I perceive this judge or a close relative has being a victim of armed robbery. I feel they could have been sentenced to 50years imprisonment in lieu of death since they did not commit murder (yet)
This is a terrible decision. If we have reached here, then let everyone in Nigeria have a weapon. because arms poliferation will gradually spread through out the country in the name of self defense
Dooh. It reminds me of a prompt virtual interview I got when I was in warri, planned traveling to sapele on the interview date. I assumed I would get a gud network in Sapele. That would be my blunder. Brethren, my village people got to sapele before me. My network was so bad that the attention left from my competence to my network access. Second blunder was that I didn't recharge my alternative network because I trusted my main network. Before I can finish the back and forth of buying data online, you guess is as good as mine.
I should not have made that journey in the first place I thought. I licked my pain and muvee.
Next time, plan having double of every device you need for emergency. Anything can cast in a tensed situation.
I think that labour party should focus on: 1). ward or grassroot politics 2). Setting up electioneering machineries at the wards and polling units 3). Sourcing for party agents across the country 4). Selling obi to the Northern population esp the illiterate muslim communities 5). Selling obi to an average Nigerian who is not online 6). Selling obi to market women, again market women(women always make up significant% of Nigeria votes by our data) 7). Penetrating central mosques across the country and winning the interest of islamic leaders. . Make Labour party logo and/or signage viral- as popular as we can, more than broom or umbrella.
By his Grace, Nigeria will get it right this time- Vote Labour party- Vote Peter Obi
So, my wife and I share similar career path. Though am ahead of her. My office got some new openings which she is qualified. Interestingly, I may be playing a major role on who gets the offers.
So comes my worry: Can I facilitate my wife who is keen on her career? Do I have to worry about any regrets in future?
2). My wife manages our family bizness(and is doing very well on it, bringing in all the back up money) and children, what will happen to our bizness?
3). This good offer will require her to relocate, by extension, my whole family relocating. DOES it worth it?
4). Will I be accused of nepotism by HR auditors of recommending my qualified wife for the role(though she will be bearing her maiden name, I worry that the secret may not be for long before rumors start flying)
The job is quite rewarding, pay is excellent and entails free foreign travels.
To be clearer, my biggest worry is her loyalty as a wife if she gets very powerful and no more 'fake' office flirting.
Married Career people, HR executives pls advice me
In my marriage, there are no rules, I can look up wifey phone any time and she can do same. The problem is that while we make jest of guys who hit her online, we argue over girls I said 'hello' to
Next time, if u want to invite someone in another town, look for someone u know in that town, give him or her to give her. So that if story enter, the investment can be retrieved
This whole idea is crazy. Who then do the women have the sex with? still us, men. I prefer to encourage the women than make them feel terrible. i mean, most of us will still be the ones begging and disturbing them for the same BODY COUNT- SEX. for the sake of sanity, let preach sexual dignity for both gender. SEX IS NOT DIFFERENT FOR BOTH GENDER. More men appreciate it more
For men generally, we don't attach emotions to sex but girls/women usually attach emotions to it. Before a girl opens her legs for fuçks, she'd have processed it, imagined it and analysed it. At the end, a part of her is left attached to that sexual partner. That's why it's not advisable to forgive and take back a CHEATING partner because, it's a violation and the greatest disrespect a girl can slap on a guy's face. A girl can NEVER cheat on a guy by MISTAKE! THEY ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE TO ACCEPT OR REJECT EXPECT FOR RAPE CASES.
No matter how a girl begs for forgiveness after cheating, never forgive unless you just have plans to take a sweet revenge to use and dump her..
A girl with more than two bodycount belongs to the street...
For guys, we are only moved by what we see and after ejaculations, the euphoria dies.
Scientifically, the imprint of every sex partner a girl has had is left in her DNA. If dem check your gene now, we can see the DNA of the first FUCKÉR that ever released sperm inside your toto, but it's not the same for guys.
God bless you madam. I love your input. Op, let's be careful what we normalize. Don't let unfortunate faceless people deform your mind. Keep being kind, helpful, supportive and generous without expecting nothing from both man and woman.
FERNANDEZISBACK: Pls keep mute..you ain't a simp..what happened to humanity? What are you kids turning into these days..can't you offer help without attaching sexual benefit and all?
Is this how you will rape a lady if she stay in your apartment for a night? You shouldn't have gave her if you was gonna feel bad..don't let wannabe redpillers kill your good spirit..keep being yourself and be real..
I think she really likes you. From my experience, this is the strongest indicator of interest from women- a woman that likes you will not want to liquidate you but add to you. I feel her source is from her family. Just keep appreciating her, she is a good blessing to you. You may consider to divert the cash you give her to taking her out to places of her interest like a library, Art threater, museum, etc
TheScientist: I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it. Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?
You may want to direct this plead to Oga Rohr, Baba is expecting over N170,000,000 in less than 45days. I know he has a good heart. Good luck
Sacredheart1: Am pleading for your help please Please dear everyone, I beg you in the name of God please forgive me for posting this but I have no choice because the mods ban my old username. Please sirs and ma's, my name is Faith, am a 26 years old single mom of 1. My son is just 2 years old. I used to be a hairdresser before my present predicament. In August of 2021 I fell very sick and was rush to the hospital by my neighbour. Doctor said that I will have to be admitted because by the time that they have prescribed several drugs for me, my hands and both of my legs has developed rashes and started to swell up. The swelling got worst and more severe as time went by, eventually leading to multiple skin ulcers. Preliminary results shows that I was diagnosed with blood infection. Am currently living with severe skin ulcers in my left arm, the palm of my hand, and both of my legs and feet. I've been suffering with this condition since then. Am crying out because I need serious medical attention, I cannot afford to go to the hospital and am dying here due to lack of money. I regularly require resuscitation with anti biotics and regular blood transfusion at St David's Specialist hospital. I also urgently require Prolonged Sore Management with Vacuum Assisted Closure Device and skin graft to help regain my normal life again but unfortunately I can't treat myself because I don't have enough on me. Doctor said the procedure will require 1.3million Naira to give me my life back and so far I've been able to raise only 300 thousand with the help of my friends and some kind hearted well wishers who have taken pity for me in the past few months. Pleas sirs and ma's, am an orphan both my parents are late. I have been trying every possible best to raise the remainder to no avail. I don't have any property to sell again and I cannot work in this my condition pls I beg of you, I can't even look after my 2 years old son, that's why am pleading with any well meaning person pls, no matter how small pls, it will still go a long way to help me and save my life and that of my little boy pls. May God bless you all in Jesus name Amen
It is well. I think yoir thoughts are right. Knowing and analysing our spiritual leaders instructions through the bible or whatever you read.
Ay the same time, it's dicey. The bible encourages us "to believe in his prophets, so that you will prosper". So there should be some individualistic balance across board.
For me: The pastor that will want me to give(sow) the only money with me in lieu of my feeding or very basic need should be subject to questions even though God can stimulate you to take such extreme decision
udede: Na so one stupid babe wey i won manage do second wife wan open office for my head. Na marry i wan marry her ooo nobi say na to chook and go and na small girl of 22. Imagin telling me say she node sleep for man house again and na friendship she go allow me if i Impress her enough. She don born for house join oo. I tell myself say i don suffer. Na so i forget am oo. The wahala is that this girl calls me up to 5 times a day say I no wan come see am again .she foolish sotey she was in a hurry to squeeze out something from me before doing voooom. Ha she gave me bills naa that was the day i say make i take her out. She drink 3 mefium stout, i no mind, we chop cat fish I no mind , she come take style dey tell me say she wan do her hair 7k, complete her child's school fee with 10 k, replace her body cream 10k .l Na so i yawn . This is a girl went to with open mind and sincerity to date for 2 months and marry her before the end of this year oo. Any time she flash me now, i dey be like leelee
It beats me how girls demand what they cannot afford from a man
SavageResponse: To know the answer to your question I suggest you set up your own school then during holidays when there is no money coming in you go and take money from your personal savings to pay your teachers let us see if that school will survive for up to 2 years!
2years is much, 6 months. The new trend now is that many parents rotate their wards to evade their bills. Is more painful, when such parents have more than one ward.
Another painful thing is that, it's difficult to increase school fees to avoid losing students despite the increase of everything including wage bill.
Criticizing school owners is the easiest thing to do, do you even think about their own survival? If it's too easy, Start just a creche.
I suggest communication from the part of the staff and sincerity from the owners will go a long way to resolve most of the challenges.
I think you are the one that has the problem. BIG PROBLEM. Why are you spending energy preparing for disaster that you can avoid? End the relationship. For the sake of sanity and peace. Meanwhile, I had a so called girlfriend in my university days. Exactly with same attributes.
I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.
Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not. I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.
Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand, please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.