₦airaland Forum

avicky:
That's not true. I have seen a father who abandoned his son after separation. The wife wants him to be involved in the son's life but he wouldn't budge. School fees, feeding, health has been the responsibility of the struggling mother.
Look, so many irresponsible fathers out there. Two sane adults should not bring their kids into the fracas between them.
So I don't buy your assertion.

So u saw one man who didn't care for his son, therefore it's same for all men. Continue.

Were u even part of all the nitty gritty in their separation to know that this particular man wasnt frustrated into that by the ex wife?

Another question here is why do some women always insist and manipulate to retain all the children even when they know they can't cater for them financially? Sometimes the man wants to keep his children or even share equally but some women will use all manipulations in d world to ensure it doesn't happen.

Is Max still flying??

Clearly Herbert. Is there even a contest here?

Impregnablefolk:
What happened to the Phrase "the customer is always right."

Is right to stink?

Other customers are also right not be made uncomfortable from stinks.

Kyase:
Lol these guys
You don't know how it works, so just keep quiet

If to construct roads dey cheap, all millionaires and billionaires for dey construct road

Mind you, JB dey cost

Person who may not be able to afford sch fees in a good school will come out online to be defending robbery visible to the blind. It's really pathetic.

You've been told no road is worth that anywhere in d world, even inside active volcano or an island, u still dey yarn opata, mtscheew. Like ur brain is not telling u that's it's the collective money of ur unborn children that's being looted? To think that the money for the contract may even be borrowed is the worst of it.

BigBlackPreek:
He destroyed the economy and left many households in
throes of pain, agony and untold hardship


He should be jailed and the keys thrown into the deep blue
sea

On gun possession charges??

Freshtruth:
I was once in dele Ali shoes my own was even worse it is the reason am broke till today. Dele was even lucky he could pursue is dream career. Just be greatful u were not born to some heartless parents wey get money u go hate your life. The difference between me n davido is davido is stubborn y am a chronic ajebutter. I started hustling at the age of 30 when I received my ist salary of 15k I was just jumping up like a fool because of 15k . bro some kind of parents love is bundage and wickedness I wish my father was never wealthy the man hand no still come clean join

Your father did nothing to u sir. U can't be 30 and still blaming ur parents. It sounds like Buhari blaming obasanjo for his failure in governance.
That said, the way u respond to ur circumstance is solely on u. Drunkard man gave birth to 2 sons. One grew up to be drunkard, the other grew up responsible never tasting a drink in his life. When asked separately about their lives, both attributed it to their father. Same circumstance, different responses.

Freshtruth:
Some parents are devils to their children. Dele Ali I stand with u

Stand with him all u like, it won't stop him from being the loser he is.

That young man needs to go make peace with his parents for his own good.

Read this interview to see the really terrible thing that a mom did that will make her son ignore her cries and pleas in the training ground, I saw nothing.

IconicR:
To those of you men who allow lust overtake your sense of reasoning by constantly being wicked and cheating on your wife and rubbing it on her face claiming macho, African man or traditional man whatsoever, I'm here to tell you that these are the privileges you'll never enjoy in your old age when that sidechick will be long gone without giving a damn about your existence . Women don't forgive easily, they nurse the pain in their hearts forever especially when being hurt and betrayed by the person they love most. Do not dare your woman so as not to pay through your noses when the time comes.

Y should it be the man that will be sick and needing help at old age. Why not the woman?
And how did u come to the conclusion that the wife will still be alive then?

Yes cheating is bad, we know. Don't just be sending us pix of a sickly man and telling us that that will be the benefit of not cheating.

radiolover:
I have sent possibly more than 80 applications and fortunately, I got called by a few.

I have exhausted scarce resources to attend interviews, editing and re-editing resumes to fit a certain role and position, cost of transportation, I don't want to even mention having to trek a long distance sometimes due to lack of fund to pay Tfare. I mean someone is broke and hungry and trying his best to land a job but he's rather receiving rejection mails. What is this?

On Monday, I received a rejection mail from automobile company where I applied for a marketing role. On Tuesday, I received another one from a production factory.

Now I just returned from another job hunting only to open my mail and saw another rejection mail. This very one pain me most because I had high hope on it and i have spent so much on it too. During the second stage of the interview, I can remember how I waited from 8am till 5pm just to see 'Oga', and after seeing him, I began to walk my way home and got home late. I know i'm sounding sentimental here but it's so annoying that i went through all that 'ontop empty belle' and at the end, I wasnt offered the job.

Very very painful and morale killing.

I feel so bad right now.

Feels like the world has crashed.

Feels like everything has finished.

Feels like everything has ended.

Feels like more hunger for me ahead ahead.

Who has faced this before?

How did you comfort yourself?

When it seems darkest, hold on a little longer for the first light of dawn. A bend in the road is not the end of the road, don't make the bend ur end. Remain positive and hopeful. Positive...very important.
Just keep on doing what u re doing with positivity and hope. Resist the urge to allow depression and complaints dampen ur positivity.

blowjohn:
Look at how adults all over the country, who cannot use their heads were deceived.

Funny I was discussing this with a group of friends and all were claiming girl was innocent. I said, u guys are not asking basic questions. When u ask basic questions, u see the intentions of people.
U had 2 results, how come u never went to the issuer of the 2 results to verify which is correct? Yet u re travelling from city to city, Innoson, commissioner, arise etc seeking financial gain.
What does Jamb have to gain to alter only ur result? For what? To deny ur state? The real authentic person is still from ur state. Because u re girl? The real authentic person is still a girl.
Did u see the Umeh girl- the authentic highest scorer jumping from city to city?
So smtn was fishy from day 1


Then House of Reps too, berating Jamb. Arh

UCyril:
Hope everybody can now rest, the girl is fraudulent and she has to be punished to serve as a deterrent to others

Girl's actions showed from day 1 she was fraudulent.
1. You knew had 2 results as u claimed, u didn't go to Jamb to confirm the authentic one
2. You travelled to Innoson ( exploited him for financial gain basically ) to collect scholarship presenting only 1 result, even though u knew via Jamb sms(sent 5 times) that u had 249
3. Still not gone to Jamb, u travelled again to Awka to meet commissioner to demand why u were not celebrated( still looking for more financial gain).
4. All these while u never went to the one institution that could clarify ur genuine interest of knowing which result is actually real.

You present urself as innocent and poor, but how come u re travelling to meet all these influential persons yet u can't go to JAMB to clarify ur results. I want o believe that's what any moral parent will do if ur child present 2 different results to u, u will verify.

Via ur actions, u deny the genuine highest scorer of her shine for ur own selfishness and greed
5. The whole episode also shows the hypocrisy of Nigerians. Someone has a shady result and everyone is jumping to offer her scholarship to Canada, UK blah blah blah.

What about the person who is the authentic highest scorer without any blemish? What about her? This same thing plays out in politics, mkt associations, in the villages.. Almost everywhere in dis country. It seems we have natural afinity to people with shady stories around them

Extreme anger at work.

sotall:
Who is going to build the factories and research centers when majority only believe in prayers?

Remember i am emphasizing the word "majority".

For there to be a change, majority has to be re-informed and dissuaded from the way they think.

Those who are supposed to build the factories, research centers and bring about innovation and invention are in the churches and mosques praying.

Again, u fail to point ur blame to the right direction. Who will build the factories and research centres?? Really, who? Who should provide the enabling envt for enterprise to thrive? Who?

Majority u say are in religious centres. 7 days a week?? How often? They might as well be in a bar or recreational centres having fun, would u blame the recreational centres then?

Every body is at liberty to be wherever they like. You are also at liberty to go build the factories and research centres if u believe the people in the mosques on Fridays or churches on Sundays should do it.

sotall:


A significant number of black people have woken up and liberated from the scam of Abrahamic religion i.e Christianity and islam

If you still practice any of the two Abrahamic religion, its time you wake up and ditch that slave master's history book.

Have you asked yourself with number of churches and mosque in Nigeria and the amount of prayers offered, the country is very backward and not working?

If we can conclude anything, it is that the prayers aren't working.


If the prayers they offer works, Nigeria will be heaven on earth by now considering the number of churches on every inch and corner of Nigeria.

If 80% of the buildings used as worship centers are turned to factories, do you know how much it will contribute to Nigeria's economy?

This doesn't really make any meaningful sense. You have blamed Christianity and Islam for the woes of the country. You also said that a good number of blacks have woken up from the slumber of practicing these 2 religions.
But u fail to link the good number of people that woke up to any real progress anywhere. U also failed to actually link the religions to the woes of the country.
Then u claimed that the religions centres if converted to factories will do a lot of good. I tend to agree, but who will convert them? Did these religions stop anyone from building the factories? Are they actually to blame for the lack of factories?

16 is confusing. Why a bird as fastest while quoting a higher speed for another. Shouldn't the falcon be the fastest then

Way to go sir

PerfectStranger:
A greater percent of Nigerian police officers are fuckingg pervert.

There's no reason to justify being a fucking pervert as u put it. What could drive a father to do that to a daughter beats my imagination.

However, the life of an average Nigerian low ranked Police man is not funny at all. Newly married constable residing in Gombe, is sent on special duty to Rivers state. He spents 2 years there gets back to his family, spends a month and is sent on another special duty to Anambra.
He obviously can't afford the commute to visit home monthly, so he stays in his place of assignment as long as it takes and just sends home most part of his salary while managing himself on the balance and other means.
Some have been moving from place to place on special duty for a very long time now.
Not ok.

Chai, isnt this the man that had land issues with d Ukpos

TossTos:
Oh see wering Emefiele use our new notes money do .. we con dey say no cash no cash

U clearly don't know the emoluments of bank CEOs. He could afford that from his emoluments even before joining cbn

Denique:
Thanks for the heads up. I'll look it up for more info but in the meantime, do you have an idea of the least tuition among the schools you listed for nursing for an international student?
Regards

C'mon, u have the school name. Go into their website and answer this question urself, plus others u may have, c'mon!

When will they learn?? That's the question here
When?

BrownSugq:
Tinubu has spent 2 weeks without any achievement except his personal vendetta


Nott even one single achievement.
Electricity
Economy
Insecurity
Kidnapping bandits
Fulani hardsmen
Bokaharam
ISWAP
Corruption
Mass Poverty etc.
Unemployment



ZERO ACHIEVEMENT

I think he has done more in his 2 weeks as President than Buhari in his first 6 months.

harqinhola:
[b][/b] Nyesom Wike is a better politician than Peter Obi . He’s more calculative and strategic . He
knew PDP wouldn’t win. Therefore, he supported the ruling party to negotiate a better 8years for the people of Rivers State.

With the relationship he has with the President , despite Rivers still under PDP, The state will not have any challenges getting support from the top .

People of rivers indeed. I'm sure they are eternally grateful to him for negotiating on their behalf

Sorry about your experience.

I would advise u don't eat heavily before a journey. It could have be worse. what if it was running stomach that just erupted suddenly as the vomit did?

toujurs:
A female friend of mine, just called me and was crying bitterly, Screaming "all men are scum" into my ears like siren.

I had to caution her, if she was okay , if she wasn't aware am a man as well.

She said her lover of over 4 years, dumped her for a 23 years old, and this my female friend is about clocking 30 this September.

She has been expecting a ring, but what she got was a hot breakfast, she never expected. She is heart broken and depressed.

I don't understand why the guy couldn't just tell her he wasn't interested anymore earlier, than leading her this long till 30.

She has been behaving weird since morning, like someone possessed.

Please what can I do, or where can I take her to. So she can forget this emotional and mental depression?

And for the guys, why do you do this to good women, if she was a dumb lazy gold digger, I won't have even been bothered, but this lady has been kind, has a good career and she is calm.

Just date her, u re a man. Y asking people dat don't know her, u do. Date her.

Islie:
https://leadership.ng/why-we-took-over-nigeria-railways-land-wike/

First it was Bayelsa state govt property at old GRA taken over to be used for judges quarters.
Now it's NRC land taken over for judicial building.

Wait, bros, y the gra gra? Has land finished in Port Harcourt? Y drag with everybody?
And y everything judges?

The general that decides to fight on all fronts, most likely is going to lose.
Problem is this general is already leaving on Monday and creating needless battles for Sim.

Rokiat:
Sucking your dick is not the problem but do you return the favour?

Because many of you bush African men are very selfish and only cares about your own pleasure…..putting the lady pleasure last.

A real men knows a woman’s pleasure matter and will ever try his best to make her cums before himself.


If you want your dick sucked make sure you’re licking her plate as well.

This attitude is not healthy in a marriage. U may think u re a being wise, u re not..u may win a battle but may ultimately lose the war. While I think the op shudnt demand it, but he can mention it if that's wat he wants. Sometimes the reciprocity u want to demand as a condition before obliging comes naturally/spontaneously wen uve done ur part so no need to set it as condition precedent. It doesn't come off well. Some kinda men will not do it simply because uve given it as a condition, but will do it for other people while u get only ur pounding.
Learn ur man and know what works with him..some things are achieved by gentle nudges, not demands.

FRANCISTOWN:
I didn't say Isaac was not rich.
I didn't say Abraham was not rich
I didn't say David was not rich

Genesis 25:5 And Abraham gave all that he had unto Isaac.
Yet Isaac was broke, that he had to start from the bottom. The reason was because, all Abraham had left was blessings and gifts.
He gave the blessings to Isaac and the gifts to other children.

It was until after the death it Abraham that Isaac began to prosper

Genesis 25:11 And it came to pass after the death of Abraham, that God blessed his son Isaac; and Isaac dwelt by the well Lahairoi.

And here was how


Genesis 26:12 Then Isaac sowed in that land, and received in the same year an hundredfold: and the LORD blessed him.

Show me anywhere it is written in the Bible that Abraham gave material gifts to Isaac? Abraham was already broke.

And as for David and Solomon

1 Chronicles 29:2 Now I have prepared with all my might for the house of my God the gold for things to be made of gold, and the silver for things of silver, and the brass for things of brass, the iron for things of iron, and wood for things of wood; onyx stones, and stones to be set, glistering stones, and of divers colours, and all manner of precious stones, and marble stones in abundance.

What's does it mean to give with all your might? It simply means David gave his all. All that he had.

If David left great inheritance for Solomon, why would god be impressed that Solomon didn't ask for riches but wisdom?
Solomon became rich through gifts, gifts and Women.

I seem to be missing exactly what your point is.. Pls summarise or just state the point

[quote author=FRANCISTOWN post=123002749]I didn't say Isaac was not rich.
I didn't say Abraham was not rich
I didn't say David was not rich

Genesis 25:5 And Abraham gave all that he had unto Isaac.
Yet Isaac was broke, that he had to start from the bottom. The reason was because, all Abraham had left was blessings and gifts.
He gave the blessings to Isaac and the gifts to other children.

It was until after the death it Abraham that Isaac began to prosper

Genesis 25:11 And it came to pass after the death of Abraham, that God blessed his son Isaac; and Isaac dwelt by the well Lahairoi.

And here was how


Genesis 26:12 Then Isaac sowed in that land, and received in the same year an hundredfold: and the LORD blessed him.

Show me anywhere it is written in the Bible that Abraham gave material gifts to Isaac? Abraham was already broke.

And as for David and Solomon

1 Chronicles 29:2 Now I have prepared with all my might for the house of my God the gold for things to be made of gold, and the silver for things of silver, and the brass for things of brass, the iron for things of iron, and wood for things of wood; onyx stones, and stones to be set, glistering stones, and of divers colours, and all manner of precious stones, and marble stones in abundance.

What's does it mean to give with all your might? It simply means David gave his all. All that he had.

If David left great inheritance for Solomon, why would god be impressed that Solomon didn't ask for riches but wisdom?
Solomon became rich through gifts, gifts and Women.[/quote

Can u pls summaries, cos I seem to be missing exactly what your point is

FRANCISTOWN:
You no see how much David give to God when them wan build him house.

David said "I have given to God with all my might" wetin that one mean? E mean say na everything wey him get him give him God.

And as for Abraham, Abraham dey pay him tithes. Paid paid paid until he left nothing for Isaac

Hmmm. Just to correct some erroneous claims here.

First, Abraham was so rich he had his own private army. He equally died very rich.

Isaac his son was so rich the country of Gerar where he went to escape the famine had to ask him to leave, cos he was richer and more powerful than them.

Then David, died a very rich king and his successor- his son Solomon, was even richer than him.

Your claim that Abraham and David gave all they had and were left with nothing, is incorrect.

The life of Abraham can actually be used to explain the question from OP.
Despite his stupendous wealth, Abraham was very humble and helpful. When his herdsmen and lots herdsmen quarelled cos the land couldn't contain all their animals, even though he was richer, he asked Lot to choose any part of the land for himself and he (Abraham) will go the opposite direction. When he saw 3 strangers under hot sun, he RAN to meet them and begged them to allow him give them water to wash their feet and some food to eat B4 continuing on their journey. When his servant prepared the food, he SERVED it. When 4 kings attacked Sodom and Gomorrah and took Lot captive, Abraham left his business and led his private army with the help of his friends to attack those kings and rescued Lot.

Now compare this, to the character of that rich man with Lazarus.

God is not against riches, the problem is when u allow the riches cloud ur sense of humility, charity and love for your fellow men.