I dont know why most Nigerian parents cant be civil when it comes to separation and divorce.

Anyway, moving to another city to be with her mother is selfish in my own opinion. It will be understandable if she moved for work or re-married. Her child's relationship with her ex should come first. Very Vital.

Can they do weekdays with the mother and weekends with the Father.? Every other month perhaps?

Why are you all taking panadol for America's headache? Let them deal with their issues abeg.

@cococandy

Accept my condolences Naijababe.

Yoruba people and party chai!

it's times like this that i wish i was from the north.


Welcome back YPP!

awon oponu. There is no one with ebola symptoms in Gambia right now. It should be other way round.

i hope they are not mistaking Guinea for Gambia.

honey86: All these people saying the wedding is expensive. Do you realise that the wedding held in CANADA and not NIGERIA?. The same amount is what some people pay for decor or hall in Nigeria.Atleast she is better than some people who would budget 1m for ceremony and buy crappy ring of 25k.

lol. you dey mind dem. People pay that and more for photography in Nigeria. Decor 500k? Except you want it to look as tacky as possible. lol

@Aisha is soo right about Abuja. That town is notorious for useless/jobless men masquerading as FG contractors .

Plenty women don fall mugu for that place ehn.

@op. The handwriting is on the wall. Abeg RUN!

Nelrulez: You should have added pictures to back it all up. Wishing you a blissful married life.

i did add pictures, but later removed them.

mercylicious: U will spend much less if u invite ten guests and fix the white wedding on a tuesday

I guess so, but we wanted it to be on a saturday.

ify84: if I spend up to 450k for wedding......I go use am feed over 250 guest... and use a beautiful hall.... finally, op was very extravagant in dix wedding....

Well, I wasnt interested in feeding 250 guests,and at the same time didnt want to look razz.Thank you.

Olusanya333: dear u had be suprised i'm not a redeemer. On point is Adeboye greater dan u or i?Actually No. And here we are talking about him. Maybe we end it there and examine ourselves

You dont need to be a redeemer to understand my post. You mentioned that I will repeat what I said before God some day. Who are you to judge me? And you all turn around and criticize others for judging your
'Men of God'.?

Your last statement is totally unrelated to the topic/article.

nora544:

why this man never speak in the public about that child what got lost at his camp two years ago at the holy gost service for this he keep silent.

this man has a double standart because the story with the woman is good for him

You dey mind am? The story will put the church in a negative light. Its all about the brand at the end of the day. These pastors are good businessmen.

Olusanya333: Congratulations!!! U will repeat dat befor God one day.

Oh??That it's not compulsory to visit your useless and bacteria infested camps?

God doesnt give a rats azz about your camps, honey.


Maybe he also needs to be informed that his 'ordained' pastors need to stop littering every nook and cranny with churches.

Dessyguy: why do you talk so bad about a man of God?

Are you not a Man of God? We are all God's children...

I dont know why i cant stand this man!

Of course he will tell his congregation what they want to hear. Before..


I cant for the life of me believe people are still going to crowded places in these trying times(Ebola).

Honestly, Nigerians have no value for their lives.

Which God are you going to serve that you can worship within the confines of your own home? Must you be in a crowded place before God answers your prayers?

lol. Kanwulili.

Congratulations guys! May the Lord bless your union.

PAGAN9JA: ITs sad that you did a white wedding @OP. I weep 4 Africans.

@pagan9ja. I wish i could go to Naija for our Trad wedding, but unfortunately couldnt afford it. I love love trad weddings, because i see it as our wedding.

Weddings in Nigeria cost money o.

OrlandoOwoh: I've always told those around me that my wedding will be low key.
1. Not more than 15 to 20 would be in the venue.
2. The venue will be a small banquet hall in a hotel.
3. I may not go to the church. The pastor(s) and some officers only will be required to just bless the marriage in the church's vestry.
The only person I may not be able to convince is my mother-in-law. I can convince my parents, my father-in-law and my wife.

Awesome!! you can do it!

Moderators.? please can you take this off front page.Thank you.

dorosola: @ ladygogo: congratulations wish u a blissful marriage.
.
back to the topic, this is what I need at the moment. having a proxy traditional in some months time and i dont know what or how to go about it. my partner wont be around for it i will have to go join my partner after the whole stuff in naija..

.
can u tell me how you went about the planning for the proxy traditional back in naija

Thank you dear.

The parents pretty much just did the planning. I didnt do anything. The most important thing is for the two families to meet.

biafranqueen: Op a big congrats! Always love your husband it is you and him first before family, friends etc; cook him good food, keep your slim figure cause thats how he married you and always be his freak between the sheets and you will stay new in his eyes like the first day you met.

Thank you so much.

red101: Congratulations! You made it work. Your dress looks lovely and I like the dinner setting. Me, I was going to elope, but your story has given me an inspiration.

first though, I need to find my husband-to-be.

Thank you..

dBard:

Within..
150 t 200k...or less if necessary
5 t 7days stay

i think you should be able to do Ghana with your budget.

Obudu and Whispering palms within Nigeria will do.

dBard: Lemme derail a bit...
I need help on suggestions f a good n relaxing Honeymoon spot at a moderate cost.
Personal experiences will b greatly appreciated.


Apologies t @ladygogo

Thats ok.

In or outside Nigeria.

Whats your budgetÉ

Fxwarrior: Op so you call 400,000 naira plus low budget? Smh

I was expecting 60,000 naira plan.

ok.

Odunharry: nice thread....mod frontpage

Na! Front page say wetin happen.

pansophist: Wish you all the best.

Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication

Thank you.

rebella: Congrats ladygogo, lovely gown.
Damiso try bkunique hair, their products are good. I ordered off aliexpress once and I basically threw £200+ down the drain, the weave tangled and shed luke no man's business. I had to throw it away after a few days use

Thank you Rebella.

EfemenaXY: Congratulations and Happy Married Life Lady Gogo.

Beautiful dress too. You look great in it.

Thank you so much Efe.

*blushes*

bukatyne: Congrats, ladygogo

God bless your home

You can't try this if you are in Naija especially if you are the first daughter or only daughter

I argued with my mom so tey I tire and just let her be God bless her

i like the idea of cutting on hair, the dress, make up etc. It is very pointless spending so much on them.

Yorubas even have this hand cut we use for our trad; it is very expensive and after that day, it is useless

I got a very beautiful lace for mine I can still nack anytime, got my gown and shoes from aliexpress; got my hubby's colleague to make up for me.

Abegi, there is still a home to build

Your pictures are very beautiful.

Thank you dear.

lol. I'm actually the first child and first daughter, but i'm thankful i'm not in Nigeria. i escaped.

lol @ moms.

it doesnt make sense at all.

Ha! My sis handcut is pretty much useless now, and those things dont come cheap. So annoying.

Thats nice. Definitely better than wearing Aso-oke.

Abi o.

Thank you again.

coogar: happy married life, ladygogo....
hopefully, i would get an invite when the first set of your quintuplets arrive.

Thank you coogar.

Lol. I dont have that kind of strength abeg.