far the wealthiest part of the country before Nigeria even existed as a single country, which in turn was well before the British and their accompanying missionaries had made significant inroads into your part of the south-east.

All this self-congratulatory rubbish you've written here cannot gainsay the fact that Lagos was by the 1880s so valuable to the British that it was to protect its trade with the south-western interior that they even bothered to create a colony of "Southern Nigeria" in the first place. Igbo mass migration to Lagos only began in the 1920s, many decades after it had become a flourishing city of trade, education and industry, so even in that respect you and your ilk reverse cause and effect - it was the already extant prosperity of the city that drew - and continues to draw - Igbos to it, rather than any particular contributions of theirs setting it apart. As for the idea that SS (not SE) oil money "developed" Lagos, one would have to be ignorant enough to think the place was "undeveloped" until 1970 to swallow such manifest nonsense - but here you and your bandwagon of ignoramuses clearly qualify.

The notion that funds from the much poorer northern and south-eastern parts of Nigeria ever played a meaningful role in "developing" a place which had always been worth more than the rest of the country is rubbish from start to finish, cooked up in the ignorant brains of people whose inferiority complexes cannot allow them to absorb indisputable facts that are trivial to confirm with a simple Google search or two. Or you might even consult a professional history of Nigeria or two, such as the ones by Richard Bourne or Toyin Falola; but who am I kidding? The desire to seek out objective knowledge is totally foreign to the likes of tribal chest-beaters like you, who would rather believe and propagate nonsensical lies that happen to bolster their fragile sense of self-worth.

You have a point but it isn't really like that.
Benin City saw civilization long before Lagos and any other part of Nigeria because of their early contact with the Portuguese. Today, Benin is just an ancient City with old, brown roofed buildings. In terms of infrastructure and modernization, you cannot compare Benin with Enugu. I am saying this to let you know that without Lagos being the capital city of Nigeria after our independence, it wouldn't have attained half of the status it has today.
I am not in any way saying that Igbos or any other tribe built Lagos, but the point still remains that the massive advancement of Lagos has Nigeria (not Yoruba) written all over it.

kabrud:
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In your logic, dss is an international body not under Buhari, right? Come, what the fck is wrong with your brain? In your brain now, dss (answerable to the president) is a very good organisation doing its job very well but within minutes, people with your kind of brain will still accuse Buhari of media stunt when the same dss come up with a report washing Buhari clean.
How do you people manage these conflicts of views in your brains?

Go and check your brain. What's wrong with you?
What's my business whether the criminal is confirmed or not? Is it going to add anything to my pocket or remove from it?
I was talking about the issue Senate has against him and you are here foaming in the mouth. Senate is still led by the ruling party to which the presidency belongs.
And who cares about any agency under the nepotistic man in Aso Rock?

Will you get out of here!!!

kabrud:
Is that why the Senate rejected his confirmation? Did the Senate tell you this? Okay, based on the assumption that he is being controlled by Buhari not to chase these people you mentioned, what tells you that the next person Buhari will appoint and be comfirmed by the Senate will disregard Buhari’s instructions and go after them? The Senate simply reject him for their selfish political reason, not because he did not go after any NIA or SGF.
Asking why everybody is not being investigated at the same time is simply a way of being unhappy with the case already being investigated on stolen money that a dime was not paid into my account. Let them investigate the ones they can, next govt can go after the percieved sacred cows.

I'm not saying it's because of SGF and NIA.
The DSS has a case against Magu, and that's why he wasn't confirmed by Senate, not because of fear of prosecuting any National Assembly member. Remember that EFCC hasn't successfully prosecuted anybody since 2015. Remember that.

kabrud:
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Is Magu doing his job or not? Most of the nass members are potential candidates and as such don't have the moral right to decide who investigates them.

The big question now is; what exactly stops them confirming him? And a person like you will be making noise about corruption-free Nigeria, but here you are, trying to justify the action of nass against Magu for one funny inexplicable reason. Is it because it is not about you alone?

I sincerely pray everyone gets exactly what he/she wishes for Nigeria in his or her house.

What has the Magu done about the corruption cases hanging on the necks of the present officials including former SGF, former NIA boss?

Zico5:
I pity the parents in that part of this country especially with the ways they are raising children. No moral whatsoever, if a child could murder his parents then something is wrong somewhere. Even common animals give their parents regards no matter what. I live with some of them in Lagos here and I sincerely say that the situation needs urgent arrest. one Igbo guy just packed out of the parents house because they rebuke him for not serious with his education. This is a secondary school students for God sake. just and see how they will crucify me here for telling them the truth. Igbo parents need to change their orientation on bringing up children. They are too weak in that area

Shove your advise into your.... (you know where). Almost everyday, we are burdened with news of ritual killings in the SW esp Ogun State. Focus on that and stop bothering about a young boy refusing advise and moving out of his parents' house. It happens everywhere, even far worse in the Western world that we all admire.

saltoasis:
Watch out for covenant university, a time is coming when they will sit at number one position for a long time. The likes of UI, OAU will not know what hit them.

I agree with you completely.

Jogunomi1:
She has almost everything I want in a woman, but I don't find her sexy. Those I find sexy don't have what she has. She thinks I'm shy and probably don't know how to woo her. So, she has started sending me coded messages. Why is life unfair like this?

I think it's better you let her go. Please don't start sleeping with her and if you have, kindly stop.
The issue you have about her height will always remain, and anytime you meet tall girls, you'll be depressed. I've had the experience before, and it played a role in my break up.

ProjectNaija:
It's really wrong and dishonest to claim that deeper life donated a car park and bridge to the public as the car park is not open to the public but strictly for their private use in their new church head quarters building. The truth is that the church did not even have any plans to build this car park till it was imposed on them by governor Fashola as a precondition for allowing them to open and operate from the premises. The truth is that building approval should never have been given to a church of that size (40,000) capacity in a residential area because of traffic considerations but somehow they got it. Along the line when residents of the area(i am one) saw how big the structure was and the implications for traffic, some of us petitioned the then governor of Lagos state(Fashola) and Fashola came personally to inspect the site. It was then he gave them the condition of providing adequate parking and an alternative route(bridge) as a precondition for allowing them to open the church. The church had no concerns about the traffic problems their being there would cause neither did they care and if not for Fashola they would have gone ahead to open the church years ago not giving a damn about the horrendous traffic a church of the size will cause in a residential area. For them to spin it round and give an impression that they are donating something to the public is damn right nauseating. They built because it was imposed on them and for their own selfish reasons.

Good info.
But then, did you read any official notice from the church stating that they donated a park and bridge to Lagos State out of their own freewill? Did the church say anything by themselves regarding why the facilities were built? Why are you then accusing them?

GistmoreNG:
GistMore.com

Bright Chimezie was popular in the 80s and 90s.

https://www.gistmore.com/lovely-photo-singer-bright-chimezie-wife-children

https://alexis.lindaikejisblog.com/photos/shares/5a9508266374d.jpg

Wow! It's been a very long time I heard about him or saw him on the screens. I thought he had been dead since. I totally forgot about him.

donstan18:
It's not about responsible or irresponsible, those men that married one wife and still cheat on them, are they responsible? , it's better to legalize something than to cheat on your wife.


Forget about religion, we all know she made a very good point, let's be truthful and sincere.

But, the problem about the idea lies on women.

Most women will prefer their husband to cheat, than to share the same house with another wife, they don't like sharing pot of soup

Based on the last census, there are slightly more men than women. If each man marries 4, where will the women for younger ones to marry come from?

Have you also considered the effect on the population growth? By the time each woman has only 2 children, how many will be in the family? Can Nigeria handle that population explosion?

And who said polygamists don't cheat? Many alhajis that have 3 or more wives still have other mistresses.

AnodaIT:
Isn't it shameful that Abia is bigger in population and size than Singapore that you will be relying for technical support

Nigeria's population is 3 times that of the UK and is nearly 4 times larger, meanwhile we still need support from the UK.

Cinkq:
OUTSIDERS, not YORUBAS are culprits of most of the notorious and devilish crimes that are popular in SW.
High rate of crime is one of the disadvantages of accomodating too many outsiders in your region, and this is one of the burdens of one Nigeria the GREAT YORUBAS are carrying/enduring in their region.


God will punish all nonindegenes who are giving bad image to SW, and God will continue to bless all OMOLUABIS and our region.

Oga shut up! ALL the ritualists that have been caught in Ogun and Osun states in the past are Yorubas.

deepwater:
Calm down.
The pastor's that have such in Nigeria, how do they fund it ?


These stuffs are out for rent, should you need it holla the leasing coy, it brings money for the owners while he is not using it.


They don't buy it for keep.

The cost of maintenance usually far outweighs whatever they can make from the leases. Even commercial airlines don't usually make that much profit.

ollah2:
Lol. So everything on the internet is real. You are indeed a slowpo.ke

You are the biggest slow.poke . Why not prove to me why it is unreal.

ollah2:
You are the one converting them to Christians right

China is projected to have the largest Christian population in the world by 2030.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/asia/china/10776023/China-on-course-to-become-worlds-most-Christian-nation-within-15-years.html

ollah2:
Mr that knows light and darkness. You must have been to heaven to know the religion God accepts as the one and only true one. I marvel are the way and manner bigots and hypocrites like you think. If the Chinese had colonised us, won't we be Buddhist while claiming it to be the best and only religion ?

Yet the Chinese are turning to Christians in large numbers despite the clampdown by the government.

Emeskhalifa:
Before the match, I was jus laughing when Chelsea fans were busy giving me 10reason why Barca wil not win the match..... Unfortunately, "Messi has never scored us" was part of their reasons

So as Messi scored, did Barca still win the match?

amokeme:
As a donor or consultant?

Donor keh. I be man o.

dboy080808:
I admire your ingenuity, but isn't the price range a bit on the high side compared to an actual chandelier.

High side keh. Do you know how much chandelier lamps are sold?

mrvitalis:
Tell cardinal arinze mbaise can't be intimidated
He can do that with other places not mbaise

Call us any name you want

If you think it's OK for cardinal arinze to appoint over 5 bishop from awka with less than 500 fathers

While mabise with over 700 and over 80 waiting ordination to have non then you are worse than the devil

Worse than the devil? Then what about the Pope that earlier mandated the priests to accept Okpaleke? Maybe he's d devil's father. And you call yourself a Christian?

kabrud:
That is just what they are. Imagine, from the figures above, there registered voters is just about 1.3 percent and they will tell you "Nigerians". When has 1.3 percent of Nigerians become the mouth piece of 98.7 percent Nigerians?

Typical zombie. No wonder your Buhari scored F9 in maths (that's if he even sat for the SSCE). 8.3m out of 74m is 1.3%? Tụfịakwa!

kabrud:
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Stop screaming rigging already because we know that is what you are planning. From the statistics, South East is just about 1.3 percent of the total number of registered voters. Leave NL and increase that to 2 percent. If 5 percent was not rigged, I wonder who will rig 1.3 percent. No be by force to be president but 5 percent does not represent Nigeria.

Are you sure you passed mathematics in secondary school? It's not only 1.3%, but rather 0.013%.

Acidosis:
You didn't tell us how much Omotola spent on Event Centres for 5 days, food, drink, guest artistes, guest speakers, etc.

You get sense!
See as it sounded like it was 15m naira gain. Who knows how much she spent in planning the whole event.

juanjo2:
I dey pity all this Yoruba wey sabi only how to gossip, fight them no fit fight... this can't happen in South east, south south. Thumb up for the Zoo nation

Guy, shut up! I hate the way you guys keep bragging on social media. It's very irritating. That's how the bragging was going on till herdsmen attacked a village in Enugu state and killed more than 10 people. Now you're here making noise again. Did they use pride and arrogance to swear for Igbos?
In case you don't know, abụ m ezigbo nwa afọ Anambra. Nee obodo m, nee obodo Ngige (nke bụ ikwu nne m).

IkpuNnu:
Political Vagabonds!!!

Makarfi: Spent 8 Years as Governor; Spent another 8 Years as a Senator, Then 2 Years as a PDP Chairman, what did he achieve in those 18 Years of looting our common patrimony? Moreover is a political paper weight in the North.

Atiku: Who wants to elect a president who will not go to 'Amelika'? He can only be president in the Idiotic Republic of Pigs.

Sule Lamido: This one has plethora of fraud cases in different courts in Nigeria.. No further evidence to show that PDP as a party reeks of corruption..Nigeria cannot go back to Egypt..

Shekaru: Another political comedian not worthy of further comments.

Dakwanbo; This clown that will struggle to win his ward let alone standing against Buhari in his State..

David Mark: A highly rated corrupt Senator, who has been hiding from the EFCC since he was reelected for the 5th time.. He collaborated with Jonathan and his wife and cornered almost 50% of the landed property belonging to FG in Abuja ...Please allow him to sleep out his remaining years in the Senate..before we remember his case....

Have you seen that they are either political thieves or vagabonds?

Sai Baba Till 2023...After Which Osinbajo/Elrufai Till 2031..

Ngeneukwuewu (Ngeneukwenu), is this you?

Cromcruach91:
I know of two families in the same situation

Both As

Family 1: Had five kids, two SS , one died.

Family2. Six kids, five AA and one SS with factor F.

And now we have IVF which can be used to reduce the risks.

Still, the man should have told the truth

Normal IVF is expensive and doesn't even guarantee pregnancy (beyond a chance of 50%). I know a lady who got pregnant naturally the first time after her wedding. When the child was less than 2 years, she tried IVF simply because she wanted to have twins. That IVF failed woefully.

Secondly, normal IVF alone cannot be used to screen out sickle cell embryos. You need to add what is called PGD (preimplantation genetic diagnosis). PGD is extremely expensive, and is only done in a few centres in Nigeria. Despite the cost, the pregnancy might still fail.

Why go thru all this stress to avoid something that would have been avoided for free?

obiZEAL:
INEC will not count Nairaland Likes
Please go and get your PVC


2019forDUKE

If most of us from South East, South South, South West and Middle Belt can dump our party interests or affiliations and line up behind this man (irrespective of the party he chooses), there may just be a brand new hope of reviving Nigeria.

Does Freeze really want Christians to stop giving to the church? Why must he force people to buy into his stupidity? People are free to spend their money anyhow they want. No pastor puts a gun on the heads of his members and mandates them to give (whether offerings, tithes or other forms of donations).

Why is Freeze so pained? Is it his money? Someone like him won't complain when people spend tens or hundreds of thousands to attend shows. He won't complain when people give out hundreds of thousands to their girlfriends, but when the same people give out 50k to the church, he starts crying all over social media.

Freeze has no interest in the promotion of the course of Christ here on earth. He has no iota of concern towards the spread of the gospel, rather he even opposes it, reminding us that some of the most developed countries in the world don't even have churches. He is simply an antichrist!

ariketalks:
Bad body odour? Is there ever good "body odour"?

The female pheromones is a kind of body odour, but some of them are not outrightly bad.