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aaronson: Age is mere number when a guy isn't physically and mentally fit to face life by himself not to talk about splitting from his family,he had better remain with his family instead of constituting nuisance in the street.

freshboi34: Fink d hadith iz buttressing on how dey fink wil make dem more pious to allah..I stand to b corrected..

NEROSKY: If you see the possibility that he/she can't keep the relationship or are not relationship/marriage material, why the hesitation? Call it a quit, buh if both of you are good together like bread & butter, why considering the history Wetin concern bicycle with filling station...

lanrexlan: Muslims are encouraged to get married.According to the sayings of prophet Muhammad(pbuh).It is narrated on the authority of Anas bin Malik(May Allah be pleased with him):A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet(pbuh) asking how the Prophet worshipped (Allah),and when they were informed about that,they considered their worship insufficient and said, "Where are we from the Prophet as his past and future sins have been forgiven."
Then one of them said, "I will offer the prayer throughout the night forever." The other said,"I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast." The third said, "I will keep away from the women and will not marry forever."
Allah's Apostle came to them and said, "Are you the same people who said so-and-so? By Allah,I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you;yet I fast and break my fast,I do sleep and I also marry women.So he who does not follow my tradition in religion,is not from me (not one of my followers)[Sahih Al Bukhari Volume 7,Book 62,Hadith Number 1]

Narrated 'Abdullah(May Allah be pleased with him):We were with the Prophet(pbuh) while we were young and had no wealth whatever.So Allah's Apostle(pbuh) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry,should marry because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.),and whoever is not able to marry,should fast as fasting diminishes his sexual power[Sahih Al-Bukhari,Volume 7,Book 62,Hadith Number 4]
According to Sufyân Ibn Uyaynah (May Allah have Mercy on him),he said:The most nimble of creatures still have need of a voice.The cleverest women still need to have a husband,and the cleverest man still needs to consult wise men.

Brimmie: #AnambraDecides
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deols: The idea of trashing people's posts and looking for loopholes is what is wrong here.

Nigerians generally believe that mental issues have to do with the devil. It then becomes very easy to attribute the wind blow to her condition.

It may not be related at all.

If you work in a hospital setting, you would be familiar with cases like this.

If someone falls and then develops hematoma. It could be that they had an aneurysm which bursted after which they fell. Or they could have fallen and afterwards, aneurysm bursts.

Now does it matter which came first, anymore?

what matters is that this woman is not normal. @Op, make sure the right medical attention is sought. If the woman is found to be having a mental issue of a genetic origin, reassess your relationship with her child.

baba11: We engineers should think out of the box.Little thing we take for granted counts a lot.Most of my friends did their IT for money sakes whereas they would have used such period to train themselves and gather experience.My fellow engineers,dont lose hope;our future's bright.Can anybody has ever think about the amount of opportunities that await us in the newly privatized moribund PHCN?

ifyalways: Okiez.We are fine dear. Thank you
@OP, so what's the problem? She fell down and might have hurt herself,internally or physical wounds. Why get overtly superstitious?

chaircover: I think he meant fell down

Long time no read how are you and yours