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if only there was a student maintenance grants system that might tie them over.

yeah well there are some white ladies outthere that are not even into sex (like myself) there are some white women who are genuine and not gold diggers.

Also we do like to learn how to cook and please our husbands.

Hurtin, is this not a lesson to ya??! its your own fault for letting him out to night clubs without you! come off it!

Consider yourself lucky you don't have children and its not too late! you better put a stop to this or else you'll get AIDS and/or some girl will arrive at your door pregnant with his child!!!!!!!!!!!

yes give him a second chance. But remember you have to be vigilant. If he goes out to nite clubs and places like that without you - I don't think thats right and that would definetely tempt him (like all humans). Also, it could give rise to it happening again. Its all about opportuinity and circumstance, if you give someone the chance to do something in which they cannot control they may do just that. Be wise. He can go to a respectable gathering or a pub which is normal, but for any married man its not a good idea to be in nightclubs. Its funny how he is being so honest! are you sure he is not looking for a 'gateway'??

Also, I wonder was that other woman from the same country as him?

re consider your options, if you are pregnant remember you will be stuck with the child for the rest of your life.

Tropical sun that IS the nicest one.

hey this is an old thread andnow I have given up on the whole ngozie thing, after all he gets money towards the bills off me!! he shoudl be happy! and guess what he is!! so we will have to see!!

@plappville, I am half jordanian half irish

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-159672.0.html#msg2650511

is this not the same of as the one above? do you really have to have garden eggs?

I usually put the whole bulb in anything in cooking

Epi, that lomein looks good have you got the recipe for that one?

Also that salmon its makin me mouth water. Very nice well done.

That sounds gross! okro soup with chicken

no im not stung im talkin from reality

Yeah well who knows, its none of my business from a cultural aspect I was curious. This lady is 32 thereabouts. Quite attractive too very very tall.

I have looked deeper, this one has her citizenship, as she has been here since 2001, she is also educated like she has a masters in economics and accounting and her big sister lives down the road from her. She has two children though. Thats wht puzzles me, I have digged deeper thts why im wondering if its cultural.

If it was me I would hit da roof totally

@poster are you nuts! they dont know the meaning of the word love.The pretend to when they need things like:

Papers
Money
sex etcetc

They can't even fall in love with the most beautiful, submssive, respectable Nigerian lady in the world.

its seems to me though that they do no t questtion thm.

I has not hppened to me thank God. Okay trurth is one lady from my husbands family doesnt mind at all. But im wondering is it normal in Nigerian culture? and what action would the lady take?

folks, watz up? hw are u all?

Just tot I wud ask the abve. I cannot alow dis unless der is a very ligit reasn to do so. There is one naija lady I konw, her hubby come home anytime no q's askd! I wud go mad!!

Ladies, what do u think of that?

Eh very few men get to have that. Women (even white women) will not really willingly do this unless they are getting drugs or something in reurn.

he was actually away at the time, i have NEVER seen her dress like this.

It must have been drilled into her that she marry him for his 'iman' faith perhaps, sure she must have enough money to live without a man.

thought she would havebeen wearing the hijab.

yuck! thats disgusting she must be crazy!!!!

yeah exactly, thats what I thought. This lady has been through the mill with her husband and seeing her like that just really baffled me,

I am born muslim and my husband is a born christian. We both don't practice any religion. I had to stop going to mosques because of gossiping arab women. I just put it on the long finger. I konw I will have to deal with it one day.

Does the almighty want to split up familes?

You are not supposed to be, but you can be.

Leilah= Night time, in Arabic Leilat

How would you feel if your wife (nigerian wife) went out to a party seven months pregnant with a pair of hot pants and a backless halter neck top on?

eh, its just that I actually saw this,

Hi I was just reading the back of the pack of Ola-Ola yam flour which we love. Apparently in each serving size there is 470 cals! its only processed yam, would that be accurate?

Nigerian children are way more polite and are terrified of their parents. Its so noticeable even here in Europe that they are heavily chastised. There is one day I remember that sticks in my head. When I worked as a para legal in a law firm around 2003 this couple who were cameroonian whom we represented had their little girl with them and she was about three. The little girl was making little noise (nothing that annoyed anyone) exept her father a hugeman, he rose from his chair and full force walloped the little girl across the face. I was absolutely shaking, nothing was said and the consultation just resumed.

I was at a party with my husband on xmas night and there was one lady outside thetoilet with her toddler who was about two years old and like that she was beating the hell out of the child. Imean beating the child up. I mean do we all need to go that far (in the west) bearing in mind one can easily be prosecuted andthis is happening, teenagers are actually taking their parents to court including african born teenagers!

Fair play to you poster, at least you are being honest. Try some dating agencies on the internet. try to get a tourist visa to come to Eu. Once you arrive on a tourist visa you can go to clubs and maybe meet someone.