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There is no shame in it naa, I am getting married to my woman and her character and not her parents one-room flat, so wetin consine agbero with overload

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OP, has anybody spoken to the lady at any point in time to ask why she has not been helping out as expected? Do you realise she might not even be aware that you guys are not happy with her? Remember she is coming from a different family and not familiar with how you guys run your things...

It is this break down in communication that turn MILs against their DILs. Expectations needs to be expressly communicated and not assumed.

@sayoberry - nice stories. I laughed so hard. God bless them.

@ megilicious - you can subscribe to Babycentre's "what to expect". Every week/month, it sends you a mail telling you what developmental growth you should expect with your baby @ their different ages. Please read more on their website.

It will stop you from being unduly agitated over nothing since you already know what to expect. You can also join your baby's community group i.e mothers who gave birth in the same month as yourself and compare notes with them.

They also have the pregnancy "what to expect" which tells you what to expect weekly during pregnancy and what stage of development your unborn baby is in. After birth, it continues with babies...I advise all FTM to subscribe to it. It really helps to answer most of the questions we have about pregnancies, birthing and how to care for our babies.

***(caveat) I am not "campaigning" for babycenter oo, I am only telling mamas what helped me during my FTM experience ni

modath:
Decision Time;

Everybody fall in oooooo, I need helep oooo,

My son is 7wks+ now, but 4mths is a couple of weeks away & i'm planning for next stage of Nutrition & want to get prepared...

Gerber cereals or Cerelac, please advise?

He is( & from 1st day of birth) on Exclusive breastmilk + Enfamil (in equal proportion) & doing very well ...

cc.;lovinam , kimoni ; kaffy4bill; sayoberry;

let me say something strange...

In UK, the midwives and nutritionists actually advice that we stop giving cerelac to babies ;

According to them, it contains mere calories and it's better used during starvation when a child is not able to feed well

According to them, If 5 babies walk through the door, they are able to identify which baby is on cerelac cuz such babies are usually big which we Africans equate to good living. #not necessarily. Again, they say it triggers diabetes at a later date. Tufiakwa. But dunno how true this is.

So my dear Modath, me I no dey give cerelac oooo. At 6 months, my young chap weighed 8.5kg coming from 3.1kg birth weight oo he had bursted the weight chart and I was advised to look for a gym that accepts 6 months old. Na that gym I still dey look for since that time oo

What they advise is exactly what nurse Kaffy is doing - delay solids till 6 months when he is fully ready. At that point, introduce him to real food but in mashed or paste form, from there, he graduates to full solid. However, the breast milk/formula should continue but of course, quantity would reduce from 6 months when solid is introduced.

***(caveat) i am not saying mamas should not use cerelac ooo, just regurgitating what the medical team told me. I have purposely refrained from talking about it before now make Nestle no come arrest me.

ayolight:
Wat im planning to do is book d appointments, den set on our journey to lagos a day before d interview, branch at ife for d letter wit a prior notice to d doctor, nd proceed for d interview on d set date.
meanwhile I dnt ve anybody in Lagos, but I'm thinking of getting a cheap hotel for d nights, but I'm still not sure cos if we can get a driver for my mum car, it ll mean double expenses cos d driver ll be lodged as well. so I'm still thinking. cos we cnt leave ekiti on d day of d interview we cnt make it.

A good idea. As per expenses, pls worry less about that for now. Let's concentrate on getting the other requirements.

Pls go to bed now, It's nearly midnight.

ayolight:
we ll get d passport photograph tmrw. we ve one but its smaller to d required size,
I ll call d doctor at ife ti prepare d referall letters, so we collect it on our way to lagos. I pray we see a driver for my mum car.
lastly, I ll make enquire abt d yellow fever vaccine, if possibly get it done tmrw as well.
but I'm confused abt d bookings stuffs nw. we cnt go dia for bookings, d portal is opened just 5mins daily, I ll book for two persons, I dnt ve a laptop not to talk of two, I dnt knw d exact tyme. infact Im confused here

Other outstandings -

- the opv/ipv certificate
- admission letter to Light from the hospital, also to be mailed to the embassy
- printed copies of the online application form
- appointment letter

Is it possible you collect the document from Ife before traveling to Lagos? This is to forestall any time wastage with the Dr on the set day you are traveling for the interview. Most embassies will not attend to you if you are late for your interview by even a few mins and you will have to start a fresh process to reschedule another date. Not worth the risk.

ayolight:
madam kimoni, tnks for that. ve wrtten eerything down. I ll work on dem.
pls help me find out if its possible to book appointments without d baby.

Since its online, you can book appointment for her but you may need to take her along for the interview especially if they require her biometrics. I'll keep checking to confirm that.

However most importantly, like Caracta said, it's no 8 that looks most challenging cuz they require that you show evidence that you can pay for the treatment before the visas can be issued. We might need to raise some money first or wait for a response from Mutter.

But pending then, pls go ahead to get everything else and we'll see how no 8 goes.

It is well

Ayolight, I was able to retrieve the info above online, if it's not clear enough, pls click on the links. From the info on their site, you will need to fill the form online and schedule an appointment immediately after.

Pls try and get everything required before embarking on the journey. I think it's also a good idea to keep checking with Brian's dad.

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Enemies don come oo - Luke Shaw, we shall conquer

salsera:
@kimoni

Say it isn't so!!!
Ika ni Saudi oh
See better life.. Let them take refugees.
Make Uk no impload.

Lollzzz@impload

Na so oo

Pavore9:
Person no dey repent for una family?

after the thing don sweet you for belle finish

cococandy:
U.S. Na big brother now.

Always expected to solve the world's problems.

If those refugees find themselves in the UAE, won't there be enough for cater for them and not have them on the streets?
I guess they are too posh for those kind of people.

And what about their shared faith? Shouldn't that even be enough to get them saying "come in brothers"

I no understand too.

My sister the thing tire me oo

This pic has gone viral - these tents in Saudi can convienently house 3 million refugees plus the proximity advantage but still, no one is talking about it. And like you said, they share the same faith...

And we have not even talked about UAE, Quatar....

http://www.infowars.com/saudi-arabia-has-100000-empty-air-conditioned-tents-that-can-house-3-million-people-yet-has-taken-zero-refugees/

http://www.globalresearch.ca/saudi-arabia-takes-zero-refugees-despite-having-100000-tents-able-to-house-3-million-people/5475650

Tearoses - Russia is a giant warlord with modern war equipment. If the situation is not managed, it will trigger a world war. Then, countries like North Korea and Iran who have been waiting for an opportunity to test their latest nuclear technology will join and hmnnnnn.....the end result will be disastrous.

UrennaNkoli:
Well different names for different regions. Where I come from and in the north, it was called ekono gowon.

Same name in Lagos

Ekono actually means nails in Yoruba language

Pavore9:
Which one be candy? Na Balewa (addicted to ones of blue colour way back ) Ekana gowon and Baba dudu. l can never go near them again, ain't healthy for the body!

**yimu

After you don lick sege for the thing, na now you remember health

Ugba

murmee:
Believe me, you will not get the desired taste. The best taste for moin moin and not (moi moi) comes from wrapping with leaves.

Very true!

wonlasewonimi:
This is not a matter of being an ijebu

why do I need to pay for something if there's a possibility of getting it for free. Why should I pay £5.99 every month when I can use that to buy recharge card to call my maale or olosho.

wonlasewonimi:
Why? Is there any other wonlasewonimi on nl?

Oga sorry, you are the true wonlash, kulyie does not know jack about football

I thought it was Samarry cuz she likes Nigerian films as well

And she is the type that will want to bypass paying for Netflix

Her Ijebu strong well well; I didn't realize your Ijebu sef reach that level

No vex sir

wonlasewonimi:
Why? Is there any other wonlasewonimi on nl?

Yes naa, I have seen variants of this username ke

Lemme check your history....brb

beedam:
It's so frustrating. I do take a whole day off work for this injection o. Worst thing,theirs is on Monday( imagine wahala for office mamas)

One day,after waiting till 1pm,they say we should come back the next day. How will I explain that in the office that a whole place like ogudu health centre does this?

I ve vowed never to step there again

Ndo! No vex for them biko

Just go to somewhere closer

wonlasewonimi:
Please could you let me know if there's a way to bypass or avoid paying for Netflix.

Thanks in advance

Are you the fake or original wonlash

dominique:
No need for her to do that anymore. I've combed the thread and edited all the posts containong the previous account number to hers. My only worry is that some people has shared that account details on Twitter (according to onegai).

Thanks Dominque. Light needs every penny that is given to her right now.

Maybe she should constantly ask her husband for any monies paid into the account although that situation has to be managed with wisdom as the relationship is getting strained. There is little we can do to control information that has already gone out except to edit and send out the new info.

salsera:
So why is Europe playing Bigger Brother?

Whose to tell who is Syrian?
Why not the other Middle East countries that are in the region.

Europe cant handle this...there will be xenophobia and how will they know if they have not opened the floodgates for Isis members. Granting automatic asylum are they crazy?
They are just asking for an avalanche of just about everyone who wants to leave Syria Iraq and Africa sef. As if the refugees leaving through Syria is not bad enough.
I don't get the EU honestly

This is what I honestly don't get in the whole situation

The Arab nations can comfortably cater for these refugees unlike the EU whose facilities were already stretched even before their influx

The refugees are not going there, these super rich countries are not offering to help on their own and no one including the EU is looking in that direction. I honestly don't get it. Instead, they are looking at the US who is the farthest from the region airlifting as many of the refugees as possible

I keep asking myself, "Is this a grand plan or something"?

ayolight:
sir, dis is my own acc.
Ogunruku Mercy Itunu
UBA
2056071186.
tnks.

Ayolight, pls can you delete any unwanted account from this thread, not everybody will tell you they are going to transfer and not everyone has the patience of reading through all the pages to know that you've decided to use your account.

If possible, post your accounts details on the first page or even your first post. And pls do not post people's names here except they tell you to cuz I remember you were asking if you could a while back. Thanks.

It will end in praise for Light and the whole family. Amen.

These patches are too consistent for a fire accident case naa; if the pic is real, it looks more like vitiligo

naijababe:
3 points baby.....that bus don enter demurrage o, na to take it apart and sell for spares remain

Edwife, no vex .....I am speaking as a concerned friend and sister ni o

Sheriff777 and chigold101 -

Pls you guys should leave the poor innocent househelp alone Biko. Stop raping and maltreating her. In the first instance, she is a minor and shouldn't be a maid.

madam chigold101, who gave her all those marks on her body? Even if your husband is lying about everything, those marks are for real. So how did she get those marks? Pls fear God o

Oga sheriff777, pls stop sleeping with the help if you truly are. Use your plenty money to send her to school and not physically abuse her or take advantage of her. Please I beg you. She is too young to take care of your kids, hire a more matured woman to take care of all of them.

I honestly feel like reporting this case of child abuse to the authorities. Can somebody help plssss?? Whoever flogged that girl like that should be behind bars!

RoyalRoy:

Naijababe, I guess congratulations are in order. Pls let's be gentle with eddy

We need to find a good mechanic to repair that bus asap

EfemenaXY:
Why na??

But you proved me right naa

You remind me of Sunday Sunday daraprim(that malaria-preventive drug we used to take as kids, remember )

beedam:
When do they give immunizations? Any day of the week? I heard they are fast in attending to the babies. Where I live( ogudu road in ojota) after getting there as early as 6am to drop card,injection can come by 2pm( like say na from ikorodu abi Agbara dem dey bring am from). I still wonder what makes injection come that late from maryland or ikeja to ojota.