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[quote author=Miz_JaY]This was what you should have said the first time [/quote]My bad

[quote author=Miz_JaY]it would have been better if u had just kept quiet. [/quote]Why cos I said the truth? or the fact that I reminded you of how u turned down many great guys to stay with a guy that ended up not being worth it. . . . Ur mistake, I just hope other girls learn from it. . . When a guy is not appreciating you and a better one comes along, actually think about urself when deciding. . . . Not saying you should double date, but if a guy never appreciated you from the start, nothing could ever make him appreciate you. . . So u caused the 5 wasted yrs. . .

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at the moment i cant access my email because i seem 2 have forgotten my password associated with that mail
so please kindly direct those messages to 190innairaland@gmail.com

please no spams, this was set up directly for this cause

Got the same message and guess what? It was one of this useless 419ners

Princessdoja: Hi guys, I've been dating my guy for almost 2yrs now n we love each a lot. We r already making marriage plans bt I noticed recently dat he's unhappy and he told me his family went to pray n dey said we r not spiritually compactible. Pls wat do I do am broken!

And you fell for this

See scope

First decent thing ur gold digging self has done

[quote author=Miz_JaY]My first r/l was a flirt, he disappointed me so bad, I didn't date for almost 3 yrs and wen I realised I was not getting any younger, I decided to enter anoda r/l, which lasted for almost 5 yrs. During this period, I was paying d bills even when I had no job. I am too calm & cool so he took advantage of that. I decided to go my way though it was a tough decision because of all the sacrifices I've made for almost 5yrs and I'm 28, couldn't imagine I wasted almost 5yrs on a r/l dat ended up no where, [b]I snobbed enough guys that period [/b]because I chose to stay faithful, I don't double date & also he promised me marriage. I am supposed to be a very pretty gal but I don't always look good cos I'm always worried about what he will eat or wear etc so instead of using d money to take care of my looks, I channel it to him. Was I being stupid for 5 yrs? ? Its not just about love though it was compassion because I couldn't stop helping him as I couldn't watch him suffer. I didn't think I was getting a fair treatment as he scolds me at any slight mistake I make making me feel like a mumu when I'm a smartass. Sometimes I wished I Can just have babies & take care of them myself without marrying? I can't seem to meet any really good guy, my dream guy. I've suffered in d hands of my 2 relationships and I'm tired of men, even if I decide to date, I can never date a broke arsse anymore, I used to hate d talk dat a guy has to really have cash b4 u date him but omo I second that now as I have seen Oba.. I am wrecked cos I took care of a guy for 5yrs and I'm suffering for it. By now I should have a land and at least a small ride & some cash saved up in my account if I had invested all dat money I spent for 5yrs on dis guy. I am so devastated....what guys do to gals...Mtscheww...Smh...now I'm wondering where I would start from. Sometimes Why do some really good girls go through baad relationships? I just feel like d world should end already [/quote]That's the Genesis and Revelation of ur problem

e woooooo!!!!! This is our warship

Did they watch the movie battleship b4 commissioning this?

rowlandoo: I want to cancel june 19* Anyone instrested shud stay tunned.

DAMMIT!!!! I can't do June 19th cos am travelling on the 21st and I need my passport by then, unless its surely going to be 2 working days it wud take them to process it and issue me my passport back

just felt like waking this thread up

@Fast-link, not fair. . . And its even Lagos date I want

@d_baba, I think the statements should not be too much earlier than the interview dats so anytime after July 10th shud be good. . .

[quote author=d_baba]Hello house, this is a great forum I must say. I've been following it since like January when I started processing for my Fall Graduate admission. I've been helped a lot here I must say, even though I'm yet to go through the first part of the thread. I have an appointment for last week of July, my school resumes in September. I hope everything goes well. I could have gotten an earlier date if not that it took my school two months to process my I-20, but I'm happy I was still able to get July (mind you I scheduled middle of last week so I can confirm if July dates are still available)
Anyway, I have a small issue with the bank statement. My sponsor's always making transactions in and out of that account, so the amt is always varying. The issue I have with that is I don't know if the consular checks the amount of activity in the account over a period of say 1 year or 6 mths to the interview date, or just the current balance. This will help me to decide if I should request for a statement when there is a peak amount as balance or just wait till July before I get the statement. Pls Advise. Thanks[/quote]Please if there available dates in July or early June, lemme know asap. . .

Abeg if anyone has a date in June or July and is about to cancel the date to reschedule for another date. . . Shud inform us here, so we can pick the date he cancelled

yomi fola: Infact, my interview in on JULY...

How wud u have an interview date without ur I-20? How did u get ur SEVIS Id?

yomi fola: Yes i v bin contacted by d sch 2ru an email dat i'v bin given an admisn

So reply the email address that contacted u and ask about the I-20 process. . . Cos by now International office of that school should have contacted you

yomi fola: Is an agent who didnt tell me wat d fee is for. All he could say was dat b4 i can receiv or dey can send my I-20 i must 2 pay a sum of $300 dat'z jst it.well shaa, tanx guyz i will check d sch 4 sum additional info abt d stuf.

How do you know he has applied on ur behalf? Have you been contacted by the school directly? This sounds dubious

Hmm. . . She doesn't deserve such a bf, if the other guy loved her he won't have just had scored after seeing only once chance to

3 months later ur wishing hbd

Thanks sha

rowlandoo: If I could remember , I tink it has really changed that this time around u wud need to fill up all details , skool and ds 106 , mrv number , before u can see available dates , shedule or reshedule .
Ve u paid ur mrv , do u ve ur sevis number if not I dnt tink u can get to see available dates .

Hope m not wrong though , anyone with diff exp?

Done all, even booked a date already but I want to keep checking for earlier dates without cancelling my present date
Seems I would have to request for Emergency appointment when I get back.

rowlandoo: You can check available date but unless you cancel ur former date , you won't be able to book a new date

How do I check for available dates without cancelling my previous appointment. . .

Please note I said check n not reschedule

[quote author=FAST-LINK]How do you mean, I guess you meant Nice, right? [/quote]Do u work there? I called this afternoon N the guy tells me to hold on n starts having a private conversation with someone else in yoruba for like 2mins

plus does ppl in american embassy call centre are damn rude. . . . Highly disappointed

how can I check available dates? That's my question pls

Dunno if the question has been answered before but must you cancel your appointment before you can check for available dates?

Thanks

kaynik: I hate to generalize but I find myself stereotyping cos of the hurt I have been through. I have known this guy for almost 10 years. We started a serious relationship beginning of 2008 and he left the country at the end of that very year. We found our selves in a long distance relationship, something I hated and had told him before he traveled. In 2010 we got engaged and later that year we did our introduction. The distance continued and I also had to leave the country. Now that he was my fiance, things were worse between us.Last year, he insulted and abused me emotionally. He kept accusing me of cheating. One day he wanted to show that he cared and was not really abusing me, so he sent a chat between him and his friend. Unfortunately for him, he copied and pasted the wrong part of the chat as the cat he sent revealed that he was cheating on me with women. He begged and begged and i didnt listen. Not because he cheated but because he was cheating and was also abusive. Please anyone reading his should take note, any man or woman who keeps accusing you of cheating without any proof is actually cheating. Its what they call projecting in psychiatry.
Well, 2012 came and I stupidly forgave him. he promised never to insult me again and he was true to his promise. He also added that he had broken off with the girl. Just yesterday a lady got in touch with and revealed that this my fiance has been dating her since 2008. I always sensed it but this guy kept lying for four straight years. He is manipulative and smooth. Besides the cheating, he has put me through hell.
Now the problem is I can never forgive him but we are planning our wedding. We are supposed to go for counselling next week. I know I have to cancel the marriage counselling but what next. I loved him at some point and I wasted my life with him as i am not young. I have heard stories like this before but I never knew this evil man can be like that. He has also wasted the time of the girl he was cheating on me with as she isnt young too.
How can he get punished, how do I announce to the family what this man has done. am confused and disappointed. please help.

Honestly, I blame you. . . How wud u forgive him in the first place? The minute you girls realise men never change their spots, they just learn how to hide better, is the very minute you stop wasting tears . . . . And all of you girls that are doing "I do not mind if he is doing other girls" hope you wont mind sharing your husband in future?

if she provides him with credit and he still doesn't call. . . then she shud break up

someone wants to marry you

This poster is bush. . . That's not a phone but a handsfree!!! Kai

[quote author=Alexis83][/quote]Well I don't think its too late cos you can always apply for emergency dates. . . .

@rowlandoo, yes you can do that

r these iddiots still lying?