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I am reallysorry for your pain. remember he will always think you will shup up and put up. I hope you do leave him when the time is right.

Oh my God shapey, you must have the patience of a saint!

I have tolerated stuff before but I would nevertolerate that stuff! honi that was hot!!! oh my god why didnt you confront him about this?

is this allowed in your culture shapey?

Obviosly your husband was sleeping with someone else and you just go and have a shower with him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why woudl anyone tolerate that? he will just keep doing it more and more cos he knows he can get away with it.

Well I don't think I could have a decent nights sleep knowing he was 'out and about' there are just too many pretty husband snatchers out there and whats a man supposed to do.

More importantly though, there are just too many STD's also

Thats exactly how mine looks but the snails are very hard. Im not sure why this is, Not sure if its cos I overcooked them or undercooked them

you know that seasoning that smells very strong? I think its made from fermented melon seeds. Can I put the snails in whole like at the last minute?

Hi everyone, I am cooking up a concoction once again. I have everything I need for the above soup. Thing is how do I thicken it? and also, can i put one ogiri into it or will that ruin it? doi slice up the snails or leave them whole.

Waiting in anticipation,

@poster, seperate from him immediatly and don't sign papers for him. Tell your immigration service that your marriage is no longer subsisting. You shoudl try your best to get him deported actually to be frank.

Yes they do cheat on their own wives from their own country, just not as openly though as they wouldn't want her family to know, also in Nigerian culture marriage is 'til death do them part' whereas marriage to a white woman is only a moraless piece of paper. Dont ever blame yourself b'cos its too late now. Move on, teach your child well cos he won't give a damn.

You need to also tell the police about the lady he is involved with, its sounds like she is a prostitute, I don't think prositution is legal in finland, so many african men are probably going to her for sex cos they need a black booty. Only God knows what diseases run through their veins.

@poster, I hop eyou don't sleep with your so calle dhusband again. He is messing around with a woman wh ocould be even a prostitute. They come to europe and use and abuse white women, shamless dogs.

leave them to their own! thats where they belong. May they go to blazes!

Don't mind them! sure I get stares sometimes aswell! enjoy your white man! some of them are quite romantic!

I mean they can't even take a pretty slim, 21 year old oyinbo seriously,

Yeah justgood its us oyinbo that trains your ass!! like a lion in a circus. So all white men are slaves aswell for their women are they? selfish indeed,

the difference is they RESPECT women and don't treat them like slaves (unlike you)

They day they marry their own is when a life of slavery begins for the poor naija woman.

Thats ridiculous, there are so many Nigerians out there that don't even teach their children their native tongue they speak to them in English!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hmmm, just good, what if your son came home with a white woman, lets say a doctor or something?

Where are you from and where is his mistress from?

I bought this oack of meat for the soup and it was frozen. its says kpomo i have got this one b4 and there was no foul smell offit. This one smells like it is rotten the smell is so strong,

Is this normal? it smells like cheese got rotten??

Ha ha you don't need juju to catch an oyinbo for paper. Naija man is clever enuff to do it all by himself.

Yeah they probably are come to think of it. They are feeding animals all sorts of crap over here to pump them up. The meat in the west is becoming so flavourless. I reckon those snails are fat free??

I bash him alright yea! bash em for being a lazy phocker. I bash the cheating spouses also, I don;t think there is any harm in bashing them. Good women yourselves, getting an education and standing up to those selfish mammies boys.

the one I got was quite similar a huge shell, but when I looked into this they are called whelks (giant sea snails they can be sourced in EU) quite simlar in taste my husband loved them.

I can also find the giant african ones at the local naija foodstore. I havn't bought them yet though. They are always available there. So they are not sea snails? wow, so where are they found? on roadsides? thats a bit dodgy isn't it?

Are they very safe to eat? I have eaten them once and I thought it was ok.

yeah I had an arranged marriage before, after 3talaq all at the same time . I was left alone with my daughter (a new born baby) because I wasn't pretty enough for my first hubby!!!. i was so miserable. Then I met my now husband (5yrs ago) he is no religion but believes in ONE God which is great. So far, he hasn't strayed, 

Please don't get stressed out b'because the baby feels this thats how I went into labour at 6months, my father died in front of me in that time also. It was horrible, know what, all things will fall into place when you see your baby you won't care where he is.

Oh I thought they were sea snails! are you serious? they are picked from roadsides??

Dp you just cut them up when they are still alive?

Leyla, I am sorry for what happened to you. In fact I am REALLY sorry. I hope he comes back begging on his knees and PROMISES he will never do it again. How did your family treat the fact that you married a xstian? i was practically disowned, its okay now though.

HA HA na today, once you watch them LIKE A HAWK they MAY not stray.

What else can I do but bash them they way the treat women,

I am happy with my own husband. Just generally though what in the hell is going on with some men why don't most of them have hearts

Thats definetely not true. Also, white men are more romantic.