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I think your pocket level may be a determinant factor. CHEATING OF ANY KIND IS BAD. But, when a guy is very rich and promising (say very rich family), MOST women can tolerate.
If you are just a regular street boy, you have lost her, lick your hurt and move on, Nigeria is too hot for your foolishness.

this writer is living in his/her world. Where I live, Sex is everything to a woman. forget what you see on ur screen. it's just a craft- nobody lives like that anywhere

Consider:
MBA
Human Resource management
Supply Chain management.

These will help u access current market

HSE 1& 2 & 3

I hope it becomes useful someday shaa

My opinion is:

1). Apologize to him. Greetings is not affection.

2). If u feel unsafe, u want to record the calls or unwittingly record his verbal instructions. Some bosses will never respond to sure mails. They will even see it like some subtle trap. My current boss is a professor. I struggled with same issue when I began working with him. At some point, even to seek clarification, I will share it via email just to get feedback via phone calls.

Some bosses are that way. Most big men do not have time to stress up compiling instructions that they would just call you on phone to inform. I suggest you should try to be comfortable around his style.

If u have ever been a victim of his denial of such instructions, kindly seek to share ur opinion with him in a humble tone via face to face talk, no text or mail cos it can be perceived as evidence gathering

Few thoughts on this loan:

1). Where do I get a senior civil servants to sign for me? In this country where nobody trust anybody with money

2). Will the signing authorities like the VC and co not make life hard for applicants as it's norm in today's Nigeria

3). What happens if I don't get a job after 2years post NYSC? Will the government hire me to enable me repay my loan

I think:
1). If you do nothing, it's a matter of time, u will watch all the soothsayer said happen.

2). I think you should intentionally give ur life to Jesus Christ, sincerely cry to him for Mercy.

3). I think you should seek for restitution to the girl u had hurt, someone or some people (mother and aborted child) may be crying against u in the spirit. Don't let youthfulness deceive u. Sometimes, if someone, esp a woman feels hurt, justly, against you, and she cry out to God(or nature), not to even talk about mentioning ur name to a deity. It usually doesn't go well with the man.

4). On the strength of the effects of mid night prayers, with your mouth, cancel anything that doesn't match with Gods word over ur life, speak what u want to see or happen. Yes, you are also a prophet, according to the bible. Prophesize into ur life/future.

Best

I agree with you.
The man should review the school the children are attending. Most public schools are free and even good. Na social status dey make us feel say it's made for househelps meanwhile, they have qualified and quantitfied teachers unlike many private school that cannot afford to employ enough teachers talk more on university graduates

kazyhm:
Majority of fraudulent activities, embezzlement of public funds etc are as a result of something like this..........your husband earns 75k a month and the wife earns nothing yet she is the one that defined stinginess......let her be the one earning the 75k.....the world will not rest from her posting pictures everywhere and badmouthing the husband as a lazy man.....

Any amount is enough provided you are contented at the stage you're in life at the material time, have short, mid and long time plans and stay focus......

Never allow any woman push you to your early grave by suggesting additional jobs for you...and be aggressively pushing you to earn more through whatever means possible just for her to live above her means......and the heartbreaking part is; she won't be satisfied still..

Rome was not built in a day....Adenuga, Dangote, Otedola etc all started from somewhere.

It is in marriage that I get to understand that a redundant and dependent partner is the chief pilot.......while in the corporate the world......you have to be intelligent, consistently productive, brave and efficient to be the boss....

My brother, sincerely, I have been there, apply exactly the same energy (I wish I can underline this) she use for the husband, your father on her, you would have passed the exact message - knowing how it feels to bully an older or higher persons.

My dear Mom used to be very difficult both with our daddy and our tenants (we live in our own property). Even as a very young lad, I observe or notice everything with an intention to proffer solutions or change. I launched a sole targeted confrontation on my mom, I plainly told her, how she felt was exactly how her victims feels. Now, she is completely different. No matter the provocation or issue, u will probably hear her voice last, she hallow her husband to our admiration: In all of these, I was guided by wisdom and love for my dad, first, then my mom.

Some of the people, tying funny are children, who will not even be bold enough to face u if u see them.

and where is the basard of a student doctor? Have you bitten offhis manhood and his right ear?

I say this again; Women only leave or exit a marriage because of lack of financial prosperity. Once there's money, women will never leave, she will convince herself and state.

Once there's no money in a marriage, even a verbal exchange can lead to end of marriage


Men, know this and have peace

You see ur life? If it were the other way round, it would have been okay. Women! keep doing your part, provision is not gender based. At the same time, keep talking to him, it will not always remain that way

all4zionlover:
What would you advice in a situation where a husband losses his job due to gambling and decided not to make any effort in search of another job or business or any legal means of making even little money. He just wakes up in the morning, have his bath, put on the AC and go back to sleep. Only expecting any little thing the wife can cook to eat? He wouldn't pay any bills, provide anything but very humble helping out with house cleaning and washing.
Knowing that the situation is not funny on the wife and two children.
The wife must struggle to make food available no matter how little for the children, because she can't watch the children go hungry.
In a situation like this, when men goes out looking for means of making food available for their children and family, he is comfortable not having anything to offer all the time.
Is this the character of a father and husband that loves?
Is this not enough reason to divorce him?

We love you dear Kwakwanso..... Please sweep all the votes LP will not get....put confusion among APC and PDP

Newton2024:
Outside social media where people can hide their identity, it is difficult to find Tinubu's surpporters offline most especially here in Osogbo. I don't think those who are hired to promote Tinubu online will vote him during election.

Hahahahaha, I thought am the only one,I have never seen anyone promoting Tinubu even on WhatsApp status

Who else thought it was 'All Ibos'

Of course, there's no money to pay crowd again nah

Does the man even have supporters, outside core north?

Racoon:
Reality is staring Rabiu Kwankwaso in the face. Imagine this well known bigoted ethno-religious supremacist saying Peter Obi - Labour Party is a regional concept?

Thought he was saying he regretted no collaborating with Peter Obi? So how come his perceived popularity he claimed he has then were not from NNPP members online?

So his support base are not Internet compliant in a 21st century? Meaning they are backward stark illiterates? I guess his supporters will take the heat on him for this senseless statement? Well nice to know he over rated himself in his egocentric granduer delusion.

The rally was cancelled because there was no cash to pay rented crowd.

ApC is saving the cash they were able to mop up for election day- THEY WILL ALTERLY FAIL

Hmmmm,

To be president no be beans oh, u need to consult all tribes, groups, sect, enthic, religion.

Abeg, more greese to their elbows. The strength is out of this world

Can you try starting a new relationship with someone. But this time, NO sex. Just friendship

Niceguy06:
I'm the type of person that , naturally, the idea of cohabitating with a woman doesn't sit well with me. My girlfriend can't even come and spend more than two days in my house, I'll be thinking of sending her away the 3rd day. This isn't something I have discussed with any partner in the past because I don't know how women will take this.

Also, the idea of giving a woman attention isn't something I can maintain for long. All the calls, all the going out, all the small talks, ain't for me. If I'm calling a girl, and giving her attention this month, before next month, I'm already tired. I can't fake this and the whole drama fall down, and they start seeing me for what I am. All I want is sex, not any other thing. And once I cum,I just want you out of my space. I don't want you calling me, i don't want to call you either. I don't want you to think we're dating, and I'm not thinking of such either. If I can actually go with sex, I don't see myself real to a woman, but I can't, and that's why I have to always pretend like I care. I get tired of drama easily.

NB: please don't abuse me. It took courage for me to voice this out. If there's any solution to work this out , I don't mind.

I withdrew new note of 20k from POS in Nung Udoe village in Akwa Ibom state

cooperate with your brother.

Dog said,'if you fall for me, i fall for you, play dey sweet'

kenedyx:
I got a huge contract through my brother's company.

The contract is securely in my possession now and I've been fully paid. Initially, the plan was for my bro to supply me the materials

But the issue now is the quotation he's giving me is way higher than what I'm getting elsewhere.

I've asked him to beat down his price but he's adamant. I plan on sidelining him if he doesn't do the needful.

Guys any thoughts on this?

cooperate with your brother.

Dog said,'if you fall for me, i fall for you, play dey sweet'

@Op, I have zero pity for you. Men like you are the reason women think they can misbehave and another man will lovingly accept them.

Shame on you again. A woman that was already pregnant for another man? Na him you wan take form hero? Na WA o.

O boy, manage your marriage. And you better run back to your house and take charge, make the girl no run you street- make she no pack all your valuable properties to her lover

If you can keep a girlfriend, then u are qualified to marry

You are under her manipulation. Open your eyes

Alot of things are even wrong with the marriage. How come it took you 2whole years to even discover this seige?

What efforts have you made to escalate her decision to her family? Stories like these are familiar with younger girls shaa.

For me, do what is necessary, not right to keep your marriage.

If you are in Akwa Ibom, we can hang out in any of the exciting Christmas spots in town, even the beach. What do you think

You deserve "THANK YOU"

shortgun:
You are a weak man, women hate weak men.
Them never born any woman well that will enter my house and detect how I'll run my home.
Men like you are the reason we have alot of spoilt girls all over.
Any man that dates any of my exes will be thankful to me for the way I groomed them.

Until you become the man and take charge of your home you will continue to whine n suffer