I'm just imagining this law in Nigeria, most women will die of hunger (no selling point again)

udede:
Na so one stupid babe wey i won manage do second wife wan open office for my head. Na marry i wan marry her ooo nobi say na to chook and go and na small girl of 22.
Imagin telling me say she node sleep for man house again and na friendship she go allow me if i Impress her enough. She don born for house join oo.
I tell myself say i don suffer. Na so i forget am oo. The wahala is that this girl calls me up to 5 times a day say I no wan come see am again .she foolish sotey she was in a hurry to squeeze out something from me before doing voooom. Ha she gave me bills naa that was the day i say make i take her out. She drink 3 mefium stout, i no mind, we chop cat fish I no mind , she come take style dey tell me say she wan do her hair 7k, complete her child's school fee with 10 k, replace her body cream 10k .l Na so i yawn .
This is a girl went to with open mind and sincerity to date for 2 months and marry her before the end of this year oo.
Any time she flash me now, i dey be like leelee

It beats me how girls demand what they cannot afford from a man

SavageResponse:


To know the answer to your question I suggest you set up your own school then during holidays when there is no money coming in you go and take money from your personal savings to pay your teachers let us see if that school will survive for up to 2 years!

2years is much, 6 months. The new trend now is that many parents rotate their wards to evade their bills. Is more painful, when such parents have more than one ward.

Another painful thing is that, it's difficult to increase school fees to avoid losing students despite the increase of everything including wage bill.

Criticizing school owners is the easiest thing to do, do you even think about their own survival? If it's too easy, Start just a creche.

I suggest communication from the part of the staff and sincerity from the owners will go a long way to resolve most of the challenges.

We are all managing Nigeria!

I think you are the one that has the problem. BIG PROBLEM.
Why are you spending energy preparing for disaster that you can avoid?
End the relationship. For the sake of sanity and peace.
Meanwhile, I had a so called girlfriend in my university days. Exactly with same attributes.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Op, I sincerely think, you should do your self a favour- leave the girl with her drama. Focus on ur school, focus on ur future.

If u mistakenly commit urself. You will understand the meaning of hardship. Avoid unnecessary pressure

1). For me, most music videos are a step away to pornography. Yet these videos are moral standards and role models to our young ones

2). Is sex education an advantage or a vice? Is it helping our children to be curious about their sexuality in lieu of oblivion?

3). You as a parent, what's is ur sexual behavior like? How to u dress, discuss sex or sexual content.

So, what did she do wrong? How is the last cheap? By coming for you? Men!

Firstly, Thank God for the helper. If the teaching is not a government owned school, go for the immigration related offer, you will have all the right prospects and exposures

Please don't return any bride price Nne, he has collected it back, even more through all the beating.

Aonkuuse:
I think this young lady have made the best choice for herself. She called off her wedding that supposed to hold on Saturday over her boyfriend's constant beatings

Read her story below:



https://www.facebook.com/100023344715047/posts/1125662428221904/?app=fbl

But, if you don't want anyone talking anyhow to you, start your company. Even your own employee will insult you. OP, you need to grow up and grow thick skin, life is not designed to please you, nobody owes you better

Pray through it and choose . It is God's that directs tomorrow.

There is actually no wrong decision in this life. It's time. Every decision is subject to time to prove result. You may choose the bank, it ends up being your lifting peddler to greatness.

I wish you Divine Grace

You no get joy oh

Microsports:
you can apply for receptionist,most hospital have one,you take peoples card and give number to people to see the doctor
I have a Lenovo laptop for sale(8gb ram 500hdd core i7 good ba3 life) price is location is owerri

I believe I had one of the best experience as a corper. Served Jesus and girl child in kontagora, Niger state.

I noticed poor sanitary and hygienic care around the veil worn by teens girls in the region.

The passion for a change drove me to write to all secondary schools within the city for an hour health talk with the students.
It paid off. My efforts were worth it.

Add Med lab science too

SavageBoy:
If you aren't going to school to study any of the courses listed below, pls don't bother going at all:

•Medicine
•Nursing
•Pharmacy
•Computer Science
•Radiography
•Some engineering courses

If it's not any of the above, abeg sit down for house, use that money you would have used to pay school fees and get a Laptop... start learning to code,in 8 months time,you'll be glad you did so.

What I came to realize about life is this; our parents know what they've seen when they urge and insist we study "professional" courses in school,but we young folks disregard their point of view as "ancient"... I for example was studying Botany in the university, reasoned what I'll do with this thing in the long run... omorr I saw I was just wasting my time oh,took jamb in my third year,applied for pharmacy in a federal university, got the admission... I'm really glad I made that decision.

Living in Nigeria is hard... don't make it harder for yourselves by studying Nonsense

Please what's the pay like....

Venerable612 ispost=111723422:
Lol

I gleaned from your story that you have good writing skills.

I don’t know if I am the only one, but I spend more time correcting grammar/punctuation errors in my mind so I can understand many posts/comments on Nairaland.

You should avoid small Lekki firms though - they pay less for the many troubles.

Will they hear. Women are not chasing sex, they are chasing money. For them, Hook up is a hustle (side or main)

God have Mercy! It is well

Do you both attend same church? Inform him of ur readiness to talk to your(his) pastor.

If he is not serious with church, encourage him to join the workforce.

Please rule out the option of leaving. I acknowledge u have made a mistake by marrying a cheat after 6years of pre- marriage relationship but it will become your cross to build. Weldone

HOOK UP! hook up!! HOOK UP!!!

Will young girls hear? Perhaps she followed a total stranger to have sex. Is only a woman can sleep in strange or new place with a man because of man.

I have zero pity mbok....others should learn from this ugly story

Horney men bankroll them. The real source of income is sex. Receptionist is just to advertise the real thing, customer will not see her at home nah

Very true. Please op, don't disregard this contribution.

Kuriosmynd:
No solution to your problem. Once a lesbian,always a lesbian.
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Move on or just marry her like that and face the brutal consequences later on.
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There's nothing like fixing.
She can never tell you the truth of how long she's been a les. What if she's been like that since 16 (secondary schl) do you expect her to tell you that? Lol.
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Do you even know if her lesbian aspect is the most pleasurable and fullfiling sexual experience for her, while u are just the expendable provider for her needs and emotional baggage?
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Guy. Run. Run o
Most lesbian or bi dey dey wicked for guys. Cos na Dem carry feminism put for head pass.
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Na when dem enter ur house, u go see their true colors. They have no regard or respect for men o...Forget the love she's showing. Na fake. She's looking for the societal ring and the unlucky man she go use practice her feminism for marriage...lol

Tah! Police? strike? Na lie. Who will collect N100 and N200 they on every checkpoint

for you to be asking this question, means you are foolish, truth! Abeg carry your story enter gutter

My brother, I think that we as christians have an already framed mind not necessarily rooted in the bible but inherited values and norms. This is one of the core subjects in christiandom that our dear Leaders will not want to answer directly, maybe to maintain order, which is good but not necessarily scripture.

AntiChristian:
It is often said that Yahweh/Jehovah/Jesus of the Christians prescribe one man for one woman so how come tens of Prophets/men of God had more than one wives and or concubines?

Cain's son Lamech and Moses had 2 wives. David had 8 wives! Solomon 300 wives and 700 concubines! Gideon had many wives!
Deuteronomy 21:1-17 suggest marriage of multiple wives including captured prisoners gotten from conquests.

Elkanah a godly man and father of Samuel had 2 wives. Abraham, the father of faith had two wives!

In 2 Samuel 12 when the prophet Nathan confronts David over his sin with Bathsheba, we read: "This is what the Lord God of Israel says: 'I anointed you king over Israel, and I delivered you from the hand of Saul. I have given you your master's house and your master's wives into your bosom … and I gave you the house of Israel and Judah, and as if this wasn't enough, I would have given you even more."

Is it that all of these men of God were not guided (by the Holy spirit) in their marriages?

And lastly Yahweh prescribed law to protect first wife in Polygamy- Exo 21:10 "If he marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights."

Why this law since Yahweh/Jehovah is against polygamy?

We just need answers to the questions in red!

Polygamy is not a sin! God is not the author of confusion!

Acehart:


I’d like to ask you for your understanding of the word “Sin”; what is Sin?

Biblically, Capital NO

I so disagree on this one. One man. One wife is a modern or civilization concept and not God's standard.
The only place God almighty spoke on marriage type was in 1Timothy 3-212, where is specifically mentioned as a part of the qualifications of a 'Bishop' he must be a husband of only man. However, christianity hates sexuality outside marriage and Divorce of any guise.
for

Righteousness2:
GOD'S Standard from the beginning remains One man one wife.
GOD'S Standard is HE hates Divorce.

Jacob, Solomon , Religion, Society or whoever are not the standard. The Word of GOD is the Standard .

Read Matthew 19: 4-9 to know GOD'S Standard!

And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them Male and Female .
(Not Male and Females or Vice versa)

And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his Wife(Not Wives): and they twain shall be one flesh?

Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?

He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.

And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

Anything apart from GOD'S Standard is SIN. It is Fornication, Adultery and Man/ woman Decieving themselves!

Nice one joor. But you should have shown her maturity by inviting her to eat with you, so doing, u will win her loyalty

N100. N50 going, N50 returning...No stresssing.(most times, i get free rides sef

hmmm, this one the president's 'family house' entrance be like self con. I hope poor mass are not living in huts and woods? Kai, the sitting rooms needs alot of overhauling mbok

Which town, Nnaa?

I really think you need education first before a man

which campus u dey?

Premiumwriter:
ASUU strike and I suddenly have a lot of times on my hands.

So I'm starting a little side project and this will be beneficial for guys who are finding it hard to meets girls or start up conversations with them..

It's totally free to join in by the way.

During the week, I plan on going out to meet new ladies. Toast them, get their numbers and you know the rest.

Here's the gist, I'll be making a documentary of everything (not videos tho as it'll be clumsy and wouldn't look real).

But I'll make a mental note to record our conversations and put them in writings.

This will be a self improvement journey and hopefully, you get to read all my successes and probably failures too and if nothing else you get to laugh.

I'm on campus so the number of ladies should be quite easy to get. Everything will be compiled into a weekly newsletter which you can read for every.