₦airaland Forum

a4cube:
The governor is a fulani so he won't listen to them.

So they simply have no case, simple. Will FG dictate to a governor how to run his state or which city to use as state capital. No

Typical Nigerian politician, trying to water flowers under the rain. Trying to take credit for what he knows nothing about

JohnnA1:
Good suggestion.

But the state is under the state governor not FG. I think the state HOA and the governor should do this if that's what they want and simply inform the FG. Not the other way round.

This topic is misleading abeg. Op do the needful.
He didn't die "while working extra calls as punishment". Put things in proper perspective.

Nice

How can one sleep well after reading this

Paragraph 5: an estimated 30,000 bandits operate in north west Nigeria.

30,000 bandits only in NW.

So add NE and NC...

This figure is excluding BH, ISIS, ISIL, IPOB, militants, Niger delta agitators, killer herdsmen, UGM, cultists etc, so add them too.

Number of armed men with criminal tendencies patrolling the length and breadth of my country.

As the economy bites harder and harder and hunger increasingly perches at the doorsteps of these armed men, who will they turn their weapons on for sustenance? Who will bear the brunt?

How does one sleep well laidis

mayor1814:
calm down. did I accuse her of anitin. so if someone tells u look older than two years ago u go dey cry. I watched d likes of Liz Benson, Regina askia, alex usifo, yemi my lover, edna ogoli, funmi adams, Mike okri dem, doz are musicians reigning then etc in my pry school days, i doubt u enjoy entertainment from dis line ups probably dey relate dia exploit to u, omotola n Genevieve dem, senior secondary school days

Drink water bros. I'm only pointing out that she is old, and her hair is supposed to be white. Simple as that.

What broke the camel's back for me is this statement from our madam

'you are the one that wanted my hand in marriage, and if u cherished me, u would do all they wanted since u re not paying twice'

Chai. Men they see things sha.

mayor1814:
Nice pic. Genevieve don dey old small oo. I be I no see well ni. No b white hair I dey see so.

Of course she is old. Didn't u watch her movies while in primary school??

She still looks very good for her age

Omoawoke:
Are they scared? I thought they were battle ready.
If Nigeria had chicken out, na real Bleep up. Make ordinary Niger wan use us shine.

International politics is a game theory.

A leader is faced with several option and each decision is like a butterfly effect.

Faced with two choices

1. Act
2. Do nothing

If you act, what is the long term consequence of option 1? We restore democracy and send the message loud and clear that no room for coup in west Africa any more. You do coup, you won’t get away with it.

2. Do nothing: for the mean time, there’s peace and temporary stability. What of the long term effect? Then it means anybody in west Africa can do coup and get away with it.
And what’s the longer time effect? Political instability here and there in west African countries. And any region there’s political instability, they will always experience economic instability, security challenges such as terrorism.

But some people because of their empty brain and selfish interest, because their candidate did not win election, they wanted the worst to happen to Nigeria not thinking of the long term effect it will cause to them. You throw stones not knowing it would end up hitting yours. Ase ni se ara e

Nobody here is battle ready. Not Niger, not Nigeria. Diplomacy is the best way out here.

Within Nigeria, the north (Muslims) is not in support of the war. Nigerian soldiers are mainly northerners. The christian leaders have advised against it too . As a leader, u must put all these into consideration.

I expect that the President will use the outcome of this meeting to calm things down and pursue diplomacy. We both needed this outcome, Niger and Nigeria.

concho:
Good morning Friends,
Sorry I’m coming up with this on a Sunday morning .

My brother has been very sick since January after his warehouse got vandalized and couldn’t offset a bank Loan.

He was diagnosed of hepatitis B and his condition got from better to worse

I knew the debt was part of what was eating him up , So I promised him that will do what ever is within my power to offset the debt just to save his sanity and health

I called the lady ( loaning officer) that aided him in the loan process and requested for restructuring since it’s a commercial bank (Sterling bank)

I explained the critical nature of my brother’s sickness to her and my brother’s inability to repay the loans

She said “No” to restructuring and started laying curses on my brother with threats.
She later called to inform me that she has taken the case to a Deity in her village ( Over a bank loan)

Fast forward to last night , She came with armed police men on tricycle and beat up my brother , chained him and took him away .

I immediately put a call across to Sterling bank to know if they authorized or came for the arrest on Saturday evening and they said “No”

They said that they don’t have a hand in the arrest and they don’t operate that way


Please friends , how do I go about this
My brother is still in detention and the woman is still threatening to jail him

Give full info.
What was ur brother selling? What was in d warehouse? Wasn't it insured? How much did he borrow? What purpose? When? When was the warehouse vandalised? How much of the loan has he repaid?
Taking such extreme measure against ur brother tells me there is something u ve not told us.
As for advise, u said u already called the bank and they told u they don't do such. So go back to them and ask them y they did so in this case.

Rokiat:
1d. Also, polygamy is actually a burden on the polygamous man, because he now has more mouths to feed, and children and wives to take care of. His pocket has to be heavy.



Are these men been forced into it? many of you men are polygamous by nature and ain’t hut satisfied with on pussy. Whatever burden it comes with ya all deserve it and even more hardship.

Is this all u can come up with?

OyeofIkoTuN:
We don't do innocent civilians..We do soldier to soldier.

We are not cowards..Kudos to the igbo lady for exercising her rights.

Most foolish comment I've read in a while.

The lady is heartless and high-handed and unfit to be in d military. U can't even send her to war cos her type commit unspeakable war crimes. And yes, such type of soldiers exist in every tribe, country, race and color.

How do u get so rich (to own a $1.2m plane) and yet so careless? How

Onlinefarmstore:
I go to those places though under heavy security

Better listen to advice. Abi u no dey hear of the security men wey Dem dey kill for dia?

MrBrownJay1:
why would you care what insane people are doing (when their wives themselves dont complain)?

who is really to blame here: the yeye husband or the deluded wife who agrees to the above nonsense?!

The percentage of 'yeye' husbands who wouldn't want their wives to work in Nigeria today is far less than the number of women who by themselves, don't want to work.
Majority of women today have taken marriage as their work. Gist with any average girl and u will hear 'let me just marry a well to do man and just sit/take care of the house'. No drive, no ambition, just soft life.

See what this one is arguing passionately below. According to her/him, husband and wife have had careers for 17 yrs and yet can't afford a nanny. That's the type of stories they tell themselves to justify their crave for soft life (laziness)

UnfairLife7:
how many average Nigerians can afford nanny? Not even in this Tinubu government. They find it not easy feeding their children not to talk of bringing in another mouth to feed. Not everyone can afford feeding more mouth when ordinarily they are not finding it easy with their nuclear family. The girl was so smart to be terminating the pregnancy but we in the neighbourhood get to know through the lady that gave her the pills to abort the pregnancy.

They are only around on Sunday. But the children no be am. The 17 years old girl is in Ss2 but she's doing things far beyond her age.

Juliearth:
Those aren't any better. Have you thought about the amount of chemicals these fish-pond-bred catfish are laced with? Their food, vaccine and fattening vitamins are very much laced either toxins. Smoked catfish aren't better because smoking is not a healthy choice for humans.

Juliearth:
Are the dried ones not roasted initially? Roasted foods are not so save, you know. The vitamins and food they ate while alive is another risk factor. Animal foods are loaded with preservatives and chemicals that are quite harmful to the human body.

What in your opinion is the best alternative?

Na skit na.

However if true, where u dey madam when bestie go market come back, cook soup, served it and cleaned up the kitchen?
Where were u?
U created the vacuum that bestie is filling😁
If ur own food is always ready and served promptly, will bestie be cooking?
Same goes for other things a wife is supposed to provide, stop creating vacuums

honeyB2018:
There's no way of showing hatred for a tribe than this. In the South West, Lagos State not excluded the railings on the bridges in almost all the overhead bridges have been vandalized, no where has it ever been said to be the Yorubas or the South Westerns, rather it has always been ascribed to the vandals
Vandals are everywhere in Nigeria and are ready to vandalize anything within their reach that attracts their intrest.
I wonder why this post should be captioned like this, if not for hatred. There's no where in that report, that it was said to be the South Easterners.
This kind of attitude can put food on your table. The IGBOS are blessed and there's nothing your hatred will cause them.

Exactly my tot, manholes and metal components are stolen from 3rd mainland bridge. Wike complained same was being done to his flyovers. Nobody titled it, Southwesterners or Niger deltans. It was vandals and miscreants.
Now it happens in Onitsha, the OP tags it south easterners.

Note that Nowhere in the vanguard report was south easterners mentioned, it was miscreants all through.

We do things without actually knowing the meaning. The title of this topic has accused all south easterners of being criminals and anti development, even wen there is nothing in d report to say that the culprit is actually from SE. And even if there is, do u tag an entire region as criminals because of the crime of 1 person?
Very sad indeed.

@ OP wwwihy
The seeds of discord u sow today will consume u and ur children tomorrow, keep sowing.

@ seun and mods, keep on allowing such on platform.

beerfraud:
This is the one of the reason why Railway track did not pass through South east

Just imagine, any word for this one cos I can't type what's is my head to describe s/him

Omoawoke2:
They have been doing that to us in Lagos for ages.
They steal government infrastructure to sell.
When they are the most impoverished region in the south, this is what you expect. We pray the government develop their region and provide jobs for them
If you see the video of Enugu boys flocking into Lagos on daily basis, I fear for the safety and sanity of southwest in the hands of this eastern refugees

Another one.

Curse777:



Niger will see shege...

Tinubu would use Economic warfare to force them to surrender

Niger is Landlocked... No seaport
A no fly zone means nothing goes in or out

Let's give them a week when hunger bites hard, and they run out of basic supplies especially petroleum products.. they would run to Abuja to discuss as they always do




.

Easy tiger

SalamRushdie:
Tinubu has now set a precedence and this is giving low lives balls now to be more ambitious

Pls leave Tinubu out of this.

Blame our security heads that are afraid to do their work unless a President says do ur work.

Herdsmen will strike, security men will be waiting for President to direct them to go and fish out perpetrators.

Somebody is being dragged by the highest secret police in d land for owning a single barrel gun and yet another is making press conferences in the FCT and showing off AK 47 on social media and yet same secret police is quiet. Obviously waiting for President to talk.

Like our security operatives don't know their work.

Just leave Tinubu out of this pls.

This ur price is simply a joke

Jovialjune1:
When a woman knows her worth, she would not stoop so low to defend a dog, so stupid of the wife to defend a community diick and blame it all on juju, if reverse was the case, the community diick would have sent her packing.

Period, u have said it all. Women, know your worth!

almarthins:
U no get the gist well well,
Person wey sabi chop pupuru and egusi soup. You come tell am say na amala n gbegiri will now be his favourite. Omo him go manage am, but when the desire for his main favourite come him head, and there is means to satisfy it. The guy no go look back o.

I know a guy that is cheating on his wife till date, but the woman no know even know. Na good guy naturally but his sexual desires the wife no fit give am.

And u havent seen those that played hard as singles and maintain decency when married having already tasted all there is.

And yet those that were decent as singles and craved more wen married cos they longed the things they feel they didn't enjoy.

Different folks, different strokes.

BadMaster:
I don't want to insult you, but only an idiotic fool would believe otherwise

Your opinion, ur insult. I maintain mine. We must not agree

ebubeson:
Many men cheat, many women cheat.. Even some that have not cheated may have low resistance level if opportunities come.
So why the rise in infidelity in Marriages..
(1) Many sexual partners before marriage. How can you sleep with different people, do group sex, have different sex positions in your youthful days, and expect to have a sane sexual mind with just one partner in marriage? How can you be addicted to prostitutes and expect to be faithful when you marry? How can you be doing hookup and having nympo urge, and expect to be normal in marriage? Is it so easy?? Don't be carried away when people say "It was my past, I am changed"... Even guys and ladies still go back to EX to have sex..

(2) Social Media: Exposure to social media, such as hookup sites and other chatting and dating platforms has contributed in infidelity in marriages.. So a married person can do complete arrangement for adultery online before meeting the person physically..

(3) Lack of Contentment: When some guys want big hips, breasts etc over good character of their wives, and some ladies want big manhood, flashy or expensive things etc over responsible husband that is providing for them.

These reasons are simply vague and vain. Not drawn from research or experience but just from ur imagination. I can bet u re not married and that u didn't interview any married/cheating woman/man to come up with these unconvincing reasons.

AlphaHakimi:
Let's discuss this topic realistically.

Women have been known to pitch their children against their fathers. Even without being divorced, women intentionally tell their kids negative things against their fathers in order to make the kids love them more. This usually starts when the kids are very little and that is why most kids say they love their mum. As they grow up, they begin to think that their father hardly loves them. This is because the man is usually out hustling to Carter for the family and affords the woman more opportunity to spend time with the kids and indoctrinate them with hatred for their father.

Now imagine what happens when they are divorced. The kids automatically think that the reason for the divorce was their father. Furthermore, most fathers are scared to send money to their divorced wife because she most like will use the money for her selfish interest and not for the kids. Also, she may lie to her ex husband with the children's name just to get money from him.

I once read about an old man who divorced his wife when his 3 kids were hardly 7 ,5 and 3 years old respectively. Fortunately for this man, he kept a diary where he wrote down the reason for the divorce and it was because of the woman's infidelity. This man also kept all the receipts of all the money he sent to the ex wife for the children's upkeep. He never missed paying their school fees up till university level and sending large sums of money for their upkeep. On the other hand, their mother brainwashed them that ever since she divorced their dad, he hasn't sent a dime for their upkeep. So these kids grew up hating their father and thinking of him as an irresponsible man.

One day the eldest child who was 35years at the time decided to visit his dad and that was where he discovered the truth about the whole situation. He apologized to his father and invited his other two siblings to apologise to their dad because they hated him for no just cause.

In essence, Most fathers are wonderful. Some women just enjoy turning their kids against their father and it gets worse when divorce happens.

Shalom.

Jilted women are usually the most manipulative from my experience. When they tell u things about their exes, pls do well to verify. Hear from the other side

avicky:
That's not true. I have seen a father who abandoned his son after separation. The wife wants him to be involved in the son's life but he wouldn't budge. School fees, feeding, health has been the responsibility of the struggling mother.
Look, so many irresponsible fathers out there. Two sane adults should not bring their kids into the fracas between them.
So I don't buy your assertion.

So u saw one man who didn't care for his son, therefore it's same for all men. Continue.

Were u even part of all the nitty gritty in their separation to know that this particular man wasnt frustrated into that by the ex wife?

Another question here is why do some women always insist and manipulate to retain all the children even when they know they can't cater for them financially? Sometimes the man wants to keep his children or even share equally but some women will use all manipulations in d world to ensure it doesn't happen.

Is Max still flying??