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If you can't control your women, then don't be polygamous

king1250:
Among thousands of students in Cyprus, thousands of students in Benin, thousands of students in Nigeria, hundreds of students in USA, all in scholarship by the pastor it's only these two students complaining among all.
Anyway maybe this particular people have one problem or another.

Not everyone complains online

lexy2014:
Let's look at this way. How does loosing your wife justify your actions? You even have 3 kids you should live your life for and u using your wife's death to justify your addiction. That is lame. If every man who lost his wife did what you did, then we will have several amputated men all over the world. There are 3 kids whose lives depend on u and u somewhere destroying your life. Is that how to be a good father? Should her parents and siblings get addicted because she died after all they knew her longer than u did. You better stop being a clown, get your ass up and go start being a responsible father

You made a lot of sense on this. But I have come to understand that we are different people and react to grief in very different ways. His way was awfully a wrong direction

family6644:
It started when I lost someone dear to me, I almost ran mad, they had to call a local nurse who administered an injection to me, the thing off me, when I woke up it started again, I was given another dose, it got me so high that I don't know anything again until I slept off again.

This is how I started requesting for it, I started taking it to get over the trauma, the lady noticed I was getting addicted she refused giving me saying it's dangerous, I had to call my pharmacist friend to get regular supplies, though he didn't stop warning me but I'm already addicted taking it every 4hours, trying to stop when I started seeing the damages but I couldn't.

The fatigue that will follow is unbearable, I will end up taking it to feel okay again. I attached a picture of my hands with the damage.

I need help, I want out so that I can live my normal life but I don't know how, has anyone been there before? How did you get over it? I don't want to die from this. Please help me

Go for a Rehabilitation ASAP. If you can go to Quintessential Health Centre, Jos. They can treat your addiction, someone I know who got addicted to the same drug was cured there.

Martinsmine:
I have a friend in which his brother was slammed on the hip wit the down of a ak 47 gun. He survived d hit but the pain that guy was passing was much. This was the same drug he was giving to for a longtime but it was stopped because he was adviced to stop. He listened because fly way no they hear they follow dead body enter grave. But your own has don much damage do well to stop it.

You know nothing about addiction. People telling an addict to stop his addiction means nothing. It is extreme strong will, medical treatment or the grace of God that can stop it.

lastmessenger:
Why send them to Cyprus? He could have just sent them to one of the universities in Nigeria and foot their bill.

Abi ooo. Spending money to help Northern Cyprus rather than your own country.

myyansh68:
This World is really out of hand.

This practice is older than a thousand years.

This warning goes directly to the emotional campaigning politician banking on his fellow IPOB to get Nigeria's mandate.

clockwisereport:
Can you please do me a favour?
Just shut up

You can't shut up the truth. You can only shut your eyes to it.

Somebody wey be pikin during IBB regime, na him wan rubbish IBB. Chai, power is transient.

Woman no send if you don lose your job. if you need dey do armed robbery, she no mind. Just give her money.

We have only 2 active textile manufacturing companies in Nigeria. How can you kill an industry and force the people not to buy inexpensive clothes?

So you will pay Mercy Chinwo 10 Million and tell your church choir to be content that they are singing for God.
Una welldone o

The way Igbos behaved tribalistically in the last elections is enough to raise anti-Igbo sentiments.
When your people insulted Tinubu, Sanwo-Olu in favour of your LP candidates, you didn't think there will be consequences. Well here are the consequences. As you have reminded them that they are Yorubas, it is time to remind you where Yoruba land is.

SangoOlukosoOba:
Coming from an unpatriotic citizen!

Hello! As far as the continent Africa exist, We are the greatest! None comes close!

On any, and at any level! None is even close!

So because of that shithole called SA, you have degenerated to mocking your own country?

You know your problem! You don’t even know your worth?

There is a japa fever among the citizens. I am trying to highlight on that while a man whose specie paternity is in contest because his unintelligence is amazing sees me as unpatriotic. You that is patriotic, wtf have you done in service to the country. Just sit behind your phone and say what you want while in reality, you can't even raise a finger for the good of your country. Leave me, I am not the cause of your silliness.

And as far as Africa is concerned Nigeria is just the most populous, not the greatest. Patriotism is not living in denial.

If it were Nigerian firefighters, the return plane will be empty

dopedan:
I have some bad habits im trying to stop like porn and masturbation, because wen im with a girl I get erect but when its time to put it in it goes flaccid , it’s quite shameful
So i need advice from people who experience this on wat to do to speed up my recovery process and get my morning wood back thanks

Seems you're going in with a condom. Condoms are number 1 erection killer for me. That's why I do only raw. Meaning I can't afford to be sleeping around.

Influence of the USA is dwindling. Wish Africa can fix herself.

isabi2lof:
. So cheating dey pain men like this , all of una just dey shout , don't cheat, like say the woman na baby but if na man , you go advise the man make him cheat.

If na woman loose her job , she go dey struggle dey do all kinds of menial jobs , even if na factory work. Him he dey there dey find collar job ,dey claim I be graduate .

You just tried to degrade an intelligent comment with ignorance.

triple996:
But that's what u guys do to Islam isn't it

I am a Christian and have nothing against any religion.

Kobojunkie:
What is this one talking about now? How is having 2 or more kids you could not cater properly to from the beginning a mistake?

You are calling me this one? When your parents disagree with your views, is that how you address them? Guy or Woman or Transexual, see I dey my dey, I no mention you. stop trying to celebrate your ignorance over my mentions.

Thank you Seun for doing personal investigations like this and putting it on frontpage. Soon people like this will be campaigning for political positions.

triple996:
christianity

Stop thinking through your anus. Was it written in Christianity for him to murder to cover up a scandal?

Why death by hanging? Why not death by being put in a dungeon with 4 hyenas.

Kobojunkie:
But it is entitlement to expect others to rescue you after you have made many foolish decisions --- not even mistakes--- without first consulting them by the way.

Yes, people are selfish but many are equally entitled.

Are you without mistakes? Biko go and rest.

Moh247:
No family is obligated to help you, help only who helped you... You are not God

Heartless soul. learn to love at least.

These days the number one defense of selfish people is to claim others have entitlement mentality

Please don't cheat. He will use that against you anytime. If you have to leave, do it with a clear conscience.
Ehmmm, you say your rent is expiring abi? Let it expire, don't lift a finger. Let your Landlord kick you out, then move to your parents place or get a place of your own with your kids. Use that as a trap for continuing the marriage or not.

A friend shared this experience in an Ashawo joint.
When he entered her room and wanted to start having sex, she insisted on money first as usual and he paid. When wanted to hang his trousers on the wardrobe, she declined that he must put his trousers on a mat just by the side of the bed and he did. Then he had sex and left. As he entered a bus to go home, he realized that some of his money was missing. He swore the 10k he had with him now became just 1k. And this is someone that is extra careful. After putting 2 and 2 together, he landed on the fact that the theft happened when he dropped his trouser on the mat near the bed in the ashawo's room. There was somebody under the bed who stole his money when the sex was going on.

Going to brothels is risky. Bringing runs girls to your home is risky as well. Staying faithful is the best.

Godmademan:
I can remember how marvellously well the government disbursed the COVID19 palliatives and the 5,000 each to indigent families. Let's allow them do more 😅😅😅

If they don't put that as a priority, things might subside into anarchy.

Akalia:
Again you miss the point.

While subsidy removal portends positive implications for our nation, there are things that should have being considered first.

The most weighty factor that should have being considered is putting measures in place to cushion the ripple effect of the subsidy removal on the part of struggling common Nigerians like you and I, of which we constitute the majority in the country.
Those (minority) who belong to the political elite and wealthy elite won't feel the pang of this subsidy removal at all.

Today I have to pay more for less with respect to PMS purchase.

Well the new leadership said they will. Lets hope they do for the general interest of Nigerians.

Akalia:
Are you following the developments in Nigeria from another planet? You think palliative measures will hastily be put in place when the new numbskull administration goofed by putting the cart in front of the horse?
Palliatives should have come before the subsidy removal and not the other way round. Got it?

Ok let subsidy continue and we get indebted with another trillion of Naira while the fuel marketers who are %0.000005 of the population keep getting richer.