See,
Come up with a pathetic story, borrow N120k from her. Dont break up with her, just let the relationship freeze by stopping communication.if she calls, answer, but dont call again. if she wants to make trouble on the money, stress her and agree to be paying 5k every month.......

Moony45:
I'm just gonna make this quick cos i'm angry right now.

I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.

Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.

I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

What should i do?

Mature advice only pls

Mods, a little help for somebody's son here

Respectively, I think you don't have much money. Instinctually, 96% of men will fling around women when they are rich, very rich.

30k is even for low class girls. Some don't even collect anything less than 100k and above.

I feel when you become rich ur perception will change.
BTW, I hate paid sex of any guise. For young men, SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE BRINGS DISFAVOR

Nwa oma, after the war, abi conflict, dash me ur weapon, maka ndi unknown gun men

Too costly

It's very well. Yesterday, after dressing to go to work, I had to UnCloth to bath again due to the severe heat

It's really crazy. Back in school days, had this female colleague, who would, just to prove to me she is a big girl, call up 5 men for her school fees and hand outs and interesting, 5 of them will respond within 30mins.

Baba Buhari is looking healthy on this picture oh

Interesting thoughts.
My that is busy building a house for my wife and children, taking academic programme and planning to commence village project asap. Omo, Its admire and muveee. No time for *disfavour*, unnecessary waste and fine girl allowance......If e do me too much, we go enter bathroom go pour cold water for body

Table really dey turn. Anybody wey swear for this man chop better winch. As at this time last year, if you tell this ruthless man he will be locked up in the same cell he heartlessly put others, he will even shoot you

Go for the bank.

missimelda01:
Try not to have sex with the next girl you meet, find other non-sexual ways to build intimacy and you'll continue to find her interesting.

that'll be a temporary solution. What happens when he finally get intimate?

This father is not smart

Anxiety2022:

I did RVS and it came out positive

That's an antibody test.

RVS is simply Retroviral Screening

If you are not sure of how to support him or her, keep quiet
HIV meds, ARV, is FREE OF CHARGE in Nigeria. Especially, Public health centres- Primary Health centre, General hospital s, cottage hospital, teaching hospitals.
In most HIV program, treatment to opportunistic infections or co-morbids are FREE.
Infact, everything relating HIV clinical management in public health centres- including lab tests are FREE

ajailer:
Though being diagnosed HIV+ can be a blow on the body and mental state, but I believe it's a starting point for you. You need to seat down and think about your priorities now, focus on them with all your energy and achieve them. I don't know if you are married but please don't think about infecting others as that will only lead you further down d hole..

ARV I hear are relatively cheap these days even if not free, you just have to stay committed to using it everyday.

I know you are down but you still have your whole life ahead of you just that now you have to take conscious decisions for yourself and your loved ones.

It's a win win for you. Travel to the US. In few years, you will not regret the decision. For most, it's a dream come true.

Na Man you be

hahahahaha5x:
I shouldn't stress myself writing epistles.

I met a girl recently where I went to chill. I got there and ended up not spending a dime for myself. So when I approached her she asked for a plate of pepper soup which I got for her 500 naira. Lol

The next day while we were chatting she told me she was out of data so I transferred 500mb to her from my SIM since I subscribed 40 GB.

PS that's how I transfer data to people daily. Both guys and girls. It depends on the first two people who ask me since there's a limit.

When I went there later she was singing that she was hungry. I didn't wanna answer her because she was beginning to piss me with her beggy beggy attitude lol. After much consideration I gave her 2h to buy snacks and she got it.

Today she told me she's always bored whenever she's at work so I felt I should go check on her. I started taking some bottles of beer while chilling with her. Not long she started telling me how she's damn hungry lol. I jokingly told her she hasn't come to know my house yet o yet she's always telling me to do this or that for her. She just told me "I nor dey come person house". I then asked her "yet you bill people abi?" She said she'd return all I've spent on her. Las las I've collected my money and she has stood up from my table to be alone. In her presence I've bought drinks for two guys.

Nb: For those who would come here to tell me today is a working day. I make my money online. I'm a crypto trader. I can trade and make money anywhere.

Excellent

All the nets in my house are worn by these sons of darkness. The wage of sin is death. He is lucky he escaped. Na to burn am for sweet me, fools

Excellent!

Right001:
I usually frown at jokes or skit of comedians that do videos of soldiers been painted as a god and there by molesting civilians and people just laugh and say it just a joke. My brother and sister it may sound as a joke but it goes a long way because most military men watch this videos and feel like if I oppress the civilian then nobody can help then and also the civilian watching it will also think there are helpless before a military unknowning to him because that video just send an involuntary message to his subconscious. It is high time our comedian start doing jokes of military men been arrest by military police for abusing human right or military people been taken to court for molesting civilians. It is not about carrying of banner and start protesting about human rights but comedian videos can go a long way by enlighten the people without hurting or destroying the peace of the country. Thank you.

Nonexisting:
"his wife and two daughters were lured by the pastor of their church who took them into his custody and has since been having sex with both the mother and her two daughters" The pastor lured and not raped them, so the crime he committed is only child molestation. The woman foolishly submitted herself to the pastor and took her daughters along which is shameful. Since the daughters are children, the man should face the crime of sleeping with minors. Him sleeping with the woman is not a crime.

the story didn't even say the children are minor. We are just assuming. The goal of this post is to embarrass the male gender, nothing more

heniford2:
OUK under his watch as Abia state governor handled insecurity in Abia state introducing bakassi and even paid police fueling and logistics making provision for van for police and etc he has Been tested and his profile speaks loudly for him VOTE OUK come 2023

You are part of the problem of Abia state

Dabokem:
Are u tired of running out of meat?
Are you tired of buying in bits?
Are you busy?
Do you wish to get your meat directly from the market?
Do you wish there is someone who could take the stress off you?
Look no further,we are here for you...

We help you get your fresh meat directly from the abbatoir....

Chill and relax while we run your errands for you..

This ur advert is too poor. No location, No contact. How we want take reach una

You are on ur way to recovery already. Why? because you have acknowledged it as a problem and shared it.
Firstly,
Stop drinking alcohol. It takes brings out ur already existing vice.
2ndly, Stop and keep out from erotic places, pictures, stories and movies.
Thirdly, start cultivating healthy relationships, u can start with colleagues, church members or even relatives like cousins. When alone, involve your self in reading books relating to ur skills or jobs.
Most importantly, genuinely, invite Jesus to your life, he alone restore wasted years because time and season are in his hands. Pick a role as a worker in church, I advise ushering.
pS: Don't forget to run a comprehensive lab test to ensure u don't have an STD

Weldone!

Tired2022:
I'm a scientist, so I know I'm clearly addicted. I just had to create this account to stay anonymous because what I'm about to spill is so shameful to me. Even worse, is that I don't know what the end will be because I lack total control of my third leg.

Alright guys, my dick is my only problem right now. In fact I feel so depressed and traumatised.

I have everything going well for me, I make enough money to buy just anything moderate. I have not been to the hospital for over a decade because the need never arised.

So what's my problem? I can't answer that question because I'm so confused. I know I'm addicted to prostitutes and I haven’t been able to tame this dick of mine.

I'm a very shy guy, I find it hard to socialize with men not to talk off the opposite sex. So, I started with masturbation which lasted over a decade. Then I started making good money, I felt masturbation wasn't what I want, that I had to stop it.

I started visiting prostitutes. Its over 5yrs now, and all I want is to Bleep them all. Yeah, that's how I feel. Bleep all the women, yet I can't even approach one. So, I go for the easy way, prostitutes!

My biggest problem right now, isn't that I'm so addicted to prostitutes or spending money (over 70k every month), but I have had 35 prostitutes without protection. I'm so mad right now because I just bleeped a public toilet without protection. It's the only reason I decided to share this with you all. I'm sufferingggg...............

I have decided to get a girlfriend, I wish to marry next year, but I'm so ashamed, I don’t deserve any woman. Apart from the prostitutes I had without protection, I have had sex with 102 prostitutes in total. And I'm just 33yrs. Gosh! I feel so dirty!

I'm so obsessed with women, and I feel masturbation is the culprit. I fear more that I may not stop even if I have the most beautiful girl on earth by my side. I read the story of a lady who claimed her husband was obsessed with prostitutes in Canada, it shocked me so hard.

Is there anyone who has faced same predicament as mine? How did you win? No woman is safe with me, not even minors because I can't control this dick of mine.

Without alcohol, prostitutes are never attractive to me. So, I must take some alcohol to be in the mood.

Last night, on my regular routine, after drinking alcohol, I met this chubby lady. She was so sexy. I told her exclusively, I find it hard having sex without condom, that I only wanted her to give me a handjob. I pay well, so this girls know me already, it's a fight to have me in their room.

She gave me a Mouth Gig which I wasn't okay with, but I felt save to some extent. After giving me Mouth Gig for a long while, I didn't reach climax. I started mastubating, hoping to reach climax. Still it didn't happen. The lady was already like, f××k me without condom, but don’t release inside. I was contemplating in my mind, Gosh! Not again. Eventually, I reasoned, f××k it! I had her without protection and it took less than 5 minutes for me to reach climax.

This is exactly the same scenario that plays out in all my shameful adventures with these women. And I'm so feld up right now.

I can go on and on, but I don't like writing long epistles. Gosh! I have sex evey 2 days! I can't even go just 1 week without sex. Although I haven’t masturbated in the last 5 yrs, addiction to prostitutes is killing me. How do I even stop this whole sh××t? I feel suicidal.

Please note, it took me a whole lot to share my problem here. I won't take it funny with anyone who says this isn't real. I just want your honest opinion (castigation or advice), please state it. If you don't have anything to say, please and please keep your mouth shot.

I want more opinion on my predicament. Thanks!

Do anything stops you from staying indoors to avoid seeing sexual images that will motivate masturbation?

I really don't see a problem from your neighbors/ landlady. Mind your apartment

Op, sentiment apart, the only advice you need is to go to school. Your English is horrible

Righteousness2:

Hallelujah!

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Another lie..I am sure your mom is still feeding you at home..

Enjoy your fantasy you've always wished for..

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Op, if you choose to assist, to be extremely safe, collect the original documents of the landed property we wanted to offer the bank.
Is for your safety

Totoismyhome:
Dear Nairalanders,
I have been with my husband for 13 years, 3 years as a married couple. In those 13 years, We have only had sex 5 times, because I have been suffering from candidiasis for over a decade. I can only have sex with him when I apply an anaesthetic gel to my vagina. He claims the whole set up turns him off, and recently, he doesn't even get hard anymore. We conceived our son with a syringe.

He's so insensitive that he takes sides with my employees against me. He claims I am mean to people beneath me. He has quarreled with me because of the cleaner, the nanny, the carpenter etc

We don't live together (we have never really lived together), so he gets househelps to do chores for him, and he sleeps with them sometimes.

Whenever we quarrel, he is always quick to come up with "pseudo-apologies".

I feel he is the most wicked man in the world, and I have made it clear to him that as he is enjoying his youth with all those sl__ts, I will make him suffer in his old age.

I just came here to vent.

Are you sure, you are the victim here? I think you should concentrate on becoming a better woman, seek help from your disease and show some care to your husband.
You might be the person to suffer the old age, that's if you live to see old age( with this ur nasty character)

FERNANDEZISBACK:
That guy is quite senseless...that's how to know a guy who is only after your body..
You asked a woman out she went on a date with you..pls as a real man ain't you supposed to appreciate the fact that she came over?

She doesn't even need to complain..throw the guy into a waste bin and move on.. courtesy demand you do something..
Better still he could ve just dropped her off at home..not being romantic in any way at all was what the guy did..

Some are gonna quote me and misunderstand the point I was trying to make..

I give up on you. Ur opinion dey pain me for this matter, I shaaa will not swear for you, I will swallow it