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PoliticsIs Love Like Politics...can We Forget Those Who Hurt Us? by koife(op): 7:09am On Apr 16, 2016
Can someone truly forgive and forget( I mean in the real sense of the word)..... Esp when the person hurting you is feeling fly and not remorseful? Some people see life as a game/battlefield, to them everything is fair in war. How then do we forgive this set of people who believe it was in their best interest to have hurt you? Worst, they see no wrong in their action!
I have been through this hurt/pains for months now...I read scripture, I watch daily star and all religious channels to get over the breakup my fiancée had with me. Each time I reflect on the whole thing I recalled how maltreated, used, abused, lied to, rejected I was. At some point she even cheated emotionally on me. I am not saying I was perfect, all am saying is the hurt in me, rembering all the promises she made and the memories...I now hate the word love, I hate love songs, I hate love movies...I Pre judge ladies. I detest them with spiteful hate. Some ppl advised me to give it Time. Trust me I have, trust me av prayed, trust me m keeping myself busy but the memories and pain even hunt me to my dream. I desperately want to get her and the pains off my mind but each time I give it a fight. It creeps in slowly and flood my mind sending shivers to me with sense of resent,went, depression and tears. It is understatement to use the word heartbroken. She broke even my bone and spirit. I want to be free from this burden Coz I know she is happy with the new guy despite my sleepless night, bipolar, weight loss, withdrawal from family and friends.
I also want to ask, why is it that good people always meet bad people...where are the good ladies hiding?
Am getting tired, am about to giveup on this search
My advise to ladies:
There are good guys out there...stop hurting the ones that love you, stop being overbearing. I bet you, any woman can make her man love her if she know the right bottun to press. You guys are largely the reason why ppl like me would want to turn a tiger. Many ladies tried to console me while others have shown green light. But I just can't love. Intact I hate the idea of love.
Someone please help me.
Insults are welcomed.
I love this thread by the way
https://www.nairaland.com/3051152/why-cheat-personal-experience
RomanceCan We Truly Forgive And Forget when our partners betray our trust by koife(op):
Can someone truly forgive and forget( I mean in the real sense of the word)..... Esp when the person hurting you is feeling fly and not remorseful? Some people see life as a game/battlefield, to them everything is fair in war. How then do we forgive this set of people who believe it was in their best interest to have hurt you? Worst, they see no wrong in their action!
I have been through this hurt/pains for months now...I read scripture, I watch daily star and all religious channels to get over the breakup my fiancée had with me. Each time I reflect on the whole thing I recalled how maltreated, used, abused, lied to, rejected I was. At some point she even cheated emotionally on me. I am not saying I was perfect, all am saying is the hurt in me, rembering all the promises she made and the memories...I now hate the word love, I hate love songs, I hate love movies...I Pre judge ladies. I detest them with spiteful hate. Some ppl advised me to give it Time. Trust me I have, trust me av prayed, trust me m keeping myself busy but the memories and pain even hunt me to my dream. I desperately want to get her and the pains off my mind but each time I give it a fight. It creeps in slowly and flood my mind sending shivers to me with sense of resent,went, depression and tears. It is understatement to use the word heartbroken. She broke even my bone and spirit. I want to be free from this burden Coz I know she is happy with the new guy despite my sleepless night, bipolar, weight loss, withdrawal from family and friends.
I also want to ask, why is it that good people always meet bad people...where are the good ladies hiding?
Am getting tired, am about to giveup on this search
My advise to ladies:
There are good guys out there...stop hurting the ones that love you, stop being overbearing. I bet you, any woman can make her man love her if she know the right bottun to press. You guys are largely the reason why ppl like me would want to turn a tiger. Many ladies tried to console me while others have shown green light. But I just can't love. Intact I hate the idea of love.
Someone please help me.
Insults are welcomed.
I love this thread by the way
https://www.nairaland.com/3051152/why-cheat-personal-experience
PoliticsPMB Appoints new NYSC DG. Congratulationss, Sir! by koife(op):
Congratulation to my Boss, mentor,Supervisor and former Head of Chemistry Dept., Nigerian Defence Academy, Former Director: DICCON GEN. S. Z Kazaure, for his appointment as the new DG of NYSC by the President and C-in-C of Fed Rep of Nig. His Excellency Pres. M. Buhari.

Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had A Challenge With Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 10:32pm On Apr 12, 2016
emmykingsok:
serioushuh So you got the same thing with me? I thought I was the only person.
I got same too. From what I gathered not so many people applied for this position, bcoz of the rigorous nature to sign up in company website and then apply. Many nja job seekers are lazy to followup job application process. So if you wrote the online test, just remain optimistic
CareerRe: Should I Resign My New Job For A Contract Job? by koife(m): 10:42am On Apr 12, 2016
is becky single? am crushing ob her oo
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had A Challenge With Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 9:45am On Apr 12, 2016
koife:
Mod has refused to take this thread to front page, so we can hear from other ppl....mtcheew!
Abegooo, na job things ooo....kindly push it to front page
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had A Challenge With Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 9:42am On Apr 12, 2016
Mod has refused to take this thread to front page, so we can hear from other ppl....mtcheew!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had A Challenge With Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 9:38am On Apr 12, 2016
Pls let's open up a whatsapp line.....pls drop your number here, let me add you guys up so we can chat. Thnx
07018605828
I can add u guys if u give your numbers!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had A Challenge With Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 9:25am On Apr 12, 2016
martinsaba:
Mine was telling me run time error as of Saturday, on monday, I used a modem connected to my laptop straight, I did it and submitted, I think if you are using a hotspot from fone, it wouldn't work, my thoughts sha, (cus of what I could pick from d run time error)
Yea I used hotspot, but guess what? I tested my connectivity to other site and I was light speed cruise online. My guess is given the complains here, I think the problem is generic, probably from their site. I think they anticipated it hence asking us to write to our local HR if we have any challenge.
PoliticsI Stand With Buhari Vehicle Buying Black Market.(hilarious) by koife(op): 8:22am On Apr 12, 2016
I stumbled on this and thought to share it here. Which way nja! cry cry

Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had A Challenge With Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 8:10am On Apr 12, 2016
Wulfruna:
Please, has anyone done the PLI without encountering any difficulty?

Tried this evening, and after the first page, the thing just wouldn't work. I had to end it without submitting, because I didn't see the point of submitting just 5 questions.

They sent me a re-invite though, but I'm scared of encountering the same problem again, so I haven't tried it yet.
You are lucky, I am still waiting for a re-invite. Let's be optimistic
RomanceRe: Open Letter; Our Women Be Careful With The Way You Treat Men- Alexisgist by koife(m): 6:30am On Apr 11, 2016
ladyF:
lol is it just me or was anyone expecting a more touching story than this?

You can't blame her completely tho, a lot of females have their very cogent reasons for not chatting with strangers online. It sounds like you were sending the poor lady messages every hour angry so you might have come across as a creepy young lad. But how come nobody messages me. cry Is there something I'm not doing right? cry

It's [size=15pt]LadyF[/size] again grin grin grin
LADY F
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had A Challenge With Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 1:55pm On Apr 10, 2016
durojaiye06:
I had d same challenge. I was able to choose my answers in the first five questions but the options were grid in the subsequent questions and my time ran out trying to fix the glitch. I have mailed them, hoping to hear a positive feedback. Please let's all send them mails so that they can fix this problem.
Good idea, I mailed them yesterday. No reply yet though!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had Challenges From Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 9:04pm On Apr 09, 2016
Hillario2003:
I submitted the two today. Am not sure d selection will b based on the performance on PLI because 12mins is not enough to answer questions that one will need to interpret diagram
what will it be based on?
Jobs/VacanciesWho Else Had A Challenge With Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 8:22pm On Apr 09, 2016
I had this message from damco ltd (a subsidiary of maesrk intl) to take online test for graduate business development executive.
I had challenges in choosing options that was provided during my online test. please who else had same experience?
see message below;
In connection with your application to a Company in the Maersk Group, the Human Resource team has arranged for you to complete a Predictive Index® (PI®) Survey.

To complete the survey, please go to the following web site and use the Username and Password, provided below. Please turn off or disable any popup blockers you may be using, as these often interfere with the loading of the Predictive Index Survey. Please note that these login credentials will expire on Apr 23, 2016. To complete the Predictive Index® after this date you will need to contact your local recruiter with the Company in the Maersk Group where you have placed your application and ask for your credentials to be reset
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had Challenges From Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 7:46pm On Apr 09, 2016
mod pls take this thread to frontpage
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had Challenges From Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 7:45pm On Apr 09, 2016
JERRYNIL:
I had a similar challenge , at a point I could not even click any option again and my connection went off but they sent me another link .
did u request for another link or they automatically sent u another link
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Who Else Had Challenges From Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 7:43pm On Apr 09, 2016
jaysleem:
Yeah! I got the message too, and had the same challenge. At first I thought my Internet connection was the problem but later realised the problem was from the page. Besides, 12 minutes is just too small for a test of 50 questions that should take you about 25-45 seconds to read and come up with an answer. I believe it's well, the test is just part of the process and not the entire process. Goodluck to all who participated.
yea it was pretty frustrating
Jobs/VacanciesWho Else Had Challenges From Damco Ltd Online Test by koife(op): 6:02pm On Apr 09, 2016
I had this message from damco ltd (a subsidiary of maesrk intl) to take online test for graduate business development executive.
I had challenges in choosing options that was provided during my online test. please who else had same experience?
see message below;
In connection with your application to a Company in the Maersk Group, the Human Resource team has arranged for you to complete a Predictive Index® (PI®) Survey.

To complete the survey, please go to the following web site and use the Username and Password, provided below. Please turn off or disable any popup blockers you may be using, as these often interfere with the loading of the Predictive Index Survey. Please note that these login credentials will expire on Apr 23, 2016. To complete the Predictive Index® after this date you will need to contact your local recruiter with the Company in the Maersk Group where you have placed your application and ask for your credentials to be reset.

URL: https://ws.connect.accesspi.piwebservices.com/SAPRequestSurvey.aspx?ID=be673388-db96-433e-aca5-8d5244db79a6
Music/RadioRe: Check Out This Music Video By A Nairalander. by koife(m): 5:21pm On Mar 19, 2016
hooli:
So like I said in one of my other threads I make instrumentals not a full song. This video is that of Alan walker's faded, I used inshot app on my phone to edit the audio and put my own beat. My production name is "The Hit" and I made the beat on my phone using music maker jam app. Enjoy!

Alan walker fade video(audio mix):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qzlWIz2AjZU
Pvt message me...I've got a deal we can roll on together...av been search for creativity of your kind...I've got mine too we can do great things.
Hola me @08030972730
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op): 9:54pm On Mar 18, 2016
I thoroughly appreciate all of your advise..
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op): 7:05pm On Mar 18, 2016
tnx to lady F
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op): 6:23pm On Mar 18, 2016
ladyF:
Take heart ehnn...God is your strength smiley
tnx for d cal. I aprc8
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op): 6:21pm On Mar 18, 2016
skywalker240:
the bitter truth is you can never make someone stay if they want to leave,..as hard as it is you have to face and fight the hard situation like the man that you are and forget about her..

If what you stated above was the main reason she wants out, then i believe she is yet matured for a serious relationship..

Try to fight against the toughts of her, cos if you keep running away from that fight, the memory of it will just gonna keep haunting you.


Face it she is gone and she aint coming back,
Maybe unless somthing touches her heart

Move on bro...atleast strive to, try to see every reason to try.
tnx man
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op): 6:15pm On Mar 18, 2016
Ifakiland:
u sound like an overprotective, insecured bf....u choking her, no freedom of her own. if u really want her bk u need give her space.
ok
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op):
ladyF:
Lol how long ago was this breakup? I'm thinking she's doing it intentionally, there might be no new guy sef.
There is....before the breakup, I saw her bb chat with the guy wen I snooped around without her knowing. I need to talk to somebody...my thesis defence is coming up in a matter of days....
Anybody to console me....am alone at home.
08030972730
0701 860 5828 whtaspp
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op): 5:51pm On Mar 18, 2016
ladyF:
Calling her mum was extreme. Its almost like you're reporting her. No one likes that. She will come around, its not that serious. Dont be reporting her to people please.....
Come around? That a wishful thinking...I av prayed, fasted and waited for her return...but luck isn't on my side. She even take pics in d new guys apartment, wearing his cloths cry
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op): 5:48pm On Mar 18, 2016
firstking01:
@this point there's nothing you can do to instantly wipe away the heartbreak, rather, just cry, yes cry, it's not manly but cry....before you know it you 'll be relieved all of a suddenundecided
Tnx man....
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op): 5:47pm On Mar 18, 2016
ladyF:
Lol I no get experience at all o.

OP should take heart. But why call her mother for something she did? That's childish biko. .
Over time I've come to realise she only listens to her mom. But this time....her mom is even tired of begging
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op): 5:44pm On Mar 18, 2016
Idydarling:
give it time, after a while, u chat her up, am sure she'll respond. try to engage her in a friendly conversation, and am sure d sharp edges of pain will gradually leave






as for those quoting me to rant all manner of insults, I won't reply u further, go ahead and engage urselves....it's a faceless forum after all
Its not that easy my dear....thought of her constant rejection n ol
RomanceRe: How Can One Get Over Serious Heartbreak? by koife(op): 5:42pm On Mar 18, 2016
Cutehector:
just like dat?
Yea just like that...tho I visited her that evening....we got into heated exchange of words....we booth lost control...she said am too protective and jealous and too gentle...a, confused

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