Business › Re: Naira Devaluation: Nigerian Banks Heading For ‘recapitalisation’ by lavylilly: 10:42am On Jun 26, 2023 |
If you have money leave Nigeria |
Romance › Re: A Cheating Wife Seeks Advice On What To Do by lavylilly: 9:57am On Jun 26, 2023 |
The truth is most girls are not interested in marriage, it just society that's pressure |
Romance › Re: Is It Worth It To Look For A Soul Mate On Nairaland (photos) by lavylilly: 9:56am On Jun 26, 2023 |
TBforgive: You resurrected this thread...it's you  |
Romance › Re: Is It Worth It To Look For A Soul Mate On Nairaland (photos) by lavylilly: 8:27am On Jun 26, 2023 |
Lol |
Romance › Re: Why Does My Girlfriend Refuses My Early Morning Kisses? by lavylilly: 7:59am On Jun 26, 2023 |
It's because your mouth stinks |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Things You Didn’t Know About Those Commissioned Into The Nigerian Army by lavylilly(op): 6:45am On Jun 26, 2023 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Things You Didn’t Know About Those Commissioned Into The Nigerian Army by lavylilly(op): 1:57pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
 Aladdin1: Tufiakwa!!! to join soulja in nigeria is to take your own coffin.unfortunately fela say "who go wan take coffin"?. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Things You Didn’t Know About Those Commissioned Into The Nigerian Army by lavylilly(op): 1:57pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
 MMempire: @OP, thanks for the clarification. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Things You Didn’t Know About Those Commissioned Into The Nigerian Army by lavylilly(op): 1:57pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
 Depriest2020: Very informative. OP please can you do same topic on NAF & NN |
Family › Re: My Sister Has Lost Interest In Things Of The World. by lavylilly: 1:50pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Ask yourself that is something bothering you ? What is the thing that 's making you feel lose all interest and try to remember that happened recently.
Even if it becomes difficult to find out the reason ,I would suggest you somethings to think and reflect about .
Firstly , look around and see that if you sit idle and disinterested , you would miss a lot of things in life like exploring , travelling and eating (yes , eating ) . Trust me , you will regret if you do not ACT now .
Secondly , we all have pains and difficult times . But we dont stop living right .I feel something is bothering you , find that out . If nothings bothering you , yor hormones may be acting cranky Or mood swings maybe because i have also a lot felt this way .
Thirdly , try waking up early . Go out , feel the sunshine , the chirping birds and see how beautiful our world is . If you are sleeping too much and do not want to wake up , then its one of the symptoms of depression . Sit quietly for 2 minutes without any thoughts , Meditate . You l feel good.
Fourthly , if its related to your career and ambition , then try confronting yourself because most of the time , it happens that if we feel we are not able to fulfill our ambition because of peer pressure or lack of time , we lose all interest in life .
I would like to conclude by telling you what i do when i feel that way . I travel in and around and observe little things in life . I observe small kids near the roadside begging for money and for a sufficient meal , which they are not even sure that they will get . I feel blessed and thankful for little things i ve got . I feel the opportunities i have got in college and else where , where i can do so much and be something in life one day , is really crucial . I have got everything to be thankful for and to live for and if i feel disinterested and just want to sit and not figure out what is wrong , then i am really wasting whatever ive been bestowed upon because lets face it , so many unfortunate children s /boys/girls , who are so passionate does not get the opportunities and life that we have being provided .
So , there is a whole new different world out there my friend , which you have not explored it yet . Try something new . you never know when it l become your passion . Remember to LIVE and just not EXIST .
Hope it helps . Keep me posted |
Jobs/Vacancies › Things You Didn’t Know About Those Commissioned Into The Nigerian Army by lavylilly(op): 12:29pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Things You Didn’t Know About Those Commissioned Into the Nigerian Army
This article on the different commissioned officers in the Nigerian Army, will help clear the confusion lingering in the minds of civilians that want to take up a career in the Nigerian Army.
There are 5 types of commission in the Nigerian Army (NA) – Not Armed Forces.
They are:
1. Regular Combatant (RC). Training takes 5 years.
2. Short Service Combatant (SSC). Training takes 6 – 9 months.
3. Direct Regular Combatant (DRC). Now attained on conversion from DSSC.
4. Direct Short Service Combatant (DSSC). Training takes 6 – 9 months.
5. Executive Commission (EC). Training takes 2 – 3 months.
Details of such commissions are to be found in the Harmonized Terms and Conditions of Service (TACOS) for officers of the Nigerian Armed Forces but a summary goes thus: RC and SSC are combatants, trained to fight battles. Others are not meant to be combatants.
Both SSC and DSSC are of relatively short duration (not more than 12 years I think, excluding extension of service) and must convert to RC and DRC respectively to enjoy a longer career. Theoretically, RCs and DRCs can rise to become generals i.e Brigadier Generals, Major Generals etc. Remember the pyramid structure? The higher it gets, the smaller it becomes. In other words, many are called but only a few are chosen.
DRC’s are mainly professionals – surgeons, pharmacists, chaplains, surveyors etc. and are usually not found in the core combat arms of Infantry, Armour and Artillery but are to be found in the Army Engineers and Signals. EC’s are made up of former soldiers and do not usually exceed the rank of Major.
There are varying criteria for the various commissions. In reality, the advantage is more on the side of those who were originally RC,s than those who were originally SSC,s in terms of age, rank in the Nigerian army, numbers etc. However, anything can happen, for instance Lt. Gen. Ishaya Bamaiyi (rtd.) rose to become Chief of Army Staff (COAS), even though he wasn’t originally an RC.
Although DRCs may never become COASs or General Officers Commanding (GOCs), they can apart from being Staff Officers also hold command posts in corps or services in which they predominate. These include Education, Medical and Finance among others.
Life in the Army here in Nigeria can be promising, particularly now that efforts have been made to consolidate emoluments, but achievement of success or wealth in the Army (here in Nigeria as well as is in other countries) is a product of motivation and determination. If you want to live well, you will. If you don’t, you won’t. The choice is really yours! For RC or DRC, minimum years of service is about 15 years and life as a cadet can be quite strenuous.
Generally, training is in the Infantry Corps Centre and School (ICCS), Jaji, Kaduna State. As for the DSSs and ECs, their training is usually less strenuous, not as in NDA where RCs and SSCs are trained. Cadets are usually humorously welcomed with the euphemism, “Unfortunate Nigerians, you will nearly die but you will not die!” But you should survive if you are physically fit after all, many have gone before you.
As a cadet, you are entitled to allowances which may not really cater for your family if you have one but could go a long way to help you sustain yourself.
If you wish to obtain more information on the Nigerian Army and the types of application forms available, you can check with the Army Public Relations Department in any military barracks near you.
For RC, you need at least 5 credits including English and Mathematics. For SSC, DRC and DSSC, you must be a graduate. Lawyers in the army are usually found in the Army Legal Services and the Military Police. They can also be found in lesser numbers in other corps and services.
As for your private practice, it all depends on what type but you won’t be expected to have your private practice as a lawyer alongside your military career.
Lastly, it is also noteworthy to say that the Nigerian Defence Academy (NDA) now offers some post-graduate courses for those in the military as well as for those not in the military. |
Career › Re: How The Nigerian Banking System Is Killing Employee Loyalty. by lavylilly: 12:28pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
One-Man Business emoboy4u: Not just Banks. It happens in every sector |
Career › Re: How The Nigerian Banking System Is Killing Employee Loyalty. by lavylilly: 12:27pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › 12 Unnecessary Information In An Interview Session. by lavylilly(op): 11:54am On Jun 22, 2023 |
12 Unnecessary Information in an Interview Session.
Most times I get confused when candidates asked if the interview session is really over and I say “yes”.
Interview session is a two-way thing as both parties are assessing and evaluating not only the personality but other factors.
However, the following information are quite unnecessary during the interview discussion:
1. Your Age. 2. Your Address 3. Your Ethnicity 4. Your Religion 5. Your Marital Status 6. Your Salary or Pay Slips 7. Your Birth Certificate/ declaration of Age. 8. Your Transcripts 9. Your NYSC Cert or Exempt 10. Your Gap Year 11. Your Bank Statements to show proof of pay. 12. (Please add yours)
Most questions should centre on your ability, skills, knowledge, interest and other behavioral aspects that can influence teams and create impact.
It is as Simple As ABC. |
Career › Re: Jobs City by lavylilly(op): 11:54am On Jun 22, 2023 |
12 Unnecessary Information in an Interview Session.
Most times I get confused when candidates asked if the interview session is really over and I say “yes”.
Interview session is a two-way thing as both parties are assessing and evaluating not only the personality but other factors.
However, the following information are quite unnecessary during the interview discussion:
1. Your Age. 2. Your Address 3. Your Ethnicity 4. Your Religion 5. Your Marital Status 6. Your Salary or Pay Slips 7. Your Birth Certificate/ declaration of Age. 8. Your Transcripts 9. Your NYSC Cert or Exempt 10. Your Gap Year 11. Your Bank Statements to show proof of pay. 12. (Please add yours)
Most questions should centre on your ability, skills, knowledge, interest and other behavioral aspects that can influence teams and create impact.
It is as Simple As ABC. |
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by lavylilly: 10:38am On Jun 22, 2023 |
What is Deterministic Wallet ?
A deterministic wallet, also known as a hierarchical deterministic (HD) wallet, is a type of cryptocurrency wallet that generates a sequence of private and public key pairs from a single master seed. This master seed is typically represented as a series of words called a mnemonic phrase or seed phrase.
The key advantage of a deterministic wallet is that it simplifies the process of backing up and restoring wallets. With a single mnemonic phrase, users can recover all their private keys and access their funds. This eliminates the need to manually back up each individual key, reducing the risk of losing access to funds due to lost or corrupted keys.
Additionally, deterministic wallets provide a hierarchical structure, allowing for the creation of multiple accounts or addresses from a single master seed. Each account or address can have its own unique key pair, providing improved privacy and organization.
Deterministic wallets adhere to a specific algorithm, typically based on BIP-32 (Bitcoin Improvement Proposal 32) or BIP-39. These standards define the process of generating and deriving keys in a consistent and secure manner.
Overall, deterministic wallets offer convenience, improved backup and recovery processes, and better organization of cryptocurrency holdings, making them a popular choice among cryptocurrency users. |
Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by lavylilly: 10:37am On Jun 22, 2023 |
Be smart about your money. You’ve caught many longs. You see the market tagging a possible supply.
Shave your profits off. Take partials. Or close positions. Don’t take the summer sell off for granted or you’ll get burnt bad. Summer holidays and vacations bring corrections. |
Politics › Re: 5,600 Vehicles Run On CNG In Benin – Obaseki by lavylilly: 10:26am On Jun 22, 2023 |
 Viking07: 110-150 naira per liter. Installation here in Abuja by NIPCO costs 342,000 per vehicle. |
Family › Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by lavylilly: 10:23am On Jun 22, 2023 |
 TempUser: You set talk am say HIGH QUALITY PARTNER.
For this naija, e be things! My points still remain valid , and I'm s MOMMYs boy for a good reason.  |
Family › Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by lavylilly: 10:22am On Jun 22, 2023 |
 Patiks: The guy's post shocked me too. No wonder we have countless divorces today. |
Family › Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by lavylilly: 10:21am On Jun 22, 2023 |
 Chidolalar: How is your spouse d most important person in your life |
Family › Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by lavylilly: 10:20am On Jun 22, 2023 |
 Teymanhenry: Seed or no seed, I think the man have a role to play. The man should shoe his wife or girlfriend that she can not speak ill or disrespect his mum no matter what. If she loves you, she'll abide by this simple rule |
Business › Re: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by lavylilly: 8:46am On Jun 22, 2023 |
Gentlelife50: These ones should better join our telegram group, what's all these?  What's the name of the channel? |
Business › Re: Introducing Driveinhud: Save Transport Cost When You Share A Ride With Others by lavylilly: 8:44am On Jun 22, 2023 |
Good morning everyone
You can now earn money by simply referring people to download the app and complete registration.
If you refer 20 users that finished their account verification, you get 6,000 naira.
Simply send proof that you've done that and send me your account details for payment. Let's GO!
How to earn:
Simply ask the person you're referring to enter your username in the "referral box" when registering. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Diary Of A Jobless Developer Creating A Startup Company by lavylilly: 8:44am On Jun 22, 2023 |
Good morning everyone
You can now earn money by simply referring people to download the app and complete registration.
If you refer 20 users that finished their account verification, you get 6,000 naira.
Simply send proof that you've done that and send me your account details for payment. Let's GO!
How to earn:
Simply ask the person you're referring to enter your username in the "referral box" when registering. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How Sharing My Experience On Nairaland Gave Me 15,000 Naira by lavylilly: 8:41am On Jun 22, 2023 |
 merit455: You are his colleague in Nairaland,help him or shut up |
Phones › Re: How Much Of A Yearly Salary One Needs To Spend To Afford An iPhone-14-Pro 128GB by lavylilly: 8:37am On Jun 22, 2023 |
silvoclaira: This is preposterous
IPhone no be your mates.
How do NYSC female members today get the money to buy this phones, while serving? Use your tongue to count your teeth |
Career › Re: Jobs City by lavylilly(op): 7:06pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Investment › Re: Us Stocks Pick Alert by lavylilly: 7:05pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
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Investment › Re: Crypto Currency Investors Thread by lavylilly: 7:04pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
Abdul4trust1: Please is Binance now send verification code through WhatsApp? Please it urgent
I have a pending transaction to complete.
Instead of sms I'm receiving it via WhatsApp. Is that the new norm? You about to be scammed |
Health › Re: What's This On My Thighs & Under My Scrotum? Please Help (Viewers Discretion) by lavylilly: 5:59pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
Go to the hospital as NL is not a hospital. Chronicwanker: Greetings everyone. I've had this on my thighs and under my scrotum for a while now and I've tried to get rid of it but it's still there. Please who knows what it is and how can I truly get rid of it because I'm worried.
I bath twice a day and I don't wear a boxer for more than 12 hours. I shave regularly too so I'm confused.
The skin area is white and sometimes falls off when I scratch it, but the marks are there and the whiteness still. Ladies/ gentlemen beware of what you fix, wear or cream you use. |
Family › Re: How Do You Handle It When Your Wife Can’t Stand Your Mother? by lavylilly: 5:57pm On Jun 21, 2023 |
cooooooks: Hakimi was 18 years old or younger when he married the 30 years old woman.
Of course he needed mom protection. I do not advocate for any 18 year old to get married in the first place. Why? It's your opinion damnit |