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EfemenaXY:
Lol!

Yeah, 1hr run. Done it and back now. Before that, I did my 30 mins sit-ups / lower abs workout.

I've still got plenty of time to go to church na. 12noon mass - so yeah, you can still help me tie that gele.

Oya come join me for brekkie: Cherry plum tomatoes, cucumber slices, a squeezed lime and lemon fruit in (warm water) + an extra bottle of water - one litre.

Cucumber is back

Damiso, you've been scarce. Trust you are good?

Chillis:
now this is funny.

Meanwhile all of una Don turn silent followers by force.
Where herzumpther e friends . Dem don hide?
Kimoni
Edwife
Idowuogbo
Akposy
EfemenaXY
Tchidi
Ikov

Even the ones she teach okpukpo agidi.
And how to wrap agidi leaves.

Just small 2014 picture she upload.una Don denial her.

Abeg make una leave herzumpther for me.

Chillis, I may not even have seen this now if you didn't call me out. I have been airborne for some days and only logging in briefly with airports free wifi. If to say I know ur address sef, i for don pop in say hello

Anyways, I have read thru the thread and what can I say?

This is NL so some things are not surprising anymore. I have gone back severally to Herz post and I can't find where she ever said she cooked it and even when she was prompted about it, she duly confirmed she did not cook it, so wetin again?

People have always posted pictures of food they didn't cook and were never crucified for it , so why is Herz case different? Me sef, I don post sandwich from Subway, and all my chicken and chips were never prepared by me, so what's the fuss about? Personal vendetta??

As per deactivation, she has consistently said she wants to deactivate but we kept begging her not to, but she eventually saw the need to, so again I ask, where lies the problem? Now I see why babyosis had to open a thread before she deactivated. It makes more sense now.

And for the records, if I am mention the two realest people on NL, I would mention Herz and Akposy. Their simplicity attracted them to me in the first place so I don't know what people are talking about but again, no surprises, this is NL.

Cococandy. Kimoni I'm deactivating. I wanted to say it when it's close but I guess I have to leave now.

My we...ddin..... Is very close now. I need time to prepare, hubby has asked I stop nlding too. Will miss u both. Will resurface with a new moniker when Hubby's head cools down. ...thinks I'm addicted to Nl.

Glock8 I'm not a bad cook bro.

Herzumpther, if you are reading this, pls send me ur full contact details

Ayolight, the Lord is your strength. It will surely end in praise.

@Idowu, Aminat, and all - thank you guys soo much. God bless you all

cococandy:
Serial something?

Stalker

fellis:
Serial stalker. hehehe

God bless you for proving the missing link. Serial stalker it is

couldn't place it myself

KanwuliaJara:
Sorry!
I don't do group activities!
I am a "solo slut"!

No "peppersoup" gang (I don't know what this word means but I know I heard it first from you)

TheRealAdonye:
Earlier today,

Dodo and Sausage Mede Mede...
(For 3 people)
Recipe from Iquo's Blog

Interesting meal. Hope it was nice?

Akposy:
Longest tyme ma!!!! Good evening....i wld nid ur help soon.

Whr is EfemenaXY and Kimoni et all

Akposy, when is your convocation, I wan come chop rice

SAMBARRY:
check the thread again . The place where kamwuliajara said he's following a million girls and one guy.i saw your name in the list of followers kamwuliajara posted.its there. I was like

this babe doesn't even know a fraudster is following her

He has a trend...He follows females with personal pictures on their profile and has multiple facebook accounts.

That guy behaves like a serial something...

KanwuliaJara:
1. NO
2. NO
3. NO
4. NO

Reason for ALL 4?

I am a better "PHILANDERESS"!
No man can beat me at that kind of game o!
Abi, I nefa "PROOF" am?

In all honesty, you have "proof am" even though I wish it were not so.


@Toks- no 1. I wouldn't stay with a cheating man, I'll kill him one day out of anger.

**besides Toks, why did you challenge the first poster who answered the question, you think it's not possible? Com'on dude

nasha1:
I also saw the same thing.Edwife didn't even mock or said single girls are unhappy.And they refused to see where she wrote that it's not only the society but the ladies are to blame themselves .So she went further on showing some posts from ladies crying for men.
Nawa for long epitsles on top of a simple post.

Na real wa

While I agree that criticisms should not be destructive, there also has to be a balance. Sometimes, the best advices are not very pleasant to the ears, but it must still be given anyways.

And just like any hardware system that has defied all possible solutions, the only way to make it work would be to force-close it and restart to to clear all stubborn issues. The human brain sometimes works that way, it often needs a hard reset (hard talk) to reboot and clear off all pending problems.

Herzumpther:
Been a while.

Cococandy and kimoni I miss you both.

Okotv I'm fine and I've spoken to pineapp too.

Where have you been my darling? Trust you are good

Idowuogbo:
Oh yea....she's due in on my bday sef but with CS don't they take the baby out a week before the due date?

Am I smelling a parry?? Make I call sambarry make we being prepare ke


@OP - our prayers are with you, mother and child, it will end in praise.

thorpido:
One of those times,I'll strongly align with Kanwuliajara.
In this day and age,girls can't take full responsibility for their reproductive health?The problem is not that you came into the world as a girl,the problem is that you fail to use that thing in your skull.
If you were a guy you'll still make decisions that will probably put you in prison.

Brace up to life as a single mother and make the best of your future.

It's soo annoying when girls blame everything and everyone for their predicament.

Because I am a girl...because the guy is Yoruba..societal pressure...it's the devil...where does this blame game really ends? How can these girls ever move forward if they don't realise their folly?

How on earth is anyone else to blame in this story if not the lady herself.

blessedtwins:
Kimoni:he doesn't want a maid nor my stepmom around.he promised to help d first time but never did.even d so called brothers are working.its all lies.before now I never envisaged being a single mum but I don't want to be depressed in the name of marriage
Chinwedym:I knw d situation weird.
ahnie:I hope you are ok.
Deezou:your prince is really cute.congratulations

Blessedtwins, if he doesn't help this time around, then get a maid by all means. Let it be said that you got a maid because you were overburdened and he didn't help you and not because you didn't give him the chance to help you even when he promised to help.

@single mum - I understand dear, just that it's a decision you have to take for yourself.

Mizmycoli - I can't see much difference in the summary of what you and Edwife wrote. Just that you laid emphasis on different points of the same situation.

And I disagree with your impression of her post. How does her post interprete to mean that every single girl is unhappy? Is that what she said? I am still searching for where she said that.

Like I said earlier, you guys have said the same thing just that you have gone further to explain that singles have their low days when they 'rant' about their singleness just like every normal human. And I quite agree with that but the denial of this situation is what I believe her post is addressing. Whatever you have said does not take away the from the reality of what she has posted.

Again, you missed the point where she said ladies sometimes put themselves under this pressure. Whose fault would that be? As an example, I never knew Linda Ikeji was single until I started reading it on her blog regularly howbeit jokingly. I honestly think this is very unnecessary because I really don't care about her status but if she feels that's the best way to make light of the situation, who am I to disagree?

Soceity will always put us under pressure, it's not restricted to women or marriage; everybody faces societal pressure at one point or the other in life, it's left for each one of us to slug it out. If you lose that war, you have to take responsibility.

Talk2SeaL:
Not my Story

Whose story?

KanwuliaJara:
How can you manage home without cooking for the family?

Exactly what I asked myself when I saw this thread. Home management is an all-encompassing word that includes cooking. So how are the two comparable

Spend some, invest some, create a sinking fund for my kids' education

iavanti:
Ravaging hormones u say..its my 2nd and dis hs neva happen 2 me b4.bt its funny tho

It's ur outburst I am referring to ma'am...pregnancy hormones I suspect

opella:
Ingredients
1 mudu of guinea corn
1 mudu of millet
1/4 mudu of maize (yellow or white)

Method

To make raw paste;

1. Wash the guinea corn, maize and millet and soak in a clean bucket for two days, making sure you change the water every 12hours (This allows the grains to ferment).

2. Then take the grains out of water, wash properly and take it to the commercial grinder for grinding. Grind the grains very soft and smooth.

3. Wash your hands properly. Using your fingers and a clean sieve, pass the grounded paste through the sieve to separate the soft and the harder parts of the ground maize, adding clean water to aid the passage.

4. After about 30 minutes, the smooth paste settles at the bottom of the container, and the water is up, gradually pour away the water and keep the smooth paste in a refrigerator for your use.

Note: Mudu is the measurement bowl used in the local markets. One mudu is equivalent to about seven milk cups.

Storage: if there is no electricity, you can add clean water to the mixture and store in plastic bowl with a lid. Do pour away the water and pour in some clean water to the bowl containing the corn paste every 24 hours.

Very accurate description but I didn't realise one could combine the three

cutienik:
Mamas,pls help me,I stopped brstfeedin my son on friday,I applied flagyl on my nipple,wen he saw it,he ran frm me infct he doesnt want to see d breast bt evrytin has bounced on me now,one of my breast is engorged,am avin headache,lumpy nd painful breast(only one)I wear bra 24/7,tuk ibuprofen,no improvement,I cnt slip,hubby hs bn makin fun of me dt I shuld av done it gradually,AM IN PAINS!!!kimoni,tchiwinne,lovinam,kaffybill...egbami oo..cnt slip bt my boy slips lik no care in d world.

Cutienik, do you feel better now?

Zee10:
Mamas in the house I greet o. I greet my able seniors and beautiful juniors o.
I have being a silent reader and av decided to come out of hiding. Actually 30weeks gone on my 2nd missionary journey. Hope am welcomed. Lol.

#teamnovemberforsupernaturaldelivery

I am welcoming you specially. Happy bumping

iavanti:
Don't be so mean 2wards odas dat are new here,u're only responding d familiar ones which is so unfair..aren't u here 2 help both old and new members.Still no response 2 my previous posts.#teamfebruary2016#

Ravaging hormones @ work

blessedtwins:
Pls I have something on my mind that I would like my e family's opinion as if it were their sister.
My husband has vehemently refused to listen to any plea abt getting a maid to help when my baby arrives.he insists he will do the omugwo himself or ask his younger brothers to come over for it.
Pls it sounds ridiculous but that's how unreasonable he is.My dad said I should come over to his house a few days to but I am thinking moving out to a fresh apartment.
This decision is against the backdrop of how much abuse I have withstood.
Cc: kimoni
nkkystel
goldmine
Virtuouswife
fabmummy

There is something about separating from one's husband. It has to be a well thought out decision and it has to come from within you because it can well turn into a permanent seperation.
If you are going to move into a new apartment, pls think through it. Ensure that deep in your mind, that is what you really want to do and you won't regret it later. Have a well thought out plan - are you capable of sustaining yourself and the kids without any input from him for as long as you guys are seperated? Would you be able to cope with the physical stress and "stigma" of being a single parent?

As per he wanting to do the omugwo, pls let him do it. When the baby comes, let him do as much as possible to enable you get maximum rest. Even if he want his brother to come, let him come but again, give him as much work as possible and don't be nice about it, he has come to do omugwo, let him do the omugwo. But in all of this, pls treat the brother well.

If it works out fine, if it doesn't, fall back on your plan B - get a maid or family to come over ASAP.

Happy birthday R231

I didn't realise you were still a teenager o

adet991:
@ sambarry na yesterday you dey complain about one owanbe like that,yet u dey ask for the venue of another parry

it's in the blood ni

Hernyolar:
Hello all...
My name is Hernyolar..I've been a regular visitor on this thread but I'm commenting officially for the first time. hope I'm welcomed? ?
Thanks for making my day everyday especially ms tearoses, kimoni, sambarry ( iya wura) , edwife, the official god appeaser, uncle bellong and everyone
Nice work everyone.

Welcome dear. Enjoy your stay in family section.

Kisses to LO

OP, more than 24 hrs after, you have still not found another picture of your "daughter " to post? This innocent minor you took to an eatery??

One day one day monkey go go market, he no go return. Kontinu