Christianity Etc › Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by LaExpert: 3:56pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Icecomrade:
You tend not to understand the last post you quoted.
My question is on sexual crave. That's why I asked you if its is sexual exposure that causes high libido against abstinence resulting to low libido
Your question was not clear enough then. Sexual exposure does not always translate to high libido and abstinence does not also always translate to low libido. Like I said, Libido is more of a psychological issue. If your question is still not answered, kindly rephrase simply and ask directly. |
Christianity Etc › Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by LaExpert: 3:41pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Icecomrade: What would tame the complaints among abstinent pair?
Low libido caused by abstinence or lack of sexual exposure? Virtually everything in the quoted post has a solution, from low libido to weak erektion to quick expulsion. Low libido is more of a psychological issue besides, there are ways to increase libido. If I hit the gym with a first time gym user, I won't enjoy my workout session simply because I'll need to teach the newbie how to use the equipments... and he'll get better with time. If we're both newbies, we'll enjoy the session as our trainer will easily put us through. |
Christianity Etc › Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by LaExpert: 3:24pm On Aug 18, 2016*. Modified: 4:19pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Icecomrade: [b] Stories we get from "Abstinence teachings" on social Media.
1. Help!!! My husband has a small ddick. What should I do?
2. Help!!! My Husband is a 1 minute man. He cannot satisfy me in bed. What should I do?
3. Help!!! My Wife does not like sex, I am tempted to go outside. What should I do?
4. Help!!! My Husband touches me once in 6 months since after our marriage. What should I do?
5. Help!!! My wife cries each time we make love. I am even afraid to touch her. What should I do?
6. Help!!! My husband has a weak eerection. I don't feel his ddick inside me. What should I do?
7. Help My wife is not Good in bed. She lies like a lug of wood. I don't enjoy sex with her . What should I do?
When you refused to check what your buying before you pay, please don't come to me for any silly advice. I have stopped contributing on threads on such topics for a very long time now.
Sexual compatibility is key to a successful marriage.
Be wise + Be smart
[/b] These 'complaints' are usually heard when one party has been abstinent and the other has been exposed. You'll hardly hear all these from an abstinent pair. |
Christianity Etc › Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by LaExpert: 3:10pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Yes, it is realistic, possible and definitely the best option. |
Health › Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by LaExpert: 8:29am On Aug 18, 2016 |
Flexherbal: Those who seek the good of others, are always rewarded by God, man and nature. You will never lack help, in your times of need. Amen, thank you. ...and you too. |
Health › Re: Help!!! My Husband Is A One Minute Man, I Am Frustrated! by LaExpert: 8:16pm On Aug 17, 2016 |
teekol: Hello fellow nairalanders, I got married in January this year and I have not enjoyed my husband for once. I mean he is okay in other aspects but in the bedroom, he doesn't satisfy me . He barely lasts up to 5 minutes and it is really frustrating considering the fact that I have been in other relationships in the past and I know what a good sex feels like. My husband is tired , so am I. Anyone with a reasonable solution please?No insults, only reasonable comments. Thanks contact Flexherbal. I've heard lots of testimonies from people about him. |
Politics › Re: APC Government Already Covering Up Corruption Cases Like PDP – Falana by LaExpert: 8:41pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
Jascon4: Which exchange rate WU and MG dey use if somebody dey receive for Naija? If you're receiving it, you'll be paid the equivalent in Naira at the official exchange rate...unless you're receiving with a domiciliary account, you'll can get your foreign currency in your domiciliary account. |
Business › Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 5:09pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
Lukesmith: sorry to ask sir... Do you enjoy dashing out money? How can you play such long ticket with little odds? I believe you will learn the hard way someday and have nothing to do with little odds... I just couldn't bear not talking... Gambling is taking a risk but Punting is minimizing your risks... Those are two different things Different strokes for each person I guess. If the low odds acca works for him, why not? |
Politics › Re: APC Government Already Covering Up Corruption Cases Like PDP – Falana by LaExpert: 4:11pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
Jacko1: Nigeria half tire me Av tire The only good thing this govt has achieved is that naira have fall If person send you 100 dollars thru moneygram you know wetin e be.... almost 35000 naira walai talahi If them send you 100 pounds Chisosssss Chlist
Thank Jah say ma big bros dey obodo USA... If not how person for survive this bihari regime Lol.  Bro, you don't get... if your brother for Yankee send you $100 via moneygram or Western Union, you'll only receive between 19700NGN and 22000NGN...you can only get above that if it is sent through an E-Currency like skrill, netteller, payoneer etc. ...But if na you wan send $100, you go coff out 32K plus. |
Politics › Re: APC Government Already Covering Up Corruption Cases Like PDP – Falana by LaExpert: 4:03pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
Still on this budget padding issue?
Abeg, let's forget that matter. We all know the present administration and its agencies won't punish anyone. |
Politics › Re: Is Jonathan Or Buhari To Blame For Poor Economy? by LaExpert: 2:55pm On Aug 15, 2016 |
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Politics › Re: Under Jonathan, Nigeria Earned N51trillion From Crude Oil by LaExpert: 10:36am On Aug 15, 2016 |
Pidggin: Did you read the article or you are just forming ignorance? According to Vanguard 12 trillion of the 51trillion was paid to the oil producing regions as derivation funds.
The article States that 96 trillion was earned in 58 years and in 5 years out of it 51trillion was earned, how does this sound to you? In only 5years more than half of our entire earnings over 58 years was made? 
OK, assuming GEJ paid 12 trillion and the remnant is 35 trillion was this included in budget spending or excluded from it? And if it was excluded from it, we await actual evidence to show that it wasn't used to fund the budget or other capital expenditures.
We have gone beyond media judgement here, let's wait for actual evidence from parties involved.
NNPC will soon make their own statement on this. ivandragon: sometimes, we are just too sentimental on issues...
on your first point, if you a knowledgeable about revenue allocation in Nigeria, you would know that pre-1970, revenue was allocated on 50% basis, so why wasn't the North developed? or why isn't the SW London? or SE, UK? however, I agree with you that the states have to answer for most of their underdevelopment.
point 2, if you say the salaries at N150b pm is a scam, then you would agree that this govt are the bigger thieves by 'claiming' that the wage bill is over N165b pm? so who is fooling whom?
point 3, I don't understand you guys. he tried removing subsidy, you complained, he paid subsidy, you still complained. why not let him remove it? while I hold no forth for the high subsidy paid, you seem to not understand the economics behind the increase. things were good, people had money, bought cars, bought bigger generators, had money & reasons to move around more, you had more investors, investments which meant more demand for fuel.
point 4, yes it was much, but did you have scarcity of food even with the BH ravaging the North? also, the scam in the fertilizer subsidy was actually reduced contrary to your assertion. & how does fertilizer subsidy translate to mechanization please?
point 5, JVC scams, OK. agreed. but do a quick research on oil exploration funding (including the one ongoing in the North presently). if you agree that the one this administration is embarking on is a scam, then I concur with this your position.
point 6, why do you think the naira was floated? because it can not be defended anymore with scare dollars. hence you have business people sourcing it at higher rates which translates to higher cost of goods which is something we are presently suffering. or are you buying your goods at a reduced cost presently?
your last sentence gave you out as someone who doesn't respond well to points that contradict yours. am guessing you are one of the 'new breed' of Nigerians who drop insults at the drop of a hat (yes, I have read your previous posts & avoid commenting on your treads because you can be unreasonably rude).
however, with hardwork, Nigeria will get better. Sadly, many 'youths' are ill informed about the present Nigerian economy. Most of them just sentimentally and selectively believe whichever news crosses their way. |
Politics › Re: Under Jonathan, Nigeria Earned N51trillion From Crude Oil by LaExpert: 10:32am On Aug 15, 2016 |
dondo83: leave them, educative post that will enlighten the populace takes years to get to the front page, but if irrelevant post of snake killing, tonto dikes new watch and wizkids baby mama will be on the front page in minutes. ... The post is only educative with lies and sentiments. Most of the points in the whole article only aimed at criticizing only one administration of all the corrupt ones we've had from in over 55years. |
Politics › Re: Under Jonathan, Nigeria Earned N51trillion From Crude Oil by LaExpert: 10:25am On Aug 15, 2016 |
buharisbae: Lol which 8years the highest amount for our budget is/was 4tri so it will conveniently fund us for 12yrs+ How much was this year 'budget of change?' Just to start with. |
Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji Apologises To Mayowa Ahmed's Family: "#SaveMayowa Wasn't A Scam" by LaExpert: 1:41pm On Aug 14, 2016 |
Good gesture.
However, you had traffic and made money from the false news, your apology will be complete upon donating tangibly (even though the medical bill is complete) to the family and at least, paying them a visit.
If they had dragged you to court after the police clearance, you would have coughed out more money than what was originally needed for the surgery. |
Business › Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 5:31pm On Aug 13, 2016 |
akraym: i want to believe you guys are aware that the business section of nairaland is not the way it used to be in the past. It took a miracle before even this particular thread was reinstated after been deleted. I won't say more than that.
I still repeat if anyone does not see transparency in this year's PfP. Kindly withdraw. Hello, I believe you're also aware that most guys on this thread ain't kids. The reinstatement of this thread only shows the inefficiency and/or hypocrisy of the leadership of this forum...and that's the same problem with the country as a whole. If the thread is deleted, the forum owner loses. The questions I have hitherto observed are questions that can be easily answered with a 'yes,' 'no' or 'not yet' but it is nauseating to see the coordinators of the PFP avoid these simple questions and even going further to ask participants that are asking these questions to withdraw. For fairness, justice and equity, I'll advise you to settle any outstanding questions and state explicitly the rules again, and if there's any need for clarification, you can simply refer the persons to the page you've answered all questions. cc: Puskin, troot. |
Crime › Re: Okada Thief Burnt Alive In Cameroon By Angry Mob(Graphic Photos) by LaExpert: 5:27pm On Aug 10, 2016 |
veekid:
when will we start treating our politicians this way? Perhaps, when they start shooting bike owners and picking pockets. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Folayan Osekita Shades Adeboye: Praises Wife 'Who Can't Pray 2hrs Nonstop' by LaExpert: 4:41pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
AdiscoPele: Of all the disciples of Jesus Christ, only John does not have beards.
Jesus himself had beards.
Also, it is not until a woman prays hours non-stop before her prayers will/can be answered. It's the righteousness of the mind. This one don see Jesus and all him disciples oo.  Share some photos please.  |
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Blasts Adeboye Over Marriage Advice: U're A Lunatic & Trashy Man by LaExpert: 10:10am On Aug 04, 2016 |
wirinet: Gosh, are you sure you are literate or you allow hero worship to erode your reasoning faculty? So you do not know the difference between senility and lunacy. Let me give you the definition of senile;
Senility is a condition of old age, while lunacy is a mental disease. My great aunt became senile before she died last year at the age of 89, she could not even remember the names and faces of her own children. Saying someone is going senile due to old age is not an insult, especially if the person is speaking senselessly or incoherently.
If we do not understand the message of the speech, why not illuminate us by explaining it to logically to us. “Don’t marry a girl who is lazy! Don’t marry a girl who cannot cook, she needs to know how to do chores and cook because you cannot afford to be eating out all the time." The message above is clear enough for anyone with a reasonable comprehension ability to understand; don't marry a lazy girl/lady. Is your reasoning ability too poor to comprehend that? Many men often complain of having to eat outside all the time simply because the lazy women the married cannot cook and are even unwilling to learn. Is that the part that is too hard for you to grasp? Yuck!! How is that useful advice senseless or incoherent? Or how will a senile man give such useful piece of advice? Do you want him to advise men to marry lazy women who cannot cook? Or perhaps, you think everyone you don't agree with is senile like your aunt? I really think you're the senile one here. |
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Blasts Adeboye Over Marriage Advice: U're A Lunatic & Trashy Man by LaExpert: 6:35am On Aug 04, 2016 |
wirinet: Kemi Olunloyo should not be publicly insulting an old man old enough to be his father, that is very uncouth and un African, but having said that, i think daddy GO is getting senile ( probably due to old age), he needs to retire and allow young fresh brains carry on from where he has taken the RGGG. His sermons and advises nowadays are senseless, the other day he was comparing men that keep beards to Gorilla, forgeting that in the bible holy men were forbidden from cutting their hairs, now he is advising couples not to get married based on love but purely on materialistic considerations. He has forgotten that most men has faced joblessness at one point in their lives and not all women can cook well while still in their parent's house. My wife learnt to cook after i married her, intact, it was my family and i that taught her to cook our traditional dishes. A pastor should be teaching love in marriage and love in general, without love a relationship cannot last despite all the material things in the world. You have gone against your own advice for Kemi, you're not different from the insane and uncouth Kemi. You are publicly saying a man who's old enough to be your Father...probably grandfather is senile and declaring that his sermons are senseless simply because you can't understand the message in his speech. |
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Blasts Adeboye Over Marriage Advice: U're A Lunatic & Trashy Man by LaExpert: 6:26am On Aug 04, 2016 |
Nne5: Lol
Even though i don't agree with the pastor's views this woman IMO, needs cowect brain resetting slap. 
Her own haff too much abeg. What's wrong with the pastor's view? Do you want him to advise men to marry a woman that cannot cook? Or to advise women to marry a man that has no steady income source? As for Kemi, every sane person should have known she's a loose in-house lunatic... and if they don't, they should know by now. |
Politics › Re: Naval Officer Slaps NURTW Official In Lagos. Photos by LaExpert: 7:02pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
Originalsly: The naval officer was only trying to make peace between the driver and the official....but he was attacked by the official.... what should he do?.... smile and collect slaps? We'll read later about the backlash the driver would receive. The simple thing the so called Naval Officer would have just done is to ask the driver to pay his dues. |
Politics › Re: Naval Officer Slaps NURTW Official In Lagos. Photos by LaExpert: 6:58pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
sekundosekundo: Pls tell your people to go to the parks and be collecting there dues not on the highway. How do you want defaulters to be handled? There are better ways than collecting on roads though. If a company does not remit its tax to FIRS, FIRS officials will visit the defaulting company in its registered address. |
Politics › Re: Naval Officer Slaps NURTW Official In Lagos. Photos by LaExpert: 6:54pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
olagamalin: Can someone help me here .... Is NURTW a legal body empowered by law to collect dues from transporters....or is it that a norm have been ignored so long that it's termed normal ...Or is it cos of obvious political considerations that we have allowed this anomaly to fester.
That been said .... The antics used by these overzealous and terribly uncouth thugs is worth stating. It's only normal that one day (or the other ).....the unlucky ones will meet their comeuppance. Yes, NURTW is a legal union in Nigeria. All unions collect dues from its members. |
Politics › Re: Naval Officer Slaps NURTW Official In Lagos. Photos by LaExpert: 6:53pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
Horsesmouth: What is NURTW? Are their collections on the Approved Taxes & Levies Act?
Their underground tax collection is eroding the nation of IGR amounting to billions per month. The FG is turning a blind eye simply because they use them for elections and they are yoruba.
But they can use air raids and bomb Ijaw pipeline vandals in Ogun Creeks under the guise that they are bleeding the economy.
If you compare IGR losses to NURTW with losses to pipeline vandalisation you will realise that NURTW costs more. You should know that union members are expected to pay some form of dues, regardless of the type of union. |
Politics › Re: Naval Officer Slaps NURTW Official In Lagos. Photos by LaExpert: 6:27pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
Cutehector: And someone is saying it's legal for youths to become "touts"
Well I laff at his mindset.
When some youths have won't go find something worthy to do, they are now priding demselves to be collecting money from those dat are hustling. Bro, you don't get...this NURTW official is not just collecting money for himself, he's doing what the union asked him to do. That's his own duty. The Naval officer was wrong to harass him, the driver knew the right thing to do, yet, he did not because a 'staff' was in his bus. |
Crime › Re: Two Criminals Burnt By FUTO Students In Owerri [see Photos] by LaExpert: 4:16pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]CRIME DOES NOT PAY!!!
i supprt the eradication of crime through any means possible. police would only collect bribe and set them free. 
NAIRALANDERS PLEASE CHECK MY SIGNATURE!!! [/color] Seconded! |
Culture › Re: Yoruba Words And Phrases That Has Gone Global!!(interesting) by LaExpert: 9:47pm On Jul 26, 2016 |
Adagba01: This writer is half-truthful cos many words here were copied from Hausa language. In everyday activities, Yorubas can't stop using many phases derived from Hausa language...ALUBARIKA, SERIKI, etc. All from the Arabic language, adopted by Hausas and Yorubas. There's no fuss about that. |
Education › Re: UNILAG Releases 2016 Screening Guidelines by LaExpert: 9:33pm On Jul 26, 2016 |
iambabaG: With 200 and above? Screening candidates that were sent there for consideration?? Seriously They definitely have to screen. They can't even possibly take everyone that had 200+, not to talk of those that had below...those ones are ineligible. |
Crime › Re: Man Burnt In Okigwe For Stealing Motorcycle by LaExpert: 8:50pm On Jul 26, 2016 |
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Business › Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 8:04am On Jul 24, 2016 |
Babzrockman: Time without numbers ...and will you recommend them in terms of payout? |
Business › Re: Football (+Other Sports) Betting Season 10 by LaExpert: 7:40am On Jul 24, 2016 |
Babzrockman: 9japredict is better You probably have never made a payout from them. |