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So, my wife and I share similar career path. Though am ahead of her. My office got some new openings which she is qualified. Interestingly, I may be playing a major role on who gets the offers.

So comes my worry:
Can I facilitate my wife who is keen on her career? Do I have to worry about any regrets in future?

2). My wife manages our family bizness(and is doing very well on it, bringing in all the back up money) and children, what will happen to our bizness?

3). This good offer will require her to relocate, by extension, my whole family relocating. DOES it worth it?

4). Will I be accused of nepotism by HR auditors of recommending my qualified wife for the role(though she will be bearing her maiden name, I worry that the secret may not be for long before rumors start flying)

The job is quite rewarding, pay is excellent and entails free foreign travels.

To be clearer, my biggest worry is her loyalty as a wife if she gets very powerful and no more 'fake' office flirting.

Married Career people, HR executives pls advice me

Mods, please push to the front for wider opinions

If Amaechi wins APC primaries, Peter Obi chances will be greatly diminished

In my marriage, there are no rules, I can look up wifey phone any time and she can do same.
The problem is that while we make jest of guys who hit her online, we argue over girls I said 'hello' to

Very sad,
Let me share an update!

Next time, if u want to invite someone in another town, look for someone u know in that town, give him or her to give her. So that if story enter, the investment can be retrieved

Who is number one on the list- I hope it's Obama

This whole idea is crazy. Who then do the women have the sex with? still us, men. I prefer to encourage the women than make them feel terrible. i mean, most of us will still be the ones begging and disturbing them for the same BODY COUNT- SEX.
for the sake of sanity, let preach sexual dignity for both gender. SEX IS NOT DIFFERENT FOR BOTH GENDER. More men appreciate it more

UncleKoboko:
Sex is different for both genders.

For men generally, we don't attach emotions to sex but girls/women usually attach emotions to it. Before a girl opens her legs for fuçks, she'd have processed it, imagined it and analysed it. At the end, a part of her is left attached to that sexual partner. That's why it's not advisable to forgive and take back a CHEATING partner because, it's a violation and the greatest disrespect a girl can slap on a guy's face.
A girl can NEVER cheat on a guy by MISTAKE! THEY ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE TO ACCEPT OR REJECT EXPECT FOR RAPE CASES.

No matter how a girl begs for forgiveness after cheating, never forgive unless you just have plans to take a sweet revenge to use and dump her..

A girl with more than two bodycount belongs to the street...


For guys, we are only moved by what we see and after ejaculations, the euphoria dies.

Scientifically, the imprint of every sex partner a girl has had is left in her DNA. If dem check your gene now, we can see the DNA of the first FUCKÉR that ever released sperm inside your toto, but it's not the same for guys.

God bless you madam.
I love your input.
Op, let's be careful what we normalize. Don't let unfortunate faceless people deform your mind. Keep being kind, helpful, supportive and generous without expecting nothing from both man and woman.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Pls keep mute..you ain't a simp..what happened to humanity?
What are you kids turning into these days..can't you offer help without attaching sexual benefit and all?

Is this how you will rape a lady if she stay in your apartment for a night?
You shouldn't have gave her if you was gonna feel bad..don't let wannabe redpillers kill your good spirit..keep being yourself and be real..

Let the TM be the least of ur worries. Fix ur existing car and carefully invest ur savings.

If you are unsure what to invest, BUY a LAND

So Yahoo boys now have office. R remain CAC registration

I think she really likes you. From my experience, this is the strongest indicator of interest from women- a woman that likes you will not want to liquidate you but add to you.
I feel her source is from her family. Just keep appreciating her, she is a good blessing to you. You may consider to divert the cash you give her to taking her out to places of her interest like a library, Art threater, museum, etc

TheScientist:
I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it.
Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?

Pay them their money nah, stop this drama.

Whahala everywhere

That's why you are not married- Assumption and over entitlements.

Even at 33? Are you sure it's not a spiritual husband matter you are dealing with? It makes one act funny just to cause distraction and regrets.

Better follow bro up while you can before we forms an opinion on you.

Goodluck

You may want to direct this plead to Oga Rohr, Baba is expecting over N170,000,000 in less than 45days. I know he has a good heart.
Good luck

Sacredheart1:
Am pleading for your help please
Please dear everyone, I beg you in the name of God please forgive me for posting this but I have no choice because the mods ban my old username. Please sirs and ma's, my name is Faith, am a 26 years old single mom of 1. My son is just 2 years old. I used to be a hairdresser before my present predicament. In August of 2021 I fell very sick and was rush to the hospital by my neighbour. Doctor said that I will have to be admitted because by the time that they have prescribed several drugs for me, my hands and both of my legs has developed rashes and started to swell up. The swelling got worst and more severe as time went by, eventually leading to multiple skin ulcers. Preliminary results shows that I was diagnosed with blood infection. Am currently living with severe skin ulcers in my left arm, the palm of my hand, and both of my legs and feet. I've been suffering with this condition since then.
Am crying out because I need serious medical attention, I cannot afford to go to the hospital and am dying here due to lack of money. I regularly require resuscitation with anti biotics and regular blood transfusion at St David's Specialist hospital. I also urgently require Prolonged Sore Management with Vacuum Assisted Closure Device and skin graft to help regain my normal life again but unfortunately I can't treat myself because I don't have enough on me. Doctor said the procedure will require 1.3million Naira to give me my life back and so far I've been able to raise only 300 thousand with the help of my friends and some kind hearted well wishers who have taken pity for me in the past few months. Pleas sirs and ma's, am an orphan both my parents are late. I have been trying every possible best to raise the remainder to no avail. I don't have any property to sell again and I cannot work in this my condition pls I beg of you, I can't even look after my 2 years old son, that's why am pleading with any well meaning person pls, no matter how small pls, it will still go a long way to help me and save my life and that of my little boy pls. May God bless you all in Jesus name Amen

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Thank you and God bless you
.

It is well.
I think yoir thoughts are right. Knowing and analysing our spiritual leaders instructions through the bible or whatever you read.

Ay the same time, it's dicey. The bible encourages us "to believe in his prophets, so that you will prosper". So there should be some individualistic balance across board.

For me:
The pastor that will want me to give(sow) the only money with me in lieu of my feeding or very basic need should be subject to questions even though God can stimulate you to take such extreme decision

I don't support bad things, but you see this one, my brother, Carry go

I'm just imagining this law in Nigeria, most women will die of hunger (no selling point again)

udede:
Na so one stupid babe wey i won manage do second wife wan open office for my head. Na marry i wan marry her ooo nobi say na to chook and go and na small girl of 22.
Imagin telling me say she node sleep for man house again and na friendship she go allow me if i Impress her enough. She don born for house join oo.
I tell myself say i don suffer. Na so i forget am oo. The wahala is that this girl calls me up to 5 times a day say I no wan come see am again .she foolish sotey she was in a hurry to squeeze out something from me before doing voooom. Ha she gave me bills naa that was the day i say make i take her out. She drink 3 mefium stout, i no mind, we chop cat fish I no mind , she come take style dey tell me say she wan do her hair 7k, complete her child's school fee with 10 k, replace her body cream 10k .l Na so i yawn .
This is a girl went to with open mind and sincerity to date for 2 months and marry her before the end of this year oo.
Any time she flash me now, i dey be like leelee

It beats me how girls demand what they cannot afford from a man

SavageResponse:
To know the answer to your question I suggest you set up your own school then during holidays when there is no money coming in you go and take money from your personal savings to pay your teachers let us see if that school will survive for up to 2 years!

2years is much, 6 months. The new trend now is that many parents rotate their wards to evade their bills. Is more painful, when such parents have more than one ward.

Another painful thing is that, it's difficult to increase school fees to avoid losing students despite the increase of everything including wage bill.

Criticizing school owners is the easiest thing to do, do you even think about their own survival? If it's too easy, Start just a creche.

I suggest communication from the part of the staff and sincerity from the owners will go a long way to resolve most of the challenges.

We are all managing Nigeria!

I think you are the one that has the problem. BIG PROBLEM.
Why are you spending energy preparing for disaster that you can avoid?
End the relationship. For the sake of sanity and peace.
Meanwhile, I had a so called girlfriend in my university days. Exactly with same attributes.

OluwoR:
Good evening my brothers and sisters,

I sincerely needs urgent help/assistance for my Fiancee.

Met her in 2012, started dating in 2014, had our first sex in 2019, but since that 2019, anytime I make moves to have sex with Her, it's always through fight, to cut the story short, she find sex extremely painful that even anything that pass cuddling, she'll start crying, this might sound funny, but seriously it is not.
I talked to Her about it, booked an appointment with a gynecologist, my babe didn't show up, I tried to get her sexual supplements, she said they have side effects, and she disposed them.

Now, the problem is, we're planning our introduction, and we're yet to get any solution to the problem at hand,
please, who have any idea of what we can do about it.

Op, I sincerely think, you should do your self a favour- leave the girl with her drama. Focus on ur school, focus on ur future.

If u mistakenly commit urself. You will understand the meaning of hardship. Avoid unnecessary pressure

1). For me, most music videos are a step away to pornography. Yet these videos are moral standards and role models to our young ones

2). Is sex education an advantage or a vice? Is it helping our children to be curious about their sexuality in lieu of oblivion?

3). You as a parent, what's is ur sexual behavior like? How to u dress, discuss sex or sexual content.

So, what did she do wrong? How is the last cheap? By coming for you? Men!

Firstly, Thank God for the helper. If the teaching is not a government owned school, go for the immigration related offer, you will have all the right prospects and exposures

Please don't return any bride price Nne, he has collected it back, even more through all the beating.

Aonkuuse:
I think this young lady have made the best choice for herself. She called off her wedding that supposed to hold on Saturday over her boyfriend's constant beatings

Read her story below:



https://www.facebook.com/100023344715047/posts/1125662428221904/?app=fbl

But, if you don't want anyone talking anyhow to you, start your company. Even your own employee will insult you. OP, you need to grow up and grow thick skin, life is not designed to please you, nobody owes you better

Pray through it and choose . It is God's that directs tomorrow.

There is actually no wrong decision in this life. It's time. Every decision is subject to time to prove result. You may choose the bank, it ends up being your lifting peddler to greatness.

I wish you Divine Grace

You no get joy oh

Microsports:
you can apply for receptionist,most hospital have one,you take peoples card and give number to people to see the doctor
I have a Lenovo laptop for sale(8gb ram 500hdd core i7 good ba3 life) price is location is owerri

I believe I had one of the best experience as a corper. Served Jesus and girl child in kontagora, Niger state.

I noticed poor sanitary and hygienic care around the veil worn by teens girls in the region.

The passion for a change drove me to write to all secondary schools within the city for an hour health talk with the students.
It paid off. My efforts were worth it.

Add Med lab science too

SavageBoy:
If you aren't going to school to study any of the courses listed below, pls don't bother going at all:

•Medicine
•Nursing
•Pharmacy
•Computer Science
•Radiography
•Some engineering courses

If it's not any of the above, abeg sit down for house, use that money you would have used to pay school fees and get a Laptop... start learning to code,in 8 months time,you'll be glad you did so.

What I came to realize about life is this; our parents know what they've seen when they urge and insist we study "professional" courses in school,but we young folks disregard their point of view as "ancient"... I for example was studying Botany in the university, reasoned what I'll do with this thing in the long run... omorr I saw I was just wasting my time oh,took jamb in my third year,applied for pharmacy in a federal university, got the admission... I'm really glad I made that decision.

Living in Nigeria is hard... don't make it harder for yourselves by studying Nonsense

Please what's the pay like....[quote author=Venerable612 ispost=111723422]Lol

I gleaned from your story that you have good writing skills.

I don’t know if I am the only one, but I spend more time correcting grammar/punctuation errors in my mind so I can understand many posts/comments on Nairaland.

You should avoid small Lekki firms though - they pay less for the many troubles.[/quote]

Will they hear. Women are not chasing sex, they are chasing money. For them, Hook up is a hustle (side or main)