₦airaland Forum

SalamRushdie:
Tinubu has now set a precedence and this is giving low lives balls now to be more ambitious

Pls leave Tinubu out of this.

Blame our security heads that are afraid to do their work unless a President says do ur work.

Herdsmen will strike, security men will be waiting for President to direct them to go and fish out perpetrators.

Somebody is being dragged by the highest secret police in d land for owning a single barrel gun and yet another is making press conferences in the FCT and showing off AK 47 on social media and yet same secret police is quiet. Obviously waiting for President to talk.

Like our security operatives don't know their work.

Just leave Tinubu out of this pls.

This ur price is simply a joke

Jovialjune1:
When a woman knows her worth, she would not stoop so low to defend a dog, so stupid of the wife to defend a community diick and blame it all on juju, if reverse was the case, the community diick would have sent her packing.

Period, u have said it all. Women, know your worth!

almarthins:
U no get the gist well well,
Person wey sabi chop pupuru and egusi soup. You come tell am say na amala n gbegiri will now be his favourite. Omo him go manage am, but when the desire for his main favourite come him head, and there is means to satisfy it. The guy no go look back o.

I know a guy that is cheating on his wife till date, but the woman no know even know. Na good guy naturally but his sexual desires the wife no fit give am.

And u havent seen those that played hard as singles and maintain decency when married having already tasted all there is.

And yet those that were decent as singles and craved more wen married cos they longed the things they feel they didn't enjoy.

Different folks, different strokes.

BadMaster:
I don't want to insult you, but only an idiotic fool would believe otherwise

Your opinion, ur insult. I maintain mine. We must not agree

ebubeson:
Many men cheat, many women cheat.. Even some that have not cheated may have low resistance level if opportunities come.
So why the rise in infidelity in Marriages..
(1) Many sexual partners before marriage. How can you sleep with different people, do group sex, have different sex positions in your youthful days, and expect to have a sane sexual mind with just one partner in marriage? How can you be addicted to prostitutes and expect to be faithful when you marry? How can you be doing hookup and having nympo urge, and expect to be normal in marriage? Is it so easy?? Don't be carried away when people say "It was my past, I am changed"... Even guys and ladies still go back to EX to have sex..

(2) Social Media: Exposure to social media, such as hookup sites and other chatting and dating platforms has contributed in infidelity in marriages.. So a married person can do complete arrangement for adultery online before meeting the person physically..

(3) Lack of Contentment: When some guys want big hips, breasts etc over good character of their wives, and some ladies want big manhood, flashy or expensive things etc over responsible husband that is providing for them.

These reasons are simply vague and vain. Not drawn from research or experience but just from ur imagination. I can bet u re not married and that u didn't interview any married/cheating woman/man to come up with these unconvincing reasons.

AlphaHakimi:
Let's discuss this topic realistically.

Women have been known to pitch their children against their fathers. Even without being divorced, women intentionally tell their kids negative things against their fathers in order to make the kids love them more. This usually starts when the kids are very little and that is why most kids say they love their mum. As they grow up, they begin to think that their father hardly loves them. This is because the man is usually out hustling to Carter for the family and affords the woman more opportunity to spend time with the kids and indoctrinate them with hatred for their father.

Now imagine what happens when they are divorced. The kids automatically think that the reason for the divorce was their father. Furthermore, most fathers are scared to send money to their divorced wife because she most like will use the money for her selfish interest and not for the kids. Also, she may lie to her ex husband with the children's name just to get money from him.

I once read about an old man who divorced his wife when his 3 kids were hardly 7 ,5 and 3 years old respectively. Fortunately for this man, he kept a diary where he wrote down the reason for the divorce and it was because of the woman's infidelity. This man also kept all the receipts of all the money he sent to the ex wife for the children's upkeep. He never missed paying their school fees up till university level and sending large sums of money for their upkeep. On the other hand, their mother brainwashed them that ever since she divorced their dad, he hasn't sent a dime for their upkeep. So these kids grew up hating their father and thinking of him as an irresponsible man.

One day the eldest child who was 35years at the time decided to visit his dad and that was where he discovered the truth about the whole situation. He apologized to his father and invited his other two siblings to apologise to their dad because they hated him for no just cause.

In essence, Most fathers are wonderful. Some women just enjoy turning their kids against their father and it gets worse when divorce happens.

Shalom.

Jilted women are usually the most manipulative from my experience. When they tell u things about their exes, pls do well to verify. Hear from the other side

avicky:
That's not true. I have seen a father who abandoned his son after separation. The wife wants him to be involved in the son's life but he wouldn't budge. School fees, feeding, health has been the responsibility of the struggling mother.
Look, so many irresponsible fathers out there. Two sane adults should not bring their kids into the fracas between them.
So I don't buy your assertion.

So u saw one man who didn't care for his son, therefore it's same for all men. Continue.

Were u even part of all the nitty gritty in their separation to know that this particular man wasnt frustrated into that by the ex wife?

Another question here is why do some women always insist and manipulate to retain all the children even when they know they can't cater for them financially? Sometimes the man wants to keep his children or even share equally but some women will use all manipulations in d world to ensure it doesn't happen.

Is Max still flying??

Clearly Herbert. Is there even a contest here?

Impregnablefolk:
What happened to the Phrase "the customer is always right."

Is right to stink?

Other customers are also right not be made uncomfortable from stinks.

Kyase:
Lol these guys
You don't know how it works, so just keep quiet

If to construct roads dey cheap, all millionaires and billionaires for dey construct road

Mind you, JB dey cost

Person who may not be able to afford sch fees in a good school will come out online to be defending robbery visible to the blind. It's really pathetic.

You've been told no road is worth that anywhere in d world, even inside active volcano or an island, u still dey yarn opata, mtscheew. Like ur brain is not telling u that's it's the collective money of ur unborn children that's being looted? To think that the money for the contract may even be borrowed is the worst of it.

BigBlackPreek:
He destroyed the economy and left many households in
throes of pain, agony and untold hardship


He should be jailed and the keys thrown into the deep blue
sea

On gun possession charges??

Freshtruth:
I was once in dele Ali shoes my own was even worse it is the reason am broke till today. Dele was even lucky he could pursue is dream career. Just be greatful u were not born to some heartless parents wey get money u go hate your life. The difference between me n davido is davido is stubborn y am a chronic ajebutter. I started hustling at the age of 30 when I received my ist salary of 15k I was just jumping up like a fool because of 15k . bro some kind of parents love is bundage and wickedness I wish my father was never wealthy the man hand no still come clean join

Your father did nothing to u sir. U can't be 30 and still blaming ur parents. It sounds like Buhari blaming obasanjo for his failure in governance.
That said, the way u respond to ur circumstance is solely on u. Drunkard man gave birth to 2 sons. One grew up to be drunkard, the other grew up responsible never tasting a drink in his life. When asked separately about their lives, both attributed it to their father. Same circumstance, different responses.

Freshtruth:
Some parents are devils to their children. Dele Ali I stand with u

Stand with him all u like, it won't stop him from being the loser he is.

That young man needs to go make peace with his parents for his own good.

Read this interview to see the really terrible thing that a mom did that will make her son ignore her cries and pleas in the training ground, I saw nothing.

IconicR:
To those of you men who allow lust overtake your sense of reasoning by constantly being wicked and cheating on your wife and rubbing it on her face claiming macho, African man or traditional man whatsoever, I'm here to tell you that these are the privileges you'll never enjoy in your old age when that sidechick will be long gone without giving a damn about your existence . Women don't forgive easily, they nurse the pain in their hearts forever especially when being hurt and betrayed by the person they love most. Do not dare your woman so as not to pay through your noses when the time comes.

Y should it be the man that will be sick and needing help at old age. Why not the woman?
And how did u come to the conclusion that the wife will still be alive then?

Yes cheating is bad, we know. Don't just be sending us pix of a sickly man and telling us that that will be the benefit of not cheating.

radiolover:
I have sent possibly more than 80 applications and fortunately, I got called by a few.

I have exhausted scarce resources to attend interviews, editing and re-editing resumes to fit a certain role and position, cost of transportation, I don't want to even mention having to trek a long distance sometimes due to lack of fund to pay Tfare. I mean someone is broke and hungry and trying his best to land a job but he's rather receiving rejection mails. What is this?

On Monday, I received a rejection mail from automobile company where I applied for a marketing role. On Tuesday, I received another one from a production factory.

Now I just returned from another job hunting only to open my mail and saw another rejection mail. This very one pain me most because I had high hope on it and i have spent so much on it too. During the second stage of the interview, I can remember how I waited from 8am till 5pm just to see 'Oga', and after seeing him, I began to walk my way home and got home late. I know i'm sounding sentimental here but it's so annoying that i went through all that 'ontop empty belle' and at the end, I wasnt offered the job.

Very very painful and morale killing.

I feel so bad right now.

Feels like the world has crashed.

Feels like everything has finished.

Feels like everything has ended.

Feels like more hunger for me ahead ahead.

Who has faced this before?

How did you comfort yourself?

When it seems darkest, hold on a little longer for the first light of dawn. A bend in the road is not the end of the road, don't make the bend ur end. Remain positive and hopeful. Positive...very important.
Just keep on doing what u re doing with positivity and hope. Resist the urge to allow depression and complaints dampen ur positivity.

blowjohn:
Look at how adults all over the country, who cannot use their heads were deceived.

Funny I was discussing this with a group of friends and all were claiming girl was innocent. I said, u guys are not asking basic questions. When u ask basic questions, u see the intentions of people.
U had 2 results, how come u never went to the issuer of the 2 results to verify which is correct? Yet u re travelling from city to city, Innoson, commissioner, arise etc seeking financial gain.
What does Jamb have to gain to alter only ur result? For what? To deny ur state? The real authentic person is still from ur state. Because u re girl? The real authentic person is still a girl.
Did u see the Umeh girl- the authentic highest scorer jumping from city to city?
So smtn was fishy from day 1


Then House of Reps too, berating Jamb. Arh

UCyril:
Hope everybody can now rest, the girl is fraudulent and she has to be punished to serve as a deterrent to others

Girl's actions showed from day 1 she was fraudulent.
1. You knew had 2 results as u claimed, u didn't go to Jamb to confirm the authentic one
2. You travelled to Innoson ( exploited him for financial gain basically ) to collect scholarship presenting only 1 result, even though u knew via Jamb sms(sent 5 times) that u had 249
3. Still not gone to Jamb, u travelled again to Awka to meet commissioner to demand why u were not celebrated( still looking for more financial gain).
4. All these while u never went to the one institution that could clarify ur genuine interest of knowing which result is actually real.

You present urself as innocent and poor, but how come u re travelling to meet all these influential persons yet u can't go to JAMB to clarify ur results. I want o believe that's what any moral parent will do if ur child present 2 different results to u, u will verify.

Via ur actions, u deny the genuine highest scorer of her shine for ur own selfishness and greed
5. The whole episode also shows the hypocrisy of Nigerians. Someone has a shady result and everyone is jumping to offer her scholarship to Canada, UK blah blah blah.

What about the person who is the authentic highest scorer without any blemish? What about her? This same thing plays out in politics, mkt associations, in the villages.. Almost everywhere in dis country. It seems we have natural afinity to people with shady stories around them

Extreme anger at work.

sotall:
Who is going to build the factories and research centers when majority only believe in prayers?

Remember i am emphasizing the word "majority".

For there to be a change, majority has to be re-informed and dissuaded from the way they think.

Those who are supposed to build the factories, research centers and bring about innovation and invention are in the churches and mosques praying.

Again, u fail to point ur blame to the right direction. Who will build the factories and research centres?? Really, who? Who should provide the enabling envt for enterprise to thrive? Who?

Majority u say are in religious centres. 7 days a week?? How often? They might as well be in a bar or recreational centres having fun, would u blame the recreational centres then?

Every body is at liberty to be wherever they like. You are also at liberty to go build the factories and research centres if u believe the people in the mosques on Fridays or churches on Sundays should do it.

sotall:


A significant number of black people have woken up and liberated from the scam of Abrahamic religion i.e Christianity and islam

If you still practice any of the two Abrahamic religion, its time you wake up and ditch that slave master's history book.

Have you asked yourself with number of churches and mosque in Nigeria and the amount of prayers offered, the country is very backward and not working?

If we can conclude anything, it is that the prayers aren't working.


If the prayers they offer works, Nigeria will be heaven on earth by now considering the number of churches on every inch and corner of Nigeria.

If 80% of the buildings used as worship centers are turned to factories, do you know how much it will contribute to Nigeria's economy?

This doesn't really make any meaningful sense. You have blamed Christianity and Islam for the woes of the country. You also said that a good number of blacks have woken up from the slumber of practicing these 2 religions.
But u fail to link the good number of people that woke up to any real progress anywhere. U also failed to actually link the religions to the woes of the country.
Then u claimed that the religions centres if converted to factories will do a lot of good. I tend to agree, but who will convert them? Did these religions stop anyone from building the factories? Are they actually to blame for the lack of factories?

16 is confusing. Why a bird as fastest while quoting a higher speed for another. Shouldn't the falcon be the fastest then

Way to go sir

PerfectStranger:
A greater percent of Nigerian police officers are fuckingg pervert.

There's no reason to justify being a fucking pervert as u put it. What could drive a father to do that to a daughter beats my imagination.

However, the life of an average Nigerian low ranked Police man is not funny at all. Newly married constable residing in Gombe, is sent on special duty to Rivers state. He spents 2 years there gets back to his family, spends a month and is sent on another special duty to Anambra.
He obviously can't afford the commute to visit home monthly, so he stays in his place of assignment as long as it takes and just sends home most part of his salary while managing himself on the balance and other means.
Some have been moving from place to place on special duty for a very long time now.
Not ok.

Chai, isnt this the man that had land issues with d Ukpos

TossTos:
Oh see wering Emefiele use our new notes money do .. we con dey say no cash no cash

U clearly don't know the emoluments of bank CEOs. He could afford that from his emoluments even before joining cbn

Denique:
Thanks for the heads up. I'll look it up for more info but in the meantime, do you have an idea of the least tuition among the schools you listed for nursing for an international student?
Regards

C'mon, u have the school name. Go into their website and answer this question urself, plus others u may have, c'mon!

When will they learn?? That's the question here
When?