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Ok

Smiles. Just to remind u that corona lockdown is coming in January. Better include them in ur budget

I still dont undetstand why a Governor will be swearing in an elected chairman. That means there is no autonomy of the LG. The Gov is the boss not the populace

Forgive her. Help her to change and be a better person. As a christian, the docrine of forgiveness IS HIGHER and PREFERRED than the docrine of Divorce

With all due respect, You are very stupid. U need total overhauling.

The same mistake you made is what you ate already making.

Tell him the truth. Most likely, the relationship will send. If God show you more mercies, t9 start another decent relationship, tell him everything. If he choose to stay or leave, It's fine.

If u wish to be criminal about planning for an exit, get whatever financial help love still dey sweet am in your name and prepare for the worst

Happy new week friends

@Op, U seem helpless with ur wife. That's sad. I think u are not assertive as not just a man but the head of ur family.
Look at the bigger picture; This wife can not forgive u if u offend her in the future.
I think u should stand up to the issue, which is ur wife and NEVER ur mom and deal with it.

U may want to remind ur wife that she now have a son, will she be comfortable if her DIL treat her same way in the future

Which kind whahala be this. E come be now wey I wan go America

But I don't see a problem with the story u narrated. Anything women, even men, entails patience. In my side, it is called 'see finish'. When dealing with people esp newbies learn to expand ur patience scope. Biko, don't give out on love, it is beautiful. Focus ur energy on ur job, love will meet u there

Kenshinmunac:
*sigh* searching and searching for a girlfriend, all to no avail. Young cool fine guy, but very lonely, no girlfriend. I don't think at this point with all this rejection that I will ever get married in life.

I have searching for a gf, met some girls who turned out to be nasty gold diggers, I didn't wanna waste my time on them cause I'm not a flirt, I'm not looking for a short term relationship so having "fun" with all these girls seemed like a waste of time to me as Sex is not my problem, love is.

So I met this girl few days back, we got talking, I fell for her instantly, she looked calm and very honest, she is not all these girls who do kk in chat, she is caring and very simple, hard to come by., we flowed really well chatting and I was very happy I found someone as I quickly asked her out and she said "let's see how it goes"

I said okay, so today being Sunday, normal chilling day, I called her, very eager to see her beautiful face once more, we got talking and she said I should come to her side.

So I said okay by six,

Six reach I entered road straight to her side, 30 mins drive, when I got close I dialled her number twice she didn't pick I thought maybe she was taking her bath or something was patient and kept on going, so when I got there by 7pm, I called and called but she didn't pick up the call and she was expecting me o!

Na so I begin call her, Even send whatsapp message and direct message all to no avail. I got so maddddd and pissed off, I almost cried because I don't know why I'm being treated like this by ladies. Head to toe I complete, face I fine, fashion sense Is great, but yet, my handsomeness and the growing cash I get can't even get me the slightest fly talk less about a lady

*sigh*

By 5 mins past 8 she called me, by then I was already going home, and she began to plead, this where error words.

"please I'm sorry, my elder brother took my phone to share WiFi, I didn't know he would go far"

I asked "didn't you tell him you were expecting someone"?"

She replied" i did na but he did not listen, I can't just come and stand on the road and be waiting for you, please don't be angry"

In my heart I said Chai! What kind of excuse is this?? This girl just told me indirectly that I'm not important.

So painful.

I see guys with their girl very happy preparing for Christmas, me i have none. All I do is admire beautiful couples and wish It could be......

Unfortunately the sad reality greets me in my face.

I begin to lose my self confidence gradually because of rejection.

Smh, all I feel right now is self pity, all I can do is lament.

I don't know if I just dislike women right now self.

Preciousgirl:
My husband has destroyed my smart phone after I decided not to delete Facebook and all social media. To add insult to injury, he has bought for me a very cheap phone which cannot browse. I have bought myself a new phone secretly. I am not happy in this marriage. Many things are going on in my mind, please I need mature advice

Oya park to my house. I will not disturb ur social life

Op, that ur friend no get womb again. Advice her to come out clean, there are men that may love her for who she is. Let her stop hiding under these stupid rules cos, it will not laat

Congratulations. Include Rhesus test

O boy. Forget the girl. Concentrate on ur hustle, make God bless am. Grow big. Better women dey around u. No go carry women matter for head this new year, make dry thunder no fire u.
Oya, take my new year advice: No give any woman wetin go pain u if she waka leave u.

N/b: women dey dey same town with man dey over worry, talk more of the one dey no dey same town with u

Oga shut up. U are making her matter more difficult. U think she doesn't know these rubbish u are vomiting or u don't have sisters that are married. If u don't have any advice that will help her achieve her goal, wish her well, that's hope. Let's others keep pushing her through with kind words.
At Op, continue, be persistent, U will surely marry. As u have even shared ur problem overtly, solution has come. I look forward to read ur wedding news. Happy new year.

J111333:
C'mon girl, marriage is not achievement and will never be so don't be depressed about it. I understand you may need a man to make you feel accepted once in a while but c'mon, if nobody wanna love you, love yourself girl. Treat yourself to vacations and use your money to buy the same man's sperms and have kids if you want biko. Nobody will make you happy more than yourself.

For the records, evening newspaper oftentimes have more value than current newspaper. If you doubt me, wait until the embassy asks you to bring a proof of change of name you had in 2010.

Spirit husband my black ass. I guess Oprah Winfrey has spirit husband too.

What is body count

[quote author=Preciousgirl post=85405610]Can you imagine?
A guy sent me a Christmas wish via text message : "Merry Christmas to you "

And I replied "Merry Christmas darling"

My husband has seen this message and says I must leave his house. Now I think I have reached the limit. I am leaving for good[/quote
Oya nah Nne. Just pack out to where u will have peace and do as u wish. Stop stressing every body, this is a new year

Hmmmm. Terrible.

That's why some neighbors don't give to their neighbors.
I will continue to share, give and spread happiness. Its more better to give, esp during Christmas.

Very Simple: Visit the nearest police station, make ur statement, the police with get him to sign an undertaken. He will do no shit I assure u. Don't appear weak. In fact, himself and the fellow that videotaped u will be arrested. Act fast! Act now

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0KNM:
hello?

Hello!

My brothers hustle o, make VC follow u take selfie o

This is laudable. Instead of having first Ladies creating unnecessary project that will not be sustained at their exit, they should be given job roles and functions according to their trainings and experiences which they will be accountable to the state.
I feel it will reduce wastage from that angle


PS: Don't go to give outsiders job to be popular when ur Family(children, wife, sibling, relative)who is/are qualified is/are jobless or underemployed. Oga, u will be the worst loser at the end-when u exit that office

Think on this

I think that the answer is NO. Because the church and Christians focus more on sexual immortality. Which is not bad. But I feel it should be balanced. There are more challenges confronting the modern church than immortality. Like Pride, Bitterness, eye service, hypocrisy, hate, prayer less, character murdering and the big one, POVERTY.

Let Christians love and support one another. Don't sell out or celebrate the downfall or mistake of ur brethren. Let the world, Your world see the unity signs from outside(they will even feel secured when they observe Christians got each others back)

Location?

LilMissFavvy:
She helped a banker, and ignored a helpless student. I did not ask. I agree with your last paragraph. Believe me, if we Christian's keep praising each other, and see nothing wrong with all of our actions, we may get lost completely.

I think u are not being realistic. U should know that ur appearance(Jewelleries, make up and trousers) irritates such persons. Don't expect anything from anybody, even inside the church. If u need assistance, humbly ask, any descent person will help, whether Christian or not, student, worker or unemployed.

Another thought line; in life, we will stoope to conquer

You are even a low budget lady, well, its good to aspire big. But, I think u can achieve it on ur own without a man, husband. Manage ur arrogance shaa

I suggest u can start by volunteering ur time to serve in ur local church(I assume u are a Christian) as a church worker. I suggest u choose tasking departments like Sunday school or Teens church. It will open u up to group interactions and be active