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But this is 2013 news naaa

itsdumebi:
Buhari get work...lol!

Why didn't you help them push? Tomorrow they won't help you and you will start complaining

Linda Ikeji is regarded as a woman in technology, you women have suffered!

He googled his hacker? See how illiterates are taking over

EyeKandy:
@kpolli: Your "expertise" is needed here.

Which expertise?? Unless he wants to marry, he will end up in a $5 per hour place....

BlazinFrost:
There's this girl that i've liked for a long time. We didn't use to talk so much before, but since I went to school and came back for the holidays, we've become really really close. There's about a 85% chance that if i ask her out, she'll say yes. Now the problem is that she'll soon be going to school in another state. I don't know whether to ask her out now and pursue a long-distance relationship or let her go to school for about a year after which she'll have seen how things work out in schools. She's extremely pretty and I'm sure immediately she resumes, guys will be on her case 24-7. If I ask her out now, she might meet another guy that she likes and regret dating me or she could go to school, see what other guys have to offer , reject it and when I finally ask her out, she'll be able to accept, fully knowing what other guys have to offer. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Stop thinking and do it

No wonder no girl has ever said yes to me.... I am meant to say I love you while asking her out. Interesting!

winner01:
okay, your fiancee insists on keeping her virginity till marriage
and probably because of one reason or the other, you also
accept it.

but to your greatest surprise on your wedding night, you receive
the shock and dissapointment of your life...

surely there is always a reason for everything and she will give
a reason for fooling you.

And u don collect certificate for this 100unit course..

Guys, how will you react to this

share your thoughts!!!

I will give her a reason for annulment.... Not only did she lie, I will always have the feeling that she was sleeping with other men while she lied

But wait, if you didn't know about the attacks until you were called from Nigeria.... How did you know the exact details of how it happened? Was it news or hearsay (which means this is not your view at all)?

Quick question, why didn't they clarify before the elections?

Yomieluv:
Lemme make it short.

Went to a friend's place on Tuesday to watch Real-Madrid match. After a while,I heard a knock at the door,my friend went to open,I started hearing noise,on getting to the door,I saw my friend beating his girlfriend. I had to ask,he said the girlfriend came unannounced,and want to force herself in,which resulted to fracas.

I settled them,and went drop the girl in her hostel in unilag,went I came back to my friend's place,he was shouting that why should I go drop the girl off to her hostel,that I should have left her outside,when he locked the door against her. That my loyalty should be to him.

My question is this,was I wrong to have dropped her? I went to drop her because she was crying,bruised,and her sandal was torn.it will be unfair to leave her outside.

How can I help her out of the toxic relationship,without being seen as a traitor,or back-stabber by my friend, because its obvious my friend didn't like her at all,she's the one forcing herself on him.

Imagine after the whole beating,while driving her to school,she was pleading with me to beg my friend for her,I was like WTF in my mind,but didn't say anything,that I will get back to her.

Bros, you don't know the terms and agreement of their relationship nor do you know the daily happenings.... So let them be, before they get married and claim you're the devil that tried to stop their star

Tinubu is his role model, both arrested in USA and both have held/will hold offices in the Nigeria

OluwaChinenyenwa:
Can i

of course

OluwaChinenyenwa:
Hello Nairalanders..

I don't even know where to start from but this is how it goes.. I and my boyfriend already agreed only on white wedding here in London, but his mother said we need to have a traditional marriage.. I cant because my dad's peeps cut him off when he got married to my mum.. The only grandparents i know are my mum folks and also the only village i call my village is my maternal village.. And now his mum insists that we also do a traditional marriage?? I am losing it.. What do i do?? I have no paternal ties.. How do i go about that? I cant even tell my peeps cause they had mixed feelings initially about my fiance.. I need your help peeps.. What do i tell his mum?

Forgive any typos and incomprehension..

Why can't you do it in your mum's side/village?

Dyt:
Chai
I rem this dude
I begged taya
Cried
He say no ooo
He must do
When he said u can go ehn
I ran out forgetting my bag n shoe

Before or after he had done?

Holatunde007:
Pls fellow nairalander am confused don't know wat to do anymore.... About 2yrs ago something terrible happen at my place of work, we do close our office around 5. PM latest 5.30 but on dis fateful day I forgot my charger @ d office which made me went back, that was around 8.30Pm but on getting to the office I saw something terrible done by our branch manager, he was calling the names of all his workers saying some incantations I assume he is using the workers glories, I waited for sometime to see the full scenario, in a couple of seconds I was shocked to death when I heard him mentioned my name along with others, there I bang inside to stop him, then I discovered he wasn't alone, there with him were one spiritualist, 3 grown up boys. The spiritualist shouted to my boss "you must not stop that incantation" I became tensed and confused, immediately the three men held me tightly, then I remembered God, I shouted Jesus even thou I've never done that willingly, immediately I shouted Jesus the spiritualist ordered my boss to stop, they all became angry, I never knew one of them had a gun, he pointed the gun at me ask me to say my last prayer, I was like just like that?? No then my boss pleaded that they shouldn't kill me. The man then brought out red paper there I saw all the workers names he ask me to point to my name, which I did, then he said he will remove my name from the list if I can only make an oath that till I die no one will hear what happen tonight from my mouth, and if I do, I should die and he later said if I didn't make the oath they are left with no choice than to kill me....then I made the oath and my name was removed as promised. They took me out and drop me infront of my house in my boss car around 10.00PM, I went in quietly to bed without showing my face to anyone @ home, the following morning I gather some courage went to the office I saw my boss, then I look straight to his face and said Sir can I tender my resignation letter? Workers around were confused, my boss drag me inside his office immediately, then trys to threaten me about the oath then I told him the oath was not to tell anybody so y can I resign working here. Then he said he will accept my resignation letter and even offer me some money which I rejected with anger, when I was about to leave his office he reminded again saying "your life in your hand" remember my words, I looked at him banged the door and went out, when I get tot the office hall I looked at others workers, as I saw those that their names were mentioned, including a secondary school friend of mine who we walk home together, I busted into tears, no one wouldn't know what has happened, I left the premises before they started suspecting.
I've gone for deliverance twice now I worked somewhere else, life changed for good

But I felt sad whenever I see dis frnd of mine complaining and not always financially stable, I advise him several tymz to quit the job, he always decline instead he says wat job will a school cert holder see as he's earning 35k per month but nothing to show.....I was the only that know is been enchanted but can't tell him, my conscience is killing me right now, I thought of telling him and again I thought of the oath of dying if I do.
Now the question here is, is there anyway I can actually release this secret to him? Can send dis to him through any social messenger, afterall I didn't say it with my mouth, will the oath still kill me if I do....pls need a strong advise my frnd life is becoming an E luck day by day he never for once notice, I've gone for my N.D and back now he never for once think of furthering his education yet he claims I love that job

What should I do?

So you went for deliverance and still scared of the oath? Which God do you serve There's none bigger than God, report to everyone you can.... Let your former boss go and face your God

Go and see a dentist, then buy mouth wash and gum... Then make sure you drink a lot or water or open your mouth often....

Plus I hope there is not something health related that is causing this, the solution I described above is for if it's just your stale breathe that smells bad....

The way Nigerians over look rigging because it was done by APC baffles me

abduljabbar4:
He thumbprinted for pdp

if you look at the position of the thumb; it's obviously apc

so he can vote for president but not governor..... they should leave him alone; awon apc riggers

[quote author=wwwkaycom post=32558568]She cant stop her mum from loving but for the mum to decend so low as to date her daughters teacher is shameful, cant she find another man elsewhere? Well, let that girl have a sincere daughter-mother talk with her mum where she will bare her mind and plead with her mum to desist from seeing that man, she could involve her mother's relations if the woman prove adamant[/quote]What do you mean by that? Isn't he human too?

You need to stop giving her attention, if she becomes overbearing.... Disappear for a few days, and when she complains; let her know she took you for granted and is gradually pushing you to the hands of girls outside....

Let her know if you can't have peace in your house, you will get it else where....

dearpreye:
She didn't. ..she simply termed it AN ARGUMENT!

Now that's my problem with this kinda stories..... She might have cursed his whole lineage but won't tell you...

In this situation, you as a friend can't do much because you don't wanna be called the one who didn't allow her progress or the one who led her to trouble....

My advice, tell her next time she shouldn't call you..... So she knows that from her actions, she is on her own

dearpreye:
That's the present dilemma my female friend has found herself. She just couldn't believe her fiancee, whom she loves so much, could lay his hands on her. Unfortunately, it's happened!

Immediately I got a call from her last weekend, I could feel some pain in her voice. We met in a popular eatery, with tears in her eyes, she let out her disappointment and frustration. They've been courting over 4 months- having been mere friends over 5 years.

They had an argument. It got heated up. Words were spilled from both ends, and a slap from the guy brought her back to realityr she had just received a slap from the man she might end up getting married to. I tried to calm her down. Both of them are my friends!

Women can really weep, especially when someone whom they deeply love treats them poorly; they have containers of tears behind those two sockets at their foreheads! They are a very emotional and sensitive people; too precious and tender!

She sought my advice. I simply ask her if that was the first. She reluctantly said NO; the guy has slapped her twice before this recent one. I didn't want to be responsible for the breakup of an intending couple. And I don't also believe that, even in the face of verifiable, unbearable character defects, one should jump into a marriage with the hope of changing their spouses...you may just have inherited a prayer and fasting ministry! !!!

I advised her to look at the matter with her head, not heart. But trust, emotions are usually stronger than knowledge!

She called me yesterday, and told me she was going ahead with the courtship. It's her call. But i didn't fail to warn her that she could be receiving hotter slaps in the years ahead. Kicks could even follow!

If you were in her shoes, as a lady, what would have been your decision?

Was my advice a wrong one?

Did she tell you what she said before the slap was given?

Blackmailed her into a relationship; hmm, that's a first

Because when you go and buy clothes.... You enter the fitting room before paying for it...

Gotta make sure it fits

He endorsed GEJ and Buhari, please state your facts right

[quote author=Bosch10 post=30764227][/quote]When their eye tear in the city, please come back and create a new post

Afroconnect:
I earn your total yearly wage from a deal...dumb slave-dummies like you worship politicians who are meant to serve you.

If you did that, you won't be on Nairaland my brother....

Stop living in ignorance...

remirez07:
.. Good day my brother, you really have point to proof but I want you to know that northern are not majority SW let buhari won the election with out SW there's no sai Baba or whtever. If he mistakenly misbehave he's gone.... Without sw there is no Nigeria.

The North has the majority because the SW will need the SE and SS to kick him out.... And those two regions will not team up with the SW for now because of how the SW deserted GEJ....

Plus remember APC has a lot of SW people.... So they will support Buhari even if he performs 1000 times worse

Afroconnect:
F-cking slave...suffering and smiling idiot. Am not friend to slaves who work 9-5 for living wage.

Lemme guess, you're one of those many people with failed dreams....

When one business fails, you jump on to the next one...

Cycle continues till you're broke....

So why are you so angry today, lemme guess.... Another dream died today? Well you have till Monday to pick up another idea...

Don't worry, you're a failure.... I'm sure no one expected you to succeed anyway