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bigfrancis21: Sent.

@mikky4all
I'm not on bbm. However you could e-mail me what exactly is the problem.

Thanks
But whats the rar password

Ibukunjah: Have you fellow nairalanders observed that the very joyous moments of many marriages, filled with anticipations for a blissful union suddenly get sour and "for better for worse" now turn to "for better for stay, for worse for go"? Are there steps to save these marriages? Please leave your comments.

Some worse are the worst oooooo. . . . . One shouldn't sacrifice ones life cos of marriage

gaquilani: I just payed my SEVIS fee through an agent, however my appointment is on tuesday(2nd october). My skul is meant to resume on the 1st of october and i asked dem (my skul) for permission to resume late and dey have not answered me. I don't know what to tell d VO I NEED SOME HELP/ADVICE. answers please .

N ur just speaking out now

chichimate: Hello!

Does anyone know how I can get income tax for my student visa? My uncle is my sponsor and he is a trader. His financial statement has been accepted by a university for I-20, now I am preparing for my visa interview but I have no idea on how I can overcome the income tax and business registration requirements. Please any vital information for this case?

U only need tax clearance if he owns the company not for individuals

Sometimes I feel ppl post here just to confuse us readers

supertop7: help me nairalanders and marriage couselors in the house, my wife said she does not luv me but whenever she sees me with a lady or we am admiring a lady she flares up. Does she really dont luv me? Pls ur matured response will attract blessind nd vise vaser.

For better for worse wife or girlfriend u call wife

It depends on the kinda girl

Please edit the name of the post to: Don't Be Scared To Toast Me: Karen Igho Dares Guys, Says She's Single, Ugly & Ready

Phizzie555: *Nine Signs That Say She Loves You*

1. Communication
She calls you often, wants to know what you’re
doing, and shares her day’s activities. When you ask
about her plans for the evening, or the weekend, or
even the whole summer, she doesn’t hedge or put
you off. She is open and forthcoming.

2. Exclusivity
When she only wants to see you, and does not give
you the “space” talk, as in, “I need my space,” and is
not craning her neck to watch other men walk by,
you have her attention. She makes it known to you
and to everyone else that she does not want to date other people.

3. No Conflicting Messages
She makes you her one and only love interest and
does not send you conflicting messages. She does
not say things like, “I’m in love with you, you are my
soul mate, I can’t live without you…AND…I saw my
ex yesterday and I think I still have feelings for him.” This kind of message will drive you crazy. You will
feel like the rubber ball attached to the paddle by a
slim rubber string, batted back and forth. The real
message that is being sent is: come here… and go
away. You can’t win. But if she loves you, her words
and thoughts are straight forward and you do not feel batted around.

4. Family and Friends
She makes plans to introduce you to her family and
friends. When you meet them, you realize they
already know a lot about you because she has
obviously talked about you. Most of them (except the
few jealous ones) are warm and friendly and genuinely excited for her that she has found
happiness.

5. The Future
When she talks about her plans for the future, she
automatically includes you in them. She has places
she wants to take you and sights she wants to show
you. She follows through on her suggestions. She
might also mention marriage and children, if only in an abstract way, to evaluate your reaction.

6. Affirming
She speaks often of how proud she is of you. She
does this privately and publicly. She thinks the work
you do is the most important thing in the world and
loves for you to tell her about what you
accomplished during the day. She is happy to help you with your work in any way she can.

7. Gifts
She has noticed what you like, admire, and read, and
brings you gifts that reflect what she has observed.
The quality of her gift shows the level of her
perception about what you like. If she is rich, she
may buy you expensive presents. If she is not, she may send cards, books, or poems. If she is not rich
and she sends a Porsche or a pricey suit, she’s got
some problems. Have the grownup conversation
with her about how you don’t like gifts she can’t
afford. That would be a very loving thing to do.

8. Touchy
Your girl may be the touchy type, which is not the
hyper-thin-skinned poor sport, but the warm,
snuggly sort. She may show her love and affection by
holding your hand when you’re together, giving big
long hugs, frequent kisses, and putting her arm through yours. Her favorite date may be a movie at
home so she can cuddle up with you.

9. Helpful
Another overt sign of love is how helpful she is.
When she does the garbage detail, helps in the yard,
helps you prepare a speech, or cooks your favorite
meal, she wants to be in your life! To move these feelings along, and to better
understand where she is, ask her what she wants
her future to look like. If she has you in it, and a time-
line for certain events that bind you together, the ball
is in your court. What do you want? Remember: in order for love to sustain itself, it needs
to flow back and forth. If you do all of the above also,
your relationship should be on track.

Egbon, parole girls don start to dey act concerned too ooo, so that part is invalid

Caringhrtofmine: Pls i need sincere answers from the house. Did u have intimate relationship (sex) with your partner before marriage? If u dont, how did u prove your love to him without sex? Cos, men dont believe you love them untill u have sex. And as a man, how do u see your wife to be who does not want to have sex with you? Thank u for your sincere responds.

You ask too many questions. . . . Do the deed if u want to and stop trying to justify it

Dear Poster,

Before you make any decision, ask yourself "why doesn't she know how to cook and why is she lazy?". . . . It's all about her upbringing, either she was a wayward child or her parents didn't care. . . . My advice, do not marry a girl that whp would need a third party to take care of her home. . . 90% of the time, the third party takes over her wifely duties too. . . . .

bigfrancis21: Yes. I do.

Thanks

It's like ur family members calling u bastaaaard and someone outside calling u bastaaaard . . . You know ur family is joking but person outside just wants to insult u

Imperriouxx or BigFrancis GMAT materials??

Please I need gmat materials. . . . Who has?

WeezyKrack: Hello Nairaland... Back Here On The Posts. N Replies, Much Respect To The Heads Of This Thread.. Aving Been Much Of A Poster Buh A Humble Follower For Quite A While Now, I'm Applying For The Second Year Buh I Left Nigeria When I Lost My Visa Just Early This Year.. I Already Have An Admission From This School N All I Need Is A Fresh Bank Statement Buh I'm Wondering If I Can Apply Again From A Different Country.

Lost visa ke

franklynx: fellow nairalanders,i sent my admission docs via NIPOST since 5th of SEPT. to my school in US..and av since been tracking it and weneva i do wat i see is:


Processed Through Sort Facility,


September 11, 2012, 5:09 am,


ISC NEW YORK NY(USPS).

pls guys wat should i do?? deadline is October 1.. pls kindly reply ASAP.. i am very tensed here oo..

Call USPS

If you are really spiritual u wud know that dreams don't just happen. . . It all has a reason, do not see it as being paranoid, they are just being cautious. . . .

And when they die or be paralyzed, they do not mean physically. . .

Pastor Kun: They are a false church and their teachings and practises don't conform to the gospel of our lord Jesus christ.

Are you our Lord Jesus Christ?? Already digging your way to hell by judging. . . . Pastor kor, bloody blasphemer

See how he spelt Lord sef. . . . Am sure ur one of those "We don't receive offerings less than N10,000 ministries" pastors

dota: no,at least i dnt wnt to hear it

So ur codedly giving him free pass but he shouldn't just tell u when he does it?

Does the condition also include him being able to have sex n kiss other girls?

dubezj: Ladies, I need you on this one.

I’m a regular member on here, so you’ll all understand why a new handle is necessary.

Let me make it short and concise.

My girlfriend/fiancé of nearly 5 years is all of a sudden asking me for a little time out to allow her sort out her new business.

We agreed to solemnize our traditional marriage in Nigeria this month, and as faith will have it, her job contract was not extended so she has to go. She’s currently setting up a beauty supplies business which was discussed with me and has my blessing as long as she's contended with it.

Now, she routinely ignores my calls (she does that every now and then over the years and claims she cant help herself)and calls every now and then with an excuse to quickly bail out of the conversation. She also refuses to open up when i come calling (also not new).

My name is Honey and baby by the way and that hasn't changed.

That behaviour infuriated me the last time and I made clear that it will no longer be tolerated or ignored by me.

She travelled out of our location 2 weeks ago for four days without my notification or information.

On her return, a short but peaceful and matured confrontation ensued where i made known that I was aware of her travel and other antics and sort explanations. None was forthcoming except that she was stressed out and needed to sort her new plans out ( can understand that, but people in our constellation usually do this together). She later sent me a text message apologising and resumed calling me again.

Acting on personal instinct, I did a little snooping (I am an IT man)and found pictures of herself taken on that journey, but also pictures of a male person.

That image matched that of a guy whom she has on Facebook as a friend and who happens to live in the location she travelled to. I had asked who that individual was a few months back, and she claimed it was just someone who asked to become friends.

I confronted her yesterday about this discovery. She claimed they’re just friends, then changed the story to having flirted with him. When I became categorical about she having an affair and sleeping with him, she claimed she only kissed him but nothing further.

Here is a woman who needs my voice in her ears to fall asleep every night for nearly five years. She said its my fault that she sort comfort with that individual. That I became absent regarding her needs but admitted that she erred in not drawing my attention to the deficit but expected me as her man to figure what her needs are.

She has routingly lied in the past about things but i hung in there. why?, because I love her. I expressively asked her to break up with me first if it ever got to a point where she ever felt the need to cheat on me. A text message will do.

I proded further and asked if I'd go ahead with the marriage plans or cancel as my folks are gearing to go. She said not to cancel but needs some time to get her business started.

Questions on my mind are the following:

Why the sudden need for space?
Why the sudden secrecy
We had planed and talked about everything in the past, why can I not participate in setting up this business or use my various talents and capacities which she's well informed about?.
Why am I the person she needs a break from?.
Was her last answer out of fear.

I'm about to bail.

Ladies?(and reasonable guys.

You be blackberry? Grammar po ju, u still gbagauned. . . .

Bros leave that girl alone, if she travels to sleep with fb friends. . . imagine what she does to neighbors . . .


Hope u get my msg

So u were too young to marry him but not too young to have sex wiv him . . . . Issorai

In btw doing my programming assignment, I come and update myself with this thread. . . . I don't respond to questions that have already been answered, I read n leave or input where I can. . . . Man can not live on programming alone but also on laughing at some silly things here. . .

For all those wey just wan migrate from Naija, go to Eastern Europe. . . Cos when I see someone publishing resume here and asking what he can do with it. . . Shows u have no plan and just want to migrate. . . Here is for Visa enquiries not admissions and course counselling. . . .

I might have sounded too harsh but when u never sleep well and trying to right a program + still other pending assignments + still wan read, u go feel my pains

jimtosam: Eduson, pls apply to Western Illinois University(www.wiu.edu) communication department. They give lot of GA virtually to all applicants. Act fast.

Why una just dey tell us. . . . Why una no tell us since

no be say specific number of phones were made oooo. . . . It can go round

jay bee: What's going on here like seriously?

Now the cat is back, where wud the rats run to?

By the way, the technology Samsung III has been using to catch ppl in ads, BB has had it for almost a yr now, never made so much noise about. . . Sending documents just by tapping phones

Some "proper" old ppl here

Cuddlemii: Other words or terms for marijuana(extra education)
Igbo,
o fe lo wa pa,
kpolli,
fried fish,
grass,
pot,
ganja,
do*pe,
wanna go for a haircut,
indian hemp,
spliff,
mofe tafe,
gbana
weed

Did u just call me marijuana?

[quote author=Chi-town Base]if u say amke dem no come if no enuf moni dey will think u dont want dem progress dey will learn it the hard way when they choose not to listen [/b] but the truth is 9ja na 9ja dem go survive everybody face hardship one way or the other but be strong guys no matter wat............its still a place to be... [/quote]That doesn't apply if they don't have anyone in USA. . . . Being alone and broke here is close to suicide

imperiouxx: My point is he doesn't plan to go back Britain. Is it poor in Britain now ni?

Depends on his opportunities at home compared to here. . . .

Having spent some time in both places, to me UK is better. . . . (Note: To me)

Plus if I remember well, ur doing a biological course, and its better here than UK