₦airaland Forum

LZAA:
Gotta be for laughs😄😄😄

seguno2:
Do men trust each other

Reminderz:
she doesn't look happy with that, make her mother nor go collect her husband lmao... women know themselves and what they are capable of, this is why they hardly trust each other...

I remembered I once commented on a girl's photo that she posted with her mother... I said jokingly "your mother fine pass you ooo", omoo this girl vex for me sha... lmao, I was like, "sheybi na your mother?" mehn women just like drama

Iamdbull:
Catch your boy live tonight at Lekki

RingRoadMafia:
They will give you 5k and gift themselves 500 Million each. Nigeria, una mumu never do.

Bukola94:
That may not be the case

jameso88:
No....presently am researching on causes, effects of divorce. Especially on my kids

EngGandalf:
Based on which standards?

Skyview01:
[quote author=lavylilly

I agree with all of your points

Integrafamoo:
It all depends on individual relationship. Some of the points are invalid and childish

1. Never put up in in-law’s house!

Even if your wife’s dad is Dangote, never be tempted to settle in his house. No that’s not economical, rather it’s sheer cowardice! You’d never be respected! Every hardworking and hard-thinking man has his transient trying times(the lazy’s trying period is eternal tho!) doesn’t matter if all you can afford is a 1 bedroom Lagos slum apartment for now, if your in-laws can’t trust your wife with your future, let them marry their child!

2. Never accommodate family members!

It’s baseless having to accommodate siblings, brothers and sisters In-law beyond marriage!Your house shouldn’t be an IDP camp for them; Or better still continue, your undoing will catch-up when your wife’s junior sister starts complaining you buy more clothes for your siblings than her. No matter the temptation, better hire a registered house-help and take care of your siblings and in-laws from afar. Always remember, not a human being can be satisfied!

3. Have a plan for all visitors!

Sit your wife down and tell her irrespective of the position of the visitor, have a definite number of days, quality of meal, departing funds to give all!

“You gave your daddy 2 pieces of meat, you gave mine 1” bullshyte stories have destroyed many young families. Be wise!

4. Never accept financial aids NOR borrow from your in-laws

That’s if you have any amount of dignity left in you, but if you don’t care to lose your voice, you can indulge in that. Better die than give in, I won’t say much, never look up for your manna from them!

5. Scarcity is invaluable!

A social function is at hand and you are already thinking how to help them arrange chairs and kill the cow. Can you also help them wash plates after the program?
Have your envelope ready, make it as fat as your pocket can, attend the gathering and leave!

6. Respect and nobility will save you a lot!

No matter how rich you may be, always prostrate whenever visiting them even if they are not worth any of your respect. Don’t be quick to anger, keep quiet when they talk; these are the measures your parents-in-law will use to either defend/destroy you whenever their child reports you to them! This value will win wars for you in absentia..trust me!

7. Occasionally send gifts

Once in a blue moon, never fail to send wine to your papa-in-law, also send money/gift to mama-in-law, do these and see them blush at the sight of you! It doesn’t matter if the wine is N50, it’s a conviction you had a little left for them having taken good care of their daughter.

KVN1:
Hi Lavylille,good morning. Please I'll be sending that cv today. My phone has been having issues since yesterday. Sorry for the delay ma'am.

ada9ja:
Aswear in Ijebu Ode ....the Aso Ebi looks like their last hope of recovering their money spent or I don't know....

ada9ja:
She aligned with her and when I asked her about the gift I gave her, she said the Aso Ebi is more valued than that...

ada9ja:
Aswear, it happened to me ....my landlady gave me quick notice because I didn't buy the aso ebi for her daughter wedding party which cost N9,000. During the wedding, I gave her daughter an envelope with 10k inside and two packs of malt. The woman insisted if I don't buy the cloth, it shows I don't love the family. I don't like aso ebi for a sec....

So I left the house not because of the quick notice but for the reason behind it.

buygala:
I ate Amala at one Buka in Rochester for £15 when I could no longer suppress my craving for home food.

There are tusher Amala places whose prices are higher tho..

buygala:
How can you not pay for Aso ebi and want to eat free Amala and Ewedu in the UK?.. O wrong nau

Do these wicked people know how much a plate of Amala costs in the UK ?..

2Ways:
It's true, if you eat their food you are a goner.

KVN1:
Hello! I've been thinking for sometime now and I think I need advice from experienced folks here. Between these two skills which can be learned in a short period of time, which one would be more profitable? Barbing or photography?

Kipaji:
Number 4 caught my attention the most.

sacajawea:
Are you experienced in online markets, businesses most especially payments etc