Bryankentwood11: Okay guys, I will make it short and simple, I have done everything possible for her, like I spoilt her with food and possibly money too, now she just feels comfortable at home , sleeping all day, then wakes up and demand money, I have been paying for one thing or the other every week of this relationship, I give her money for food and all, and she has parent, I feel like I’m suffocating, I can’t even save anymore, and she has a handwork but just too lazy or relentless to even work, guys advice me on this please
Which kind advise are you asking for again?
You put yourself in it and only you can undo what you do,kick her ass to the cub nah
ogbiwa: I really hide my face in shame for the mere fact that I'm sharing the same air with this person.
Face. Palm.
Yusuf Tarfa @YTaf iya_Jnr:
"I slapped my wife and she had the guts to arrest me with police, because of one correctional slap? I was so surprised when the police stormed my office to arrest me, We have lost wife materials, it's funny how this Woke generation can't endure like our mother's."
"She had me arrested and had the nerves to remain in my house, it's the audacity for me? My father slapped my mom and she never had him arrested, instead she apologize like the good wife she is, then cooked and to wash his clothes. But now it's pathetic that we can't correct them."
"... and I have been happily married for 3years, she had me arrested for slapping her, Lol. I'm done with this shitty marriage."
The guy must be a slow poke.
He is from the other side i can understand him a bit,thats how they're.
McSaviour: I don’t know why I born in to this evil country!
Depends on the course of study and besides you need to be more creative in your self development approach, job will come.
But before you secure your dream job try and keep your self busy with any training of your choice. When preparation meet opportunities it results in celebration. God speed
Romanoff: I was okay with all you said until I saw the male bestie part and then, some of your comments made it look like a woman can't have a life just cause she's hoping to get married.
A woman can have a male bestie and it will be a pure friendship. Any man who can't handle a woman who has a male beat friend should just leave her alone and go for one who doesn't.
Why should a woman throw her friendship away because of relationship that might end tomorrow.
Instead of controlling the crowd she moves with, why not look around for a woman who flows with your kind of crowd?
This kind of thinking makes it looks like a man should change a woman to suit him.
How about you look for woman that suits you in the first place?
The happening guy verse boring guy part. See ehn, every woman has what she wants in a man. Some like the happening guys and some just want a quiet life.
I've seen these fast life girls marry a boring guy and still want to club why husband is home. I know one sef that left her baby at home while her husband travelled so she could go clubbing.
Just have the right qualities you want in a partner and date with a purpose. My two cents.
At the bold,you made me remember a popular television host called Steve Harvey " he said he has refused to have a female bestie cos most men if not all men who does are just waiting for a little window of cracks to coming like they're consoling you but they're not,they just waiting for a perfect day to knack the woman".
BizzBizz: Is This Why Kaduna State Chief Of Staff Was Replaced??
The Former Chief of Staff Muhammad Sani Abdullahi Dattijo address Muhammadu Sanusi II as the former Emir of Kano while delivering a speech at the just concluded KADINVEST6 .0.
Muhammadu Sanusi equally addresses Muhammadu Sani Dattijo as former Chief of Staff and assures him he will understand Why later. Weeks later, Dattijo was deployed to Budget and Planning ministry.
Lamanii22: This is one bad thing I discovered recently about myself, I yell at him when I am trying to prove a point, no insults but my voice is always high.... Then I feel bad about it afterwards....
Don't prove a point, its called internal anger,sometimes you don't even know you have it.
Just don't talk when the discussion is getting heated
siofra: There's this yahoo boy that has been disturbing me to go to his hotel room. He's a course mate. God knows how many times I've turned him down. I'm tired. So I want to tell him I have a vaginal infection that could be sexually transmitted. Is it okay to tell him this? Is this lie going to bite me back somehow?
Probably the man's son is in military n he lost his life due to negligence of the the government n the man is thinking of a way to get revenge on the government, then came up to selling a nuclear secret data to enemy country, who knows if it's NK he thought he was selling the secrets to.
Trust me, whites aren't greedy to go that extent for money n the money demanded doesn't even worth it so I assume he has another reason other than the money involved...
We never know, with time everything will come into the open
oxygeng: you don't really understand what the guy is asking, do you? He wants to know which country the couple thought they were dealing with. Which no one here on nairaland can answer because it is not stated in the article.
Yes its not stated but I know for sure it was omitted for security reasons and so as not to ruin their investigation. But FBI knows,we will know in due course if the investigation is followed through.
obi4eze: Oga this is not the right place to bring family issues. You should be a man and solve your family issues instead of washing your dirty linen in public. If you truly love your wife as you claim you should be able to ask her why she lied and sort out the issue with her instead of coming to expose her here.
We are not your wife and neither is she us.
Your response is a true definition of salvage and truth. You said my mind and in addition I don't know what's wrong with this generation, bringing everything to the internet as if everyone here doesn't have their own trouble too.
jericco1: Hey guys so how long have you spent at a job before calling it a quit or probably disengaged?
So this year I have been quite funny with jobs and whatnot
So the first job I did this year, I didn't spend up to 2 months before leaving, the job was too stressful for me and I couldn't cope.
The second I spent a month and half then I left because the pay wasn't encouraging
The third one though sounded interesting, and I was like oh finally a management position. So after almost three months of processing my application and several documents submitted.. I was finally called to resume but I left after the first two days. The job wasn't for me, it looked good on the outside but something else on the inside, to me it was slavery.
So I have decided to leave anything that has to do with job alone.. I'm doing well for myself
So guys let's have your views.
I took an IT job with an Iowa based company and quit after one month,they send me all sort of mail afterwards but I wasn't having it.
Handsomejok: I have a big problem � I separated with my wife because she was a witch and the cause of my downfall. I had the custody of our daughter who is now 1 years 6 months old.
After getting rid of the witch I taught my business will be better than before but no. Things become even hard for me I started experiencing body pain and unknown sickness and we have been to church where I was told my daughter Is a witch her mother has given her the mission to kill me.
After prayers and fasting my health is getting better now and I have been to 2 different churches just to confirm that my daughter is a witch and yes it is true. I have packed her stuffs and i took her to her mother but she is doesn't stay there anymore and I don't know her new address. I am not a wicked person but I don't want her in my house because I don't want to harm her and regret it. What do I have to do with a witch?
Take her to any reputable NGO,please don't do anything funny to that innocent girl.
TheFearless: Please I need mature advise on how best to handle this.
Yes we dated during NYSC 2015/2016 in South West with no promise of marriage. After NYSC she moved back to her own state in South South while I moved to another city in search of a greener pasture.
She kept calling and even chatting me up on WhatsApp up, keep tagging me on Facebook until I had to unfriend her on Facebook because I like my privacy.
Last three months she met a guy from my state who was asking her out, rather than outrightly accepting or turning the guy down, she showed the guy my picture that I'm the only one she dated and will never date any other guy in her life. She gave the guy my number to help her beg me. The guy called me, introduced himself and started telling me how much the lady told her about me.
This is scaring the hell out of me already, is this normal ?
I need your advise on how to tell her to go and get herself a husband. Insults are also welcome.
You chop pkekus you wan run,you don buy market by fire �
Dizzyish: Please I need advice, any advice. I graduated with a 3rd class in Chemistry from three years ago (I only blame myself for that) and after I finished my NYSC a year ago I just plunged into a depressive state in regards to my mistake (my education) and my future (career) sometimes breaking down in tears when I think of things I've taken for granted in my life.
I started working on myself a few months ago and I've made some progress I proud of but every now and then it's easy to be overwhelmed with self doubt. I made a cv without work experience along with a cover letter a few days ago and applied for a few entry level jobs like graduate intern, sales, restaurant supervisor etc via jobberman and the companies email but I'm not too sure I'll be getting any calls from them. I didn't come here to get sympathy just an honest advice or opinion on what to do.
Can I do a pgd in chemical engineering or just chemistry or pursue a business or computer/tech course, are there jobs I can get with my degree maybe to get skills and work experience? I deeply appreciate any advice. Thank you.
I will share a brief of my life experience with you, I graduated with 2:2 ,3.30 CGPA precisely but I never allowed that to stop me from looking ahead and can tell you today that I wasn't where some of my mate who made better grades were presently. What you make out of your life after school is important. As am speaking now, even after graduating for more than 17yrs now am still improving myself which is giving me good leverage to be marketable.
HealthWealthy: He might not be treating her well because he sees her as someone he just sleeps with and give her money. She might actually like me for real, I'm yet to be fully interested in her though.
Halo22: In an establishment where I work, I happened to be one of the unmarried dude and as such, most of the unmarried ladies always rally around me probably with the hope of gaining my proposal for marriage.
Actually I am a very focused person, though I compromise especially when a lady feels I am snubbing her when she comes close, I like giving them that sense of belonging. There's this particular lady that always like going with me after work, as in she can't go without moving out of the work premises with me. I have tried everything I could to make her let me be, but she is an adamant type.
In addition to that, she started picking up quarrels with any lady that comes close to me....as in I don't understand. When I asked her why such attitude, she said she doesn't want other ladies to make me lose focus on my job. Well, all these were happening but I never knew my MD has been observing her moves towards me as she is also a lady, though married with just a kid.
After our meeting early this week, she called me and said "hey....Smart(not real name though), I would want to have a brief meeting with you in my office. You know when u were invited for such meeting after the general meeting, your mind would scatter into thoughts. After some minutes, I then visited her office and lo and behold, I saw that same lady colleague of mine in there.
Hmmmm, I knew something was cooking, but then I gathered courage and sat down. Let me not bore you guys with long story, she just told us that our relationship in the company was becoming so distracting and as such, we should try to adjust or face sanction. She told me it was for the regard she had for me if not she would have taken drastic conclusion on us.
I tried defending myself, but she didn't want to listen further. As for my colleague, she didn't even allow her to utter a word. Like I said earlier, I have never opened up to the lady on relationship let alone to have dated her, she is just being desperate and it's offending my MD.
Please I need mature advice on how to handle this situation, cos the lady in question is not ready to withdraw her advances towards me.
I pray you don't loose your job before realizing how much emotion you allowed to overrule your sense of judgment.
Unless you have another job waiting for you somewhere,you both meet at work and not related in any ways,whats the point asking us on what to do. Thats dumb to me
Irijosa777: I wrote my final exam in July this year, few weeks later I was in Delta when my course adviser called me to come to school (Uniben), that it's a matter of urgency, I went to school, then I meet her in the HOD office. She told me I failed two courses in my final exam. She said the department is going to upgrade one to "" then wave the other one to me but by imprecation I will graduate as a 2.2 student. When, I thought about it if I should accept it or come back again to write the two courses (one in 1st semester and the other in 2nd semester) to get 2.1. it was a hard decision for me to make but then I made the decision to accept the offer because of the following reason. 1. Uniben is becoming too stressful/ I'm already tired. 2. The financial expenses involved 3. Economics department in Uniben is not a joke. 4. The probability of me getting "A"s if rewrite the two courses is very low. 5. ASUU and strike Based on the following reasons I accepted the offer, result came out I graduated as a 2.2 student but some how I started feeling sad. Though 2.2 is not the best but then I also graduate myself. I can't come and kill myself ( schooling in Nigeria university is like war). If I may ask, did I took the wrong decision? Opinions please!
What works for you might not work for me but I will tell you that in 2004 I choose the same path and went about my life humbly.
My life is better off today,immediately our final grade was released i started looking at certifications and other additional things I could learn to upgrade myself and it paid off,also surrounded myself with people who have what I needed at the time too.
I have changed job 5 times in IT infrastructure industry and hoping to go solo soon. Unfortunately in Nigeria of today you need twice effort to get noticed with such grades if you are thinking of securing jobs if at all there is any at the moment.
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Becoming A Liability…. by kunle75(m): 3:54pm On Oct 19, 2021
