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![]() freeborn02:Oga! Carry you judgement Comot for here |
Agbado and cassava |
Local rice they were selling for between 10-15k per 50kg bag in 2017 skyrocketed to over 28k in 2019 & currently selling at 38-49k Truth is, many Nigerians are not really angry about corruption and stealing of public funds, they're only angry that they're not the ones benefiting from the corruption. |
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WOMEN It depends on the person. Frugal people save money and it is not a characteristic limited to one gender. Different gender experience different expenses, generally speaking. It is difficult to compare expenses since it is relative even within genders. However, most would agree that men generally spend more over a lifetime in general unless they prefer to stay single, never married and celibate. Here's my reasoning: Men buy things for men and women buy things for women. But men are expected to also buy more things and more expensive things for women relatively speaking. The average man tends to be the one to initiate dates and pays for them. The average Nigerian has about 100 dates over a lifetime. Once he finally gets it going serious, there is even more expenses. Kudos to women that insist on 50/50 all the way. It tends to be difficult to find one that is happily married. A woman usually expects maintenance costs and dating costs. Even for a relatively frugal and egalitarian relationship I currently am in, that still runs up to 15% of my paycheck with measly rental income and I usually split with my fiancé. He gets unhappy, even though his understanding when I can't pay for certain things. He's is most happy when I buy things out of the blue for him, though he makes much more than me right now as a 6-figure salary software developer. Birthday gifts, anniversary, Christmas, ringa, girlfriend day, Valentine's Day - all expected that you pay. Even so called modern women will never go below 50/50 unless under extremely dire circumstances and will never reimburse you. It's considered a gift. Of course, a man can shun cultural influences and so can a woman. But I've rarely seen a truly 50/50 case where both sides are happy over the long term. Men tend to buy expensive gadgets, watches, cars, tailored suits. Men are also expected to pay the bills in most countries. Studies have shown that truly 50/50 egalitarian households fare worse than 60/40 and 100/0 in terms of long term happiness. So men tend to have to pay more. The courts tend to favor women to have the man pay alimony - at least 50% of his paycheck and likely more! Considering that there is more than a 50% chance of divorce, I'd say men have it worse, risk adjusted. Women buy makeup, personal, fashion, accessories, hygiene, haircuts, and such. I get it. However, it depends how the individual spends on it. My fiancée saves a lot on these and it costs pretty close to my expenses. But 50% of your paycheck far exceeds that in most cases. |
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Words of encouragement to those who feel like giving up Hey there, champions of resilience! Life is an unpredictable journey, filled with twists, turns, and unexpected challenges. But remember, it's these very challenges that shape us into the incredible beings we are meant to become. When faced with disappointments, setbacks, or hurdles, don't let them define your path. Each obstacle is an opportunity for growth, learning, and transformation. The road to success isn't always smooth, but it's the bumps and bruises that make the victory all the more triumphant. There was a time I got rejected at interviews, there was other times where I dictated what my salary should be. Missed a few opportunities, maximized the subsequent ones. Failed a few exams, turned out that the failure propelled me to succeed more. Take a moment to reflect on all the times you've faced adversity and emerged stronger. Those moments of doubt and uncertainty were just stepping stones to your greatness. Believe in your abilities, tap into your inner reservoir of strength, and keep pushing forward. Visualize your ultimate goal with unwavering clarity. Envision the taste of victory, the sweet accomplishment of your dreams. Hold onto that vision as a guiding star, and let it fuel your determination to overcome any obstacle in your path. You are a champion! |
How To Reply To A Job Rejection Email. Who doesn’t dread the rejection email that comes after having an interview? 🥲 While it’s better to receive a notice rather than being ghosted, being rejected for a job opportunity can be disheartening. 💔 However, it’s important to not allow your temporary depression or sadness at the moment affect your drive to find another opportunity that better fits you. So, before hitting the delete button, think about the possible benefits of sending back a quick response. Here’s an example you can tailor in response to a rejection email👇 Dear Charles, Thank you for letting me know of your decision. And thank you also for taking the time to meet with me – it really was a pleasure to learn more about the role and the company. Of course it’s disappointing for me to see this opportunity pass. But following discussions with you and your colleagues, as well as my prior research, I remain convinced that XYZ is the company for me. As your team continues to grow to meet the challenges ahead, I would be grateful if you would give consideration to my profile when looking to fill future roles. I will also keep a regular eye on your website for new vacancies. Please don’t feel obliged (as I know you have a lot on your plate), but if you are able to share some brief thoughts on what I could do differently to secure a different outcome in my next application I would be most grateful. It’s been great to meet you and the team, and I’d love to stay in touch. Thanks again, and best wishes for you and your new hire. |
NEUDUDE:So, you haven't experienced true friendship? |
HUSTLER001:Do you have an experience of when you realize you had a true friend? If she please share |
Zigzagman:Share your experience of when you realize you had a true friend and lo share another experience when you realize you had an enemy as a friend. Thank you |
A growing Pentecostal Church in Lagos is seeking to employ suitable and God fearing Individual to fill the vacant position position below: Job Title: Church Administrator / Accountant Location: Lagos Qualifications Candidate must possess a B.Sc / OND from a reputable Institution Must be a chartered accountant with a minimum of 3 years' experience and must be a married man. Skills needed: General Administration Payroll and Taxes Keeping of Accounting records and books Knowledge in Quick Books Accounting Software Good communication skills Leadership abilities Ability to work with little or no supervision Must be filled with the Holy Spirit. Must be called to ministry, with ministry experience Application Closing Date 30.08.23 Salary #400,000 How to Apply Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: etukisraelsolomon@gmail.com using the Job Title as the subject of the email. Note: For more enquiries, please contact the recruiter on: 08162644076 |
True friends are a gift 🎁 I recall when I last everything as a result of BUHARI economic conditions, I lost money, the lady took me in, house me, fed me and did not allow me pay any utilities bill, it was from there I got am apartment and started life. Frenemies experience I had a friend whom I told her everything about me and my secrets, she sold me out for 5k to a toxic man. This was someone that we spent my man's money together, how much he gives and how we spend his money. Share your experience |
From DM Dear Careerlanders, |
From DM Imet this guy sometimes last year. It took me 6mnths before I finally accepted to date him, at first I was not really in love but gradually I began to love him beyond measure. Truth is I never asked him for anything instead I was the one spending for him...despite how he treated me I still endured..most times I go on my knees for hours begging before he finally forgives me for wat I don't even kno I did wrong..... |
Bro you've explained everything to him. The next step is to resign and get another company to offer your professional service. These business owners need to go and do short course on compliance. An Accountant can prepare a financial statement but an Auditor prepares Audited Financial Statement by auditing the financial statement that was prepared by an Accountant |
Four Stages of Elimination in Life |
Ask for your Salary Breakdown When given an Offer. Do not let anyone use Gross salary to deceive you, you will receive heartbreak at the end of the month when you eventually get paid. When negotiating your offer, tell HR to show you the salary breakdown. I was once given an Offer out of excitement I took the offer without asking for my salary breakdown, and upon receiving my first month's salary N75,000 was deducted from my salary, I went to meet the accountant to give me my salary breakdown and he refused. I kept pressing for them to give it to me and by the time he did, he just wrote down the net salary. If you are not hiding anything from me it is difficult for you to let me have my payslip or show me what the salary breakdown is. For a better understanding below is what a generic Salary Breakdown looks like: Gross Salary: xxxxxxxx Basic Salary: xxxxxxxxx Housing Allowance: xxxxxxxx Transportation Allowance: xxxxxxxxx Utility Allowance: xxxxxxxx Leave Allowance: xxxxx (if any not all organisations give this) Other Allowance:xxxxxxx (most times not taxable) Employee Pension: xxxxxxx PAYE: xxxxxx 13th Month: xxxxxx (if any) Net Salary: xxxxxxx By the time you sum it, they should all add up if an amount is missing ensure to ask the HR questions about it. While we aim at adding value to an organization we earn a living, we should not be cheated while at it. May bro Bernard not be your portion 🤐🤐🤐 |
MrJames007:it's obvious she looking for sex tonight |
The girl on blue is not putting any panties on! Damnit girls sef |
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Urbaninspire:Which of the hepatitis? |
Weak attempt for Nigeria number 18, she should have passed the ball |
Another block |
Almost a goal for. Nigeria |
Onomonu in on the action |
Update! Third goal for Australia Double substitution Monday gift finally in Onomonu in |
As it stands ow we would meet England in the knock out stage |
BronzeTiger:Same thing here o |
*Financial Reporting Analyst* 4yrs and above experience Big 4 or Asset Management/Investment Banking industry experience is highly desirable Must be ACA/ACCA Qualified Pay 500k plus net. I’ll be happy to receive qualified CVs via DM on telegram to @LorenzoBanks |
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