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M so proud of him!

Emeralddeee: I laugh at some comments yet those same guys are the ones who come here to post my girl left me for a richer guys. Some even say she is not his wife bla bla bla and he is not oblige to assist her financially I disagree with that am sure when op's bf was broke she had other options yet she sticked to him, if at that time she dumped him for another guy she will be called names that's why I don't blame some girls who will rather date an already made guy, a girl who sticks to a guy through thick and thin deserve an applause especially cuz her type is rare . Take it or leave it every girl wants a stable relationship it includes financial stability especially in marriage, the best way a guy can show he loves his woman is by being there for her in all areas of her life including assisting her when need be vice versa . I blame you for ignoring the warning signs from the unset this Is not an issue you would have discarded, this also goes out to everyone you need to be smart never take little things for granted it wasn't an issue before why bring it up now Perhaps you thought he will change right Let me tell you a guy who out of the little he has does nothing for you will not change over night deal with it or live with it. Also can't you fend for yourself or what As a lady the best way to gain respect from your man is to be financially independent gone are the days were a girl will just sit at home hoping prince charming will come and rescue her it only happens in romantic novels and movies, perhaps is time to build yourself financially it will do you a whole lot of good.

You are so reasonable wiv ur post!

ooconsider: No don't go and get job, wait for a guy cos na I'm born u. Girls make una get church mindooo! Make una pity us,we get a lot of responsiblity on us for U ar not our only problem.

U r very funy wiv ur post, I can see the kind of man u will turn to, na ur wife go dey pay children skoolfEe, house rent, other bills because she's nt ur only problem.
U better find a Job, stop lazing around and be a man and stop expecting a woman to pity u, there are many responsible men out dre that send their wife outside the country for her masters nd PHD, set up business and also make it a duty to pay her bills despite the money the woman might have, God made u the head,if u like because of ur laziness make urself tail no be ur village people dey do u º°˚˚°ºoo

Ayoolla: He is under no obligation to repay her back in whatsoever form. She decided to stay because she wanted to, it doesnt matter what kind of liestyle he'z living right now, the Op did not write that she contributed to that lifestyle(something like she got a job for him or the likes). So whatever the guy gives her should be good enough. Ahba the guy get family na, siblings, and atrailer load of friends. So you want him to put them aside for only the girl? Abeg if she know like make she move on after all her make- up can never fail her on the field. Where many men await

Please remind us he has family nd friends , if the man really wnts to marry her nd love her, she should be first on his list or no oneelse, A stingy BF will end up to irresponsible father,while they will be nice nd updoing to extended relatives nd friends!
There's nothing wrong if he spoil his fiancee wiv what he have now because He wants to be her head, so he should show her he's capable of being her head afterall they have been together for a long time even when he's nothing!

@OP this is a very delicate matter,Marriage is not a joke and I believe money goes well with love,there's nohow ur so called BF will loves u so much dat he will not want to show it by giving out a susbtancial cash or gift despite wot u guys has been through, am not saying HE MUST bt since the OP said he's financially okay then he has to care for his heart if truly she's his heart, I can't even imagin myself in such relationship,2face has been thick nd thin wiv annie bt now she's enjoying her husby wealth even bfor they were married, u dnt have to marry him bfor u enjoy him, when u marry the rite person Ur money is jus a plus!

obayaya: and who are you amongst the two ladies in that picture on your profile

Am the dark gal

gazilion: It won't be wise to direct you to any worship centre so you don't think I'm elevating one church above another. My candid advice is for you to pray sincerely to God with all your heart. He will tell and make you know in very clear terms what next step to take. I did it and it worked. It will work for you if you will do it with all sincerity of purpose.

Ofcos I did that and it also worked for me, I pray to know him and he answered my prayers!
Read and study ur bible intensely and see for ursef what the spirit is saying

gazilion: I'm sincerely concerned for you. You seem quite zealous. You've been entangled and baptized into serious error. I pray God will deliver you from the errors of the JWs lest you regret in eternity. Marian, you look too pretty to miss heaven. I beg you to seriously think about your decision and escape this impending damnation!

Thanks for ur concern,where do u think is appropiate for me to worship?

I love evryting about me bt since u wnt us to mention it, sure I will
1. I love my face, I have won an award as d most pretty babe In my dept, I was a model in my teen, am always being conpliment of my beauty
2. My body shape: I have a very slim figure during my teen that people always mistaking me for agbani lmao! bt now am a now chubby, I love it beta cos I will soon get married and I wnt to look like one
3. My height : am 5.9, which help and give me an upper hand to be oustanding for the audition back then and apart from that I love being tall, it helps to be bold.
4. My personality: I love it so much cos am cos inquisitive, I always wnt to learn about new things and I love to teach people about God.
5. My look: I don't intend puting this but I think is a gift from God, people always take me serious than I am ,eg people take me to be more intelligent than I am, means I have my ways to wave questions with my look. Like pretending to understand it by nodding and people takes it just as I do and pretend innocently!
Please don't hate that's jus me!

OmolodMilkman93: Congrats sister. Welcome to The Way to Life

Thanks bro

specialguest: Congrats. May the Lord keep you

Thanks sisther

I was baptised on saturday 5th of oct 2013 at jehovah's witness district convention @ ota assembly.
It was the happiest Day of my life,that's why I decided to share my experience with my nairalander brothers and sisthers. please don't critize my writting am not repogal nor frank thanks!
Immediately the service started I sat @ the reserve sit for baptismal candidate, we were 49 in number between the age of 60 to 15 years ready to serve jehovah, 4,896 bro and sisthers in attendance that already gave me the assurance am not alone in the race of life .I was happy at the same time sad.............Now I will explain!.
I was happy because I found myself priviledge and lucky to know the bible truth about God despite of my background, my past and my former religion and also priviledge to be among God's family and his organisation, I don't think I can buy that with money except jehovah' love through his son provision.
I was sober at the same time because it was a remarkable day in my life and I only saw my spiritual bro and sis felitating with me , non of my family member came, but what came to my mind is 1pet 2vs 10 that I was once a child bt now God's child, the bible also admonish me that he will surely makes me strong and the hym was very touching [1peter 5:10] tho I shed some tears of joy but I must say I felt so happy and grateful to jehovah God for choosing me from the darkness and brought me to this new life
Of his wonderful truth!
What a remakeable experience as I made a public declaration to serve Jehovah, am very sure he will never forsake me as he did to his prophet of old!

cupid4ig: sorry about that but u shouldnt ve paid them cos ur phone is under warranty but its a thing of the past now. Which are u using now

BB Touch2

oiseworld: Bro, you will always return back because you were empty and idle. if after you left, you engaged your self in the search for the truth, you would have found Christ personally, and would not turn back. I don't judge them so I simply avoid them when they coming around wanting to teach what they dont know. thou, i have friends who are jw.

what do u know about finding christ? How do u knw they don't know what they teach? Plz bro humble ur mind and seek for God's guidiance it might help u to know the better truth about God.........the brother u quoted knew the truth and he realise he had made a huge mistake,is not because he was a witness because he knew there is no truth elsewhere except jehovah,s organisation! U will knw the truth and it will set u free

adewasco2k: I totally agree with you, but i think the 9900 might be better, i got the 9930 and hell, so much troubles....and i was even running away from buy UK used just because of all this kinda wahala.

Can u imagine! Mine too is 9930......infact its the worst phone ever in my history!

cupid4ig: am sorry but that bold 5 is one of the best phone rim ever produced aside their bb10 phone. Probably the phone u bought is refubished or factory defected phone. And i guess u didnt buy it from an authorised dealer cos if u do u will get 12months warranty and ur pbone will be replace. Pls next time buy from original source

OPS! My bF got the phone from SLOT bt wen the phone had the first problem he was not arround and I can't wait so I took it dre myself and pay for the service,I also flash it @ slot .......when the phone firstly came out almost all d user detected one problem or d other,infact the engineer that repaired the phone had like 8 BOLD5. He was working on, he told me the phone is not meant for nigeria jokingly that next time before geting a new phone I should investigate!

The worst fone I ever used is blackberry bold5....It got the phone when it freshly came out! It started wiv flashing which I did for 3k, after a week I was pinging and I slept off when I woke up the phone refuse to work! It was dead....I went to Ikeja for repairing,I visited almost all the realiable shops,they cant find solution to it, after like 7 hours I found a guy that told me to leave it that he will try his best, I left the fone with the guy the 2nd day I called him to hear how far the guy said my phone has not cum up bt I should be patient that he sock it with a chemical that it might come up,after like 3days I already giving up on the fone when the guy now called that is working.......I was overjoyed dat the guy charge me 8k I didn't mind all I was after was my fone.
After like 2 month of enjoyment the screen went off that I was told to buy a new screen which cost #18500 I was completely fed up......ofcos I changed the screen and sold it @ that spot @60k! Can u imagine a phone bought brand new having that kind of complication.......I can neva advise my worst enemy to buy that phone!

Everybody living in ota and its environs is aware of the new enforcement by the state government, my sis works with the state revenue @ota,she told me how rude and barbaric the pastors were, they were beaten mercilessly, sized their fones nd other camera devices. I also learnt Oyedepo called the president to intervene.........tho m not to judge him bt let's call a spade a spade! If they r doing the right thing why did they have to sieze their camera? Is it not lawful for government official to visit them and urge them to pay their dues? It is not biblical for xtian to respect the government authority? ...........If truly he's really imitating christ I expect him to pay his dues as at when due and never use any obscene languages or fight anyone atall and it should imbib in his teaching to his followers!

Am so sorry for michael for his wrong choice ...........he knew d truth and choose wrongly! Some years back I saw two of nigeria hiphop star at the district convention of JW at their assembly in ogun state! Then they were struggling with their career,they also made their choices too! Money and fame is d root of all evil!

I got these message from a link, so I decided to share it with my fellow nairalander............Please I want to know your view on this bee venom, is it the cure to HIV and cancer?? Thank for your contribution!!

Scientists have discovered that apart from pollinating  crops, producing honey, beeswax , propolis, pollen and royal jelly, bees could also be the solution to the deadly Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) and cancer.

Recently, a team of scientists at the Washington University School of Medicine, USA, used nanoparticles carrying a toxin found in bee venom  to destroy HIV without harming nearby cells.

The report was contained in the current issue of Antiviral Therapy.

Explaining the modus operandi, Dr. Samuel A. Wickline, one of the researchers said; “Bee venom contains a potent toxin called melittin that can poke holes in the protective envelope that surrounds HIV and other viruses. It has even shown melittin-loaded nanoparticles to be effective in killing tumor cells.”

In an interview with Vanguard in Ibadan recently, Mr. Ayodele Salako, an apiculturist (beekeeper), corroborated the assertion of the researchers. “The bee sting is very medicinal. A bee keeper who is stung by a bee every now and then,  will not complain of any ailment because the bees have taken those things away from you by enhancing your immunity. That is one of the best works of bee venom.”

He demonstrated this by administering bee venom therapy on some people with pains in various parts of the body like the waist, hands and knees. All recipients said the pains stopped after a few minutes.

Comparing the bee venom and other anti-HIV drugs, Joshua L. Hood, another researcher said “most anti-HIV drugs inhibit the virus’s ability to replicate. But this anti-replication strategy does nothing to stop initial infection, and some strains of the virus have found ways around these drugs and reproduce anyway. The bee venom toxin is different because it attacks an essential part of the virus’ structure. The melittin forms little pore-like attack complexes and ruptures the envelope, stripping it off the virus.

“We are attacking an inherent physical property of HIV,” said Hood, “and there isn’t any way for the virus to adapt to that. The virus has to have a protective coat, a double-layered membrane that covers it,” so if the covering is destroyed, the virus is destroyed.

“Because the bee venom toxin has been engineered not to attack healthy cells, a vaginal gel loaded with bee venom particles, could be ideal for couples where one partner has HIV and they want to have a baby,” the report said, adding; “It’s also theoretically possible that intravenous injections of the nanoparticles would be able to clear HIV from the blood stream, a virtual miracle for those who have tested positive. http:///y5TDT

Wow! So much love this post! Naturally I don't like begging for things but just recently am seeing myself as a fool when my friends don't use their money for BIS,receiving money from family friends ETC, and me am still pestering my parent for some needs....though am a student,I need some cash and some other things but due to my kind of person I find it hard asking my new friend to load my phone or compose a lie how sick I am' how broke I have been, I can't go to the cafeteria and see a friend an force my bills on them but my friend do these conviently and goes as she plan it,which sometimes make me feel that am a fool and not smart enough....Do u think these though are right??
Am sure these topic has help me to give some answer to some questions.

[quote author=Bidam]now am not supporting wat chris okotie did..but saying he is a mockery to christianity is rather taking it to far...let him that is witout sin be the first to throw stones..dnt be a pharisee in ur statements..rather feel a sense of remorse and pray for a brother who missed it..rather than casting stones[/quote
Do u know why I oppose your comment.....these man is creating an avenue for unbelievers to mock christianity by lying to them that he has settled it with JESUS christ! Its suck!!
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This is a very old thread since 2005......bt one of the best! Right now am now an unbaptised publisher! Which am so blessed to serve jehovah God until he said its finally over!

I believe and trusted the JEHOVAH's organization......while can't u give them a trial and attend their christian meeting and also request for a bible study!
Am very sure u will be glad u did!

I don't think d Op is perfect as such! There's nothing wrong in correcting an error but in these type of post is very bad!
I once had an experience here on NL,I was being corrected as if that's what they are watching out for bt a lady politely ask me to correct myself which I did and thank her while I ignore the others......bottom line as far as its english language we are still learning bt a polite correction wil sometime be appreciated and taken noted

Yooguyz: just want to let u know that nothing you say can get me angry infact Jesus was also accused of the pharisees of belonging to the cult of Belial.Instead i love and nothing you ever say to annoy me can change that. I love the fact that you are zealous over matters that concerns God, that shows your deep appreciation for bible truth.But you have zeal without accurate knowledge and i pray for you bro that eyes of heart be open to decipher truth (independent of denomination bias and provided by the holy spirit) contained in the bible.GOD BLESS

‎​=))=Laffº˚˚°º≈Outº˚˚°º≈Loudº˚˚°º≈=)) do u know when u finish everytin? ...is wen u start ur film again with ooman! Am sure u are seeing another vision now!

Yooguyz: i saw in a vision, a pregnant woman kneeling beside a man begging him but the man kept shoving her away yelling "the child is not mine, go and look for the father"! That that instant i sensed in my spirit that the man was his dad and the woman was his mom,he was born outside wedlock and that till this day his dad didnt accept him..you needed to see the way he opened his mouth wide in awe..he said it was true and then narrated the full ordeal to me. I told him that if he would believe, we would pray that his dad would accept him and treat his mom with respect and then he agreed(off course he had no choice)..5 days later he called me and excitedly told me that his dad came over to their home with his wife and some relatives and apologized to him and his mom and that he'll take responsibily 4 both of them financially...we eventualy met and discussed....(the rest details you already know) as a matter of fact the mom just ushering department in our church.

Just got back from my service meeting.....u meant u see all these! Please I think u need a prayer because I can see u are possess some spirit that's not from God! U might be a scam or u belong to some cult but the fact is u don't have to use JW as a tool of your corruption,u can't started misleading people with ur foolish lie !! Please pray to God to reveal himself to u! And make effort to study d bible......