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franchasofficia:
People may think you are talking rubbish, but little did they know that you are saying the sad truth about life. These things are natural traits, not women's fault, it is how most women are born, only few are exception, very few.
For a woman to remain [b]genuinely loyal to you as her partner, you must be someone she looks up to as higher than her in many ways, but most especially financially and economically. Academically can sometimes be overlooked if you have basic education and very financially buoyant.[/b]
Women are not to blame, it is how nature built them and I believe it's for a purpose.

Do men stay genuinely loyal to their women?

Beverlyjean:
■ Men make women...with this trend...it will only end up with women needing help from men and will not get it ... women don't help women , men do .. that's a fact ... most of u women are just sheep , no reasoning at all

That's not a bad trend to see realized; it is high time Nigerian women started getting off their entitled arses and getting themselves their own money and life already. All these men-this-and-men-that nonsense has filled the seas to overflowing. None of them were born with dicks stuck in their vaginas so why and for so long in the Nigerian case?

ravensckar:
What a demon-casting, tongue-speaking and Bible-quoting criminal cannot justify does not exist. It's like you're just meeting one, me I know them well well. The moment a person is talking to me and utters words like "I'm a Child of God" "The Bible says...." just know that the niggar or b1tch is about to finger your brain.
Religious criminals without holiness! How a person allows his mum to sell her property only to turn around to use it to sponsor his own wife beats even the devil's imagination. I'm glad you got paid back in your own coin.

ROFLMAO!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

vibemad007:
■ A newly married Nigerian lady has taken to social media to share her heartbreaking experience just two weeks into her marriage accuses her of forcing him against his will
The young woman whose identity remains undisclosed took to Facebook to express her anguish after her husband reportedly accused her of forcing him into marriage against his will
The distraught lady went on share her harrowing ordeal, detailing how her husband confronted her with claims that she had pushed him into marriage prematurely.According to her account, her husband told her point-blank that he was not ready for marriage and accused her of forcing the whole thing on him. “My husband sits me down 2 weeks after wedding and said (you forced the whole thing on me I’m not ready to settle down,” the heartbroken lady said.
The lady’s public cry for help has elicited an outpouring of sympathy and support from netizens, many of whom have condemned the husband’s actions and offered words of encouragement to the distressed wife.Netizens Reactions…

Kyng, na una be this?

Congratulations!

michlins:
■ offerings were never part of the Bible. The early apostles collected offerings so as to help the needy and cater for the full time workers in the church.
Right now, it's different. Pastors are now richer than the church and probably don't need the money again. So this is a step in the right direction to take off the burden from the members

Your so-called churches are not biblical either. For instance, Paul's church in 1 Corinthians 14 vs 1 - 40 was a general gathering of all Israelites — both believers in Jesus Christ and none believers — as Paul urged that the beliefs of those who clung to the Old Law of Moses be respected in such gatherings by those who believe in Jesus Christ. The word church was used about a collection of israelites but your religion, of course, chooses to impose a different translation to pretty much everything to forward a particular denominational narrative.

ogawisdom:
∆ Prayer and fasting works

Evil people!

TheRealOwner:
∆ Lol. You must be a newbie to his kind of message. That thing you are calling 'Fire' is nothing but hype, rancour and charisma, disguised as zeal. He teaches a lot of nonsense that can be disproved easily if you know your bible well.
It's people who have never taken Christianity, the bible or Christian history seriously his type of messages can impress

Which of the 47,000 different lies -- denominations/cults--- Christianity, all of which do not reflect the true contents of Scripture, have you been taking seriously ?

rexbuton:
∆ You carry the matter for head like world cup 😂😂😂😂😂
I wan Dey pay. You no pay. Why the wahala?
I follow bible and pastor, you no follow? Why the wahala?
I no force you, I no complain give you , I no beg you, why you come Dey cry under my testimony? You be devil?

I carry am for head because you wove that entire epistle in your OP to hide what are obvious lies behind the mentions of God and Jesus Christ. You don't follow God or Bible. Rather, your follow you interpretations which Jesus Christ made known were nothing but lies --- of the doctrines and traditions of men --- which you hide behind the many verses all of them picked out of context.

freeborn02:
■ Yeah. I am not a saint. Let her divorce her husband and go and marry a saint that won't have side chicks. Or let her divorce her husband, remain unmarried and become side chick to married men. Her choice. Since u women are too stupid to have sense, continue in ur senselessness

I am afraid the senseless one here is you! Her husband is cheating on her, she is crying out that she is already emotionally and psychologically beaten up in marriage, yet your comeback is to demean any possible choice she intends to make to resolve her condition that does not include a future with the same man who hurt her.

Many of you are plain wicked and I don't blame you all as I instead blame your Nigerian upbringing, religion included, for the most part.

freeborn02:
■ Anty tell her to divorce the husband and go and marry a saint that doesn't cheat. Simple

At least you admit say none of your Christians qualify in that case!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Blakjewelry:
a times when I read that particular topic it got me puzzled. how can God an all knowing being who knows the future test somebody if he has already knows the outcome.

Simple! God knows the outcome but you do not!

NoContract:
■ Imagine you, a mere mortal, defending the whims and caprices of a god, a being who supposedly created the whole universe with the suns and trillion of stars each bigger than our planet earth. Do you even fathom how massive the universe is? Imagine such a being, genuinely conncerned and perplexed by mere mortal obeisance. Imagine you, being concerned about a particular anthill, filled with millions of worker ants, but yet, you worry so much that they should pay obeisance to you, for what exactly? A whole God? Damn it!
■ Let me let you on a little secret. Gods, if any created this universe, is less bothered about what is going on, not to talk of demanding absolute ego - filled worship. The evidence abound literraly around you, if you care enough to look.
■ That book, the bible, including all its egomaniac stories are nothing but the imaginations of a humane writer, with all the humane attributes and characteristics. No god would be bothered by such frivolities. Na humans put those qualities in their biblical god.

1. I am sorry, what? What has the fact that the universe and stars exists to do with stating that the God of Isreal demands obedience from those who would choose to serve Him as His servants? Abeg get over yourself!

2. All I see is some egotistical being attempting to dictate what the creator of the universe can or cannot do though.

3. But there are no egomaniacal stories in the Bible. There are just stories of many men who sought out the creator and entered into a contract with Him of their own volition. You feel no man should agree with the creator because you think He should not even consider such is your private battle, and you should keep it so.

pointblank247:
■ I think I love listening to this great man of God because it's clear that he really has a lot of fire and steam in him and he is presenting it to the world without fear and big things are happening of recent as a result of the table he is shaking. Ministers are sitting up and others are renouncing their former positions on some doctrinal issues and the rest. As expected, there are also attacks .
Like John says in his book of revelations, I have some thing against him and it's this, a lot of children of God are seeing the light through him but unbelievers are also applauding him does that make any spiritual sense. It actually makes me suspicious.
what do you think

I am afraid you are being lied to even by him. He is not better or different from the other men of gods out there given he too does not know Jesus Christ or the God of Israel. He is simply charting a new denominational path for himself within the religion of Christianity which already boasts of well over 47,000 other denominations. Everything under that general umbrella falls within the purview of the antichrist; Jesus Christ assured us this since He disavowed religion beginning with the religious leaders and their doctrine from His own time. There is nothing spiritual to be had in any of that, only mental delusions of the deep kind.

jazzman7711:
■ How could they be eyewitnesses when the gospels were written nearly a century after the alleged 'ascension' of 'Jesus'? None of the 'gospels' were written before 70 AD!
■ Why the hell would the ''SON OF GOD'' come to Earth, perform all sorts of 'miracles', get crucified and rise from the dead before flying up to heaven in front of onlookers, and nobody would write a single word about him until 70 years or more after he lived? Come on now.........you being played.
■ ''Like the rest of the New Testament, the four gospels were written in Greek. The Gospel of Mark probably dates from c. AD 66–70, Matthew and Luke around AD 85–90, and John AD 90–110.'' .

Here's the thing though, there is no truth to any of the claims made by the so-called church fathers regarding the authorship of the Gospels, including the when of the writing of each. For instance, there is the claim that John was in Patmos around 90 AD. If you dig deep into the source of the claim, you will find there is no evidence the man was alive after Jerusalem was destroyed, and certainly no backing for the claim that he was exiled in Patmos around the time that was suggested. It is all fake news!

2. I don't believe that tale either since the contents of the Gospels along with the other claims made in many of the letters do not agree with the notion that those books were written after the fall of Jerusalem —70AD. Even reading through the letter of Paul, you get the sense that the Gospels had been available to the people in writing for a while before he made a lot of his arguments, particularly that which he wrote up against what seemed Peter.

I believe the Gospels were written during the first century and within at least the period after Jesus Christ's death and before the destruction of Jerusalem in 70AD.

jazzman7711:
Instead of Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John, he says, the real authors were anonymous Christians who relied on hearsay and legend rather than eyewitness testimony. He claims that the canonical Gospels were written in the third person, and were not attested for, in church fathers until Irenaeus, in the late second century.''

I disagree with him on the part in bold! There is no evidence to back up the claim that the writers were not eyewitnesses or at least commissioned by eyewitnesses! All of the Gospel books, including the book of Revelation were written in the first century, before the destruction of Jerusalem in 70AD, that is within the less than 40-year period after the death of Jesus Christ.

Westerhoffe:
■ Like I said, your techniques are stale and don't work on me. Go through your conversation with the man. If not you know what I am saying, you should have asked me who I am talking about. So go back through your conversations with him and see his question you refused to address.We are waiting.

Look at this one... always attempting to win arguments without having meaningful ground to stand on!

Infogist11:
Nigerian Man Weeps After Secretly Conducting A DNA Test On His Four Children
He wrote: "Good morning. I have a very big problem at home which i want to share for quick advice.
I married a lady who had her girl-child already. I allowed her to come in my house with her little kid after convincing me that they separated with the father. To be honest with you Ssalongo Ssaili,....

This story is of a Nigerian man. Are you joking?

rexbuton:
■ Me too o. It appears I don’t know what’s working for me, but do I tithe? Yes. Do I want to find out if it’s working or not? Not at all

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Spoken like one who is merely ignorant in his own religion!
Scenario 1: Numerous examples exist of people who never tithed even once being successfully and remaining so even until their deaths
Scenario 2: You have the handful of religious cases who claim to be tithers who claim to have been successful as a result of their tithing
Scenario 3: You have numerous examples however of religious people remaining poor even after tithing for many years, some for more than a generation

Only a religious man would conclude even then that his tithing is a sure way to success... 🤣🤣🤣

irunoko:
■ lol wow.did you call relationship "GAME"? So depravity, deception and wickedness don reach this level? This àre really interesting times to be alive.
■ And Yes you said something like "I see no reason you should get yourself involved as long as they are adults" of course I would not have been involved if it didn't happen to my own friend (even though I warned her initially) I find deception annoying.
■ yes she's not underaged but using deception to get into the pants of young girls is wrong on all levels.you think it's about just channelling the tutoring to the boys? Why do you think we have young girls suffering post traumatic stress disorder, promiscuity,drug abuse,anger issues, increase in abortion,STDs and baby mama culture.have you seen the number of young girls getting pregnant with men who ghosted them? They don't even know where he lives or can even Trace him to anybody or anywhere. This is not about it's the man's fault,it's the woman's fault.
■ we are gradually having damaged girls who are already destroyed by married men even before their own Mr right gets to meet them.
Have you even gone to social media pages to see men ready to settle down and then you hear them complain that they can't marry this particular lady because she has so many body counts or they found out she had an abortion or she has a baby with a man she can't even explain.dont just look at the surface. look beyond that.

1. Again, the relationship has always been a game!

2. According to you, your friend was not a victim so why use her as a reason to now get into the business of others? There are equally young boys out there with the same issues.

3. You are making it out as though these girls did not come from homes or something where they had it drilled into their heads that bedding a man without protection is a sure way to get pregnant. Many of them already know all of these things so if you wish to give a lecture to anyone, you should probably focus on their parents in this case since the damage can usually be traced back to them. They are the ones most capable of undoing the damage in the kids — both males and females

4. By the way, there are equally lots of damaged boys out there. Those men out there who go out supposedly deceiving women are themselves equally products of damage since they have no respect for themselves or even their families. So again, why not focus on them instead?

5. See, this is what I was afraid of. You are more interested in molding people, particularly these girls, to fit the ideas in your head, rather than in actually building their sense of self and confidence.

So what if a girl has a body count of say 1000? She is still a capable woman and individual. If you have a thing against her body count, then mind your fucking business and find yourself someone else who would fit your particular idea of a partner. This need people have to demean others particularly women for not looking or acting or being exactly as they prefer is a greater problem that ought to be dealt with in society and that problem stems from a general lack of respect for women by men.

So, again, focus your attention on the boys' abeg! Please leave those girls alone abeg and face your own life! They have been targetted enough.

irunoko:
■ of course,if I have the opportunity I will but why I'm particular about young girls is because those ones easily fall prey to the wicked lies they use in getting them to bed.for example, I found out that he told his New girlfriend that he's divorced and she is just another prey like any other young girl and many of the times their lies to get young girls are always
1.i don't love my wife any more
2.my wife doesn't give me sex anymore
3.i'm planning to divorce my wife soon
4.my wife nags too much.she doesn't give me peace
5.my wife use to do juju/jazz so I want to leave her

Etc like that.i hope you understand my point?

So long as the girl in question is not underage, I see no reason why you should get yourself involved. If she is underaged, then what you can do is report the man to the authorities. Otherwise, these are mostly people engaged in the game that is relationship.

As I said earlier, if you are truly touched then you are best focusing your attention on teaching the boys why it is in their best interest to focus all of their energy on their chosen spouse. The one's tellings those lies were once boys and so if you spent more time teaching them to respect their marriages and hence themselves, you would have less of those liars out there.

irunoko:
■ wow.intresting.i get it.so if he was in it for casual sex how come he wasn't considerate of her own needs.How come he was stingy with her and not stingy with his new girlfriend (only God knows if that one is even saying the truth)
■ I'm asking because I want to tutor and mentor young girls who fall prey into the hands of indecent married men. I feel a young girl should not be scarred by married men.

Has every one of your past relationships, even before marriage, been of tender loving kind?

2. Why not put that energy instead to tutoring and mentoring young boys to stop them from philandering after marriage?

irunoko:
■ I don't understand what you mean.can you explain

The man was just in it for the sex, it seems. I mean relationships can be like that and this even applies as far as those who date non-married people — males and females alike — experience from time to time. Sometimes you find that babe who is willing to go to the ends of the earth for you and other times, you find the one you are with would not even lift a finger if you were in need. it happens!

irunoko:
■ So I asked her with a more empathetic tone why were you even dating a married man, don't you love yourself or is it that you want to be a second wife and she said she didn't plan on staying with him long but she didn't know when she fell in love with him (I tried to hide my disgust because I was really getting irritated) that she just wanted a companion because she was bored so she said the guy will come around and nack and each time she is broke and asks for money,he will be posting her with I will send it and eventually not send it and when she confronts him it's always no vex my phone had issues,no vex,I just paid my son's school fees.just basically posting her. Then on her birthday on march 22nd he couldn't even call to wish her a happy birthday and when she saw him the following week she asked why he didn't wish her a happy birthday,he said she didn't tell her (then I interrupted her and said with all of this is the writing not clear enough that he doesn't give a shiit about you) then she said she was thinking he will change.when he now asked her to send her account details he sent 12thousand.i shook my head in irritation
After then she said he ghosted her for another 3 weeks and when he came around he was demanding for s#x that they should meet up in a hotel then she saw it as an opportunity to go for closure.(i cut in again) and said this Guy ghosted you and came to chat you up again and you still gave him attention,he didn't give you any money he had always promised yet he still came to your house to drive you to the hotel? Meanwhile he didn't give you anything but he's ready to pay for the hotel? Wetin do your brain? At this point I was loosing my patience then she kept saying she went for closure.ok I asked what happened when you got there, she said she went to have her bath and after dressing up the guy was telling her to come to the bed.she then said she called out the guy on all the fake promises etc he made to her and he didn't fulfill any of them and at some point she said she had to walk out because she could read his body language as unbothered and indifferent.so immediately she walked out of the room he kept shouting her name to come back for them to talk that she refused.

Side-chicks get levels naw!

Taiwojon:
■ Bye bye

Do stay and continue to regale us with your vast ignorance of Jesus Christ and God of Scripture.

Taiwojon:
■ You are an hypocrite. You have no right to quote the bible. Jesus pray publicly and the Pharisees heard him on John 11:41-42 (KJV) Then they took away the stone from the place where the dead was laid. And Jesus lifted up his eyes, and said, Father, I thank thee that thou hast heard me. And I knew that thou hearest me always: but because of the people which stand by I said it, that they may believe that thou hast sent me.
■ Please don't quote the bible again It make you a liar

1. Jesus Christ instead said that those who love Him are those who do as He commands- John 14 vs 15 - 25 & John 15 vs 7 - 15 & John 13 vs 1 & John 8 vs 31 - 36. So, since you refuse to obey His commandment, you don't love Him at all but like the Pharisaic class, you are simply looking to score points by hiding your particular ignorance behind the mentions of His name.

2. Remember what I said about Religion and ignorance earlier? You continue to prove me right by your every attempt.

Taiwojon:
■ What is your point exactly Are you married?

The fact that you believe there is a magical property bestowed on those who are marriage is what. How can a grown human being believe such nonsense? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Taiwojon:
■ Wow Lied against Jesus Christ That is new in my noting! Thanks for telling me. Lord Jesus forgive me if I ever lied against you. You see You are indirectly doing work of evangelism. Trying to put in back In the way of salvation through Jesus Christ. All the same I really wish we meet up there in heaven at the feet of Jesus

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Let me guess, you want us to believe that Jesus Christ who instead said all His followers are to pray in secret and in hiding - Matthew 6 vs 6 - 15 - just answered that Pharisaic prayer of yours, right?

Mercisharelove:
Forget about that kobononsense bud, pay him, rather her no res.....

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Religion and mindfuckery too dey go hand in hand..... kai!

Taiwojon:
■ Because I am not answering that You brought it up aunty Why need my opinion on that Since neither you nor I are married May I recommend you to direct this question to a marriage man or woman

So, you are not married but you are fully convinced that there is a magical component to being married and only married people know of it? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Taiwojon:
■ Who is insisting religion is Jesus Just repent abeg Na beg I dey beg you for your future
■ You know what Am getting tired of all this grammar At least leave christainity alone Jesus save

See lame attempt at backtracking! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

2. How can I leave Christianity alone when you have in the name of Christianity lied against Jesus Christ over and over on this thread alone?

Taiwojon:
■ I ain't telling you anything aunty I too know. You brought up the woman being a property in a marriage Since you brought it up! Why ask me when you know the answer Anything I tell you Your delusional self acclaim I know it all won't let you see it my own way. So thank you

You still haven't told us what wonderful ability/property marriage bestows on the married. I asked you earlier about it but you brushed it off but we would like to know... at least I would