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Can someone truly forgive and forget( I mean in the real sense of the word)..... Esp when the person hurting you is feeling fly and not remorseful? Some people see life as a game/battlefield, to them everything is fair in war. How then do we forgive this set of people who believe it was in their best interest to have hurt you? Worst, they see no wrong in their action! I have been through this hurt/pains for months now...I read scripture, I watch daily star and all religious channels to get over the breakup my fiancée had with me. Each time I reflect on the whole thing I recalled how maltreated, used, abused, lied to, rejected I was. At some point she even cheated emotionally on me. I am not saying I was perfect, all am saying is the hurt in me, rembering all the promises she made and the memories...I now hate the word love, I hate love songs, I hate love movies...I Pre judge ladies. I detest them with spiteful hate. Some ppl advised me to give it Time. Trust me I have, trust me av prayed, trust me m keeping myself busy but the memories and pain even hunt me to my dream. I desperately want to get her and the pains off my mind but each time I give it a fight. It creeps in slowly and flood my mind sending shivers to me with sense of resent,went, depression and tears. It is understatement to use the word heartbroken. She broke even my bone and spirit. I want to be free from this burden Coz I know she is happy with the new guy despite my sleepless night, bipolar, weight loss, withdrawal from family and friends. I also want to ask, why is it that good people always meet bad people...where are the good ladies hiding? Am getting tired, am about to giveup on this search My advise to ladies: There are good guys out there...stop hurting the ones that love you, stop being overbearing. I bet you, any woman can make her man love her if she know the right bottun to press. You guys are largely the reason why ppl like me would want to turn a tiger. Many ladies tried to console me while others have shown green light. But I just can't love. Intact I hate the idea of love. Someone please help me. Insults are welcomed. I love this thread by the way https://www.nairaland.com/3051152/why-cheat-personal-experience |
Can someone truly forgive and forget( I mean in the real sense of the word)..... Esp when the person hurting you is feeling fly and not remorseful? Some people see life as a game/battlefield, to them everything is fair in war. How then do we forgive this set of people who believe it was in their best interest to have hurt you? Worst, they see no wrong in their action! I have been through this hurt/pains for months now...I read scripture, I watch daily star and all religious channels to get over the breakup my fiancée had with me. Each time I reflect on the whole thing I recalled how maltreated, used, abused, lied to, rejected I was. At some point she even cheated emotionally on me. I am not saying I was perfect, all am saying is the hurt in me, rembering all the promises she made and the memories...I now hate the word love, I hate love songs, I hate love movies...I Pre judge ladies. I detest them with spiteful hate. Some ppl advised me to give it Time. Trust me I have, trust me av prayed, trust me m keeping myself busy but the memories and pain even hunt me to my dream. I desperately want to get her and the pains off my mind but each time I give it a fight. It creeps in slowly and flood my mind sending shivers to me with sense of resent,went, depression and tears. It is understatement to use the word heartbroken. She broke even my bone and spirit. I want to be free from this burden Coz I know she is happy with the new guy despite my sleepless night, bipolar, weight loss, withdrawal from family and friends. I also want to ask, why is it that good people always meet bad people...where are the good ladies hiding? Am getting tired, am about to giveup on this search My advise to ladies: There are good guys out there...stop hurting the ones that love you, stop being overbearing. I bet you, any woman can make her man love her if she know the right bottun to press. You guys are largely the reason why ppl like me would want to turn a tiger. Many ladies tried to console me while others have shown green light. But I just can't love. Intact I hate the idea of love. Someone please help me. Insults are welcomed. I love this thread by the way https://www.nairaland.com/3051152/why-cheat-personal-experience |
Congratulation to my Boss, mentor,Supervisor and former Head of Chemistry Dept., Nigerian Defence Academy, Former Director: DICCON GEN. S. Z Kazaure, for his appointment as the new DG of NYSC by the President and C-in-C of Fed Rep of Nig. His Excellency Pres. M. Buhari.
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emmykingsok:I got same too. From what I gathered not so many people applied for this position, bcoz of the rigorous nature to sign up in company website and then apply. Many nja job seekers are lazy to followup job application process. So if you wrote the online test, just remain optimistic |
is becky single? am crushing ob her oo |
koife:Abegooo, na job things ooo....kindly push it to front page |
Mod has refused to take this thread to front page, so we can hear from other ppl....mtcheew! |
Pls let's open up a whatsapp line.....pls drop your number here, let me add you guys up so we can chat. Thnx 07018605828 I can add u guys if u give your numbers! |
martinsaba:Yea I used hotspot, but guess what? I tested my connectivity to other site and I was light speed cruise online. My guess is given the complains here, I think the problem is generic, probably from their site. I think they anticipated it hence asking us to write to our local HR if we have any challenge. |
I stumbled on this and thought to share it here. Which way nja!
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Wulfruna:You are lucky, I am still waiting for a re-invite. Let's be optimistic |
ladyF:LADY F |
durojaiye06:Good idea, I mailed them yesterday. No reply yet though! |
Hillario2003:what will it be based on? |
I had this message from damco ltd (a subsidiary of maesrk intl) to take online test for graduate business development executive. I had challenges in choosing options that was provided during my online test. please who else had same experience? see message below; In connection with your application to a Company in the Maersk Group, the Human Resource team has arranged for you to complete a Predictive Index® (PI®) Survey. To complete the survey, please go to the following web site and use the Username and Password, provided below. Please turn off or disable any popup blockers you may be using, as these often interfere with the loading of the Predictive Index Survey. Please note that these login credentials will expire on Apr 23, 2016. To complete the Predictive Index® after this date you will need to contact your local recruiter with the Company in the Maersk Group where you have placed your application and ask for your credentials to be reset |
mod pls take this thread to frontpage |
JERRYNIL:did u request for another link or they automatically sent u another link |
jaysleem:yea it was pretty frustrating |
I had this message from damco ltd (a subsidiary of maesrk intl) to take online test for graduate business development executive. I had challenges in choosing options that was provided during my online test. please who else had same experience? see message below; In connection with your application to a Company in the Maersk Group, the Human Resource team has arranged for you to complete a Predictive Index® (PI®) Survey. To complete the survey, please go to the following web site and use the Username and Password, provided below. Please turn off or disable any popup blockers you may be using, as these often interfere with the loading of the Predictive Index Survey. Please note that these login credentials will expire on Apr 23, 2016. To complete the Predictive Index® after this date you will need to contact your local recruiter with the Company in the Maersk Group where you have placed your application and ask for your credentials to be reset. URL: https://ws.connect.accesspi.piwebservices.com/SAPRequestSurvey.aspx?ID=be673388-db96-433e-aca5-8d5244db79a6 |
hooli:Pvt message me...I've got a deal we can roll on together...av been search for creativity of your kind...I've got mine too we can do great things. Hola me @08030972730 |
I thoroughly appreciate all of your advise.. |
tnx to lady F |
ladyF:tnx for d cal. I aprc8 |
skywalker240:tnx man |
Ifakiland:ok |
ladyF:There is....before the breakup, I saw her bb chat with the guy wen I snooped around without her knowing. I need to talk to somebody...my thesis defence is coming up in a matter of days.... Anybody to console me....am alone at home. 08030972730 0701 860 5828 whtaspp |
ladyF:Come around? That a wishful thinking...I av prayed, fasted and waited for her return...but luck isn't on my side. She even take pics in d new guys apartment, wearing his cloths |
firstking01:Tnx man.... |
ladyF:Over time I've come to realise she only listens to her mom. But this time....her mom is even tired of begging |
Idydarling:Its not that easy my dear....thought of her constant rejection n ol |
Cutehector: |
So you got the same thing with me? I thought I was the only person.
so you might have come across as a creepy young lad. But how come nobody messages me.

