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Family › Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by lavylilly(op): 4:41pm On Aug 17, 2023

Mosba:
Mine allows me once in 2-3 weeks, the rest time always complain she is tired and going on about how she hates sex and how always painful is sex for her. If I can get a reliable extra partner, I'm open to relationship now. I never wanted it but I can feel the sadness of not having easy access to my wife is killing me gradually.

Drop your mail ets talk

Family › Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by lavylilly(op): 4:40pm On Aug 17, 2023

gassbee:
I dont know d type of demon dat reduces ladies sexual drive after they give birth

Career › Re: Jobs City by lavylilly(op): 3:20pm On Aug 17, 2023

Open Interview at Multichoice Nigeria (DStv) tomorrow

Role: Customer Service Representative (Intern)

Requirement:

Strictly ND Holders. Come along with your CV

Venue: 5a, Acme road, opposite APC secretariat, Ogba, Ikeja

Date: 18-08-2023

Romance › Re: A Note To Young Men. by lavylilly(op): 2:23pm On Aug 17, 2023

Olachase:
Instead of me to fall in love I rather fall asleep

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: A Strange Way I Landed A Job by lavylilly: 2:22pm On Aug 17, 2023

Skyview01:
Thank you for that piece.

Family › Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by lavylilly(op): 2:21pm On Aug 17, 2023

BarrElChapo:
Say no to plagiarism lavylilly... If you want to be noticed go and a do a cook-athon or something, don't stoop so low recycling posts from Nairaland.

I am NL's payroll. Keep quiet and sip milk

Family › Re: How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by lavylilly(op): 2:20pm On Aug 17, 2023

Komu1048:
Me e don reach about 2months I touch my wife now. I never win contract or have a major business deal. How my preeq go take stand wen thinking wan kee me

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: A Strange Way I Landed A Job by lavylilly: 3:30pm On Aug 16, 2023

negativity that comes with social media, you might not believe this, but in this present age and time, some people still avoid social media, some claimed social media is a waste of time while others say it is a threat to their security.

For Shanee Moret, her mobile phone, social media influence and her ability to think outside the box helped her secure her first job without the years of experience needed for the role.

She shared her story in a LinkedIn post. I hope her story will inspire you.

Her story below;

"I just graduated. I need a job. But I needed 2-3 years of work experience to get an entry-level job. It was so frustrating!

I didn't complain, I focused on what I had. Writing skills. A degree. A cellphone. And I knew who was hiring.

Here's what I did next...

I picked the company I wanted to work for. I did research. I called them. I told them I wanted to feature them in an article for the college.

They were open to it. We scheduled a time where I could interview the manager.

I dressed in a suit. I brought my resume and a notepad. I had a list of questions prepared.

I walked in 15 minutes early, shook her hand firmly, smiled and began the interview.

Throughout the interview, I asked questions about the company. The culture. Her vision.

I asked about student opportunity. Once the interview was over she asked if I had graduated and what my plans for work were.

"I'm currently looking."

I thought she wanted my resume so I reached in the folder and grabbed it to give to her.

But she stopped me.

"No need. You showed all the skills we are looking for. Can you start on Monday?"

That's how I got my first job.

You don't need permission to gain experience and you don't need a job to start building skills.

Think outside the box.

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Career › Re: Jobs City by lavylilly(op): 2:21pm On Aug 16, 2023

We are recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Finance Officer

Location: Lagos

Job Summary

Mainly responsible for our Finance Operation, who should be a member of an accounting professional body.
The Finance Officer would run the day-to-day Finance Operations, Expense reimbursements, Accounting and building Finance reports, etc.
Esure efficient financial governance practices and processes
Duties & Responsibilities
Financial Governance:

Coordinate annual budget planning and semi-annual budget reviews
Maintain a budget tracking system to help functional heads to make financial decisions
Assist in the development and maintenance of Company’s finance policies and procedures
Maintain payment systems and processes that comply with Company's finance policies and procedures
Maintain a cash flow management system that projects cash requirements and coordinates with Fund Raising units to ensure a healthy cash balance
Financial Reporting:

Produce annual reports which include both financial (audited account) and non-financial information that are relevant to public stakeholders
Produce semi-annual donor reports which include both financial (audited account) and non-financial information that are relevant to donors
Produce quarterly financial reports for Company’s Board Members
Produce monthly management reports for internal use
Manage and coordinate the audit process
Manage and coordinate remittance of statutory deductions etc
Produce any other reports which may be required from time to time
Assest & Equipment Management
Capex/Opex administration
Education, Skills and Experience

Bachelor’s Degree in Accounting or related courses from any reputable university (ACA) added advantage
Minimum of 4 years experience in accounting/Finance
Ability to construct and dissect simple financial statements with very minimal guidance.
High level of attention to detail required to ensure report accuracy.
Logical and methodical thinking required to design and improve financial processes.
Strong numerical and analytical skills required for simple financial analysis.
Competency with Microsoft Office productivity tool (e.g. Word, Excel, and PowerPoint).
Share the same sense of mission and core values as the organization.
Strong team player.
Demonstrated success in a fast-paced environment.
Full range of strategic management and leadership skills.
Demonstrates the ability to make and take responsibility for sound and far-reaching decisions.
Experience of managing multiple projects.
Financial and budget management skills.
Ability to assess and plan for future needs.
Ability to plan and prioritize own workload and that of others.
Integrity, compassion, mission-oriented, and commitment to excellence.
Application Closing Date
Not Specified.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV via email to: careers@teachfornigeria.org using the job title as the subject of the mail.

Note: Only qualified candidates should apply.

Career › Re: Jobs City by lavylilly(op): 2:18pm On Aug 16, 2023

Job Title: Accounting Officer

Location: Enugu

Responsibilities and Attributes

Accounting Officers to work with the company’s auditor to ensure proper scrutiny of accounts from the details in the business’s accounts and its financial records.
To prepare the annual financial statement.
To facilitate the reconciliation of accounts.
Also give financial advice.
And other duties assigned by the Chief Finance Officer.
Requirement
Candidate must possess the following:

OND / HND or a Degree in Accounting or any relevant field.
2-3 years cognate experience in a reputable organization
NYSC completion is mandatory
Good knowledge of basic accounting principles, concepts and entries
Good knowledge of Nigeria tax laws and regulations
Must be computer literate.
Must reside in Enugu.
Age: Not more than 35 years
Remuneration
Very attractive, highly competitive and negotiable.

Application Closing Date
25th August, 2023.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send their Applications with a detailed resume and three verifiable references, attaching all credentials and Birth Certificates or Statutory Declaration of Age to: info@royalhospital.com using the job title as the subject of the mail.

Note

Shortlisted candidates will be invited for interview.
All applications must be received on or before the deadline

Family › How Can I Control My Sex Craving Toward My Wife by lavylilly(op): 1:33pm On Aug 16, 2023

From DM
Good morning,
I have been married to my wife for more than 10 years now and we have beautiful kids. She was the first and only woman I have ever had sex with.
Averagely, we have sex 3 times weekly and it has always been fun. I ensure that I carryout my manly responsibilities by providing for the family and trying to make everyone happy.

Few days ago, she decline my sexual advances. Later, I ask to know why she did that and she told me that I love sex too much. I was embarrassed. She sleeps nowadays in the children room or in the parlour just to avoid me though she refuses to accept that truth.

Please I wish to know ideally how many times couples here have sex with their partners weekly and how I can control my sex cravings towards her. I just wish I can stay away from having sex with her even for two months.

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Food › Re: What is the true situation of rice in Nigeria? How much does it cost? by lavylilly: 1:30pm On Aug 16, 2023

over 200 million eat rice and the number of rice farmers is 345, we cannot meet up.

PureFace1:
Investment in local rice production is not enough

The demand is still higher than supply, when local rice production is really very surplus and there are many competitors there is no way the price won't come down.

Food › Re: What is the true situation of rice in Nigeria? How much does it cost? by lavylilly: 1:29pm On Aug 16, 2023

chipower:
You are right. Most Nigerians don't want a smooth running system where everyone will benefit. They complain because they don't gain from the rotten system.

Food › Re: What is the true situation of rice in Nigeria? How much does it cost? by lavylilly: 1:29pm On Aug 16, 2023

Let us suffer it o! we go learn by force

RomanGreen:
My thoughts exactly, I supported Peter Obi but sometimes I wish that the tribunal will upheld Tinubu's election just so these people can have sense by force. It baffles me why people think about tribalism when it comes to their well being. I have no sympathy for anyone that voted Tinubu. A man who acts before thinking

Food › Re: What is the true situation of rice in Nigeria? How much does it cost? by lavylilly: 1:28pm On Aug 16, 2023

9182736455O1999:
Truth has never been in its purest form.

Travel › Re: Kebbi Rice Farms In Pictures by lavylilly: 1:27pm On Aug 16, 2023

Hope flooding will not sweep it away

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Romance › Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 7:00pm On Aug 11, 2023

pansophist:
If you've reached a point where a person is shocked that you didn't care after he/she betrayed you, then you've grown.

#fact

Food › Re: What's The Weirdest Food Combo You've Ever Seen? by lavylilly: 3:13pm On Aug 11, 2023

DyshApp:
Which one is Agbado

corn

Romance › Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 3:13pm On Aug 11, 2023

freeborn02:
Lolz. May you not be wise enough to stop your stupid"hard to get" until you lose every opportunity to date responsible men.

Food › Re: What is the true situation of rice in Nigeria? How much does it cost? by lavylilly: 3:13pm On Aug 11, 2023

sylve11:
That's it.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Would You Sign An Offer Letter With An Acceptance Deadline Of 24 Hours? by lavylilly(op): 3:12pm On Aug 11, 2023

scoobyblogspot:
I reserve two action bitters for you ~~bro~~ Sis

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Would You Sign An Offer Letter With An Acceptance Deadline Of 24 Hours? by lavylilly(op): 3:12pm On Aug 11, 2023

jeeqaa7:
depends

on what

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Would You Sign An Offer Letter With An Acceptance Deadline Of 24 Hours? by lavylilly(op): 3:11pm On Aug 11, 2023

Hassanmaye:
Run

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Jobs/Vacancies › Would You Sign An Offer Letter With An Acceptance Deadline Of 24 Hours? by lavylilly(op): 8:00am On Aug 11, 2023

Would you sign an Offer Letter with an Acceptance deadline of 24 hours?

Typically when organization sends an Offer, they expect you to sign within a stipulated deadline so they can plan for your resumption.

However, some organizations insist on putting undue pressure on candidates to quickly accept without allowing them time to thoroughly review the terms and conditions.

Beware of any Offer that has a stipulated acceptance deadline of 24 or 36 hours.

They rush you to accept such when there are certain “ fuzzy” terms or conditions.

It is unprofessional to coerce, cajole or harass candidates to accept an Offer within 24 hours.

Any organization that wants you to accept an Offer within 36/48 hours has simply not done their their homework well.

Why didn’t they start the interview process earlier to prevent the rush to sign or xxxx

Don’t be like the candidate below.

Day 1- Mr A resumed 2 weeks ago and was excited, onboarding process on- going and looking forward to working there.

Day 4 - He was at work and got called that wife had a serious medical emergency so took permission to take off and visit the hospital.

Day 5 - Got to work and went to meet designated Executive about the company’s HMO initiative.

Executive - Oh, you can’t be on the HMO until after your probationary period ends.

Mr A - This can’t be true. Why? Most organizations allow employee to be on HMO from day one.

Executive - Apologies, this is our company’s policy and we cannot change it because of you. We did this before but most employees when they leave the organization, the HMO premium paid would be a waste.
(Some HMOs now have replacement clause that you can insist to be included during your negotiation).

Mr A: I am surprised.

Executive - This is the truth, kindly check your Offer Letter.

Mr A - (He checked his email on the phone and confirmed that the clause was “HMO after Confirmation”. Why did I leave my former organization with an HMO for this?

He never planned on spending his earnings for any medical treatment for his family.

This is a benefit he had enjoyed for over 6 years. How would he cope now?

Reality dawned on him, he was quick to accept the Offer without taking his time to Review and Understand the terms.

Dear candidates, please take your time to thoroughly review any Offer.

Don’t let any organization or Hiring Managers coerce, harass and cajole you to sign an Offer within 24 hours.

What do you think happened afterwards?

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Romance › Re: When Do You Realize TRUE Friends & Realise Your Friend Was A Frenemy Experience by lavylilly(op): 7:56am On Aug 11, 2023

freeborn02:
I'm happy your friend dated the guy. You don't deserve him. Forming hard to get doesn't make guys see you as a good person. Not all guys are moved by that bulllshit. A guy that will be serious with you will be serious, even if you have sex with him on a first date.

Oga! Carry you judgement Comot for here

Food › Re: What's The Weirdest Food Combo You've Ever Seen? by lavylilly: 3:09am On Aug 11, 2023

Agbado and cassava

Food › Re: What is the true situation of rice in Nigeria? How much does it cost? by lavylilly: 3:06am On Aug 11, 2023

Local rice they were selling for between 10-15k per 50kg bag in 2017 skyrocketed to over 28k in 2019 & currently selling at 38-49k

Truth is, many Nigerians are not really angry about corruption and stealing of public funds, they're only angry that they're not the ones benefiting from the corruption.

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Career › Re: How Do I Handle Such A Boss by lavylilly: 2:56am On Aug 11, 2023

DonroxyII:
Self Review Ethical Issues!

Business › Re: Who Is Better At Saving Money- Men Or Women? by lavylilly: 2:55am On Aug 11, 2023

codeigniter:
well written ma

Business › Re: Who Is Better At Saving Money- Men Or Women? by lavylilly: 12:21pm On Aug 10, 2023

WOMEN
It depends on the person. Frugal people save money and it is not a characteristic limited to one gender. Different gender experience different expenses, generally speaking. It is difficult to compare expenses since it is relative even within genders.
However, most would agree that men generally spend more over a lifetime in general unless they prefer to stay single, never married and celibate. Here's my reasoning:

Men buy things for men and women buy things for women. But men are expected to also buy more things and more expensive things for women relatively speaking.

The average man tends to be the one to initiate dates and pays for them. The average Nigerian has about 100 dates over a lifetime. Once he finally gets it going serious, there is even more expenses. Kudos to women that insist on 50/50 all the way. It tends to be difficult to find one that is happily married.

A woman usually expects maintenance costs and dating costs. Even for a relatively frugal and egalitarian relationship I currently am in, that still runs up to 15% of my paycheck with measly rental income and I usually split with my fiancé. He gets unhappy, even though his understanding when I can't pay for certain things. He's is most happy when I buy things out of the blue for him, though he makes much more than me right now as a 6-figure salary software developer. Birthday gifts, anniversary, Christmas, ringa, girlfriend day, Valentine's Day - all expected that you pay. Even so called modern women will never go below 50/50 unless under extremely dire circumstances and will never reimburse you. It's considered a gift.

Of course, a man can shun cultural influences and so can a woman. But I've rarely seen a truly 50/50 case where both sides are happy over the long term.

Men tend to buy expensive gadgets, watches, cars, tailored suits. Men are also expected to pay the bills in most countries. Studies have shown that truly 50/50 egalitarian households fare worse than 60/40 and 100/0 in terms of long term happiness. So men tend to have to pay more. The courts tend to favor women to have the man pay alimony - at least 50% of his paycheck and likely more! Considering that there is more than a 50% chance of divorce, I'd say men have it worse, risk adjusted.

Women buy makeup, personal, fashion, accessories, hygiene, haircuts, and such. I get it. However, it depends how the individual spends on it. My fiancée saves a lot on these and it costs pretty close to my expenses.

But 50% of your paycheck far exceeds that in most cases.

Romance › Re: Apart From Money, Men Have Nothing To Provide In A Relationship by lavylilly: 12:21pm On Aug 10, 2023

Romance › Re: 5 Smart Formats To Deal With A Stingy Boyfriend To Collect Money ( Men Sorry ) by lavylilly: 12:21pm On Aug 10, 2023

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