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FamilyRe: How Do I Deal With An Emotionally Cheating Husband by LaJoe2: 2:11pm On Apr 01, 2022
Remain or Separate (not Divorce) are your only options as you keep your focus on Christ; You're too attached to your husband, that attachment should spur out of your attachment to Christ.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by LaJoe2: 10:55am On Apr 01, 2022
missrosey:
Do you know that the inability to stay faithful to your marital vows is a sign of weakness?

"Body no be firewood" has caused so much destruction for a lot of people, married and unmarried, here and in eternity.

It's just a pity.
100%
See stress now. Just because of 2 mins pleasure and when you're not a master at withdrawal method or just better still use a damn rubber; STD dey now.
Before i repented, and started working with GOD, i used to use a rubber and still withdraw. If i no get GOD, at least get common sense.
But abstinence is just the key.
You even have a wife, what about us single men. You couldn't wait till you return and knock yourself out silly with your wife.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Sent Me Pregnancy Results And Ask Me To Fund Her Trip To UK by LaJoe2: 10:48am On Apr 01, 2022
i suspect fraud.
1. Repent and i hope you've learnt your lesson.

2. Wait to see inflammation of the size of her tummy

3. Be willing to fly down to take a DNA test of the child in a reputable medical private firm. But you have to be discreet about going about that:
a. Don't tell her when you're coming to Nigeria or where you're lodging

b. Find a reputable DNA diagnostics firm.

c. Go there and set up an appointment

d. Call her a night before, tell her you're in Nigeria, and you've made an appointment for a DNA test, give her the time

e. If the result proves its your child, its your responsibility.

Or better still,

Fly down, get a doctor to help take a blood sample of the child, put it in a container and fly back and test it in the UK, if you are not confiden in the integrity of our medical firms here.

Anyways, you're not from Nigeria, if you're white, its not hard to tell.

All in all, i suspect fraud. For her to have joked about something like that, it initially was a trial and error stunt; its suspicious its been in the pipeline all along.

And then also before you could say Jack Robinson, she already shoots you with a fly abroad work scheme, without even seeing any physical signs of pregnancy.
I believe she really wants to leave this Country using you as the bridge. Smh.
PoliticsRe: Dominic Joshua: SFU Secures Interim Forfeiture Of 14 Properties Worth N15m by LaJoe2: 8:03pm On Mar 31, 2022
lol...see branding and motivational quote to top it up
RomanceRe: Man Shares Heartbreaking Experience With Girlfriend Of 5 Years by LaJoe2:
The day i was reassured of my general principle never to spend money on anyone except an amount I can forfeit especially on women was when a lady friend of mine who likes me, (though im not interested in her) and earns more than me, told me she will take me out to an eatery, till now, its become like a poem in my ear...she said it with her own mouth...but I can't count how many times I've taken her out to eat without even thinking about it. Anytime, she says it, i will just say ok. But till today she's still struggling to part away with a few notes.

Another lady, we met for the 1st time and decided to hang out. Went to the mall, bought her ice cream, she wanted to pay, i said never mind, I'll pay and stuff. She said she would buy me shawarma with her own mouth, i didn't expect it but i said ok. Was surprised when she ordered the sharwama, and only came with one, and told me next time. Me, I'm a man of my word, I can't do that. If i said i will get you something, i would. I felt disappointed, not over the sharwama (sharwama ain't my problem), it just showed she lacked integrity and self-respect. Little things like that speak volume
RomanceRe: Man Shares Heartbreaking Experience With Girlfriend Of 5 Years by LaJoe2: 6:35pm On Mar 31, 2022
When would men learn, you only spend the money you can forfeit on women without feeling any loss. Especially women.

Right now, the money i can spend and forfeit on a woman without feeling anything is to take her to an Amala Joint to eat Amala and Gbegiri, max I'll spend on us both is 2k, if we need to hangout. Anything higher than that, i spend on myself or my loved ones or on the poor and needy.

And pls learn to say NO, that word doesn't bite. No, this is what i can afford or i just don't want to waste my money but you really owe no one any explanation though...if she leaves, then you would have been grateful for not getting into the situation your currently in.
Be true to yourself.
RomanceRe: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by LaJoe2: 9:55am On Mar 29, 2022
sparko1:
The bolded should tell you something, hardly you find a MARRIED MAN OF 80Yrs, MOST MARRIED MEN DIE BEFORE THEIR 7OTH BIRTHDAY.

But if you can make you 50s without trouble from a woman, there is a greater chance you will get to 80 before you kick the bucket, forget the stories of your children will be young at that age, because the truth is, if you don't have money to take care of your children, giving birth to them early just means, they get to dig your grave early, they will become trouble for your day and night and when on your dying bed, you will be surprised, you haven't lived a fulfilled life.

So tell me, why do I a 32 year old man, should think of getting married?

Have you ever thought about this, until a man is finicially capable of living an enjoyeable life, nobody talks about marriage, the moment, he's living a two bedroom flat, has a car, get to send money home, everyone wants him to get married, why? its seems the idea is this, a man is not supposed to he happy for too long, the moment he is happy for 1,2 years, they want him to add some suffering to his life, because it makes no sense for a man to be happy or maybe the society views the idea of a man being always happy as an issue that can propel him into greater things, and they just don't want that, they want him to come down to the level of everyday complain. Just my observation.
i want to frame this comment and hang it in my parlor.
RomanceRe: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by LaJoe2: 4:43pm On Mar 26, 2022
i just want my peace of mind. As i dey like this, 36 to be 37 in Sept, i no go sike myself say i no dey ok as a single guy make i try marriage say i go dey better. Baba, i thank GOD i dey ok. If e come, i see better person, fine. But e never come, i dey ok.
I dey at peace right now, its not 100% perfect but is wey better than days with my ex, why i won gamble am
CrimeRe: Kenyan Man Sets Himself Ablaze Inside His Car After Wife Failed To Return Home by LaJoe2: 12:09pm On Mar 14, 2022
This can't be Naija now
Foreign AffairsRe: Vladimir Putin's Black Belt Revoked By International Taekwondo Organization by LaJoe2: 2:01pm On Mar 01, 2022
You can revoke the belt, but can you revoke the skill acquired?
PoliticsRe: Pictures: Akinwumi Ambode Last Social Outing by LaJoe2: 8:35am On Feb 21, 2022
Money is a double-edged sword; it can be a blessing or a curse.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastors Wife Or Junior Pastor, who should be in charge? by LaJoe2: 6:38am On Feb 21, 2022
Where in the Bible did you see any title called 'Junior Pastor'?

And where in the Bible did you see any of the Apostle or Church leader's wife lead the Church?

Are you sure you're in the Church that JESUS started?
Christianity EtcRe: Donnie McClurkin Calls Super Bowl Halftime Performance "Absolutely Fantastic" by LaJoe2: 12:52pm On Feb 20, 2022
Lukewarm Christians, and we know lukewarm christians ain't christians.
BusinessRe: Is There Any Need To Confirm Cash After ATM Dispensary? by LaJoe2: 5:33pm On Feb 19, 2022
Me, i no send you. I dey confirm my own
TravelRe: Nigerians Who Left America And Moved Back To Nigeria, Do You Regret It? by LaJoe2: 11:57am On Feb 17, 2022
they are asking those that returned not you thats dreaming to japa for your opinion. We know given Canoe � and Gala you will not waste time to Japa
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Refused To Visit Me While I Was In Prison After All I Did For Her! by LaJoe2: 11:28am On Feb 17, 2022
Congratulations! Your adversary revealed she never loved you; You were both swimming in an illusion of love
CelebritiesRe: Chacha Eke Twerks For Her Husband, Austin Faani On Valentine's Day (Video) by LaJoe2: 9:54am On Feb 17, 2022
Whats all this childish chase for clout! angry
RomanceRe: Bro Code: How Do I Report This Guy To His Manager? (Screenshot) by LaJoe2:
Why do guys find it difficult to just stand up and say bye, in such situations. Say you're no longer interested. She's just one in an Ocean.
But No, they will still stay to see if there's still hope not knowing red flags are fundamental matters.
FamilyRe: My Mother In-law Is Doing This , And She Is Pushing Me !!! by LaJoe2: 3:12pm On Feb 14, 2022
Stupid Marriage......Mschewww
RomanceRe: Men, Do Not Lose A Good Woman!!! by LaJoe2: 7:16am On Feb 13, 2022
A woman that has a fling; hows that a good woman?
Stop all these motivational speeches, call a spade a spade, then work on it from there.
Science/TechnologyRe: Rusty-Spotted Genet: Checkout The Scary Animal I Killed Last Night (Photos) by LaJoe2: 5:24pm On Feb 09, 2022
No one can name this animal or even curious to know its name, all they know is meat don land; African mentality.
PoliticsRe: FG, US Discussing Extradition Of Abba Kyari Over Hushpuppi - Malami by LaJoe2: 10:56pm On Feb 07, 2022
AGF is just speaking plenty grammar...just say you're still in discussions with the FBI and studying findings, simple and short, its not a political campaign manifesto.
CrimeRe: Ghanaian Man Accused Of Turning A Lady Into A Snake (Video) by LaJoe2: 7:25pm On Jan 30, 2022
simple! Turn it back to her before the Camera nah...Mscew!
RomanceRe: What Killed Your Feelings For Someone You Were Madly In Love With? by LaJoe2: 9:39am On Jan 26, 2022
Gluttony: inconsiderately begging me for food all the time even when i haven't eaten and I'm busy. Her stomach was her god.
PhonesRe: Just Got Myself A Brand New Phone...What Do You Think? by LaJoe2: 8:59am On Jan 25, 2022
Why tellest thou us?
CelebritiesRe: Davido & Wizkid Hug And Party At Quilox Club As They Settle Their Beef (Video) by LaJoe2: 3:37pm On Jan 22, 2022
How many times?
FamilyRe: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by LaJoe2: 12:03pm On Jan 22, 2022
if he were a knowledgeable Christian, he should know he's not permitted to divorce, but to separate.
Save himself lawyer fees and just separate.
GOD hates divorce.
Plus remain single while separated. If he feels the need for a woman in his life, then be reconciled to her.
RomanceRe: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by LaJoe2: 9:03am On Jan 22, 2022
I think its because they come out more respectful and submissive. You know what the Bible says: Knowledge (Education) puffs up; makes people proud �.
RomanceRe: Should I Accept My Sister's Husbands Marriage Proposal? by LaJoe2: 8:57am On Jan 22, 2022
That you even thought of such a thing baffles me. Smh angry
Its even out of place to be entertaining him in your house, as what? and you should have notified your sister after rejecting and warning him from coming.

Do what is right. If you're lonely, look for whats yours, men haven't finished on the Earth.

This is logically, morally and scripturally wrong.
CelebritiesRe: Meat Loaf Dies At Age 74 by LaJoe2: 2:15pm On Jan 21, 2022
i hope he repented before he died
EducationRe: Lady Shows Off Impressive Legwork Dance As She Graduates From University (video) by LaJoe2: 8:04pm On Jan 18, 2022
franklingud:
Maybe it's what she learnt in school cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
grin grin grin
FamilyRe: I Am Tired Of My Wife by LaJoe2: 7:46pm On Jan 18, 2022
55k shocked , is that in Naira or Dollars?

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