karaka:


Tiwa is a much better vocalist than rihanna

Tell her to go sing Diamonds now or Sledgehammer.

You are high on cheap weed.

Awesome thread! I love flowers, trees, nature etc. I really don't know how we Nigerians remain sane with everywhere looking so bland, flat and dusty.

Thanks for inspiring me to get some potted plants for my window sills.

She asked for it by posting pictures of her belly on IG. Attention seeker.

jadelyn007:
Who told you the women have not moved on? They are probably smiling to the bank as we speak. Time to get their Grove on with that hot young blood they've been eyeing, no one wants to be tied to a potbellied man for the rest of their lives.
Even in the olden days you find women who were married as many as 4 times, how much more in today's modern day, look at Ibinabo the former President of AGN, She's been married thrice. More reason why women should take care of their looks after marriage, not because of a man, but for their own sake. Don't let no man stress you into looking like his mother

Smiling to the bank? Not Caroline Danjuma.

Been a minute.

Grilled tilapia, carrots and basmati rice.

Whatever makes you sleep at night op.

Why date a married man in the first place?

Oh yeah. I get you now. The married man has more money and will spend more than single guys.
The writings are on the wall dear. No one needs to tell you to run as fast as you can.

Hello everyone! I hope errbody is good.?


Forgive me Lord for I know I have sinned.
Chai, I need to get back into this regimen. I kinda miss it. but...but....

Lol. Na WA o.

coogar:


whose call? madam theresa?

ladygogo, did you travel to mars?
i almost sent out a search party to fish you out. how are you?

Jeez.Just seeing this. Coogar thanks. How are you? No I didnt.

Had a pretty busy summer men. The parents visited us and life also got busy.

@Op. I dont even think the Nigerians abroad are as materialistic as the ones in Naija.

You need to visit Nigeria and see excessive materialism.

The obi is my aristo in my head. very handsome man.

dangotesmummy:
Chaiii you don't know what you're missing



the smell of the lafun sef is enough for me to salivate


lafun wey fele very well and better vegetable will make my day anytime

Ahen you were accusing me of being in this owanmbe ijebu associations eg regbe regbe etc


I would have been but it use to consume money a lot


you realise you keep on spending on frivolities and unnecessary show offs aka feferity.
It won't make you remember savings and the friendships are usually fair weather friendships )

Lol. i no like am jo. I prefer the black amala.

Men. Those guys are a trip. I love watching them in their element on youtube.

I think the aso-ebi thing originated from the Ojude-oba festival.

You are right about the aso-ebi thing jare.

dangotesmummy:
so you are an abeokuta woman




you must like lafun and efo riro well well



abi ikokore or ebiripo
bet why una abeokuta and ijebu ode peeps like rivalring over supremacy meanwhile you dress alike build houses alike and speak similar languages


secondly why e be say una like party pass una name. If I say lagbaja is in the hospital we need 20 k for him to survive or tamedu is in school he needs 40 k as school fees una go say e no dey but if I bring owanmbe lace of 60 k or jewellery una no go think twice before you pay immediately

lol. kulyie.

Not a fan of lafun. That thing stinks! eeeew! I like efo riro though. Who doesnt?

Is the dialect similar? I dont think so.

Kulyie? you dey ask me this kwesion?. you that is the olori of awon regbe regbe and bobagunwas.

I'm not really an owambe person though and i stopped doing aso-ebis a long time ago.

How is this the business of the average Nigerian? You people be bringing all these akata problems to nairaland.

@ Damiso Civil Service ke? Those ones already have their own flex time

It really does help.

I think some multinationals like GE in Nigeria offer it to their employees. My cousin works for GE and I remember his work hours being flexible or could have been due to being in the engineering field.

The company I work for has a 37.5hr work week and you can start anytime from 7.30 a.m and 5.00p.m. You can also work from home as well. I work from 7.30-4.00pm, Monday to Thursday, and 7.30- 1.30pm on Friday.

I dont know how this will work for indigenous Nigerian Corp and banks, however, if it does work, it will go a long way in helping working Mums strike that work-life balance.

It's possible he just immigrated to Canada.
He needs to go study the Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms.

No be to carry face and collect your money at the end of the day?

coogar:


so in her shoes, how would you handle him?

Like I said up thread, my husband and I will talk to him and will be kicked out if he doesn't change his ways.

Afterall, parents here kick their over eighteen wards out if they misbehave.

coogar:


ladygogo aka gadaffi!

lol. People like op's relative only learn when they start working, paying rent and bills.

Op's relative may be staying with them for a long time since international students cant work until after two terms unless he has the liver to work under the table.

Your in-law needs to learn the hard way. He needs to be given an ultimatum.
You both need to tell him to stop misbehaving or he will be kicked out.

How is he paying his tuition fees?
Did he pay for student or off campus accommodation when he applied for his visa?

armyofone:
never let them hear you.

Sometimes it is the side effects of the medication they are on and birth control pills.

lol. Na to carry face if they catch me looking. Hear ke? Na to keep your mouth shut o.

Yeah. You are right. Some people also deal with grief by over eating.

TV01:
Unless this women is truly independent of this man, it can't go anywhere.

If her status, well-being and upkeep are inextricably tied up with him, how will it benefit her to aid his prosecution? Or how will she see it as beneficial to her? Unless of course her life is in danger - assuming she even considers death worse than divorce.

Assuming he has assets in the UK and they take all of them and award them to her, wil she consider that a better deal? Will their kids even side with her? Will she prefer to be in the UK as a rich nobody?

If she had the wherewithal to be independent - and wanted it - she'd have taken action herself, and sooner.

Lets follow the situation. I don't see him jailed or her divorcing him - unless the authorities are able to act unilaterally.


TV

She is actually pretty independent. She is an Architect and I heard her family was responsible for sponsoring his political career.

Some sources are also saying the Governor later found out the front for the business happens to be Yemisi's boyfriend.

How does the law work in the UK in regards to pressing charges?

Na dem sabi. Won ma wa alright.
I only pity Benue people.

raumdeuter:
Dapo case no be today. Anyone in OAU in the late 90's early 2000 knew him well

In school then we heard he was molested when he was in KC

Later he went haywire wearing women clothes, trying to get accommodation in female hostel

There was a day his professor told all the females who aren't dressed properly to leave the lecture and he stood up and left

He got a lot of beating then while in Ife

So this is the Dapo guy?

A lot of OAU professor's kids used to talk about him a lot in Babcock University then.

It's good he left Nigeria though.

Pele. I hope you've learnt your lessons.

In obodo land you cant call someone fat o, but I judge and side eye them at restaurants and grocery stores.

Seriously? You can barely walk, but your grocery basket is filled with lays chips, Pepsi,frozen pizza, macaroni, cheese and not one pound of veggies.

@op. Make sure you use the word gorgeous, next time.

cococandy:
must you repeat what you're told even without evidence? That's how falsehood keeps being Perpetuated for generations

As an Abeokuta woman I do all of that and more.

coogar:


kimoni is from osogbo

@ Damiso. I saw that. . There is no small Ijebu person shey you know.

@coogar. she said she is from Ijebu now.

dangotesmummy:
Kim shey e.mey like dedene tonshey




I speak and type ijebu fluently so be warned

Kulyie are you Ijebu?

i like your moniker and blog name. Keep it up.

coogar:


ijebus are generally despised!
the egbas don't like ijebus too even though they are in the same state. it's what it is - until the present generation of our parents pass away, the ijebus would always get the stick.

**runs off before damiso lands here**

Lol. I dont know why o.

Even my Dad's driver was telling me he can't stand ijebu peeps, especially the women. . I was like really.

You better run before Damiso shows you her ijebu side.

The never ending Abeokuta/Ijebu beef with Ondo/Ekiti peeps.

There is really no need though, but its always fun to hear when my Dad, who is from Abeokuta throwing shade at Ijebu peeps.

Yeah, and they are from the same Ogun state.

arabianights:





oops my bad.I thought we are on a public forum,i didnt know you were chatting with your self
please accept my apology

Are you the op? I specifically asked the op questions. By the way, do not come for me if i didnt send for you.

arabianights:



MY DEAR WITH ALL DUE RESPECT.

EXPERIENCE IS BETTER THAN ANY LICENCE.HE IS JUST RENDERING ASSISTANCE AND NO ONE WAS FORCED TO ASK OR ACCEPT.IF YOU ARE IN DOUBT,PLEASE USE LUTH DERMATOLOGISTS.

ONCE AGAIN,WITH ALL DUE RESPECT

Honey, i dont remember asking you any questions?