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Remain or Separate (not Divorce) are your only options as you keep your focus on Christ; You're too attached to your husband, that attachment should spur out of your attachment to Christ. |
missrosey:100% See stress now. Just because of 2 mins pleasure and when you're not a master at withdrawal method or just better still use a damn rubber; STD dey now. Before i repented, and started working with GOD, i used to use a rubber and still withdraw. If i no get GOD, at least get common sense. But abstinence is just the key. You even have a wife, what about us single men. You couldn't wait till you return and knock yourself out silly with your wife. |
i suspect fraud. 1. Repent and i hope you've learnt your lesson. 2. Wait to see inflammation of the size of her tummy 3. Be willing to fly down to take a DNA test of the child in a reputable medical private firm. But you have to be discreet about going about that: a. Don't tell her when you're coming to Nigeria or where you're lodging b. Find a reputable DNA diagnostics firm. c. Go there and set up an appointment d. Call her a night before, tell her you're in Nigeria, and you've made an appointment for a DNA test, give her the time e. If the result proves its your child, its your responsibility. Or better still, Fly down, get a doctor to help take a blood sample of the child, put it in a container and fly back and test it in the UK, if you are not confiden in the integrity of our medical firms here. Anyways, you're not from Nigeria, if you're white, its not hard to tell. All in all, i suspect fraud. For her to have joked about something like that, it initially was a trial and error stunt; its suspicious its been in the pipeline all along. And then also before you could say Jack Robinson, she already shoots you with a fly abroad work scheme, without even seeing any physical signs of pregnancy. I believe she really wants to leave this Country using you as the bridge. Smh. |
lol...see branding and motivational quote to top it up |
The day i was reassured of my general principle never to spend money on anyone except an amount I can forfeit especially on women was when a lady friend of mine who likes me, (though im not interested in her) and earns more than me, told me she will take me out to an eatery, till now, its become like a poem in my ear...she said it with her own mouth...but I can't count how many times I've taken her out to eat without even thinking about it. Anytime, she says it, i will just say ok. But till today she's still struggling to part away with a few notes. Another lady, we met for the 1st time and decided to hang out. Went to the mall, bought her ice cream, she wanted to pay, i said never mind, I'll pay and stuff. She said she would buy me shawarma with her own mouth, i didn't expect it but i said ok. Was surprised when she ordered the sharwama, and only came with one, and told me next time. Me, I'm a man of my word, I can't do that. If i said i will get you something, i would. I felt disappointed, not over the sharwama (sharwama ain't my problem), it just showed she lacked integrity and self-respect. Little things like that speak volume |
When would men learn, you only spend the money you can forfeit on women without feeling any loss. Especially women. Right now, the money i can spend and forfeit on a woman without feeling anything is to take her to an Amala Joint to eat Amala and Gbegiri, max I'll spend on us both is 2k, if we need to hangout. Anything higher than that, i spend on myself or my loved ones or on the poor and needy. And pls learn to say NO, that word doesn't bite. No, this is what i can afford or i just don't want to waste my money but you really owe no one any explanation though...if she leaves, then you would have been grateful for not getting into the situation your currently in. Be true to yourself. |
sparko1:i want to frame this comment and hang it in my parlor. |
i just want my peace of mind. As i dey like this, 36 to be 37 in Sept, i no go sike myself say i no dey ok as a single guy make i try marriage say i go dey better. Baba, i thank GOD i dey ok. If e come, i see better person, fine. But e never come, i dey ok. I dey at peace right now, its not 100% perfect but is wey better than days with my ex, why i won gamble am |
This can't be Naija now |
You can revoke the belt, but can you revoke the skill acquired? |
Money is a double-edged sword; it can be a blessing or a curse. |
Where in the Bible did you see any title called 'Junior Pastor'? And where in the Bible did you see any of the Apostle or Church leader's wife lead the Church? Are you sure you're in the Church that JESUS started? |
Lukewarm Christians, and we know lukewarm christians ain't christians. |
Me, i no send you. I dey confirm my own |
they are asking those that returned not you thats dreaming to japa for your opinion. We know given Canoe � and Gala you will not waste time to Japa |
Congratulations! Your adversary revealed she never loved you; You were both swimming in an illusion of love |
Whats all this childish chase for clout! ![]() |
Why do guys find it difficult to just stand up and say bye, in such situations. Say you're no longer interested. She's just one in an Ocean. But No, they will still stay to see if there's still hope not knowing red flags are fundamental matters. |
Stupid Marriage......Mschewww |
A woman that has a fling; hows that a good woman? Stop all these motivational speeches, call a spade a spade, then work on it from there. |
No one can name this animal or even curious to know its name, all they know is meat don land; African mentality. |
AGF is just speaking plenty grammar...just say you're still in discussions with the FBI and studying findings, simple and short, its not a political campaign manifesto. |
simple! Turn it back to her before the Camera nah...Mscew! |
Gluttony: inconsiderately begging me for food all the time even when i haven't eaten and I'm busy. Her stomach was her god. |
Why tellest thou us? |
How many times? |
if he were a knowledgeable Christian, he should know he's not permitted to divorce, but to separate. Save himself lawyer fees and just separate. GOD hates divorce. Plus remain single while separated. If he feels the need for a woman in his life, then be reconciled to her. |
I think its because they come out more respectful and submissive. You know what the Bible says: Knowledge (Education) puffs up; makes people proud �. |
That you even thought of such a thing baffles me. Smh ![]() Its even out of place to be entertaining him in your house, as what? and you should have notified your sister after rejecting and warning him from coming. Do what is right. If you're lonely, look for whats yours, men haven't finished on the Earth. This is logically, morally and scripturally wrong. |
i hope he repented before he died |
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