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debbie143:
How much is lekki phase one from Charlie boy now?

kenodrill:
Please Can anyone assist me with Sample template of CV and Cover later in canadian format.

WarHammer2000:
Shame don finally catch them😂😂. Even at this, she doesn't deserve a spot in the Falcons until she starts playing REGULARLY and EXCELLENTLY for the club.

Deltamani:
Big announcement coming soon.

Deltamani:
Linda Chikamso Jiwuaku is already 17 so I guess she’s ineligible for the next editions of the U17 as she would be 18 by June next year..

I will be very pleased if she becomes Bayelsa Queens no.1 cause we need a Younger goalkeeper to deputize Nnadozie..

MatrixReloaded:
Since you want to explore and sow your royal oath as you are a ss person. Badagry will be convent and cheaper unlike Osun/Oyo.
You can also get your hands busy if you are good in driving. Delivery of goods from seme to badagry axis. Cool cash, I remember when I use to pilot through those route down to mile 2. When fuel was bit cheaper could rake in a day 200k plus. After sorting and expenses

oviesuccess:
Really!
Does this include Ibadan or just other cities aside Ibadan?

Lifeomann:
Leave the Mumu, woman of standard

Psalmistproject:
My man if you are serious come ph come partner with me. I dey into chemical business. I nearly had this same challenge you are having now and the truth is that it's quite difficult to break free from it.

Although my current hustle is not beans but very legit and worth the effort.
Requires a lot of mental soundness.

You can come I will show you the ropes from there you can establish. Although you don't have much but the little you have can help you start and you will multiple your income.

Yampotatocarrot:
Please, come to Iyana-Ipaja and check something... The only one still decent is the BRT own opposite Ecobank, and the worst is the one beside Iyana-aboru, as thugs, weird looking boys, young drug addicts have taken over, while GNLD people use it for morning assembly for their teeming workers

It still baffles me why LASTMA officials in Iyana-Ipaja roundabout allow buses pick passengers in front of Ecobank, thereby causing holdup, when there is a well built busstop just few steps from there... They should go and learn from the LASTMA officials at Mosalashi busstop on how to ensure free flow of traffic

There are employees you cannot attract and keep in your organisation because of the small size of your vision.

These employees will keep leaving because the size of your vision is too small to accommodate them.

Hence, after 5 years in business, you still can't boast of up to 3 loyal employees you have raised in your system.

This is why you must quit playing small.

Quit dreaming and acting small.

Smallness move certain people away from you.

However, when you play big, you give your employees the opportunity to light their own candles from yours.

If you play big, employees who get attracted to your business will use your success as a bragging right.

They will want to be identified with your journey.

They will want to take selfies in your or their fine offices or work stations.

They will want to appear on a photo with you.

They will want to work for you.

They will want to speak about your company to their friends or family members to earn their respect.

They will want to share photos or videos about the company they work on their social media platforms.

They will want to be in your winning team.

This does not necessarily make them gold diggers; it is just the natural instinct of every human species.

Humans love to identify with what's working.

Humans are driven by growth.

They are also sustained by growth.

So if you are not growing as an entrepreneur, no reasonable employee will want to stay with you for long.

Yes, I know success takes time.

But in life, you must also remember this:

There has to be an urgency to creating some level of success for you to retain certain employees.

If you take more time than necessary to create that level of success, certain talents are going to leave you.

That's just how the cookies crumble.

You must constantly build your business and raise your vision to match the evolving aspirations of your people in it.

And for those who leave, let it be that when they come back after three months, they cannot recognise your business again.

Why?

You have moved!

You cannot continue to provide good reasons and justify your smallness after a certain period of time.

People will lose their patience on you because, after all, they have their own lives to sort out too.

And after a while if you are not helping them achieve that, they will pack up their bags and look elsewhere.

So while you keep complaining that employees are always resigning and leaving your "small business".

Maybe they are not actually the problem.

Maybe the problem is YOU.

You have stayed "small" for too long.

golbe1972:
Learn never to short-changed your employer because you knew the salary before accepting the job, otherwise forget it and allow those who will be contented take the job.

quisera:
Just dey play...na yahoo boy una dey advice, this one wey go still bomb this night

bejick:
I hope he makes her cum too not just chuck your penis and cum then she no go cum and you expect her to love sex with you.

Meteng:
Soja man once told an olosho that he finished knacking, “ e sweet me, e sweet you. Who go pay money “

Karlifate:
Apt! 👍

It all goes back to economics, opportunity cost, and “scarce means, which have alternative uses". I will like to establish two facts.

1.Men always pay for sex

2. Sex is a scarce resource for men

1.Men never have sex for free:"Whether you are already dating or taking a potential girlfriend on a date, as a man you will have to provide at some point.
There is no escape or back door that can be exploited. The only men who can have unlimited sex for free are the top 1% of men which include hot, handsome celebrities like Zac Efron and Michael B Jordan. Don't get it twisted, women do not sleep with these guys for free to be precise, they do it for the prestige and reputation of being associated with such men. In other words these men PAID with their reputation, good looks alone are not simply enough to be getting that amount of sex. A man's sexual prowess will increase significantly in direct proportion to his reputation and prestige.
What about the so called “Bad Boys" with game?do they have sex for free? The answer is no. Some of those bad boys were born with the gift of manipulation while those men who became bad boys INVESTED(we can say PAID for) countless hours into understanding female psychology.
Casanova was a renowed bad boy and player who had sex with countless women. The Lacuna is the fact Casanova seemed to have no other purpose in life. He devoted almost 100% of his life to learning female nature and he pursued countless women with a high degree of success while all other areas of his life suffered significantly. In other words Casanova PAID a price for his success with women and most bad boys do. When a husband for some reason decides to stop providing and starts sitting around the house playing video games all day one of the 1st things his wife will do as a reaction to his behaviour is to withdraw his sex subscription card. All men pay for sex, whether they like it or not. As kanye west once remarked on his song “New Slaves” “Cochie AIN'T FREE"

2 The opportunity cost of sex: let me give an example : A man will take a woman on a fancy date and spend 500 in the hope she would have with him sex at some point. For some reason she decides this man is not worth F*cking and doesn't have sex with him. How do you think this experience will make the man feel? Not too happy i guess.

The fact is NO MAN is entitled to sex from any women and women in general do not owe you anything. In other words the fact you spent 1,000 dollars to fly her out, payed 1,500 for her hotel and spent 500 dollars on a date with her does not make you entitled to her body and she MUST give consent before you get freaky with her.

Some men wonder “if sex is what i really want and i have to jump through different hoops to get it, why don't i just pay for it?” And this is were the opportunity cost comes in, some men have sacrificed going on dates and hoping to get sex to just paying for sex that is guaranteed(to a large extent).

3.Sex is a scarce resource for men: think about it? How many young attractive women pay men to have sex with them? Almost 0

How many young attractive men pay women to have sex with men? I do not have the statistics but I'm quite sure the numbers might be shocking.

Women don't need to pay for it because its too available, men on the other hand pay because its not available enough. Think about it, if most men were having lots of sex without much difficulty why would they pay for it? If i opened a store that sold sunlight during the day people would think I'm nuts. So far so good, sunlight is available to EVERYONE during the day(depending on the weather) so there is no sense in charging people for something they can get without any effort and this why most women do not pay for sex. It is not because they are more righteous or more moral than men but rather due to the fact that for many women getting sex is easier than ordering a pizza.

I’m a single, young and healthy man of 29 with no underlying health issues living in the east.

I graduated in 2014, with a second class upper degree. After my nysc , I tried to get into a graduate program in Nigeria cos that’s was the only thing I could apply to as my course of study isn’t really a professional one and thus not very profitable in our country.
All my efforts got no results. With my little nysc savings , I made several trips to Lagos, delta and ph for job aptitude tests and interviews but none worked out.
As a brilliant and smart person , I searched for teaching jobs in my state but couldn’t get any.

In 2017, While giving up on job searching, I attempted going for a direct entry for a second degree but I was cut off by a few marks.

Mid 2018, I was frustrated and didn’t know what to do. I started a Masters degree program, trying to further in my field with the hope of securing a lecturing job after I’m done.

While on it, i was self sponsoring myself. i was struggling to meet up with bills and payments in Sch so it was difficult for me.

I got interested in scam and was introduced by a relative. I wouldn’t say I have made so much but I’ve been a millionaire since 24, till date.
I’ve got a Camry muscle 011
A piece of land in a developing area in my city.
A Korope bus.
I live in a comfortable apartment.
Currently my closing Bank account balance is N2.6m.

I still don’t consider myself successful because most times I’m always sad because I’m not stable and can’t start a family despite all these. The problem now is that this isn’t a way of life to be proud of and I want to stop. I fear I might exhaust all I have. I do not even touch my laptop to work anymore cos I’m sad and unhappy. And pls I haven’t done any rituals of any sort.

Please, how do i pick up my life back and have a purpose? All day I sit at home doing nothing.

I am comfortable sending it to you to put out on a faceless forum and also, In all the opinions there I could pick up a few things.