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[quote author=member_126910]Thanks for the advice. Is there any part of my post above which suggests that things cannot be worked out? I'm just really upset about this, and I'm in a mess.[/quote]biliv me, i'm like your boyfriend, things won't work out. The truth is dt, he's overdoing things. I mean, he's on a maxi. He loves u so much and is sacred of loosing u. He can't stand the tot of another guy sharing his own thing. That's it! Even if u cheated, he won't go. U jes tell him you're leavn him and see him beggin. Why beg if you're nothin to him.
Like i said, mine aint jes being amplified as his, and i don't really stalk or try to trail, but hey, i check up at times too. It's natural to doubt, if u aint, you're on a long thing. The only problem is his amplified version of doubts. Biliv wax, he won't change. He can only try, he won't

take dat: These miserable Ibo's should spare us their agonies. The same set of people that wants to declare a sovereign state of biafra next monday are still making demands from Nigeria to better their lot.

is it new? They're jokes. Even their ojukwu can back to eat off Nigeria. Abi na lie? Mtcheew! Shiö!

The second pix got me askin if that's really how to kiss. She's gonna strangulate her ko?

These people aint the same again ni. At least, na 'our oyel'

omiobo: . Mtschew! At this your age,u dey complain of mosquito,wey you suppose dey use to them. Mosquitos are my best friend,they keep my company every time, and I always join their company.

u be winch? Besides, mosquitoes are attracted by the d scent u emit

*yawns* it's safe to dream

Hope nobody hangs himself when he found out another bloke is fuckin his girlfriend. Cos unless you're a virgin, u can't jes give me dt shiet! It's crap. I aint sayin it's bad but u gotta do more dn say you jes FEEL like when u aint a vigo!
Let's fucck first, i got different skills, if u dnt like it, we might consider sex a no no...lol

hailolive: And if they make up to this which is close to the budget. So why is our lives in Nigeria in abject poverty,

i don't knw why YOUR life is in ABJECT poverty

I don't even play dt PES of a game. Though my brothers do. When ever the guys are around, we play PES. but i stick to my old school winning eleven 9. The other winning eleven 10 to other sequence are jes like PES. A game where u can use messi or ronaldo from midfield to scrape a shot at the any fuckin where and get a goal. Oh, i remember, kaka, malouda too. I'll try d Fifa though

joeydozzy: PLS PLS SIGN THE GODDAMN DOCUMENT. FINALLY, A WAY TO GET RID OF THIS DUDE. IF THIS IS TRUE,PLEASE I TAKE GOD BEG YOU SIGN THE PAPERS

hahaha

It's good now. How best will u experience your chatters on nairaland and debasing of problems people encounter in marriage. You'll experience the divorce part quickly. At least, u can be able to appreciate other people's marital issues. Try it first!

Nonsense!

jmoore: You may have heard of men that want their women pregnant before they can go ahead with the wedding, that is a very disrespectful.




1- A man wanted her girlfriend to be pregnant before he will marry her. She accepted and got pregnant. After the wedding she had a miscarriage. She later got pregnant again and had another miscarriage. The man kicked her out of the house after two years of marriage



2-This man said she must not only get pregnant but she must give birth first before marriage can take place. The girl accepted and took in. After she gave birth they married. One year later the child died. Next three years the wife was unable to conceive again. The man kicked her out of the house.


The next story below is an exception

3-This man never demanded sex from his girlfriend. They got married without having premarital sex. One year passed no kid, four years no kid. [s]The man never complained about the situation. After 15 years of marriage she finally took in and later gave birth to triplets[/s]

OP, U sure have DELIBERATELY omitted some REAL LIFE SITUATION TOO..

1. A man agrees for no sex during courtship because d woman claims she wants clean, though admitted not to be a virgin. After marriage, yrs passed and no pregnancy. The test eventually shows the woman has damaged her womb during abortion, she can't conceive!
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2. A man was a saint, never asked for sex, though d spouse aint a virgin. After yrs of marriage, frequent miscarriages. No child. Tests proved the woman had series of abortion which has now weakened the womb. The womb can't hold a foetus for long!
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3. After marriage, a couple had three children. DNA test proved the only legit child of the man is the not even among the three! Further tests proved d man has a low sperm count!
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4. Night of wedding, wife keeps begging dt she jes doesn't want to loose d man so she has to pretend and claim she's a virgin throughout the courting period. Now that they're wedded, what else?
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i've told u lots to stop bringing issues like women are that fuckin special. U kept screaming 'blackmailed into marriage' as if it's aint an agreement! Do u knw how many guys have been conned into marriage only to realised they've been duped? Wife can't conceive because of her own youthful recklessness! And that's one of the major reasons some families ask for dt. I dnt give a fucck, there's no way i won't fucck u in the least, and i dnt give a fucck if you get pregnant in the way. I'll accept it. And it's your fuckin problem if u get headache over it!

Logicboy03:

Yes

CrazyMan: Lol...I'm not surprised...

me inclusive

So, what's all dz fuzz for? What's d big deal en it?

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Threads like this serve as an avenue for me to minister to the numerous bird brained folks perambulating this forum and leaving stupîd opinions everywhere they go. . .
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and to accept your opinion is alwys right! Aint u d one alwys claimin everyone has there own opinion?
Whoever don't biliv sexkillz is mynd is a fool. I got evidence. xynerise almost blew his cover! Plus, check the 'i' when writing 'shît'

[quote author=Mynd_44]Well I tried understanding what your problem is with that but I can't. Its my choice and I said/typed that I won't be disturbed about it.

Same thing goes for marrying an older lady or someone with a kid. That's just who and what I am. Can't change that[/quote]mynd, u can't undstnd my problem cos i might not even av one. You have a wild imagination.
But abt u not gettin disturbed abt it is as selfish and naive as being hypocritical. What u failed to undstnd is dt your wife will drag u into the depression and you'll be forced without choice. One will be tellin others dt, 'i told her not to worry but she won't. She worries abt me, worries abt my people, worries abt hers too'!
And hey, not givin a fucck with all that won't make a gentleman as acclaimed by ur fan. Infact, you'll be more worried than the aggrieved.
Like i've retracted, i won't wish u find yourself there. It's d wrongest journey to embark on, a wrong wish to pray for

booqee: 1000likes
spot on! But d bolded wasn't necessary. You don't have to curse someone to drive home ur point

i knw. I was being a jerk there. I'm apologizing to mynd there. U see, mynd is an imaginable friend, but a friend i love to attack, like s_killz. I'm not askin him to knw dt, cos i think i'm choosin my friends.
Like i said, i'm apologizin to mynd, i was too foolish there.
By d way, thanks bee. You are a name's sake with my son. I named him bukky cos i want him to be flirt jes like me..lol
but he disappoints me, wanted to be pastor. So he said he wanna be james.
Once again, i pray for d OP to have a breakthrough, i knw how he's feeling.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Look, you wanna hold on to your opinions, fine. If you won't be comfortable adopting, that's totally your business not mine. I have a family member who did and she and her husband are happy with it.
No one came crying or anything. The beauty of life is that we can all choose different paths cos happiness is subjective. You choose you path to happiness and I will choose mine.
This topic ain't about my choice/would be choice, it is about the OP asking for what to do. I dropped my opinion and I waltzed out. If you wanna talk about adoption, open a thread and I will be happy to drop my opinions about it too. This thread is not about me.
Or is it that its the fact that I seem so calm and undisturbed about my comment that is affecting you? Cos seriously, I don't get it[/quote]that got me laughing mynd.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Has her father accepted for you to marry her?

www.nairaland.com/1005200
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hahahahaha...i remember dt fool. He kept pourin acid on the site with his talks. Sexkillz jes dropped a teargas, or better yet, a laughing gas. Laugh matters, that time was.

[quote author=Mynd_44]I wonder why you are having an erectîon over one comment. That is my opinion of the matter and that ie what I stand by. All those things you mentioned can still be enjoyed by an adopted kid na. If you want to enjoy the joys of having an intact, you can adopt an 9 month old baby if that will make you happy.
I don't see how my opinion makes me fake. That is what I believe in, I was brought up like that and I ain't about to drop that any time soon. If you think people who adopt their kids are not happy, maybe you should call the mothers of Tinubu and Taribo West and ask them[/quote]oh, i see. So they were happy? U really don't have to compare people, i hope u knw dt? I pray u don't use other ladies as example for yours. Don't forget, everyone's got a secret.
Now listen up mynd..
1. If i use my ability to make children for money, then i'll be happy to adopt.
2. If i lost my womb during a foolish abortion, i won't mind adopting too.
3. If become impotent or infertile, and av been tryin to no avail, then i won't mind too. Time is going.
4. If i don't want i child of my own, i'll be happy to adopt one too..
But mynd...
If i'm perfectly okay with my wife, i will be worried if i knw i had no choice but to adopt. It's very depressing when u see things go wrong without reasons. Pls stop talkin of me havin errection over your comment as if u ever had one!

deshclones: Nne tread with caution...dis is d same way sexkillz started...here is NL where most people live fake lives..thanx


@op...hate to say this but mynd is right..enjoy ur wife nd pray..God is still working wonders..all d best man.

why pray Sir, when mynd was right? He practically wouldn't be needing a child, cos according to him, it aint a priority. Well sorry, it is. It might jes be somethin we don't have power over, so we might have to live with it without hurtin ourselves. But in mynd's theory, there's no need to pray, because i biliv he married his wife to be with her forever without kids. Let's stop deceivin ourselves, for better for worse aint a child's play. For better is much more better than worse.
Having said dt, i biliv we're ignoring somethings here...
I knw i'm also a victim of agreein to abortion, but i pray it won't affect me. The OP said she got pregnant once, what happened to it while courting? I biliv it was aborted. With what? Drug, D&C, concortion? Cos these things are all bad, no matter the one we thought is good. Like i said, i'm also i victim. But we seriously might have offended God(if u biliv in one), or the potential child we murdered(u might want to deceive yourself by saying it's not murder).
I pray your prayers are answered. I pray it happens 'soonest'.
I feel wot you're going through. Say to yourself alwys, 'it is well'. Thank you.

[quote author=Mynd_44]Why disturb yourself? Did you marry your wife cos you wanna spend the rest of your life with her or cos you wanted kids? Cos if you wanted kids, you could have stayed unmarried and had children. Adopt if you are so impatient[/quote]okay, as expected. Sexkillz wld have given d same hypocritical advice as this. How does ds make sense? Why deceive yourself? We all cld say dt, but we knw we never prayed for dt. You're not thinkin straight. You're being fooled by the wannabe-white-man attitude dt ravages d whole black nation now. Have u ever experienced d joy of having a little one bounce on you and wake u in the morning with her tiny voice of 'daddy'? Have u ever wish she ignorantly stained your lovely shirt while smiling satisfactorily?
If u don't, i knw your wife will want dt. When i was stupidly small, i also said the same, but in a while, i knw i won't kill my wife if she didn't conceive, i knw i will try and pretend it aint hurting by tellin her i didn't marry her cos of d kids, i knw i'll suggest adoption. But hey mydn, the saint of nairaland, i won't stop prayin for a child. Will u?
You'll disappoint me if u do, cos u might not necessarily need one. My prayer for u is to find it difficult to get one. Let's see how u cope. I biliv you aint trying to ingratiate, cos if u were, u already got yourself a foolish and ignorant fan...>>>see a foolish comment below

La Parisienne: There's something about you that's really intriguing me lately. I hope you are truly a gentleman like you portray in your posts. Your wife will have a whole lotta fun.

if you're done deceivin yourself, u might want to wake now. Reality beckons!

Let us join hands and blame fashola of Lagos state. He caused all these na. Abi u no knw?
*Pls post more pix of lagos bad roads. I undstnd fashola too acquired a submarine*
PH ti baje ooo

danduchi: Dats a good one frm ogun state....but if OBJ gets to find out,it wont be funny with the present rift btw him and Fashola.

were u the judge presiding other their rift? Fuckin speculator!

NSNA: No wrong here,

people can perform on stage without royalties. It is more of a privilege to the real rights owner.

That is why you watch Xfactor and people can sing whatever they want.

It becomes business when it is been sold as your own in audio visual, then you need rights.

Also this dudes called P square have got to take it easy, they started by dancing and perfoming to Michael Jackson songs on stage

comfam intelligence...the bolded made every needed sense!

slimyem: This is good business...
Onila should take a cue from this girl...

onila, if truly is a virgin, will be a 'wasted' virgin. The type dt calls themselves a virgin because they've not been really poked! But their lips and anuss aint a virgin. Infact, she will be with a flapping breastz!

[quote author=Garri_Activist]1st to quote
Very soon the whole north too will have oyel then nigerdelta nor go dey show dem selves [/quote]more like 'first to display his foolishness'

[quote author=Mynd_44]It is true that a lot of rap lyrics are actually crap and a lot of rappers are shallow but that does not take the acts that rap is poetic. Forget the "money, hos and rims" rap and listen to a rappers who has dept and insight and you would love the genre permanently[/quote]God bless my only true poet and rapper: Tupac Amaru Shakur!

Tusky44: Ofenmanu ashaw0 can never control her mouth even in public. smh

what is this thing talkin? That's what happens when animals are domesticated to live among humans. You Igbo fool

[quote author=12 inches!]Don't mind. Them...And ileke idi...Them bb haters. I am in contact with some important people via email on my bb... I have downloaded application forms for a particular job posting, chatted with my very good friend and still av time for ur hating azzess on NL #ileke. Idi and the likes all tonite on my precious BB that I love to pieces. Nobody bashes ur iOS and ICS so leave us BB users alone and let us rest.[/quote]all those shitz you're dancing for, tell me which one an 'old' symbian phone won't do jare. Whatsapp is workin fine as pinging..
Blackberry is jes so cheap with it's services dt people deceive themselves as if that's not the deal they all went for? Cheap unlimited services! That's it!
I'll stick to lumia