Family › Re: Do Women Still Bear Their Husbands' Names After A Divorce? by Kondomatic(m): 9:06am On May 07, 2021 |
pocohantas: Yes ke, because they know any small thing, you will want to collect your name back. So why not leave them with their father’s name that remains a constant. You can’t change your father, but you can change husband.
Imagine as Stella Damasus for done do change of name if she was actually changing names officially. This is one place I like Islam. Well I think it's her decision to make but it doesn't just feel right to me, I mean keeping ex-husband's name. It's somehow.
What if she decides to remarry? Will she keep ex hubby's name or take a new one?
If taking a new one is easy then why she no kuku reset to default settings after the first marriage no work.
Abeg e tire me.
I no wan get headache this morning.
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Family › Re: Do Women Still Bear Their Husbands' Names After A Divorce? by Kondomatic(m): 7:30am On May 07, 2021 |
These people's wahala no get direction.
Some of the married ones no wan use husband's name while some divorced no wan let the name go.
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Romance › Re: My Discussion With A Lady Who Claimed She Had Spiritual Power by Kondomatic(m): 5:46am On May 07, 2021 |
Powersurge: Hi everyone! Straight to the thread.
A couple of months ago, I relocated from one city to another. I am single. I can't say I super-enjoyed it. But I don't like the headaches that comes with relationships. Not money issue, as I have not come across a lady that is actively "digging for gold". Perhaps because I am a "low budget nigga". The problem is the excessive attachments. I don't want all those, "you have not call me today " stuff.
In my new city, I met this busty-fair-looking lady on a bus. I connected with her and got her digits. I couldn't call her until about a week later. Because I was busy. We finally met at my place. After making her comfortable, I made a move on her. Note I don't do that often. I have another first timer that came that I have not made a move on till today. And she has being coming. She did not resist. IUndressed her and we had sex.
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Family › Re: Missing Child Elizabeth Somto Okafor by Kondomatic(m): 5:44am On May 07, 2021 |
What's really happening? |
Sports › Re: Samuel Chukwueze, Villarreal Players Celebrate Europa League Final Qualification by Kondomatic(m): 5:42am On May 07, 2021 |
Skmoda360: That's a good feet......unlike the useless Arsenal.
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Car Talk › Re: How I Was Scammed At A Fuel Station by Kondomatic(m): 5:23pm On May 06, 2021 |
pocohantas: How do they even pull it off? I was livid.
Asking me useless questions like I am a learner. Those guys blow air into tanks, I have no idea how they do it. |
Politics › Re: The Ages Of Consent To Sex Around The World by Kondomatic(m): 4:57pm On May 06, 2021 |
DICKstractor:

Spits
I can't allow a piece of paper/law govern me. If you ain't close to 20years as a lady, I gat no emotional/sexual business with you 25 is the minimum for me.
I cannot can |
Crime › Re: First Made-In-Nigeria AK-47 Codenamed OBJ006 By The Army (Pictures) by Kondomatic(m): 8:43am On May 06, 2021 |
arcahmad: How l wish that there is no weapons, everywhere is at peace. Strong men go still use blow mend others |
Crime › Re: The Girl That Was Flogged In The Viral Video, Here Is What Really Happened by Kondomatic(m): 5:58pm On May 05, 2021 |
ettaetta: Any elderly woman can also be refered to as Mama, if you have ever visited a brothel u will agree there are some ladies the call Mama It's very difficult to tell what exactly happened. Things no just add up.
I mean if she was a prostitute in Libya then why were they mentioning "boyfriend in the video"?
Why was she calling them brother and daddy?
But Libya was actually mentioned in the video @ 1.14-15, a man's voice said "imakwa na obu Libya ka ino" and the girl said "Daddy"
Very confusing.
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Romance › Re: Okafor's Law: Myth Or Reality? by Kondomatic(m): 9:13am On May 05, 2021 |
IceDune: Whether you agree or disagree with stereotypes, they exist, guide and shape the way people think and how they relate with one another.
For example, there is the widespread belief that wives are better at managing family funds than men, it is also believed that women are terrible at apologizing for their mistakes and f--k ups in relationships and marriages.
And then there is the belief that if you sleep with a girl once and you do it properly, she somehow becomes too weak to say no to you from that moment onwards.
I've tried it out twice and it worked out for me. My question is; is Okafor's law really true or was I just lucky twice? |
Romance › Re: Should I Give Her My Friend's Number? by Kondomatic(m): 9:06am On May 05, 2021 |
Vision101: Once the story starts with......"so I met this girl", don't read any further. Na one of those little children thread.
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Politics › Re: "Your Leaders Are Dull" Ghanaian Pastor Blasts Nigerians by Kondomatic(m): 8:43am On May 05, 2021 |
I dread the day that Nigeria and Ghana will have a Twitter fight |
Romance › Re: My Heart Is Shattered Like Glass by Kondomatic(m): 8:29am On May 05, 2021 |
You helped her to register for JAMB and collected her number? For what? |
Crime › Re: They Can't Run Away, Give The 100 Million To The Kidnappers - Gumi Tells FG by Kondomatic(m): 8:26am On May 05, 2021 |
Chimighty007: hahahahahahaha imagine what he's telling adults
we're finished If over 15 millions adults could elect a disaster like Buhari then I don't see why he can't tell this to adults. |
Politics › Re: Goodluck Jonathan Celebrates His Boss Yaradua Who Died 11 Years Ago by Kondomatic(m): 8:22am On May 05, 2021 |
Ejima1: Yaradua better than Buhari A framed picture of him is better than Buhari |
Crime › Re: Missing Child: Have You Seen Okigbo Chidera Vera? by Kondomatic(m): 8:18am On May 05, 2021 |
saphiere: Worst place to raise a girlchild is Nigeria. May she be found IJN Show me a female almajiri and I will agree with you on this. saphiere: Dear mothers, please never keep your girlchild in the custody of any man be it her father. The days are evil. Mother's should not keep their girl child in the custody of their fathers? Do you know how mad you sound? Is she her child alone? In fact you're mad |
Romance › Re: Curve Igbo Lady Flogged Mercilessly After She Was Caught With A intimacy gadget:video by Kondomatic(m): 2:53am On May 05, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642: This is funny and at the same time this is not funny too. I don't know if I should laugh.
I have a strong feeling that they are flogging this woman for a different reason and not because she was caught with an intimacy gadget.
The more you look, the less you see This is not funny at all sir. The men involved in this dehumanizing act deserve to be picked up and prosecuted accordingly.
What sort of family is that? |
Family › Re: Outrage as Man Pays 1 million as bride price in Imo State.. by Kondomatic(m): 9:13pm On May 04, 2021 |
ChilamNk: I'm from Imo state and I can tell you something.
Those list of items were made way back in time when the cost of those items were very little but today owing to the economic reality of the present time, it has become so outrageous. To make the "little money" that time was very difficult. |
Family › Re: Outrage as Man Pays 1 million as bride price in Imo State.. by Kondomatic(m): 9:11pm On May 04, 2021 |

Then she will come and be claiming equality |
Romance › Re: Woman stripped nak£d by group of men, flogged mercilessly, and filmed (Video) by Kondomatic(m): 8:57pm On May 04, 2021 |
Blingblings: No matter her offence or crime no woman deserves to be tortured and humiliated like this! Rubbish.
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Properties › Re: Landlord Or Landlady, Which Of These Do You Prefer To Rent Their Houses?? by Kondomatic(m): 4:15pm On May 04, 2021 |
Billionsclub: if you were to rent a house, would you prefer the house where Landlord is or where Landlady is? Which is better? give reasons They're the same so I will go for the one that has beautiful landbabies |
Family › Re: Ladies: Would You Welcome A Framed Picture Of Your MIL In Your Home? by Kondomatic(m): 12:33pm On May 04, 2021 |
cococandy: I don’t count this as something that matters at all. Family pictures are welcome.
I only have issues with disrespect.
Little things like these are inconsequential. People focus on the wrong things all the time. Women who have problems with little things like this often miss when bigger issues that can actually affect them and their future come up. Because they are focused on pictures, who seats in the front seat, who dished food from their pot, petty things etc, they miss important things. As in eeh, this thing just tire me.
As in, I hang a picture of my mother and it's a problem? So petty.
Meanwhile these same people will kneel before the portrait of Joseph's wife in the name of honoring Mary.
I can't deal with a person that finds fault in irrelevant things like this. Can't even keep one as a friend. |
Family › Re: Ladies: Would You Welcome A Framed Picture Of Your MIL In Your Home? by Kondomatic(m): 12:27pm On May 04, 2021 |
Romanoff: This is for the Mama's boys who refuse to leave and cleave. His Mummy dictates everything even to what his wife just wear. His Mum's picture on the wall makes him a mama's boy? |
Family › Re: Ladies: Would You Welcome A Framed Picture Of Your MIL In Your Home? by Kondomatic(m): 12:26pm On May 04, 2021 |
bukatyne: Why would the MIL's picture be framed on the wall?
I thought picture frames showcased the husband wife(s) and children?  So my Mom's framed picture is not allowed in my house but Virgin Mary's framed picture is allowed?
Women have a problem with everything |
Family › Re: Ladies: Would You Welcome A Framed Picture Of Your MIL In Your Home? by Kondomatic(m): 12:23pm On May 04, 2021 |
Wait first make I understand this post.
As in, I will hang my mom's framed picture and my wife will go and remove it? Maka why? |
Politics › Re: Christianity Has Taken Away Our Gods Given Self Defense by Kondomatic(m): 10:18am On May 04, 2021 |
Northernblood3: They failed to look and learn from Israel, Surrounded by Muslim terrorists.
Feed these bastards with bombs and bullets and see them stay clear from u.
America was founded by strong Christian farmers but, that doesn't stop them from fighting Brutally back to any country that challenges them. Christians must cultivate the habit of helping themselves when in danger.
According to the Bible, THE ONLY PEOPLE GOD CAN HELP ARE THOSE THAT CAN'T HELP THEMSELVES. We must rise and feed these vultures with the same cup they feed others. Through war will peace be restored All my life I have always believed that God helps the helpless.
Please can you show me where it is written in the Bible that God helps those who help themselves? |
Romance › Re: 10 Exceptionally Unique Romantic Names You Can Call Your Partner by Kondomatic(m): 10:11am On May 04, 2021 |
Me wey don reserve Mama Chi for her nko?
Why being Romantic when you're not a Roman? |
Romance › Re: 10 Exceptionally Unique Romantic Names You Can Call Your Partner by Kondomatic(m): 10:10am On May 04, 2021 |
Me wey don reserve Mama Chi for her nko?
Why being Romantic when you're not a Roman? |
Crime › Re: Man Disgraced After He Was Caught Raping Goat (see Photos) by Kondomatic(m): 10:06am On May 04, 2021 |
Must be the guy was posting Nigeria girls are useless on every thread.
Dude meant his words |
Family › Re: Your Wife Is Not Your Relative What Is Your Thought by Kondomatic(m): 10:01am On May 04, 2021 |
Bola146: That is why ladies should be very careful and vigilant before marring a beast! Marry your friend please, don't marry for pity sake, some guys are trained as mumu. See this one now And marrying your friend makes him your relative?
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Family › Re: Your Wife Is Not Your Relative What Is Your Thought by Kondomatic(m): 10:00am On May 04, 2021 |
RightToReject: Mutual held ethical ideology cum bond is as thick as blood. It could even be thicker than blood, depending on the ethical leanings of the blood. So, a good wife (spouse) might not be a relative of her husband, but she's something equal or even bigger than a relative and, as such, deserves every act of goodness/love from her husband.
Don't try to mend it if it isn't broken, and if it's broken, don't bother to mend it. Nicely written boss.
But
If it's not blood then it's not blood.
So many things are thicker than blood but they're not even red to begin with. There's an Igbo adage that says "Ezi oyi ka ajo nwanne" meaning that a good friend is better than a bad relative but thing is, a monkey and a baboon may claim oneness but a monkey is a monkey and a baboon is a baboon. |
Family › Re: Your Wife Is Not Your Relative What Is Your Thought by Kondomatic(m): 9:55am On May 04, 2021 |
adadike: Someone you have been sharing your blood with is not your relative? You married her for what then? Should you have married your sister instead? Can you say your mother is not also your relative after all, she came from another blood line? You people fight over unnecessary things.
English words doesn't have emotions.
If the definition/meaning of relative doesn't cover wife then he is right, things are what they are not what you feel.
Also look at it this way, in his wife's own side, he's the only one that is not a relative. affaire classée
I will recommend you read the book Don't Sweat the Small Stuff by Richard Carlson
It helps. |