Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer Being Baby Mamas Than Getting Married ? by lavylilly: 1:00pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
 YinkaOlusesi16: because they don't like being controlled by any deek🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
Romance › Re: Our Ladies Are Aging Without Men In Their Life by lavylilly: 12:57pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Chimarto: They want to suffocate my guy .......more than 5 ladies who are above 30 years are running after him for serious relationship. Most of my colleagues (ladies) at work who are above 35 years old are single. The married ladies are the ones advertising those single ladies to men. What's happening in our society, are we running out of men? Your friend is a female love-vendor |
Romance › Re: Our Ladies Are Aging Without Men In Their Life by lavylilly: 12:56pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Chimarto: What's happening? The rates of single women in Abuja is alarming, what's keeping them single. Come to PH, you had be surprised. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Modernization In The Church! I Felt Odd by lavylilly: 12:53pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Okealaaye: The Church in Nigeria has nothing in common with Christianity beside the Bible. The Church today is a Social Club where you have to be rich and be a benefactor of the Pastor to belong. Yes, the PR man preaches "the Sermon," but it's in most cases like Teaching Practice and Motivational Speaking. Nothing Christlike no more. Ogbon sodiq |
Christianity Etc › Re: Modernization In The Church! I Felt Odd by lavylilly: 12:52pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
kristian98: It can never be Catholic Church, Cele or jehova withness And you think they are saints, abi? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Modernization In The Church! I Felt Odd by lavylilly: 12:51pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
 chigoziri2403: It's your first time in the church Its okay to feel ostracised With time, you will feel among Probably buy a few trousers and brush up your queen's English As for speaking in tongues...... Maybe you learn a foreign language or an indigenous language like efik or birom |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 12:47pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
bummyla: No! I would have asked God a lot of questions concerning her! Nobody has ever hated me like her! Not that I care! But most times it is shocking that you sleep and wake up beside a fellow that hates you so much! That wants to destroy you! She's wants to come back now, but fear and the new found freedom, no go allow me welcome her back. Are you still married? |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 12:46pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Untube: Irunmole calm down🤣
Honestly we are facing similar problem. I'm a married lonely man. Most times I choose to shower for my kids and dress them up just to kill boredom.
Those that God blessed with ambitious, respectful, calm and good wives don't know what God have done for them. This is scary. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Prefer Being Baby Mamas Than Getting Married ? by lavylilly: 9:34am On Jul 02, 2023 |
How to avoid be a single mom Don't do sterotypical crap:
1- Don't touch anyone without a condom. Make sure he bring it and put it on him. It's easy for a guy to stick a pen hole in the tip.
2-Don’t sleep with everyone who wants you or tells you they love you.
3-Don’t ever believe, he will marry you if you have a baby for him.
4-Focus on your education. Get a college degree. Get a good job.
5-After all that, then get in a relationship so you can get to know that person. Get married and then have children.
6-Stop using those words! No woman should be proud to be called a baby momma. It's so ugly! Our people don't even think about how it sounds!
7. Always use protection on "yourself", you are not obligated to tell anyone you are on polls or IUD
In order to avoid a sterotypical lifestyle you have to respect yourself and your parents. You have to always say to yourself, is this what my parents want for me? |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:28am On Jul 02, 2023 |
ahnie: He's never going to contact you,I have told him you re a male slut .
You want to be stupid abii,maybe you think I m amongst those ladies you n your useless lots intimidate on this forum just to shut them up.
You never know me....I will frustrate you till you hang your balls.
You re categorizing me in the same singlemum league like your useless mother abii,the earlier you steer clear from me on this forum,the better for you.
HIV contractor Me ti po we |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:28am On Jul 02, 2023 |
ahnie: What irked me was the stupid mod that hid my response to him then left his there. Funny enough he was raised by a single mum and his mum's sisters are either divorcees or their husbands ran away from them,yet he had the effrontery to open his useless mouth to fabricate lies against me,like he knew me personally,the same way this doofuz also came to my other thread trying to love-vendor me to one of his fellow bastard,I kept him kwayet....make lavylilly try nonsense with me again,maybe he dey think say I be new nairaland that he can peddle lies on,I go use ham set example publicly on this forum,imagine this stupid druggie Isolo Janpka! Wa doh |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:27am On Jul 02, 2023 |
abidem4real: Itan to gun ni oo Lavyllily  Ki Olorun ran yin lowo |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Relocation To Lagos For Better Job Opportunities by lavylilly: 9:26am On Jul 02, 2023 |
Cazzim: how many bedroom?,,, 400k self-contained |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:25am On Jul 02, 2023 |
7arrows: My guy Sis na long story. But never. May God bless your Union. |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:24am On Jul 02, 2023 |
Emeka71: OK my E-mail is emi_739@yahoo.co.uk Sent |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 9:18am On Jul 02, 2023 |
pongwa: when someone who is in deep shit but refuses help and instead is poised to drag people down with them, the better approach is acceptance. The painful thing was that I got several warnings about the union but formed strong Christian. May God bless your union (Amen) |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Relocation To Lagos For Better Job Opportunities by lavylilly: 11:05am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Cazzim: I don't have a car yet so i don't want were I can be so stressed for traffic and again expenses of transport,,,,is the ajah safe and nice? I don't want getto Ajah is a safe How much do you have? My bestie got 650k green life estate |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 11:02am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Ah  the O's long. Why na? Is not someone you want to spend the rest of your life with ? olorundipe9090: Never ooooooo
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Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:59am On Jul 01, 2023 |
pongwa: capital NO! Take this to the bank I feel the anger as you type this. Would you like if both if your meet a marriage counselor? |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:58am On Jul 01, 2023 |
TheMostComplex1: Is she really divorced? I don't know but it obvious she had a bad experience from the venom she spits in thread as this |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:53am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Emeka71: Hello babe; please can we talk? Hi, yes we can drop your email |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:52am On Jul 01, 2023 |
 Emeraldswt: Yes, I will. He's the only one that cools my temper.. 18years and still counting. |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:51am On Jul 01, 2023 |
TrainPark: Hell NO Damn the no is block letters. You mind talking about it |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:50am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Ki lo sele abidemi abidem4real: No! She's the greatest mistake of my life. Marrying her has made my life a shadow of itself.😭😭😭😭 |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:48am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Floramie: Not at all. You mind explaining so we can learn. |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:47am On Jul 01, 2023 |
 biomi: will not try it [color=#000000][/color] |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:46am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Morizo: Honestly I wont but God has given us the grace to succumb our predicament it is well  |
Family › Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly(op): 10:45am On Jul 01, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Please What Can I Do At This Stage? by lavylilly: 3:23am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Villa12: you can imagine another experience. That means this thing happen in private sector too, thinking only government establishment are this corrupt
I believe being poor is not a crime. What else do they want the poor to do now
If ordinary contract staff job is not possible for the poor in this country. Who did the poor offend The most corrupt agencies in Nigeria in o particular order SON Nigerian Customs FIRS Nigerian Immigrations NNPC |
Family › Re: Please What Can I Do At This Stage? by lavylilly: 3:19am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Villa12: how did he lose guard biko? Someone applied for a job and get to the final stage. He did medical. They didn't call him to resume. Even those who did medical together, none of them resume work. It is normal for anyone in his shoe to act that way unless the person is not serious with life. That king is a thief. I believe he has the power to help Op get the job after all he get to the final stage and he has done medical. It's not like he's bringing him from no where. And it's contract staff not a full staff o. The king don't want to help him because he's from a poor background but he can eat a poor man money. Is that not wickedness?
I don't see any lose guard in this one Any interview you attend and the outsourcing manager/ interviewer says he wouldn't condole nepotism and God fatherism. He won't forward the name of those who has someone but couldn't pass the aptitude test and interview. He wants a level playing ground at this stage. Just know you CAN NEVER get the job |
Family › Re: Please What Can I Do At This Stage? by lavylilly: 3:16am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Kylekent59: The outsource manager kept to his word, but the top managers could sack him if he didn't do as requested by them.
I remember as a fresh graduate, I went for an exam in one of the production companies. I was sure of what I wrote. Three mathematical-based questions. After the exam, we were told to go home. After three days, someone in the company told me that everyone failed the exam.
I even gave our first class and one of my lecturers the questions, and they said I solved them excellently.
That was when I knew the company had played with our emotions.
My sister's friend gave me a call and linked me to an international job where I earn about 970k plus a month.
You have to man up and move on Op.  I attended the same interview but you were linked or connected. God dey sha |