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But isn't madam Oby supporting APC, is she trying to distant herself now?

ibkgab001:
this afternoon was a bad moment at the ATM SEE THE PICTURES BELOW

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Chibok the propaganda that took GEJ out of office, why won't they promote her

slimmy05:
nice transcript. Bros, your profile fits a better school than the one you have. You can't have that profile and settle for that school. You would have aimed atleast top 20 schools.

My thoughts exactly!!!

dm387:
Guys, a friend in the US is trying to make my SEVIS fee payment, unfortunately, he's gotten only error messages so far. It keeps on asking for an "Attention" field. For those who have previously made the payment in SEME or elsewhere, is this field standard on every Western Union QUICK PAY form? I'm beginning to suspect he's using a wrong form. Please advice. Thanks

How is he making this payment?

akin3102:
Please oh,my graduate school is asking me if I have booked for my interview and if there is any assistance. I might need from them.is dat how they operate? What should be my response concerning their assistantance?

Your graduate school try ooo, they like you

jenns:
Please guru's in the house , have got questions to ask :
What are the required documents that I must tender at the point of entry
Do I need to take along my old spring i20 with my new summer i20 on board?
What is the minimum bta that an F1 student should have with him/her .
lastly what if asked where I intend to stay on arrival? should I tell them am yet to book and hotel ?
Please kindly help by addressing these questions with all sincerity.

Take all I-20s, about where you will sleep; don't you have temporary housing planned or something?
About BTA, What is BTA? If you mean cash, then there is no minimum but maximum you can take is enough for a year stay in your school (I did the same).

sholikay:
Bros me na gentle guy. I no dey drink alcohol oooo.

Then you never ready gather liver get correct woman....
I used to crack jokes and be friendly, omo friendzone nearly castrated me....

Then I met a bottle of Absolut Ruby red and now I have many exes (but no wife )

missclasssy:
Why is it that most guys think they are so smart, that they can break someone's heart and just move on like it's nothing?

Guys, why do most of you think that you can mess with the life of a girl and just ride off merrily into the sunset, and you still do the same with subsequent ladies?

Why do most of you enter a relationship having the mindset that you are going to just use a lady and move on, and you still do it and feel no remorse?

Don't you know that we are humans and we have feelings and we have emotions? Why do you toil with our hearts like it's your play field?
Why are most of you this heartless, why?

Most of you need to be tied up and burnt at a stake for the gross wickedness you show ladies, and I mean it.

On behalf of all men,

I wholeheartedly apologize, we didn't mean it....

Jo, ma binu

sholikay:
This write up may be lackadaisical and irrelevant to some here, but I just need you guys to just over look it, and help a brada out.. I'm in my mid-twenties.. I have a problem of wooing ladies (I'm imagining how I'm gonna get my wife sef ). Obviously, the only tactic I have is just being humorous to them ladies., in which I use to get their attention, at the initial stage. But midway, everything will just crash, kuz I always spoil the formation.. And the ladies won't stop stealing my heart away.. Since we are now in the "ERA" of change, I just want to lock up on ladies matter for the time being, so I could focus more on my professional course(mechanical engineering)..
So to my big Bros'es in the house, who's more experienced in "ROMANCE". I need remedies and measures, in shutting ones feelings for the opposite sex...
Thanks in advance for any bashing and helpful response..

Alcohol

This is something serious, I don't permit hitting anyone especially your mother but his mum got it wrong.... He shouldn't have hit her but I angry she has to leave his life.... What kind of bad mother is this? Someone who was there when your son was nothing, helped him get on his feet.... You want him to dismiss her like a forgotten rag.... And women will say men are bad, see who is pushing this one.....

He should apologize to his mother but have her leave his house until she respects the blessings that God has given him

EyeKandy:
If you don't, you'd be tagged as unromantic. Step your game up and listen.

Being romantic never got a Nigerian man laid

EyeKandy:
The hopeless comments ruined this thread. Made me waste my time reading over 3 pages of BS!!

These are people that sleep on NL all these years. Grow up, get a life or get busy.

OP: since you already proposed informally, I won't advise you to go "all out". A nice fancy dinner should be fine. Hint a server/bartender of your plans and make them take pictures. If you can afford a vacation, that would be perfect.

If she loves to show off, invite your friends and hers over to her house. It's easier to execute if her family is aware so they could join in the "surprise planning" with light food and drinks. And everyone would go awwww Seems like she wants the "surprise". Good luck!!!

Alo alo ooo, alo alo
Story story o, story story.....

Oseigha:
I have always known her. I asked her out not quite long but I have no doubt on my mind if she is the right one.
I also want her to wear my ring to scare away 'predators'

I have known her is different from I have dated her.... I can't go and marry my neighbor just like that.... Dating is different from being friends, but what do I know....

All the best!

Wait!!! You just started dating her and she insists you propose to her formally?? Or do you mean ask her out formally?

Dear future wife,

If you believe anything this OP has said or anyone has added and you decide not to tell me, it's fine. But if I learn it from a 3rd party, just take it as our marriage is as good as being over. If you believe I can't accept your past then just know our future won't be bright....

Signed,

Your future (might-be-ex) husband

Commenting as in resolve problems or asking questions??

Plus I do not think many Nigerians are into Technology....

Plus the very few in technology feel they founded technology so don't need to comment

So Nigerians now call clothes line "dryer".... I need to visit home often

A sharp guy will text his friend to come keep her friend company while una enter room

paschu:
Thank you @Kpolli

I really appreciate your MATURE views. Please on a side note I'd be glad to know the best section to move this topic to. I actually posted here thinking that I was following the rules of the forum not knowing that the section is infested with children.

Anyways as I said in the story the first girl wants to get back with the pastor right now with marriage in view however the pastor is leaning towards the second girl and wasn't giving the first girl enough audience.

Secondly, (I presumed that ALL the COMMENTATORS would infer this from the story but it seems most were too immature to even understand the premise) the pastor is convinced to move on with the second girl WHICH AM NOT COMFORTABLE WITH.

He did not ask me to seek for advice anywhere for him. I'm only doing this to get his attention and hopefully make him have a rethink before it's too late, yes even though it is at the risk of loosing his friendship if he eventually find my little post here unacceptable.

I've not even told him about this post yet. I'm waiting for the accumulation of REASONABLE and ACTIONABLE advice but unfortunately the NL kids seem to be beclouding those with their empty rants.

But thanks again for your gem

If he thinks he can handle the 2nd lady then he should go ahead but let him remember he is throwing away 8 years of hard work.... As a pastor his wife is meant to be active in church; is he sure he can make number 2 active? This is a woman he hasn't met that might end up being a prankster in the end

OP you want a wise answer but placed this in NL kids section??

But on a serious note, he is a pastor; I can't advice him better than the holy spirit... He should listen to Him...

Plus I don't agree in accepting a child that isn't his when the real father is alive.... He should not be roped into a lie, then the mother will lie to the child that he is the father and then years later the truth comes out.... He will be the pastor who lied, the woman should realize the child has a father and should realize that the father will one day come back to her child's life.... The pastor can take care of the child as his but that is not his first child...

And about the virgin girlfriend, what is her offer now?

semasir:
It boot via the server

So the solution I advised earlier should work

Abeokuta to Lagos no far jo.... He did it because of fuel scarcity not Buhari

Emm, was there another way to shuttle to the plane? This one you guys are claiming simplicity and humility

cowleg:
Means i am not mentally ready to pass through the rigors of a married man for now. Thanks for your contribution missclasssy

The way people look at marriage is the reason why most marriages of today crash..... Marriage is not about the word "marriage" but about the companion... If you feel you can spend the rest of your life with this woman, then you can marry.... It's not a mental issue whereby your psyche tells you "I'm ready" and then you start looking for who to marry....

Cook the meal you're going to eat, don't wait till you're hungry and have to go to Iya Seyi to buy any meal you see

But that doesn't mean I support marry your girlfriend, she is acting too desperate

teflonbuzz:
I have 100 percent proof my gf is cheating on me. We were living together for over a year in Dallas before we moved to different cities in the U.S. I found out about her sexcapades from her email which I happen to know the password without her knowing. I am still contemplating how to handle it because what she has done is horrible but she has been too good to me before now. I really love this girl and I know she loves me because she has made sacrifices that no other gf has ever made for me and cried a lot when we moved to separate cities. When we were in college in Texas, this girl used to support me morally, financially, spiritually and sexually. She sold her car at some point to help me pay off my tuition debts. Yes! she is that good. We were making plans for the future before this long distance thing happened out of necessity. She started sounding somehow lately and I decided to dig and found that she has been having an affair with another guy in Illinois where she is currently. I saw their erotic convos about their bleeping, her messages asking him to bleep her and vice versa, pictures of their private parts which they exchanged, hotel receipts, plane tickets to vacations, convos of how they are having a good time etc. I am so depressed and have had to see a psychologist because of this. I don't know how to handle this because of the way I found out and because I don't wanna loose her forever; besides this the girl is really any man's dreams cos she is very pretty, kind and intelligent even though she has a bad temper sometimes. It is partly my fault because for sometime I was not calling her as much but it was cos the things I was busy with not cos I was cheating or anything like that. I JUST HATE THIS SITUATION. I don't know how I can move on from here. I had thought I found the one for real but now this! She was all I wanted. Is it love carrying me through or am I being stupid? It's okay to be sincere and tell me I am stupid now cos I just feel all kinds of way. Love is really a damn tragedy! I need opinions...it may help before I board a plane to Illinois and do something really really stupid.

I know what you're going through.... Confront her, ask her what she wants.... If she wants to end it, then end it... If she is remorseful, then she breaks off communication with the other guy and you guys create a way of moving forward..... But I have heard bad things about Chicago babes, be careful

skylane:
Okay this might be a bit lengthy but I want to make it more understanding to everyone 4 beta commentary advice thanks.
I have this girlfriend,we go to the same church(but I frst met her at our estate gate),live in the same estate,
We started dating not up to 2months now, the second time she came to my house,I was trying to romance her a little but she was mad abt that,she was telling me no sex in the relationship,I shud control my self blah blah,ok I agreed on that I don't hav a problem with sex,okay even just to touch her hand she would freakout as if I have ebola if I try to hug or hold her hand while walking on the road weda day or night she wud get angry and dish out warnings to me that she not use to such life no romance,my problem with her is this,(inner character)she's the agressive type anything I do or say she will blast me 4 the rest of our meeting,she talks too much.she's the demanding type,demands everything from me even the tym I wasnt havin a job,[b]she's always demanding money [/b]and she is working she has neva bought me anything talkless of givin me money wen I was in need,she doesn't joke or laugh,if I try to play or joke with her she will blast me,always tryn to form wise,she once told me that she hates men and sex infact she will be selfish and stingy with sex if she marries her husband because she was raped at her frst sex, physically she is not fine no body assets poor dress sense, I just got attracted to her boldness,but she's getting me worked up the more character I find in her,its just as if I am dating a man no feelings anymore no romance notin,I don't just know wat to do with her,and I hav a couple of girls giving me greenlight but am just reserved cos of this one.pls advice me I want to do away with her

No sex but demands money.... Continue being a maga

cowleg:
hello nairalanders,

My girlfriend has a job and earns above 100k, we are both in our late 20s, same age with me. She is been pestering me with marriage, i keep on telling her i am not ready yet atleast i should be able to take care of my family. she earns morethan i do for now. She told me today she is ready for marriage and ready to fund the wedding budget. She gave me deadline as December 2015.

As a man i am not both financially and psychologically ready for marriage, but i love her very much. I see our future together in marriage but not now.

I don't understand that part

Dyt:
Awwww

Replace her

Still waiting for the OP to upload the pictures of the "pretty" girls because the ones I have seen are not

2milz:
9. If you love her, but your friends don’t, question your
friends first.

I’ve witnessed too many dickhead guys ruin their best
friend’s relationships out of jealousy to allow this to
ever happen to you.
Any friend who takes an immediate opposition to a
relationship that makes you happy is only acting out of
selfishness. Do not let a situation like this rip you away
from someone you really want.

110 out of 100 times, your friends are right

DonRossy:
I have been in a serious relationship for close to 2years now and I have not had sex with my fiancee just because she is a virgin and she said I can't have canal knowledge of her until I take her to the alter and friends keep telling me not to marry her unless I have sex with her. Please is any wrong if I don't have sex with her untill we marry?...We are in love!!!!

Nothing wrong sir but if you find out she isn't a virgin on your wedding night, what will you do?