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[quote author=Preciousgirl post=85405610]Can you imagine?
A guy sent me a Christmas wish via text message : "Merry Christmas to you "

And I replied "Merry Christmas darling"

My husband has seen this message and says I must leave his house. Now I think I have reached the limit. I am leaving for good[/quote
Oya nah Nne. Just pack out to where u will have peace and do as u wish. Stop stressing every body, this is a new year

Hmmmm. Terrible.

That's why some neighbors don't give to their neighbors.
I will continue to share, give and spread happiness. Its more better to give, esp during Christmas.

Very Simple: Visit the nearest police station, make ur statement, the police with get him to sign an undertaken. He will do no shit I assure u. Don't appear weak. In fact, himself and the fellow that videotaped u will be arrested. Act fast! Act now

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0KNM:
hello?

Hello!

My brothers hustle o, make VC follow u take selfie o

This is laudable. Instead of having first Ladies creating unnecessary project that will not be sustained at their exit, they should be given job roles and functions according to their trainings and experiences which they will be accountable to the state.
I feel it will reduce wastage from that angle


PS: Don't go to give outsiders job to be popular when ur Family(children, wife, sibling, relative)who is/are qualified is/are jobless or underemployed. Oga, u will be the worst loser at the end-when u exit that office

Think on this

I think that the answer is NO. Because the church and Christians focus more on sexual immortality. Which is not bad. But I feel it should be balanced. There are more challenges confronting the modern church than immortality. Like Pride, Bitterness, eye service, hypocrisy, hate, prayer less, character murdering and the big one, POVERTY.

Let Christians love and support one another. Don't sell out or celebrate the downfall or mistake of ur brethren. Let the world, Your world see the unity signs from outside(they will even feel secured when they observe Christians got each others back)

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LilMissFavvy:
She helped a banker, and ignored a helpless student. I did not ask. I agree with your last paragraph. Believe me, if we Christian's keep praising each other, and see nothing wrong with all of our actions, we may get lost completely.

I think u are not being realistic. U should know that ur appearance(Jewelleries, make up and trousers) irritates such persons. Don't expect anything from anybody, even inside the church. If u need assistance, humbly ask, any descent person will help, whether Christian or not, student, worker or unemployed.

Another thought line; in life, we will stoope to conquer

You are even a low budget lady, well, its good to aspire big. But, I think u can achieve it on ur own without a man, husband. Manage ur arrogance shaa

I suggest u can start by volunteering ur time to serve in ur local church(I assume u are a Christian) as a church worker. I suggest u choose tasking departments like Sunday school or Teens church. It will open u up to group interactions and be active

How much does the company make annually? I have not heard of this coy before o

Congrats to Ms Dikeh shaa

Pls help me celebrate my sister. She executed a school project from nothing somewhere in Kogi state.

Bros be wise, listen to advice of smart people above. Wisdom prolongs life. Surrender to ur father. Make peace with him. It will pain u but find a reason to stay. Accept to be used. To be a mumu. Keep ur eyes on the bigger picture, ur inheritance. Let no stranger come and take what belongs to u. Be patient.

BTW, what assurance do u have that u will secure a good job after ur degree? Am not being pessimistic, this is reality. Be smart

@op, please don't even let these get to u, anybody can punch anything from anywhere. Keep being real

Am keen about relocating to either of these west Europe nations like Netherlands, Sweden, Norway. Reason, its peaceful and lawful. I have a good career base here, am not sure I will be a liability of am sort.
Pls I need support or guidance how I might achieve my aim.

Thanks all

Hmmm, Yenagoa city is on complete lockdown! No movement at all. How do citizens get to their polling units?

18views, no comment. Yenagoa people no dey ? Bros, me I be guy shaa, I for holla, we are together in Yenagoa

Try joining a department in ur church and be serious with it and other church meeting.....watch u forget u even wrote this

Where is the place of Jesus Christ in this marriage? Introduce ur family to Jesus, not church and see how light will fizzle out darkness. Its well

royalamour:
Met in 2014 November.
Dated for 11 months. All these while she was so homely and accommodating.

She would call to let me know about her movements even when I did not ask for.

She would apologize at any slight opportunity.

It was all rosy.

The parents kept calling and advising me not to let other ladies win me over.

They would visit or call my parents at every given opportunity and I felt "this is it".

We got married almost a year later.

The first 2 weeks of the honeymoon was smooth until the 3rd week and bam! there was disagreement about money.

She stabbed me with a knife though the cut wasn't too deep. It took me months to catch up with reality as the lady I was dating was a total different person.

That was the journey of misery and then it was nagging, disrespect and stuffs until I caught her on the phone telling her ex that she misses him and sh1ts.

I was devastated. This lady refused to apologize. She won't even listen to me whenever I asked to have a heart to heart talk with her.

I had to involve her parents and it was by force before she apologized.

She got pregnant and 9 months later she was delivered of our first son.

2 weeks later, my attention was drawn to constant beeping on her phone and when I checked, my supposed wife was discussing with another of her ex about how tight and intact her vagina was cos she gave birth through CS. And the guy used to be jealous cos he enjoyed the sex they had as she was always tight and shits.

I was devastated. I drew her attention to it and she denied feigning ignorance. It was when I showed her screenshots that she accepted and asked me to forget about it, that what has happened has happened.

She would never say sorry. So called her elder brother and he begged me and begged her to apologize, still she won't.

I reported to the mother. This didn't help matters. The aunts numbering about 4 had to beg on her behalf.
I let it slide.

Things got worse and it came to a point where she would not cook. Even times when I return home from long journeys, I most times will have to go into the kitchen to sort myself.

Mum got sick and I asked that she come to us so that we can go to bigger hospital for proper check up and hell was let loose.

She stopped cooking and would only cook whenever she desires.

Time past and my life became almost miserable.

I would close from the office and won't be able to go home. I would stroll into a beer parlour and while away time till maybe 10pm and would sneak out very early even before she wakes up.

Earlier in 2016, I had empowered her with 1.2 million to start a business and one dime I didn't see as return on investment with her citing low patronage as the reason for the collapse of the business.

It was until the elder brother who was staying with us asked her for money and she refused that the dude disclosed that she made about 2.6 million from sales of items and services she rendered in the shop she denied making nothing from. She could not deny this fact but for my son I let it slide.

My wife would bring her female friend into the home and this lady even when she was engaged to a guy still go out to sleep with other guys.
I asked her to stop been friends with her and she blatantly refused. She would go ahead to invite the lady into my home and rain insults on me because I don't want them together.

This final one was the calls she was making with her ex most times when I was away in the office.
I noticed and she couldn't deny it. I later learnt that her cheat of a friend was the middle person that delivers messages to my wife whenever I was around.

I can't take it anymore.

I don't wanna die before my time.

I can't eat in my house anymore as she threatened to poison me and nothing will happen. This was let out in a heat of a moment while we were exchanging words.

What's the express way to divorce without complications?

NB: The dad has asked me to quit before I start to develop HBP.

Its too costly

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Tarashafaith:
3000 can help,at least to feed

Morning Sirs, pls my Lexus RX 300 is not changing gear. What could be the problem?

I seek to buy Volkswagen Touareg2005 model. Pls can someone review the car or share experience about the car. I will appreciate a thorough criticism on the car to help make informed decision

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